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RE: My Post about a Journalist looking into Feedism

UPDATE

Matt Gazy (Australian Journalist) has just got in touch with me. I don't believe he has yet read the essay I posted earlier this week, but he has responded positively to the DM I sent him on reddit after finding his user account.

I'll see where this goes and keep you all in the loop.

I have no intention of acting as holistic representative of our extremely varied culture and multifaceted community, but I WILL advocate for its respectful, tactful exploration, while aiming to connect Matt to others who can speak with far more insight and eloquence on all things feedist.

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UPDATE

Matt Gazy has just got in touch with me. I don't believe he has yet read my essay above, but he has responded positively to the DM I sent him on reddit after finding his user account.

I'll see where this goes and keep you all in the loop.

I have no intention of acting as holistic representative of our extremely varied culture and multifaceted community, but I WILL advocate for its respectful, tactful exploration, while aiming to connect Matt to others who can speak with far more insight and eloquence on all things feedist.

Hey Matt Gazy

This post is for Australian Journalist Matt Gazy.

Apparently you've been contacting members of our feedism/erotic weight gain community in order to discuss our very multifaceted, heavily misrepresented lifestyle.

As someone who has been in this community for 3 decades, has seen most if not all of its forms, understands the ethical connections between Feedism and Fat Liberation, and deeply cares about how folks in our community are represented to the general vanilla public, I hope that you are entering into this project/article/episode with the necessary due respect, empathy, intelligence, and kindness that you would bring to ANY oft-misunderstood and ridiculed subculture.

No one needs another sensationalist piece of journalism wilfully and lazily misrepresentating our community, sexuality, and lifestyle, which only EVER serves to further stigmatise and shame us.

We have been taken advantage of on many occasions, cast as freaks and pathetic fools with mental problems, so neither we nor the general public need more of that.

EVERY time a piece about feedism appears in the public eye, our community experiences a massive wave of trolls and judgemental, deeply fatphobic tourists coming into our online spaces and abusing us.

Please don't debase us nor yourself by making a surface level hit-piece on our community, whether intentionally or unintentionally, due to a lack of thorough research and basic respect for perspectives and life experiences outside the norm.

Feedism is INFINITELY more than simply heteronormative power play. That corner of the community represents less than 10% of what actual contemporary Feedism culture is, and ironically harbours 90% of the toxicity present in the entire culture.

Feedism is so much more than heteronormative, coercive power play. It is extremely queer, extremely feminist, extremely sensual and emotional, and is a major facet of many people's lives and psychologies.

While it may seem like simply a niche genre of porn to the casual tourist, Feedism exists outside of porn. It exists outside of kink. It exists outside of fetish. It can and should be considered an orientation, rather than simply a freaky outlier bedroom interest worthy only of reactive disgust.

Please don't be yet another unscrupulous journalist exploiting our incredibly vulnerable community for shock bait bullshit.

If you're going to try to represent us, do it comprehensively, and do it PROPERLY.

Truly speak to us. Do the work. Don't just find an extremely popular female model and falsely imagine that her experience is a stand in for ALL Feedist experiences.

If you truly want to represent Feedism, you NEED to represent it as the complex, multifaceted diaspora that it is, full of people of all kinds, all cultures, and ALL SIZES.

Should you be committed to pursuing this topic, I can offer links and connections to extremely well informed writers, thinkers, professors, and others within this community who are doing INCREDIBLE work on understanding, exploring, and expressing the deeper truths of this desire and lifestyle. There are people doing the work. You need to do it too.

We're humans. Treat us with respect, dignity, and kind curiosity.

Be better than every journalist who has come before you.

Thank you.

ps. Dear feedist pals, if you feel that what I've said here resonates with you, and mirrors your feelings at all, please feel free to reblog the shit out of this in the hopes that more visibility may help it reach its intended audience. Thanks gang ♥️🍰🍕

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Hey Matt Gazy

This post is for Australian Journalist Matt Gazy.

Apparently you've been contacting members of our feedism/erotic weight gain community in order to discuss our very multifaceted, heavily misrepresented lifestyle.

As someone who has been in this community for 3 decades, has seen most if not all of its forms, understands the ethical connections between Feedism and Fat Liberation, and deeply cares about how folks in our community are represented to the general vanilla public, I hope that you are entering into this project/article/episode with the necessary due respect, empathy, intelligence, and kindness that you would bring to ANY oft-misunderstood and ridiculed subculture.

No one needs another sensationalist piece of journalism wilfully and lazily misrepresentating our community, sexuality, and lifestyle, which only EVER serves to further stigmatise and shame us.

We have been taken advantage of on many occasions, cast as freaks and pathetic fools with mental problems, so neither we nor the general public need more of that.

EVERY time a piece about feedism appears in the public eye, our community experiences a massive wave of trolls and judgemental, deeply fatphobic tourists coming into our online spaces and abusing us.

Please don't debase us nor yourself by making a surface level hit-piece on our community, whether intentionally or unintentionally, due to a lack of thorough research and basic respect for perspectives and life experiences outside the norm.

Feedism is INFINITELY more than simply heteronormative power play. That corner of the community represents less than 10% of what actual contemporary Feedism culture is, and ironically harbours 90% of the toxicity present in the entire culture.

Feedism is so much more than heteronormative, coercive power play. It is extremely queer, extremely feminist, extremely sensual and emotional, and is a major facet of many people's lives and psychologies.

While it may seem like simply a niche genre of porn to the casual tourist, Feedism exists outside of porn. It exists outside of kink. It exists outside of fetish. It can and should be considered an orientation, rather than simply a freaky outlier bedroom interest worthy only of reactive disgust.

Please don't be yet another unscrupulous journalist exploiting our incredibly vulnerable community for shock bait bullshit.

If you're going to try to represent us, do it comprehensively, and do it PROPERLY.

Truly speak to us. Do the work. Don't just find an extremely popular female model and falsely imagine that her experience is a stand in for ALL Feedist experiences.

If you truly want to represent Feedism, you NEED to represent it as the complex, multifaceted diaspora that it is, full of people of all kinds, all cultures, and ALL SIZES.

Should you be committed to pursuing this topic, I can offer links and connections to extremely well informed writers, thinkers, professors, and others within this community who are doing INCREDIBLE work on understanding, exploring, and expressing the deeper truths of this desire and lifestyle. There are people doing the work. You need to do it too.

We're humans. Treat us with respect, dignity, and kind curiosity.

Be better than every journalist who has come before you.

Thank you.

ps. Dear feedist pals, if you feel that what I've said here resonates with you, and mirrors your feelings at all, please feel free to reblog the shit out of this in the hopes that more visibility may help it reach its intended audience. Thanks gang ♥️🍰🍕

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(detail from ‘Bacchus’ c. 1638-1640 by Peter Paul Rubens)

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Feeling kinda chunky lately...

Repeated Chinese takeout, I blame you.

(I love you Chinese takeout)

Care to send me even more takeout to add to this growing figure?

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jesus, babe. i'm gone on a work trip for two weeks, and you've made yourself totally unrecognizable in only 14 days?! there's pizza boxes and wrappers all over the damn living room. even the bedroom is demolished. why is there a dildo on top of an empty box of donuts?? and look what it's done to you...your slovenly appearance is so pitiful it makes me want to laugh in your chubby face! you seem to have acquired a whole new set of rolls peeking out from underneath your shirt, which is fighting for its life not to burst apart at the seams. are you only wearing panties because you can't even fit into your sweats anymore? sigh...i'll go to the store and order more. that is, if they even have fatass size. otherwise we'll have to special order them online. i did bring you a whole suitcase full of exotic treats. i guess it's time to stretch that shirt to oblivion, tubby 😏

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Your New Fat Boyfriend™

Just how fat do YOU want him?

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ROUNDBOI™

So basically the plan is to make ALL these straps disappear eventually 😌🍰

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The Pudge.

It grows.

Clothes sinking in deeper.

Softness bulging out further.

I can feeeel myself sliding perfectly out of control...

😌🤤🥵

My new FattyFunding Campaign is kicking off nicely, and the daily stuffing has begun...

Wanna help add fuel to this increasingly plump fire?

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I've got a hot date tonight, with my fridge 😌🤤🥵

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IIIIIT'S STUFFING SEASON, BABY! 🤤🍰

Since returning, a sweetheart or two has generously offered to throw some fattening funds straight into this hungry, soft, greedy, bulging, increasingly flabby belly, but they needed a way to do it!

I hereby formally announce my plumping crowdfunding campaign 😌

MAKE HEAVYCREAMY EVEN HEAVIER

Anyone who donates will get private shots/videos sent to them personally 😘

Let's make me fucking BIG y'all!

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soooooo glad ur back… missed seeing these gorgeous pics 🤤

u still into taking … fattening gifts ? x

I'm so glad you're so glad! ☺️ I've definitely missed sharing whatever gorgeousness I can, haha. Thank you very kindly for the compliment!

Tumblr deleting their tipping function recently definitely killed my capacity to receive fattening stuffing funds, but I'm still VERY into receiving 😌 It still very much turns me on (like crazy), fattens me up faster (like, CRAZY), and turbo-powers my desire to show it aaaall off...

LIKE CRAZY 😘🍰

If you're into the idea of giving the delicious gift of fattening, I've just made a Go Fund Me!

Check it out here:

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The. Actual. Dream.

A Muse

Currently fantasizing about a waifish soft artist boy with creamy skin and pouty lips who needs a strong, caring figure in his life to help take care of him.

Bringing him his meals when he's too tired to leave his room; helping him meet his daily nutritional needs; soothing his anxiety with a treat whenever he needs it.

I'd be profoundly gentle, but provide him with the firmness and structure he'd need to reach is full potential. Time to work on his projects undisturbed, realizing the full possibilities of his craft. Snacks and drinks provided, to "keep up his strength," whenever he needs them.

The more he'd settle into my care, the greater his artistic output would be; his steady litany of projects, each more articulated and fantastic than the last, would only be matched by the prodigious expansion of his waist.

Boyish hips would soon betray a femininity that, without a careful eye, makes his gender more and more indeterminate from behind.

His chest would transform from flat, sinewy pectorals, to full, ripe breasts - beautifully rounded and yet altogether masculine all at once.

And that belly:

First a rounded pooching of flesh out from a sunken cavern beneath his ribs, and then gradually a building mass that would pile pound after pound on top of one another. Under my care, from a blithesome mound, it would grow, and grow into a staggering heaviness, with rippling layers and flowing rolls, outward, ready to escape any would-be cloth prison and proudly taking centre stage.

Sometimes his projects would get to be too much for him; too much movement, or too many steps to complete a project, but I'd always be there to help, both of us unsure who was the muse to whom.

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I just wanna say the shape of your belly and thighs is just like...omg????💕💓💞💕💞💕💞💕💞💓 Idk how to explain but it's like looking at a captivating exhibit in a museum

and way how your ass is so fat/soft that it hardly fits into your shorts omg 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

it's like the perfect physique

(also I hope you're feeling better after your hiatus!)

Hahahaaaa what a WONDERFUL bunch of things to say ☺️

Perfection is a wildly unrealistic concept, but I can't say I'm not absolutely delighted to have you find my physique so! ESPECIALLY the focus on my plump butt. Showing this thang off like an exhibition is what I'm all ABOUT 😌🍰

Thank you for such delicious praise and perspectives! Please feel free to drop more words on me and these juicy thighs anytime 😘

ps. I appear to have made the perfect looping gif. Watch it for everrrr.

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My big, strong, dexterous hands are pretty great at grabbing, lifting, and squeezing my big, soft, heavy belly 😌

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It's me, Detective Fats.

I'm on the case of the missing cheesecake.

Welcome to Chubby Noir.