#triple A battery

[aroace-menace]

Yeah I’m aromantic, asexual, and agender, but you know what else I am? I’m aerodynamic. Anxious. Angular. Aromatic. Alien. Aimless. Aching. Ancient. I’m not a triple A battery, I’m an elevenfold A battery and counting.

[thatlavenderblue]

[thattheater-kid]

Figuring out that I was aplatonic made so much sense.

I’ve never made a friend on my own. All the friends I’ve made approached me and made me their friend, or I met through friends. I’ve never felt a desire to have friends. Even as a child I never felt I needed them, which made adults think there was something wrong with me and peers think I was stuck up, thinking I was “too good” to be friends with them. I was seen as a mean person. Adults pulled me aside to ask me why I was by myself, and I told them I didn’t like people. I told them I didn’t want to be around people. I said there were more important things to worry about. This got me sent to school counselors, who would ask me why I pushed people away and didn’t want friends and I didn’t have a reason. I enjoy my friends’ company, but I don’t miss them when I’m away. I never understood why it mattered so much, even as a kid. I always preferred to be alone, honestly. I thought for the longest time it was related to being autistic and ADHD, and maybe it is to an extent, but I simply never liked people and never had a desire to be friends with them.

I’d already known I was aroace. I never felt a desire to have sexual or romantic relationships. I never saw a point. I felt no attraction towards anyone and had no desire to. My life was enjoyable without it. Once I learned about aromanticism and asexuality, I understood that that was what I am.

However, aroace spaces put so much emphasis on platonic love that I never felt like I really belonged in the aroace community. I felt like I was still weird and gross. I felt like a freak who was destined to be alone, someone who could never be fulfilled and would always be missing something. I felt like a freak in my own community because I felt no love. I didn’t feel platonic love or attraction and frankly didn’t want to.

I found the word “aplatonic”. Someone who feels no platonic love or attraction. Now I understand that’s who I am, and that’s not a bad thing. My life is no worse without love. I’m not missing something. I still live a fulfilling life. I’m still human.

[artbyifer]

For @venomfest

Colours didn't QUITE work out the way I wanted them to (harder than intended to tell that the light sources are the pride colours), but I think I'm improving my goop rendering :)

[moonsofmachinery]

asexual aromantic and agender spearmaster?

hope this flag works fr u its the triple A flag :3

[aroacesafeplaceforall]

Me, trying to figure out what my gender is as I prefer masc terms but present more feminine but also masc somehow so that lead me to Agender: Aw fuck don’t tell me I’m a triple A battery

[spaceumbredoggos]

Horny aroaces exist. And for me, it’s frustrating. Since I feel no sexual attraction and don’t really know how to masturbate without feeling like I have to pee, I try to fantasize about sex be g forced on me because I can’t fathom initiating the horny myself. Basically, the only way I would actually fuck is if it were a fuck or die situation. I’m sex positive aroace. I don’t feel sexual or romantic attraction. I have to consciously initiate sexual desire in myself, and I’ve done so for years thinking it’s the only way I’ll be normal. I read all the dub/noncon Bill Cipher x Reader fics in AO3 and Tumblr just to feel a little bit of desire. And any time I try to initiate desire and sexual feelings, I feel like I have to pee and it’s uncomfortable. Also, hypnosis. Anything to do with hypnosis does it. And it feels so uncomfortable that o try to force myself to like it.

[jayfeefle]

new photos just dropped. i’m clawing at the bars of my enclosure.

[edible-emerald]

How many As do you have

if I forgot any lmk and I'll add them (allos dont count bc they're basically free) (I'm not a hypocrite for also putting alive in here)

-Alterhuman

-Apathetic

-Anger Issues

-Anxiety

-Asexual/Aspec

-Aromantic/Arospec

-Aplatonic

-Afamillial

-Agender

-Androgynous

-ADHD

-Autism

-AVPD (Avoidant Personality Disorder)

-Asocial

-Alive

-Avolition (the inability to initiate or engage in goal-directed behaviors)

-Allergy(ies)

-Ambidexterous

-Artist

-Anarchist

-American

-Armenian

-Asian

-African

-Atheist

-Agnostic

-Antitheist (Opposed to religious belief or religion)

-Apocalyptic

-Anemic (a lack of energy or enthusiasm)

-Amnesia

-Anorexic

-Arthritis

-Addiction(s)

-Amnesia

-As in school are a fantasy

[capn-atlas]

my goals in life are one: to make little kids come up to me and ask me "are you a boy or a girl" and two: when i'm out with one of my besties and I kiss them on the cheek or hold their hand while simultaneously wearing the aro-ace flag in some way shape or form to confuse the hets who somehow know the aro-ace flag

[sandrune-art]

This goes to all my voidpunk siblings, do you know any book, article etc about voidpunk/feeling unhuman/relating to unhuman things like robots? Specially form an asexual, aromantic or nonbinary experience (but if it's from a neurodivergent or disable experience I'd love that too).

I'd also really appreciate anything about posthumanism, giving humanity to machines, cyborgs... (it's for an art proyect, I'm not planning to turn myself into an android, I promise). Thanks in advance!

[m00n-sh]

Got the A combo

Aromantic

Asexual

Agender

Autistic

A friend :^]

[determinedowl23]

hm i think i may have hit the triple a battery boys

[crypticcozycorner]

Ok so… they took my romantic attraction AND my sexual attraction

But they can’t take my gender right?

See, it’s still here right on this table-

Why is the table empty?

……..

WHICH ONE OF YOU STOLE MY GENDER??????

WHERE DID IT GO?????

[onemightygoldfish]

I saw someone who is aromantic, asexual and agender call themselves a triple a battery yesterday, and it honestly hasn't let me go since

[agent-holbrook]

Day 365+ of identity crisis, day 1 of admitting it on tumblr