#ethical feedism

[doublequaterpounder]

There 👏 is 👏 nothing👏 shameful👏 about 👏being/getting👏 fat 👏

now go eat.

[feedists4fat-lib]

Arts & Crafts Hangout

Join us for FFL’s Arts and Crafts Hangout on Sunday March 30 at 2:00 p.m. PDT, 5:00 p.m. EDT, and 10:00 p.m. BST.

This informal event is to work on our own arts and/or crafts projects together over Zoom. We can share the joy of creation during these troubling times.

Register here: https://bit.ly/4iqPC0e

[veganfeedee]

[doublequaterpounder]

Getting fat and fatter on purpose is truly a top teir life experience. like full being in tune with you body, listening to every craving eating whenever you get hungry. making yourself full and fulfilled and just high feeling concept as your body grows as you listen to it

when i was fit and working out i was constantly ignoring my body and restricting it and trying to convince it to go out and over exert itself so it burns itself away but reclaiming that and enjoying the growth and feeding it what it’s wanted the whole time

true at peace lifestyle following exactly what it wants and i want to be fat and that’s very cool

[feedists4fat-lib]

💛Happy Fat Liberation Month from FFL!💛

All this month we will be sharing fun facts and information specifically about Fat Liberation, its history, as well as information on how to combat Anti-Fat Bias and its origins. We'll touch on the Medical Industrial Complex, the intersection of LGBTQIA2S+ identities and fatness, and the Anti-Black Origins of fatphobia. And of course, it wouldn't be FFL without some food recommendations -- this time from Black Owned Businesses!

When it comes to harm in the medical field, anti-fatness has a particular role in the lack of care given to trans people. If you are trans and are interested in looking into Gender Affirming Healthcare, transbmi.com is a great resource to find doctors who have high or no BMI restrictions.

[doublequaterpounder]

Shout out to the peeps that have gotten fat on purpose and continue to gain weight and just enjoy being fatter and the getting fat lifestyle

been seeing a lot of people across the web inside the feedism, body positivity and plus sized community actively trying to get skinnier which they are allowed to do cause it’s there bodies and everyone is allowed to anything. (also no hate to accidental weight loss life happens and getting fat can be difficult to upkeep)

butttttt yeah shout out to those who truly love being fat and and everything that it brings us, large bodies, lots of food, softness it’s very lovely hearing y’all love yourselves and love the growth!

[velvetafterdark]

Masterpost

Velvet | She/Her or Vi/Vix | Autistic

Ko-fi | Commissions (On my main) | FurAffinity

I like fat robots what can I say

Sex-repulsed. Only into kink

Really shy and trying not to be ashamed

Single and perfectly content that way: not looking for advances, just to share and find content

DNI: <18, Proship, Pedophiles, Exclusionists, Queerphobes Transphobes/TERFS, SWERFS, Nazis, and those okay with Hogging/Objectification (People are ALWAYS more important than kink: die mad)

My kinks

ETHICAL FEEDISM RESOURCES

The relationship between kink and body positivity

Feedists for Fat Liberation resources (off-site)

Fat feminism resources (non-kink. Would love to get ahold of masc and enby oriented resources like this!)

I'm always on the hunt for resources to help people navigate life and fall in love with their bodies and those of their partners, and engage in kink in a safe, sane, consensual, and fun way. If you have resources you'd like to share, hmu!

[doublequaterpounder]

imagine being rich or having wealth and not getting fat like omg if i had large amounts of disposable income the food budget would be omg unfathomable.

like you can afford all food at all times non stop delivery buffet restaurants eating THE SNACKS holy shit

plus you are rich you don’t need to be thin you’ve won capitalism who cares what anyone thinks let loose get fat or give me the money idk that’s the only two options i can think of.

[feedists4fat-lib]

💛Happy Fat Liberation Month from FFL!💛

All this month we will be sharing fun facts and information specifically about Fat Liberation, its history, as well as information on how to combat Anti-Fat Bias and its origins. We'll touch on the Medical Industrial Complex, the intersection of LGBTQIA2S+ identities and fatness, and the Anti-Black Origins of fatphobia. And of course, it wouldn't be FFL without some food recommendations -- this time from Black Owned Businesses!

For our first stretch of Graphics, we'll be looking at a couple of Fat Liberation Activists and their contributions to the movement! Today we learn more about Elana Dykewoman, a legendary artist and thinker who found pride in her lesbian identity and fatness.

[heavycreamy]

Hey Matt Gazy

This post is for Australian Journalist Matt Gazy.

Apparently you've been contacting members of our feedism/erotic weight gain community in order to discuss our very multifaceted, heavily misrepresented lifestyle.

As someone who has been in this community for 3 decades, has seen most if not all of its forms, understands the ethical connections between Feedism and Fat Liberation, and deeply cares about how folks in our community are represented to the general vanilla public, I hope that you are entering into this project/article/episode with the necessary due respect, empathy, intelligence, and kindness that you would bring to ANY oft-misunderstood and ridiculed subculture.

No one needs another sensationalist piece of journalism wilfully and lazily misrepresentating our community, sexuality, and lifestyle, which only EVER serves to further stigmatise and shame us.

We have been taken advantage of on many occasions, cast as freaks and pathetic fools with mental problems, so neither we nor the general public need more of that.

EVERY time a piece about feedism appears in the public eye, our community experiences a massive wave of trolls and judgemental, deeply fatphobic tourists coming into our online spaces and abusing us.

Please don't debase us nor yourself by making a surface level hit-piece on our community, whether intentionally or unintentionally, due to a lack of thorough research and basic respect for perspectives and life experiences outside the norm.

Feedism is INFINITELY more than simply heteronormative power play. That corner of the community represents less than 10% of what actual contemporary Feedism culture is, and ironically harbours 90% of the toxicity present in the entire culture.

Feedism is so much more than heteronormative, coercive power play. It is extremely queer, extremely feminist, extremely sensual and emotional, and is a major facet of many people's lives and psychologies.

While it may seem like simply a niche genre of porn to the casual tourist, Feedism exists outside of porn. It exists outside of kink. It exists outside of fetish. It can and should be considered an orientation, rather than simply a freaky outlier bedroom interest worthy only of reactive disgust.

Please don't be yet another unscrupulous journalist exploiting our incredibly vulnerable community for shock bait bullshit.

If you're going to try to represent us, do it comprehensively, and do it PROPERLY.

Truly speak to us. Do the work. Don't just find an extremely popular female model and falsely imagine that her experience is a stand in for ALL Feedist experiences.

If you truly want to represent Feedism, you NEED to represent it as the complex, multifaceted diaspora that it is, full of people of all kinds, all cultures, and ALL SIZES.

Should you be committed to pursuing this topic, I can offer links and connections to extremely well informed writers, thinkers, professors, and others within this community who are doing INCREDIBLE work on understanding, exploring, and expressing the deeper truths of this desire and lifestyle. There are people doing the work. You need to do it too.

We're humans. Treat us with respect, dignity, and kind curiosity.

Be better than every journalist who has come before you.

Thank you.

ps. Dear feedist pals, if you feel that what I've said here resonates with you, and mirrors your feelings at all, please feel free to reblog the shit out of this in the hopes that more visibility may help it reach its intended audience. Thanks gang ♥️🍰🍕

[doublequaterpounder]

I’m for platonic weight gain and feedist talk

like yeah it’s hot as hell, very hot

but like we should be able to chat and talk about getting fat and fatter like everyone else gets to talk about weight loss and the gym

just causal and chill just like the majority of people get to discuss the ways they desire to change their bodies

anyhow my blog is such a safe space for chill platonic getting fatter cause you want to talk

like friendly vibes let’s get fatter hell yeah support

[naughtynoodle056]

Im not gonna pretend I don't think it's hot as hell when I'm In the Mood™, but when I am not and people come at me with no warning teasing me about how fat I am now I really wanna start throwing shit with my fucking mind. It's one thing when I'm blinded by the horny, but it feels so GROSS when people insist I'm fat or call me obese even if I know they don't mean it to be vicious because it's just like. I'm a size 2 at most. Slightly over 100 pounds. That being called 'obese' just takes me out of the fucking moment so so hard a lot of the times because it's just like a BIIIIIG Internalized Fatphobic Slap to the face. How are people that are bigger than I am by a Substantial Amount supposed to feel when they see people half their size getting fatshamed??? Not to mention that sometimes at my Worst, those sorts of things can and will trigger my own disordered eating problems and make me feel guilty about enjoying food...😐.

Sometimes I just feel too well versed in how fatphobia genuinely affects people on a real level to enjoy some of the stuff I see and deal with in this community, I guess. Calling someone that's not even 105lbs fat or overweight or obese reeks of 90s/2000s diet culture where it was only acceptable to be rail thin, not EVEN slim with a big butt. I definitely don't think every person guilty of this is bad at heart, not by a long shot. Most of it feels like ignorance and being blinded by horniness in the moment to think rationally, I just really wish some of them were a little more aware of how like... Loaded some of their comments can be, cuz I never wanna rip someone's head off if they just innocently think we're playing around.

I guess I just wish there was more nuance about it? IDK, a warning before jumping into that sort of thing??? xD IDK even a "hey are you in the mood for some Not So Soft Feedism" would go a long way cuz sometimes the playful teasing is fun!! But other times it just makes me feel gross. It's like a yucky reminder of "oh... you think any visible fat on someone's body = THEY'RE fat on some 90s/Y2K shit ... Ew...." and like I'm contributing to the "skinny people takin over the Feedism community " phenomenon just by existing and I dO NOOOOOTTTTT wanna do that at ALL. I'll ruin a whole vibe in a conversation and get serious before I start taking credit from the ACTUAL fat people in the community 😭

[bievre]

also if we're being real a lot of feedism stuff invokes the exact same diet logic as 'ed content' (if you don't control yourself you'll get fatter forever, your appetite is a danger that can kill you, food is a foreign interloper capable of poisoning your body or making you stupid/inferior, food is addictive, hedonism is morally compromising) the difference is that it's feedism if it's written by and aimed at ppl who find it erotic and it's ed if it's written at and aimed at ppl who find it terrifying. that's not a moral condemnation of either but it's a fact you need to grapple with if what you're trying to do is develop an ethics of posting or moderating this diet logic. lotta overlap between the human emotions of terror and horniness btw.