#transintersex

[chronophiile]

things i experience or have experienced due to being and growing up intersex

painful intercourse, to the point there are times i cant ignore it and we have to stop, this leads to me feeling insecure and feeling like im disappointing my partners.

extremely painful periods, to the point i went to the hospital almost every time i got one

intersexism and internalized intersexism

i grew up with no gender marker on any of my legal documents

painful cysts on my ovaries

being made fun of by sexual partners for having abnormal genitalia

having intimate photos of myself shared because AND I QUOTE “you just look weird down there”

never feeling like i fit in with the girls or boys

not feeling like im trans enough because i was never female to start so im technically not even FTM trans

having to argue with doctors because they used to acknowledge i was intersex and refuse to diagnose me as such

people not understanding when i say im intersex and having to explain my diagnosis every single time because people wont let it be at just “im intersex, that means im not male or female” and they always want more details

people staring at my genitalia, people taking photos up my skirts and asking to see my body

being made fun of when i was little for being too masculine and having male features

being excluded from the LGBT community

long story short i get stared at every time i go out all because i have tits a dick and im currently growing facial hair.

shits rough out here i just wanted to being awareness to some of the things intersex people go through on a regular basis.

feel free to add on or make your own post :3

edit; yeah im radqueer/transid- that doesnt take away from my intersex experiences

[peppermint-bloodshed92]

*+ ~ Reminders for transintersex folks!! ~ +*

You are intersex

Your reasons for being transintersex are vaild

We accept you in the intersex community

You don't need to prove anything to antis or medicalists

You are not perisex, no matter how much antis will say you are

All of the validation you get is truthful and genuine

Transintersex people should be able to get surgery

You're not a joke to the intersex community

You know more about the intersex community than most people

You deserve love and happiness

[intersexcat-tboy]

Maybe it's being intersex maybe it's being trans but I think the "force feminize our femboys, real femboys take e" jokes are all absolutely disgusting. I understand it's a joke about trans women eggs but it does not rinse the rancid taste from my mouth.

I was forced against my will to be feminized. I was traumatized, watching each day my body further betray me. Trans femboys exist. There shouldn't be barely ironic jokes about forcing or pressuring people into transitioning. Not in the sense of "one trans person represents all of us to bigots" but in the "we are fucking trans and should understand being against forcing someone into a gender. It's not funny just because you have the power" way

[thealternates]

It would be so amazing if every time we looked through intersex tags there wasn't perisex people stealing our terms, or calling themselves "transintersex" / saying they "wanna be intersex", or proving the point that intersex are excluded/ignored by both cis and trans perisex people. Can we not have one thing? Can we not form a community without perisex people demanding they can join or speak over it?

The one I've seen the most recently is trans perisex people saying they're intersex / they wanna be. No, you are not. You taking hormones doesn't make you intersex, you're either born intersex or you're not. Perisex trans people developing breasts with estrogen isn't intersex, perisex trans people developing a t dick with testosterone isn't intersex. You wanting both genitals does not mean intersex. it's a spectrum of variations and looks. Calling your want to be neutral or to have both parts intersex is both fetishising us and not even knowing what we are. We are not default neutral, we are not default both parts. Intersex people having both parts working parts (like so many perisex transintersex people seem to want??) is so SO rare I'm not even sure it's been a thing yet. There are other terms for what you guys want that isn't intersex. - 🪽

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[transidiotloli]

Transdeadloli. transdeadshota transdeadnana

Transdeadloli;Someone who feels/identifies as a loli who is dead

Transdeadshota;.Someone who feels/identifies as a shota who is dead

Transdeadnana;Someone who feels/identifies with being a nana who is dead

Antis dni

Anyone can use these flags

[hiiragi7]

Regardless of what the discourse is, there's a really uncomfortable trend I've noticed regarding the language people use in these discussions.

"Roleplaying", "pretending", "faking", and the usage of "real"/"actual" are all, quite honestly, really inflammatory language and I've never seen it end well.

Even for points I may otherwise somewhat agree with or find interesting, the usage of this language and the act of assuming in/authenticity in this way (as well as the assumption that one can determine who is and is not in/authentic) makes me not want to engage at all, because it's just a very cruel way of framing it to me. I've seen this language really hurt people. I've seen people really spiral and become suicidal over it. It's not language that should be tossed around.

[jordan-in-paradise]

You’re trace? Me too! You are valid. What is your race?

You’re transcultural? You are valid. What is your culture?

You’re transabled? Me too! You are valid. What is your disability?

You’re transspecies? Me too! You are valid. What species are you?

You’re transamia? You are valid. What kind of blood do you have?

You’re transharmed? You are valid. How are you harmed?

You’re transharmful? Me too! You are valid. How so?

You’re transintersex? Me too! You are valid. How did you realize you were transintersex?

You’re transgender? Me too! You are valid. What is your gender?

All of you are valid, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise ❤️

[boreal-sea]

I just saw a post talking about “transintersex” people. The tone of this post was angry, sarcastic, and derogatory.

Now, the reason for that anger is legitimate: if you are perisex, meaning you are not intersex, you cannot “transition” into being intersex. There is a history of perisex trans folks misusing intersex terminology while also managing to completely ignore and dismiss actual intersex people.

I've browsed the tag and also seen some folks who are actually intersex and trans who use this word too, so it seems like it has mixed usage. The following is therefore only aimed at perisex trans people.

Some perisex trans people do in fact want a mix of sex traits. This is not intersexist on its own. It is perfectly ok to want a dick and a vagina, for example. But this does not make you intersex. You cannot transition to become intersex.

If you are perisex and have been identifying as transintersex, I understand that you are probably just trying to find a word that describes your experience. Unfortunately, you’ve been causing harm to our intersex siblings. Fortunately, there’s already a word for how you feel that has been around since 1996 and that doesn’t appropriate from or harm intersex people:

Salmacian.

This identity is for anyone who wants mixed genitals.

If you don’t want mixed genitals, and just want other mixed features, then nonbinary, agender, bigender, genderless, genderqueer or neutrois may work for you.

Stop appropriating intersex language.

[satyrradio]

keep being keyboard warriors, it won't make you any less perisex

[ciphersbabygirl]

Transintersex folk, from someone born intersex / is cisintersex, I love you and you're completely valid. ❤

Seriously, you are. It's not a joke, it's not mockery, you deserve the world. I know first-hand how hard it is being intersex but I don't give a fuck, that shouldn't change how you how feel, nor do I think it would

Gatekeepers will eventually have themselves crushed by the gate they watch over. Don't be one of them.

Be well.

[genderstarbucks]

Transintersex (Reclaimed)

Transintersex is a reclaimed term for any transgender intersex individuals, in whatever way one is both intersex and transgender.

Transintersex Trans Man

Transintersex Trans Woman

Transintersex Transmasc

Transintersex Transfem

I also made transneutral and many other versions, they'll be posted soon (10 image post limit) or if any of you would like them now, they should be posted on my Pinterest (genderstarbucks)

[lxghtofthephoenixx]

banner ID: "This cisintersex user cares more about actual bigotry than transintersex people existing" in bold, vibrant purple font, outlined in a darker purple shade. The background is a yellow to purple gradient, and the whole thing is surrounded by a pastel yellow outline. End ID

Made this since I had more anti slop shoved up my ass. Anyone can use, just credit me.

[intersexcat-tboy]

Growing up I was a trans girl, but now that I've grown I'm a trans guy n I think that's pretty cool, you should too

[chronophiile]

“no surgery will make you intersex”

im going to hold your hand when i tell you this but…

yes, yes they can… have you heard of gender affirming care before? yeah…

for example getting a phalloplasty without a vaginectomy,, would you not call someone with those genitals intersex?

or getting a vaginoplasty without a penectomy

like at least do research before claiming something cause all it took was a google search and multiple different types of gender affirming care came up for transintersex or nonbinary folks, there are options out there.

edit: yall arent getting the post and thats okay but theres no need to attack me for it. im not saying that intersex = both bits, im saying that could be considered intersex and its possible to transition to having intersex traits. im not saying you can transtition to have a DSD but you can definitely transition to not be male or female… making you intersex.

ANOTHER EDIT: intersex is a term for those born with physical sex characteristics that cannot be traditionally classified as male or female. what would you classify someone with mixed genitals if not intersex?

[transidiotloli]

Amab intersex afab intersex

Exclusive flag for transintersex

Someone who is amab/afab n intersex

(The person can be transamab and transafab)

Antis dni

Anyone can use it

[mynameisuranus]

transintersex ball?!?!? https://www.tumblr.com/radqueerfluff/728678885720522752/transintersex?source=share

Transintersexball!