#ethical feedism

[doublequaterpounder]

Alright so since i’ve been gone i’ve experienced probably the most triggering interaction in the last couple years in response to my on purpose weight gain and i needa put it off my chest

so i recently went on an overseas holiday in which i was violently ill pretty much the whole time (being down with food poisoning already hella triggering as a recovering person ED but i digress)

so yeah anyway i get back and am at work just joking around like “lol some holiday huh sick the whole time rip” as the workplace optimism jester i am

HOWEVER then the compliments started rolling in “woah at least you look like you’ve lost weight” “even tho you were sick you look better for it” “you look so much healthy cunt i was literally sick the antithesis of health.

it really struck a nerve deep in my psyche. it got to a point where they were trying to guess how much i lost it was fucked. like i haven’t checked the scales yet cause yknow 😬

i write all this not for sympathy points cause like honestly everyone in the fat lib and feedist communities get this treatment in so many minute ways that it’s hard to not let it get to you. and it’s so hard to defend against these “compliments” and posting here isn’t gonna stop it or reach the right people but it will reach people that have experienced this

the weight fluctuations is so hard to deal with for those in feedism and recovering from ED and the intersection between them.

anyhow idk a good way to battle this particular issue calling out in the moment is technically right but that is also difficult so we gotta support each other and be happy with being fat and getting fat

[feedists4fat-lib]

💛Happy Fat Liberation Month from FFL!💛

All this month we will be sharing fun facts and information specifically about Fat Liberation, its history, as well as information on how to combat Anti-Fat Bias and its origins. We'll touch on the Medical Industrial Complex, the intersection of LGBTQIA2S+ identities and fatness, and the Anti-Black Origins of fatphobia. And of course, it wouldn't be FFL without some food recommendations -- this time from Black Owned Businesses!

When it comes to harm in the medical field, anti-fatness has a particular role in the lack of care given to trans people. If you are trans and are interested in looking into Gender Affirming Healthcare, transbmi.com is a great resource to find doctors who have high or no BMI restrictions.

[doublequaterpounder]

Getting fat and fatter on purpose is truly a top teir life experience. like full being in tune with you body, listening to every craving eating whenever you get hungry. making yourself full and fulfilled and just high feeling concept as your body grows as you listen to it

when i was fit and working out i was constantly ignoring my body and restricting it and trying to convince it to go out and over exert itself so it burns itself away but reclaiming that and enjoying the growth and feeding it what it’s wanted the whole time

true at peace lifestyle following exactly what it wants and i want to be fat and that’s very cool

[feedists4fat-lib]

💛Happy Fat Liberation Month from FFL!💛

All this month we will be sharing fun facts and information specifically about Fat Liberation, its history, as well as information on how to combat Anti-Fat Bias and its origins. We'll touch on the Medical Industrial Complex, the intersection of LGBTQIA2S+ identities and fatness, and the Anti-Black Origins of fatphobia. And of course, it wouldn't be FFL without some food recommendations -- this time from Black Owned Businesses!

For our first stretch of Graphics, we'll be looking at a couple of Fat Liberation Activists and their contributions to the movement! Today we learn more about Elana Dykewoman, a legendary artist and thinker who found pride in her lesbian identity and fatness.

[blogforbigboiz]

This is a ramble post but there is something deeply satisfying an out the love and work that goes into ethical feedisum, especially if your not as wealthy as you need to be to keep buying cloths in bigger sizes or continually order food, spending a day in the kitchen making caloricly dense biscuit dough and strawberry jam spending hours carefully and neatly measuring him and cutting down and tailoring old cloths sewing new ones with scrap fabric, it’s like the ultimate expression of love to me.

[doublequaterpounder]

I’m for platonic weight gain and feedist talk

like yeah it’s hot as hell, very hot

but like we should be able to chat and talk about getting fat and fatter like everyone else gets to talk about weight loss and the gym

just causal and chill just like the majority of people get to discuss the ways they desire to change their bodies

anyhow my blog is such a safe space for chill platonic getting fatter cause you want to talk

like friendly vibes let’s get fatter hell yeah support

[velvetafterdark]

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ETHICAL FEEDISM RESOURCES

The relationship between kink and body positivity

Feedists for Fat Liberation resources (off-site)

Fat feminism resources (non-kink. Would love to get ahold of masc and enby oriented resources like this!)

I'm always on the hunt for resources to help people navigate life and fall in love with their bodies and those of their partners, and engage in kink in a safe, sane, consensual, and fun way. If you have resources you'd like to share, hmu!

[heavycreamy]

Hey Matt Gazy

This post is for Australian Journalist Matt Gazy.

Apparently you've been contacting members of our feedism/erotic weight gain community in order to discuss our very multifaceted, heavily misrepresented lifestyle.

As someone who has been in this community for 3 decades, has seen most if not all of its forms, understands the ethical connections between Feedism and Fat Liberation, and deeply cares about how folks in our community are represented to the general vanilla public, I hope that you are entering into this project/article/episode with the necessary due respect, empathy, intelligence, and kindness that you would bring to ANY oft-misunderstood and ridiculed subculture.

No one needs another sensationalist piece of journalism wilfully and lazily misrepresentating our community, sexuality, and lifestyle, which only EVER serves to further stigmatise and shame us.

We have been taken advantage of on many occasions, cast as freaks and pathetic fools with mental problems, so neither we nor the general public need more of that.

EVERY time a piece about feedism appears in the public eye, our community experiences a massive wave of trolls and judgemental, deeply fatphobic tourists coming into our online spaces and abusing us.

Please don't debase us nor yourself by making a surface level hit-piece on our community, whether intentionally or unintentionally, due to a lack of thorough research and basic respect for perspectives and life experiences outside the norm.

Feedism is INFINITELY more than simply heteronormative power play. That corner of the community represents less than 10% of what actual contemporary Feedism culture is, and ironically harbours 90% of the toxicity present in the entire culture.

Feedism is so much more than heteronormative, coercive power play. It is extremely queer, extremely feminist, extremely sensual and emotional, and is a major facet of many people's lives and psychologies.

While it may seem like simply a niche genre of porn to the casual tourist, Feedism exists outside of porn. It exists outside of kink. It exists outside of fetish. It can and should be considered an orientation, rather than simply a freaky outlier bedroom interest worthy only of reactive disgust.

Please don't be yet another unscrupulous journalist exploiting our incredibly vulnerable community for shock bait bullshit.

If you're going to try to represent us, do it comprehensively, and do it PROPERLY.

Truly speak to us. Do the work. Don't just find an extremely popular female model and falsely imagine that her experience is a stand in for ALL Feedist experiences.

If you truly want to represent Feedism, you NEED to represent it as the complex, multifaceted diaspora that it is, full of people of all kinds, all cultures, and ALL SIZES.

Should you be committed to pursuing this topic, I can offer links and connections to extremely well informed writers, thinkers, professors, and others within this community who are doing INCREDIBLE work on understanding, exploring, and expressing the deeper truths of this desire and lifestyle. There are people doing the work. You need to do it too.

We're humans. Treat us with respect, dignity, and kind curiosity.

Be better than every journalist who has come before you.

Thank you.

ps. Dear feedist pals, if you feel that what I've said here resonates with you, and mirrors your feelings at all, please feel free to reblog the shit out of this in the hopes that more visibility may help it reach its intended audience. Thanks gang ♥️🍰🍕

[chubbychiquita]

theres is such a stark divide between traditional porn consumers (typically cis straight men) in the community and everyone else. like the rest of us are on a different conversational tier talking about ethical feedism and neurodivergence and they're still on that "being fat is gross and my douchebag friends make fun of me 🥲 how do i get rid of my kink??" shit.

[doublequaterpounder]

Ay Yo gaining. advice that has really worked for me!!!!

when i first started in this world i thought the only way to gain was stuffig! and while yeah its hot it lead me down a path of overeating and feeling super uncomfy and often spoiling my appetite for a few days tbh. id frighten myself with how much food i had and wouldn’t eat as much cause i couldn’t keep up in my head the stuffing sessions often enough

Here’s what i’ve found really helps which idk it seems obvious but not as hot as the fantasy of a huge stuffing for every meal. it’s just slightly increased portions of stuff i’d already be eating if im having a sandwich maybe have two or and and half, just take a larger serving of dinner

just slightly over eat so your at a soft level of fullness it’s noticeable but i haven’t been overstuffed and unable to function

i’ve been doing this for a like a week and a bit now and i’ve put on 6lbs and i’ve been so much hungrier than i used to be, my stomach understands the assignment and im needing more and more food casually instead of one big stuffing just increasing everting and when i do t feel as full i just grab a snack it’s not uncomfy full just noticeable enough

idk if this’ll work for you but gaining doesn’t mean making yourself feel sick or uncomfortable with crazy big stuffings constantly that’s just not maintainable and will lead to burn out just have to eat a bit more all the time

[feedists4fat-lib]

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[es-draws]

hey! :) I just had a scroll through your blog, although I've definitely seen your art reblogged before. And as much as I like your art (it's very cool & hot & I love the analysing of people's gains you do!), I wanted to say I really really appreciate how respectful you talk about fat people on here! from your posts I assume that you're not fat and there are unfortunately some skinny-ish people in this kink who don't educate themselves about weight gain/fatness and are sometimes really fatphobic. so I really really appreciate your effort to look into weight/fat science and how you talk about us!! :)

(also would it be okay if I asked you to analyse my weight/size/belly like you sometimes do for askers? I was never skinny so my gain looks a bit different than others, but if you like I'd love to see what you have to say about my belly shape/size etc. 🙈)

Thank you for the kind words!

You're correct in assuming that I'm not fat. But I used to be.

I gained around 75 lbs in a short span of time, mainly from love of food and eating. I was well into obesity, and was for years. I never gained intentionally, and I never thought of myself as a gainer. But nevertheless, I was fat.

I ended up losing the weight, for a multitude of reasons. But even though I'm thin now, I understand what it's like to be fat. I understand the pleasure of it, and the pain. I've felt the affects of fatphobia and fat exclusion firsthand.

I may be a feeder, but above all else I'm a fat liberationist. I believe that all people are worthy dignity and respect - and right now, fat people are often not given the dignity and respect they deserve. If feedists want to encourage fatness, we need to strive to create a society that is supportive of fatness, too. It means ethical feedism, and ethical treatment of fat folks. It's about creating a world where it's okay to be fat. I'll always stand by that cause, fat or thin.

[im-not-even-sorry]

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Hi, I'm just another guy being horny on the internet :) I'm 23 yo from Poland, afab and bi so that's pretty queer huh. Apart from kink, my interests include science, history and politics, I love hiking, resistance training, nature and my cat. I study physiotherapy and have done martial arts for over 7 years now, and counting! Also, I happen to be a hopeless romantic 🩷

I present a "dead dove, do not eat" of what you might see here aka stuff I'm into

Feedism 🍩

As a feeder and qfa only!

Weight gain

Stuffing

(Hand)feeding

Outgrowing clothes

Measurements

Burping (sometimes)

Ex-jock

Body contrast

Size difference

Light humiliation/teasing

Praise kink and spoiling!!!!

"soft feedism" - stuff I'd do irl

"hard feedism" - strictly fantasy. Declining mobility and health, xwg, slight death feedism, harder humiliation, you get the point

But sometimes I forget to tag posts at all 🫣

Other kind of belly related things 🤰

Inflation (water/air/cum/etc)

Expansion

F/M/NB-preg (not me though!!!!!!!)

Oviposition

Medfet 🩺

Doctors, nurses, PTs etc - yall are so hot

Cnc being examined, taken advantage of, someone learning/exploring trans anatomy from my body, gloves and exam tables, speculums

Power imbalance and breaking the code of professional ethics <3

Other

Age difference

Teachers/professors/scientists/I'm kind of sapiosexual so there's just. That

Praise kink in general

DP

Anal (fingering especially)

(T)dick/pussy/just any genitals really pumping

Intox (alcohol/w33d)

Body worship

Chastity/cock cages

Uhhhh guys in pretty panties? But not sissification per se. Just. Hard cocks in lace. Yes

Being scratched/bitten/marked/groped

Gentle dom/sub

Cnc I guess??

Hard no's: detrans, choking, slob, emeto, vore, anything about excrements, hard BDSM

"Show me your kinks, I'll show you mine, and let's help each other out" mentality, so I'm open to trying new things and the list is permanently a WIP

Sometimes I post ass ✨️

I am taken, hence...

Asks are OPEN ❤️

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