#troe

[trans-rite]

How to join the Transgender Ancestor Rite: an FAQ on our updated format

What is it?

an annual, non-denominational ritual honoring transgender individuals who have passed on

an act of solidarity with the lineage of transgender ancestors who have come before us and paved the way, as well as with the descendants who will come after us when we are gone

a chance to share tenderness and kindness with the restless spirits of transgender people who lost their lives to violence

an opportunity for living transgender folks, including those who have lost trans loved ones, to grieve, mourn, and pray

a labor of love from a multiracial group of trans spirit workers, each at various stages of study in ancestor veneration practices, who have been putting on this ritual since 2014

When is it?

the ritual should take place on or around the Trans Day of Remembrance on November 20th, preferably within a week

most of us do it at night but any time of day is fine

if you need to do it a little before or after the 20th, don't sweat it

Where is it?

wherever you are!

groups are welcome to host local events and inform us about them, but the ritual itself takes place in a location of your own choosing, usually at home

if you have access to a local TDOR event that could incorporate some or all of this ritual, you are welcome to bring it there

most of the organizers have historically been located in the northeastern US but you don’t have to be

Who is it for?

it honors everyone from this year’s Trans Day of Remembrance official list, as well as any other deaths of trans individuals from the year that participants wish to include

illness losses, violent deaths, suicides, and natural deaths are all eligible for inclusion

it includes, cumulatively, all transgender deaths from previous years as well, named on the TDOR lists and unnamed, throughout history

it honors and praises the trans ancestors, people who were alive both recently and longer ago, who feel themselves in connection with us, who have received the care and honor we offered through previous years’ rituals, who are bright and well and who can tend the line from the other side

participants can be trans or cisgender, of any or no denomination or faith

Does it cost money?

nope! this is an anticapitalist affair

you can buy incense and offerings if you like, but you don’t need to spend money to participate

Why are y’all doing this?

honestly this could take pages and pages about the importance of this work and of soothing the troubled dead and tending our ancestral line et cetera et cetera ad infinitum but the short version is

we gotta

our ancestors require it and we’re making sure they get it

Okay, how does it work?

during the ritual, you sit or stand at an altar, light a candle, put out a glass of fresh water, and read a prayer

you may also make any other offerings you feel called to do

if so moved, you read the names of the dead from this year's TDOR list and call on our bright and well ancestors to tend to these newly passed souls

all the people participating in all the different places in the world help create a rising raft of energy that is greater than the sum of its parts, delivering the restless dead among our line into the care of our bright and well ancestors, who, in turn, also care for us, the living

Prayers? I thought you said this was non-denominational.

prayers can involve divinity, or they can be kind and soothing words to say to the dead

you can look through our prayers tag to get ideas and inspiration, but feel free to find poems on your own and/or write something yourself as well 

you are welcome to include deity or not, as you prefer

the organizers of this ritual incorporate gods and spirits in our practices but you by no means need to

on the flip side, if you want your gods involved, feel free to do so in whatever respectful manner works for you

What do I need on my altar?

the basics are an altar cloth (white is traditional; a bandana works), a cup to be filled with water, and a new or dedicated candle (white is traditional here also but follow your instincts)

other great offerings include cut flowers, portions of your food and drink (though alcohol is not advised with restless spirits), tobacco, honey, pictures and/or names of the deceased, art, music, dancing, and any gender paraphernalia you think the ancestors might like

do not put pictures of living people on the altar

it can be as simple or ornate as you choose: the important parts are the candle, the cup, and the cloth

Isn’t it sketchy to be working with dead people?

a little bit

it is much less sketchy since our format change in 2022, at which point this ritual shifted from working directly with restless spirits (dicey) to interfacing with them only through our cadre of elevated bright and well ancestors who have already benefited from previous years' rituals

we advise that you cleanse or purify in whatever way you prefer, ideally before and after the working

if you’re in a Western (especially American Christian) culture that views death as The End and discussion of death as taboo, consider reading up on cultures where ancestor veneration is a normal part of everyday life (hint: it’s most of them)

Other questions? Send them in and we’ll answer them, and maybe add them to the list! If you post about the ritual, tag #troe2023 and we will check it out!

Thank you for joining us!

- Mod Alder and team

[theroboticxyz-art]

I figure I might as well start posting about some of my characters from my little story thing so first off all let's do some introductions! meet Time! (I don't have a lot of art for him at the moment)

He's just a guy but also doesn't do much except watch things go

(if you're interested in asking these fellows things you can follow my currently-dead-but-maybe-soon-to-be-revived ask blog here)

[ask-buvos]

【Cover】 || 【Next】

[Askbox is open.]

[willfullwanderer]

"your brilliance, please remain still."

"...apologies."

(bonus 'fit under the cut)

colors subject to change but i need to work within the red with bronze accent range

[tattooed-alchemist]

There will be ritual later today, but for now, the Transgender Day Of Remembrance candle has been lit. I got a beeswax Yahrzeit, so this will burn for 24 hours. The altar will slowly be added to and dressed throughout the day, a process that allows me to make a series of different offerings, something I think works well when dealing with mixed ancestors.

[faunandfloraas]

This is so funny to me

[coco6420]

guys can someone tell me what the term used to refer to the beaches and surrounding area of troy is thanks

[lowcallyfruity]

MY KNEES HIRT SO BAD

[grabowskibeepboop]

A: I baked you a pie

B: Oh boy, what flavour?

A: The flavour of love

B: Awwww-...

...

B: Is.. is that a human heart?..

A: Yes, but don't worry, it's not mine! That's already yours.

B:

[theroboticxyz-art]

【 Ｗｈｅｒｅ　ｄｉｄ　Ｉ　ｇｏ　ｗｒｏｎｇ？】

[scn-thedog]

i am the hashtag one objectfurries theorist (as in first). have this as an apology

airy killed stella in the town that is haunted as fuck so obviously the most logical conclusion is that stella is a ghost and is haunting the town and she gets to see her brother in the town or somethinggghh (give me a medal with the mental gymnastics i'm making i'm making i might as well be an athlete). headcanon that she tries to talk to bryce and all he hears is the terrifying cries of someone he probably can't even recognize.

MAANNNN DONT FUCK ME UP LIKE THIS :( and honestly you're like really close to the mark there...bryce has his suspicions that stella is dead because he refuses to believe she would just abandon him with their mother. but obviously he has no way to prove it because a certain someone did a good job of covering up their tracks...

when bryce comes back to town he starts hearing voices. he doesn't know that its stella trying to communicate with him so he just assumes it's psychosis or something. his struggle with her death has led to a lot of issues for him and he chalks that up to just being one of them.

something about the town traps things within it. dark thoughts, unfulfilled wishes, spirits with unfinished business... stella's untimely death means she doesn't get to say goodbye, or watch her brother grow up. of course no one is aware of this at all (except maybe airy)

[willfullwanderer]

kathax!!

[machine-saint]

this is funny to me because

you don't associate shitty AI images with "liberal" clickbait a lot of the time

the completely normal looking text right next to: wtp winci troe be am... big time!

[garthnadermemestash]

camo cult

[ants-personal]

thinking about maybe when edwin is just so upset and nearing a break down. Panic swelling hells memories suffocating him he troes to hides it. But its too much and rather than make a scene having a breakdown he lets his corporal form disapate leaving behind a blue orb where ever he ended up the office. It flickers and glows dimly essences slowly swirling inside. The first time it happens charles was so scared someone or something bad had happened he tearfully asked edwin to please come back hands hovering unsure what to do. Edwin did course bewildered, apologetic, but also distance.

Now it rarely happens, but when it does charles finds edwins orb dimly glowing in the fee places edwin had tired to hide away. The closet, the side of the couch, under the desk. He sadly smiles as he scoops him up gently letting him know hes got him. As he moves edwin ontop a pillow he leaves by his side on the floor infront of the desk. Red jacket drapped around edwin reassuring hell be right here when hes ready. Sometimes he talks nothing just filling the silence and hopefully comforting edwin other times he tells edwin he wished he just talked to him instead of going all spherey on him hes here for him.

Other times he doesnt speak at all. Half mindlessly messing with a random item, or playing music. He thinks it helps its not his favorite exactly its too slow on the verge of melancholy for him, but edwin had called it soothing. Said it brought back softer memories of being a child reading in the living room while his mother smiles warmly embroidering a blue bird.

Course when edwin comes back eyes red rimmed, a little to stiff, and short with his answers. They dont talk about it. Charles has tried and it never got him far. It usually ended with edwin cutting him off saying this conversation is done and theres nothing else to discuss. Before burying himself in any case he could find. Letting it distract him till he slowly returned to himself, and charles cant explain how much it hurts him not to be able to save edwin from his own tramas.

[walkingwiththegods1]

Aphrodite's Real Nature (...For Aphrodite's Birthday!)

Every 4th day of every month (according to The Ancient Attic Calendar), is Aphrodite's Birthday; and, for this reason... I need to clarified the aspect more important about Lady Aphrodite: Love.

Many people have said during centuries, than Aphrodite's Domain; is not as strong as the others Goddesses of The World (Or even... In The Greek's Pantheon of Gods and Goddesses), implying than Aphrodite herself; is not a very strong Goddess, and than her Power; is only over Physical and/or Romantic Love...

Both ideas... Are terrible mistaken!

According to the myths, Aphrodite is so powerful; than she can influences to the other Greek Gods and Goddesses, to fall in love of anyone she makes them fall in love (except to Artemis, Athena and Hestia: The Three Virgin Goddesses of The Olympic Pantheon); including to makes them feels Love, Passion and Desire; toward Mortals!

Another thing... People seems to forget than Aphrodite's Domain, make her powerful too; because all humanlike and human beings, have a soul made of a very important material: Our souls are made of Love. Why this is important to know?... Simple: Because all of us, spended our entire lifes in an endless search; of our purpose to live and being happy, and our main reason for happiness and being fulfill... Is Love.

You could be the most famous, rich; healthy, young, and beautiful young adult in The World; but... If you don't have someone at your side, than really cares for you; respect you and loves you beyond the fame, fortune; your now perfect health, your youth and beautiful looks... You will be the saddest being, over the face of the Earth: We all need Love, to feel happy in our lifes. (Don't matter if we lied, by saying than we can be happy; on our own... We simply are not made for that!)

Now... That means than you should starts to search a couple, to fulfill that desire of ''The Perfect Ideal of Happiness?!''... Not necessarially! That part, is not that simple; because not all of us, is gonna find fullfilment in a couple; and you need to takes your time alone, to find out that; 'cause we are so bombarded in a daily basis (in all kinds of Media), with images and/or audible stories about Romantic Relationships; and/or couples mindlessly kissing in the troes of passion, than; we forget than there are other Kinds of Love, than seems than The Media put in a second; third, in a last place; or, even... Is not even said, or put on the screen!

These other kinds of Love than Aphrodite's Rule (And, are important in the Life; too), are:

Self Love: Is the most important of all: People than called you ''Selfish'', for not doing what they want all the time (including putting your wellbeing/health/life in danger); and for having time to take care of yourself, have fun; rest, or have alone time for you; when you really needed it... Doesn't care about you, and... Doesn't love you, neither!

Filial Love: One of the first we experiences in our lifes, and we all need for our wellbeing.

Love for Friends: Is one of the purest form of Love, than elevate us to being better.

Fraternal Love: Is the bond beyond blood, than we have with our brothers and/or sisters. (If we have a very close friend we met, mostly in our childhood or teenage years... If could turns out to be as close, as our own brothers and/or sisters!)

Maternal/Paternal Love: The love than parents gives to their children/teens, which became stronger when the sons and/or daugthers; are raise with respect and healthy limits by their parents.

Agape: Is the inconditional and compassive Love than we feel for others, and makes us sacrifices ourselves by the wellbeing of our family; friends, for anyone weaker than us in danger, and; for our community. And, at last...

Divine Love: Aphrodite (when after she entrusted Adonis as a baby, and when she return for him... She saw him first time, as a grown and handsome young man), she felt in love of Adonis; despite he was a mortal, and they were together; until he died tragically in his youth. Also, Anchises (a Shepherd-Prince); was beloved by Aphrodite, which gave birth to Aeneas; a heroe of the Trojan War, and... The Founder of Rome. Butes (an Argonaut saved by Aphrodite, when he threw himself to The Sea to go with The Mermaids; and with which she had a son), and; Phaon (a boatman than was old and ugly, when Aphrodite came to his boat disguise, and after he told him than she didn't have to pay him... She rewarded him with beauty and youth; and many were captivated by him). Aphrodite's Divine Love, bestows many wonderful things; to anyone than she finds worthy at that moment of those gifts, be it Beauty; Love, Youth, Fertility, Protection of Harm; or, even... Saving your life, someday!

Aphrodite's Love, is at the reach of anyone than is different; too, as:

To The Asexuals: 'Cause they loves to their family and/or friends, and sometimes; to the couple than accepts them, as they are.

To the rest of the LGBTQIA+ Community: 'Cause they loves and loves themselves, despite the pressure they suffer everyday; to conformed to society.

To the ones than doesn't feel beautiful in their own skin: 'Cause they need reassurance to find that beauty hidden inside themselves.

To the ones than grows, or lives without friendship; or love: 'Cause they are the ones, than needed it the most. And...

To anyone than needs to find a couple to loves and be loved, forever: 'Cause they have keeps that love inside their heart, waiting to find that one person; than will loves them and respect them, for all a lifetime.

That's all for today: Happy Aphrodite's Birthday, to the World! And... So Be It!