#trans femme specifically

[niinnyu]

(^ー^)

[wombo--combo]

Wish there was a special kind of hormone that would give you Exactly What You Want and nothing else specifically for Non-binary people

[blairamok]

i know this is probably on me for not clarifying more, but it’s really important to me for y’all to know that in my AU crowley is gender nonconforming and still firmly using he/him despite whatever he’s wearing. wearing “feminine clothing” does not equal she/her! this is a specific flavor of gender fuckery that i’m exploring here and misgendering him kinda takes away from that 😩

[waitineedaname]

mxtx characters who, in my humble butch opinion, should be butch

Luo Binghe: listen. look me in the eyes. in a genderswap situation, Binghe should get to be butch. one of the key themes in SVSSS is gender, and one of the things that distinguishes SVSSS!Binghe from PIDW!Binghe is that he's not the hypermasculine protagonist and instead is allowed to enjoy more feminine things (like being Shizun's housewife). that's why he's specifically called Bing-mei and it's also why im on my transfemme Binghe soapbox all the time, but that's a whole other topic. what im saying is if we're reversing the gender situation, then fem!Binghe in SVSSS should get to enjoy more masculine things. it's what she deserves. she strikes me as the kind of butch that gets a thrill out of doing gentlemanly things like giving SQQ her coat when she's cold. she should be the Bing-di to PIDW's Bing-jie

Shang Qinghua: this one is deeply self-indulgent projection but don't fucking worry about that okay. SQH is a very specific flavor of low effort butch nerd. SQH is the cookie monster pajamas to butch pipeline. SQH cuts her own hair with regular scissors for convenience and Shen Yuan is dying to get her to just buy some goddamn clippers. SQH is running off of four red bulls and spite. She inexplicably has game and she's just as confused about this as you are

Xie Lian: imagine this for me. you go to one of those volunteering events where you're cleaning trash out of a creek or something. there is a woman there in cargo pants or maybe overalls, something with a shit ton of pockets. she has not shaved in months, maybe years. her hair is in the messiest bun possible, or maybe tied back under a baseball cap. she is somehow the most beautiful woman you've ever seen. after taking away all the trash and informing everyone how to sort the recycling, she is picked up by another woman who appears to be the definition of high camp. you leave this encounter feeling like you might have been converted to something. perhaps to lesbianism. this is what an encounter with butch Xie Lian is like.

[ffc1cb]

i’ve always found it peculiar how during meeting the chargers cutscene the game just assumes your character automatically understands what krem is talking about when he mentions binding (though, granted, it’s all very unsubtle). like, this is a roleplaying game. what if i want to play a character who just doesn’t get it

[punkeropercyjackson]

Not to be mean but if you throw pick me allegations at Piper yet ship Percy with Luke and the gods out of projecting onto 'him',it's time to look within

[songsofsappho]

Femmes, mascs, fems, butches.

Maybe it's the tgirl brain but presentation just isn't that important to me.

What's really attractive about a girl is that they're comfortable and confident in their presentation.

Boy in a girl way? Enby? All of those things? None of them? Cool.

Does it make you happy? Yes? Do you want head about it?

[dyke-pollinator]

Fuck it I'm in the mood to love myself tonight. Yall can have a little of my emo night outfit, before I go and dance all night.

Not pictured is my maroon beanie, maroon nails and docs. Ignore all the fucking cat hair I try to get it off and she just jumps on me.

[vraska-theunseen]

got asked tonight if i was a butch lesbian or a trans man... its working

[thatcontrolfangirl]

Coming up on pride month I expect all of you to be fucking normal to lesbians, trans women, and especially trans lesbians. I know you all can do it.

[vampire-loverboy]

I like my men riddled with problems and effeminate

[fromtheseventhhell]

The nonbinary!arya takes with Arya’s “i’m not a lady” quote makes no sense to me. I honestly don’t mind a single hc about any of the starklings’ sexuality or gender identity- but then the way Arya’s feminity is constantly brought into question irks me. I mean, the “i’m a girl” everytime Arya’s mistaken for a boy is Right. There. So there you go, Arya’s peak feminine icon because she firmly states, explicitly even, that she is, in fact, a girl at every opportunity. Bye

See my issue with takes like this will always be that this fandom is obsessed with removing Arya from her girlhood. So while I don't see anything inherently wrong with having the headcanon, most of the time it's coming from the perspective that her being a non-conforming girl in a strict patriarchal society makes her less of a girl. People think they're being progressive and "open" by having this opinion but, like you said, Arya is firmly rooted in her identity as a girl and corrects people on multiple occasions. Like...okay? You think a character constantly masculinized and belittled by fandom for not being a conforming female character is non-binary, congratulations? Meanwhile, female characters who actually toe the line with gender aren't getting the same treatment cause they're either considered too "feminine" or they're associated romantically with a man. It's just so forced, and I'm tired of non-conforming female characters being treated like they're lesser women.

[matchbet-allofthetime]

I love asshole people thinking they get to dictate how other creators face a serious and harmful issue on the internet on THEIR OWN FUCKING ACCOUNTS

As if it's their business

"I followed for the memes"

Then unfollow if you don't like when they speak out against trans misogyny, bitch.

Come the fuck on now. Curate your own experience online you miserable fuck

[punkeropercyjackson]

White cisgirls/tme girls are so weird,like you think 'babyboy/babygirl' is creepy as a romantic nickname(which has roots in aave)but daydream about being called 'doll'🤨?

[barbedwirechain]

i do not believe or buy into transandrophobia or whatever that self serving bullshit is called.

gender essentialism and bioessentialism are right there.

i do not need to create more specific words as if most [of my] problems don’t just boil down to “i’m fucking poor” anyway but even if i were to critique uh lot of individual queer people’s indiscriminate and undisciplined biases against and hatred for masculinity and/or men I already have terms for that—it all boils down to “gender essentialism”, which also informs TERF ideology and chilvary for example.

i think the last part is extremely important to my poont; if you recognize the roots that are gender essentialism all the branches look less isolated. instead of going “i deal with specific treatment for being transmasculine” i go “i am being exposed to yet another form of this same thing that has happened to not only trans masculine people but all trans people and to be fucking honest all [cis] people”. we all suffer because of this— and this isn’t to say there’s no reason to vent uh transmasc specific frustration OR that there is no weird essentialism of masculinity and men going on that transmascs can/should be critical of but i do not have any interest in giving myself another hyperspecific word that people more or less use to mean “people sometimes aren’t very warm to me because of their shitty biases and lack of discernment” as long as that replaces the meaningful acknowledgment of structural imposition that, again, is already acknowledged through terms and words like “gender essentialism” and “cissexism” and “bioessentialism”. and because those will never JUST include people of my exact gender identity there’s both an opportunity for venting and solidarity that i find far more viable.

[fox-mulder-gets-pegged]

Me when I see people reducing fictional women (especially woc and queer women) to The Bitch/The Mom/The Keeper Of The Braincell/The Reason Your Gay Ship Isn't Canon/The Sexy One/etc