#trans in need of help

[enfinizatics]

dear americans,

as a polish queer woman and human rights activist, i know exactly how you're feeling right now and what to expect from these elections. i lived through the 2015-2023 regime of pis, a right-wing populist party that divided families in the same way trump did. i’ve experienced the rise of fascism in poland, the influence of far-right parties like konfederacja, and their “santa’s little helpers”—ordo iuris, an ultra-conservative catholic organization (banned in many countries, mind you) that helped enforce a near-total abortion ban and runs anti-queer campaigns in public spaces. i supported the black protests in 2016 as a middle schooler when they first tried to ban abortion. as an adult, i actively participated in the 2020 women’s strike, running from police tear gas daily after they finally passed the ban. i supported friends who faced charges.

i’ve lived through intense homophobia in poland as a queer teen and adult. i survived the first pride march in my hometown, where far-right extremists threw stones and glass at us. i endured the anti-queer propaganda spread by the ruling party in state-owned media. i survived the “rainbow night,” poland’s own stonewall moment in summer 2020, when police arrested around 50 queer activists following the arrest of margo, a nonbinary activist. i survived the "lgbt-free zones," the targeted violence, the slurs from strangers on the street, and the protests i held against queerphobia. it was hard as fuck, but i survived.

but just because i survived, it doesn’t mean others did. many women died because of the abortion ban—marta, justyna, izabela, dorota, joanna, maria, and many others who didn’t survive pis’s draconian anti-abortion laws. milo, kacper, michał, zuzia (she was 12), wiktor, and other queer and trans kids and young adults took their own lives because of the relentless queerphobia.

despite all of this, our experience in poland can serve as a guide now. here are some tips for staying safe and how we, polish queers and women, organized under the regime:

safety first, always. if you know someone who’s had an abortion, no you don’t. if you know someone is trans, no you don’t. if you know people who help with safe abortions, no you don’t—at least not until you know it’s 100% safe to share. if you are queer or have had an abortion, only share this with people you trust fully. most importantly, not everyone has to be an activist just because they’re part of a minority. if it feels unsafe to share that you're queer, trans, etc., then don’t. it doesn’t make you any less queer.

use secure, encrypted messaging like signal for conversations on potentially risky topics, such as queerness, abortion, organizing counter-actions, protests—anything that might be used against you.

stay anonymous online. if you want to research or report something without surveillance, do not use regular internet. get a vpn (mullvad is affordable and reliable), download the tor browser (for both onion and standard links), and if you plan to whistleblow, consider using a riseup email account.

organize and build networks. community is everything now. support each other, foster independence, because your government won’t have your back. set up collectives, grassroots movements. create lists of trusted professionals—lawyers, doctors, etc.—who can offer support.

to lawyers and doctors: please consider pro-bono work. this is what got us through poland’s hardest times. your work will be needed now more than ever.

for protests or risky actions: always write a pro-bono lawyer’s number on your arm with a permanent marker.

get to know the anarchist black cross federation and other resources on safety culture: "Starting an anarchist black cross group: A guide"; Still We Rise - A resource pack for transgender and non-gender conforming people in prison; Safe OUTside the system by the Audre Lorde Project;

for safe abortion info or involvement: get familiar with womenhelpwomen.

stay radical, stay strong, stay informed: The Anarchist Library

if i forgot to (or didn't) include something, don't hesitate to reblog this post with other resources.

[cholerascum]

so i just got yelled at by my mother to "get out of [her] house". and scolded for every single little thing i do, even shit i dont do. and my sister is lying about me to our parents. so uhh

help if you can i guess. if everyone could just send like five bucks my way i'd be doing considerably better.

not if youre one of my friends tho i cant let yall do that.

[betteroffdeceased]

I'm currently being hospitalized after a great deal of transphobia and transphobic attacks and I really need help, I was jumped and beaten outside of my home in the alley leading to me being stabbed 4 times in the side and below and above my left abdomen where my spleen is while leaving home one night. This was a week ago, all this happened after I was initially stabbed before this by my uncle and cousin, I've been abused as a kid and still go thru it in public, I can't carry or have a concealed weapond due to suicidal thoughts and being hospitalized after suicide attempts and I need help paying for surgery to get an operation on my spleen which is internally bleeding.

Currently out of a job rn, and struggling keeping jobs when I get or have one because of a constant history of harassment or abuse or assault that I've gone thru in each and every job.

I'm trying to make a gofundme for this, but I've been having bad luck with gofundmes they get flagged as fraudulent and I haven't been able to get emails that are connected to my campaigns to verify me, my email tend to not come thru so I can verify or prove that it's ME. But my cashapp once again is

https://cash.app/$Slasherstan91

My venmo is -

https://venmo.com/Negrophiliac

And my PayPal is -

https://www.paypal.me/MarsRayL

[dee-the-red-witch]

Here's the link again: https://gofund.me/74494d4f

Time for the latest gfm update. Basically, i've got a month. I've got a month, I'm nowhere close to goal and this is all happening all at once all over again. If you can, please, help. Even if it's just sharing this around wherever you can.

[ivankov-save-me]

HEY, JUST BY THE WAY I WAS CORRECTLY GENDERED IN PUBLIC FOR THE FIRST TIME YESTERDAY IF ANYONE CARES.

[mousedetective]

URGENT! Need Help With Transportation, Bills & Groceries!

PATREON | KO-FI | GO FUND ME

AMAZON WISHLIST: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/2IYLMSXNYF5HY?ref_=wl_share

PAYPAL: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/penaltywaltz

1/26/25 - New Post!

Our rent and last electric bill owed to the landlords have been paid! Thank you so much for all the reblogs on the old post.

I currently need $2000 to cover bills that came out February 3rd on both my mothers and my accounts, as well as paying off a loan my mom took out so her monthly payments won't be garnished. Please help?

For those not aware, we currently do not have a working car, my mother was recently hospitalized for a week and still has lingering health issues, my daughter just started HRT and I got second-degree burns on my neck and chest a few weeks ago that needs to heal.

$25/$2000

[dovesndecay]

hello and welcome to the bankrupt circus act that is my life; I'm Reyah (any pronouns!), an underemployed disabled biracial queer with too many bills, and very few monies.

to wit; i need help. My disabilities make my ability to work unpredictable and incompatible with most jobs, so I rely entirely on your generosity to survive while I put my remaining energy into building up my artistic endeavors where and when I can.

Having done the math for February, I'm in need of $1,100 to stave off financial disaster for a few more weeks. As always, $600 of that goes to the car payment and insurance for my household of other disabled queers. The rest goes towards remaining debts, and survival necessities like food, meds, and maybe even someday another doctor's appointment if I'm lucky.

Ideally, an overwhelming swell of new patrons would render these posts unnecessary, but in the event that we don't live in that world, I'd deeply appreciate any bit of help y'all are able and are willing to give.

PayPal | (link)

Venmo | (dovesndecay)

Cashapp | ($dovesndecay)

please accept this prize-winning Aengus the Dog in exchange for your time. (he got a Blue Ribbon in Baby)

(And hey, if you'd like to send something I simply can't afford to get myself off one of my wishlists, I freely admit that I won't be the one to stop you. I haven't bought anything for myself that wasn't edible or medication in a hot minute.) Chasing [multi]Gender Euphoria Enriching My Enclosure The Household Needs

[needycatboy]

nooo please don't give me a wicked little look before wrestling me onto the bed 😖

it would be so unfair if you pinned me down and bit me until i stopped squirming underneath you. more so if you started whispering all the ways you're going to ruin me, laughing while you watch my thoughts leave my head and leak down my thighs.

[doublequaterpounder]

HEY

just a little reminder that you are fat enough to call yourself fat!

just cause there are others fatter than you doesn’t mean you can’t classify yourself as fat

i get insecure about if i’m fat enough to define myself as “fat” but those are bad thoughts and i sure ain’t skinny.

YOU ARE FAT ENOUGH TO CALL YOURSELF FAT (and you can get fatter too) no gatekeepin here

[pokeberry5]

girl experiences gender euphoria and is immediately slammed by grief

for @litttlittt <3. this was supposed to be a portrait of caroline hill, but litta mentioned tim looking like janet when dressed as caroline and identity issues and angst and things spiraled

something about tim not knowing if he's his mother's child or bruce's or neither's.

figuring out the looks:

i wanted janet to have that poofy 70s hair

[thelezey]

Saber DOES NOT LIKE her at all 😭😭

[betteroffdeceased]

Hello, I hope everyone is having a wonderful evening.

As some may know I go by Mars and I'm a black trans woman who is struggling to keep some stability in my life whether FINANCIALLY, MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY, AND PHYSICALLY. I'm currently doing the best I can to provide myself and my pets, 3 cats and 2 dogs with food, comfort, water, and better housing conditions.

I've saved money to save up and move out of my city where I GET NO SUPPORT OR HELP even thru community service housing and public housing and other foundations in my area, and I have NO WAY OF PAYING OFF educational debt, medical debt, and even getting ALL THE MONEY for monthly bills and now I'm doing the best I can to assure my home doesn't fall and crumble down, I paid off like 7 to 8,000 already thanks to help from donations to my cashapp, paypal, and venmo, BUT now I need 3,000 more dollars in order to get my foundation and e fixed up and i was wondering if you guys could either donate or spread this post around for me so I can GET HELP TO SAVE MY HOME FROM BEING CONDEMNED and further destruction, it's very close to being condemned snd tumbling DOWN COMPLETELY.

This is a link to my Gofundme I JUST created below:

My cashapp:

My Venmo:

My paypal:

If you guys can kindly help me out and support me, it would be GREATLY APPRECIATED.

MY GOAL IS CURRENTLY - $3,000

[dee-the-red-witch]

The short version? Things are fucked particularly with the back rent situation. That's our deadline to not get evicted again.

Right now, best way to help is donations if you can. Here's the link for that: http://paypal.me/tormentedartifacts

And I know a bunch of you want to be be helpful and send aid org links. There isn't time and we've exhausted most of those already.

Beyond that, yes, buying stuff helps, but between doomboy and everything, I cannot guarantee a ship date before my surgery on any new orders I don't already have in stock. Http://tormentedartifacts.com

And of course sharing this post helps. PLEASE DO THAT.

[bigbbwxl]

Just for educational purposes: this is what it looks like the morning after eating 2900 calories in one sitting. If you trynna feed me Text me 😩

[buttonbuckfarm]

With the escalation of harassment from our neighbor, and confirmation that he has a pattern of increasing harassment to the point of violence, we’ve made the decision that we need to pack up and leave ASAP.

We’re waiting for everything to be confirmed, but we have a promising opportunity for a spot to move ourselves and our animals. We want to be prepared to pack up the essentials and get our animals to the new property ASAP, so we’re asking for help in moving to a safer situation. We need a storage unit for our things, Uhaul rental(s), a deposit and transitional rent, and can’t afford to take time off to get everything ready without support.

I feel a chronic need to downplay things, but I’m in a state of constant anxiety that has made it difficult to eat, clean, and even do things I would normally enjoy. The neighbor has been intentionally provoking and creeping on us. He knows our schedule and watches where we go and what we do. We really need help. We really appreciate the support and love everyone’s given us already.

If you’d prefer to send funds directly to avoid GFM fees, we have Venmo @/dirtpossum and PayPal @/alexander.ed.ren@gmail.com

Thank you so much. With love, Ren and Dimitri.

[pinkhairswagtourney]

my friend harmony is a disabled trans lesbian who has been homeless for almost two months now , relying solely on the kindness of strangers to make ends meet . after all this time , she’s finally caught a break – her cousin has extended an invitation to live with her and has offered to help her get a job at her place of work . this is absolutely fantastic news and i’m so so excited for harmony to get back on her feet !! 

the only issue is that her cousin lives roughly 2000 miles across the country . harmony is ready to go whenever , she just needs a little more help: she’s disabled and cannot drive for super long periods of time , so she will need to stop and stay at a hotel a few times along the way ( ~$200 ) . she also needs gas to fill up her tank ( ~$250 ) and food to eat ( ~$50 ) .

all together , she only needs about $500 to make this trip . if you can spare anything at all , please send a few dollars her way ! i know we’re all struggling , so if you can’t afford to help monetarily , please boost this post !! harmony is so so close to finally being in a stable situation again . thank you for reading !!!

p-yp-l ( her only way of accepting money )