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IDGAF WHAT THE GENDER MARKER IS ON THE BATHROOM AS LONG AS THIS GERARD WAY LOOKING MOTHERFUCKER DOESNT HEAR MY DIARHEA
#ibs posting#transgender#trans bathroom takes#gendered bathrooms#pointlessly gendered#IM CROSSDRESSING TODAY ANYWAY WHO GAF 🤷♂️
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my dads shitty fox news i walked in on was a trump woman announcing "one party knows what a woman is, and the other thinks men can get pregnant and we need tampons in boys bathrooms" but tell me more abt how im not a target of transphobia and i need to keep my mouth shut and know my place as a perpetual shield and uplifter of other trans voices due to my inherent male privledge and lack of ever being oppressed for my identity
#logan.txt#transandrophobia#ill put on my Girl Clothes and go to my teacher classes cuz i dont trust anyone to take me seriously as a trans teacher#but keep telling me im privledged i guess#what if the world was made of pudding#if its not obvious#the point of this post is not abt whether or not there should be tampons in the boys bathroom#its not abt menstrual products at all actually
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the transandrophobia discourse is fucking stupid and bigoted and the same old exclusionary hat we've seen over and over again
but what really gets me about it is how STUPID it is?? i mean, no, i haven't experienced EXACTLY what any other trans person has experienced, but the idea that trans men and women don't have BASICALLY the same experiences is insane. the differences between me and a trans woman are imo about the same as, say, a non-op and a post-op trans person. or a trans person deep in a red state and a trans person that lives in new york. honestly i think either of those differences actually matters MORE for shared experiences. i've spoken to lots of trans people of various gender configurations and SOMEHOW we all know wtf is going on with the others.
also im not going to argue about this if you think trans men are significantly privileged then just block me now man. and also get off the internet and interact with real society, which hates all of us pretty equally.
#disk horse /#like. i know trans men and women who have been hassled in bathrooms. who are afraid to go out in public.#who have dealt with the same dysphoria#anyway this post brought to you by the hot take 'binary trans men dont know what its like to be a woman'#which is one of the more insane things ive ever seen#we've BOTH crossed over that line. we've seen whats on either side of it.#thats literally what trans MEANS.#a trans man may not know SPECIFICALLY what you feel as a woman#but dear god we arent aliens we can fucking figure it out
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Would be a shame if someone was here 2 help get me off, a real real shame. Tragic even.
#whoops dont mind my scars theyre kinda js there#trans nsft#ftm nsft#queer nsft#nsft puppy#ftm ns/fw#ftm puppy#puppyposting#Yes I did take this in a bathroom it would be weird for me 2 be half naked any where else probably >^<#arent my thighs sosoo so cute#boytits#intox cnc#intox kink#knife k!nk#knifeplay
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I feel like... Perhaps... Arguing that transphobia is defined by murder and that anything other than murder doesn't even matter... May NOT be conducive to fighting for trans rights.
Like... people want the right to exist as they are. They want to have access to hrt and surgeries and prosthetics. People want access to clothes that fit them and reflect how they want to be seen. People want access to medical care (eg. Getting screened and treated for sex-based forms of cancer can be impossible if you have the "wrong" sex listed to receive those tests). People want to be respected and treated well. People want to not be sexually assaulted and beaten and abused. People want to have access to housing and jobs, and the protection to not lose those things for being trans. People want access to shelters for homeless people or survivors of domestic abuse. People want name changes.
Acting like all of those things don't matter because at least they weren't murderered by an individual (and instead die of suicide or state violence, or survive and suffer) isn't okay.
#'hey people are forcibly detransitioning you and raping and beating you and you lost your job and are going to be homeless and#probably die of infection from being stabbed for trying to go to the bathroom. but at least you arent part of a demographic that has a#higher murder victim rate! shhh just ignore that we dont actually have data on the murder rate of your group.'#do ppl like. forget state based violence exists. and that thats most violence minorities face.#idk man im just. mad about people on here acting like youre only oppressed if youre a perisex trans woman who was AMAB.#cause i exist at the intersection of multiple minorities and being told hey u experience violence but at least you wont be murdered by an#individual feels like a slap in the face.#like it doesnt matter if i have to mask my neurodivergent behaviour bc if people see they could assume im on drugs and call the police and#i could potentially be really hurt but not die but hey at least i wont die just be horrifically traumatized by police brutality!#there are millions of people with mental illnesses similar to my own around the world who are institutionalized and forcibly medicated or#living on the streets or dependant on horrifically abusive caregivers#but hey at least they arent being murdered!#like. the way the transphobia discussion on tumblr rn discusses (and doesnt discuss) race and ability and class and health makes me#feel very invisible.#like if people had to choose who to believe about my experiences between listening to me a black/mixed mentally ill maybe disabled (used to#be disabled) hella nd trans nonbinary person#or listen to a white middle class trans woman's take on my experiences that theyd choose her. its such a weird weird microcosm.#its like a monkeys paw like people are finally listening to trans fems and finally recognising the violence they experience and finally#actually caring about them but for some reason decide that in order to do that its necessary to throw every other minority under the bus#like fuck man have you seen how 'anti transandrophobia truthers' discuss race? its NOT okay#we all matter we all are so similar and are part of the same groups and same communities we need to stick together#stop using trans fems as a battering ram to hurt other minorities challenge#cause like. yes its some trans fems. but its mostly NOT?#like its non trans fems telling other non trans fems that they arent oppressed#and even when many trans fems are like what the fuck dude of course other trans ppl matter whats wrong with you#the group of like 80% non trans fems 20% trans fems are like 'hmm if you are defending other trans people you must not really be trans fem'#like. denying trans fems their identity bc they disagree with them?? dude someone doesnt stop being a trans fem cause they recognise#people other than trans fems matter and exist#its just all so WEIRD its a weird little tumblr microcosm#i wanna stress. for those of you who dont have access to other lgbtq+ communities. how much it seems to be primarily a tumblr thing. to
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THERE IS STILL TIME
feeling awful and dysphoric while i wait to hear back from healthcare people, but at least i have my Pink Opaque Goosebumps shirt 💕
#goosebumps#the pink opaque#idk if they were actually referencing dead house#but look at these fucking colors???#and obviously i had to take it in the bathroom#i saw the tv glow#isttvg#transgender#trans
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trying to get myself moving while last night’s rain patters out of the gutters
#this one may very well disappear with no warning I’m taking a big leap here#but I liked how the light looked on me#shoutout to the bathroom window#trans#transgender#t4t nsft#dykeposting#video#self#ignore my body actually crackling and popping if you can hear it
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jst woke up from YET ANOTHER transphobic south park dream and. what was that????? (it had kenny angst so im not complaining)
#it was like. the whole trans ppl in bathrooms debate#kenny was the pov character btw#anyway the girls said trans ppl should use whatever bathroom they please while kenny and cartman said nuh-uh#(the cissy inverted LMAO)#kenny was all triggered? for some reason??#he lied on the bathroom floor with cartman and ranted to him and fuck if my heart doesnt hurt bc i remember exactly how i/kenny felt#my son ;-;#cartman was like “use mysterion to change the girls' minds” (they didnt know he was mysterion btw)#and kenny not wanting to bc he deep down knew he was wrong AAAA MY BOY#anyway a girl asshole started recording their convo and taking pics and im not sure if i/kenny just hit her or killed her?? but desurv#then there was some weird trip shit idk unimportant crap#running from the cops blah blah blah XD#this was kenny angst it was more fun :3
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Great so now we're outing children/teenagers to their parents! And therefore possibly endangering them! Fantastic!
#kemi fucking badenoch#i genuinely cannot stand that woman#at a tory event one time she stuck 'male' and 'female' signs on the doors of gender neutral bathrooms#who fucking does that?#and who does this?? you are FORCING teachers to out their students#what if they hear by accident that a student's friends refer to them with different name/pronouns?#they have to report that home?#for some queer kids the ONLY place they can be themselves is at school with their friends (and even then it's limited)#and now kemi badenoch is taking that away as well#for FUCK'S sake#uk politics#trans rights#kemi badenoch#this is taken from a guardian article btw!!#sorry to be like#depressing on main lmao#but i can't rant abt this to my mum bc tbh she'd probably agree with badenoch#so tumblr it is#i am just#SO FRUSTRATED BY THE TORIES AND THEIR 'CuLtUrE wAr'#GROW TF UP AND GET SOME EMPATHY UGHHHHH#transphobia#tw transphobia
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There needs to be more events where wearing pants, a sick jacket, and no top is acceptable attire... The world is really missing out.
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#creatures features#people#posting pictures to stave off worsening the quivering sense of self-doubt that's been seeping in all day :)#i've been doing so well for so long.. but the last two days just.. little cracks in the armour y'know#i think i just need to take my shot#i was busy the day i was supposed to do it earlier in the week#but i'll be doing it tomorrow#so i should be fine then#get things back in balance#and also if i get some better sleep#that'll help i'm sure#gay boy#trans masc#and GOD i wish i had a better mirror than the ine in my bathroom to take pictures in#literally my place is so cute but i'm forced to use the only room with no natural light
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Perks of being disabled and multigender, theres almost always a bathroom available. Womens is engaged? Mens. Mens is engaged? Accessible? Accessible is engaged? Womens or mens. Its rare that all three are engaged so i always have a bathroom available to me.
I especially love when theres a gender neutral bathroom cause people are so scared of a trans person in the bathroom that theyd rather wait in a long line than just piss in the neutral bathroom. Theres a mall near me with a whole block of neutral bathrooms thats always empty even when both gendered bathrooms have lines out the door 🤷
#this is definitely tmi#but like#life hack#if your gender bathroom is engaged#just use the other one#become nonbinary/trans for the time it takes to do your biz#/hj#tmi
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#having now seen both a post going “im whatever gender has a shorter bathroom line” and a post going “anyone joking about that must be tme”#taking about how tme people must be so privileged to be able to use whatever bathroom they like#and how nobody who would make such a joke could possibly fear using the wrong bathroom in real life#im so sick and tired of this idea that “tme’s” (read— transmasc nb multigender and gender fluid ppl) don’t experience violence in bathrooms#and yes there ARE trans people who are capable of using one or more bathrooms completely safely and yes that IS a privilege#but whether or not someone can use a bathroom safely relies on SO many other factors than just tma or tme#race specifically is extremely relevant#and as someone who currently can use women’s bathrooms safely but WILL NOT BE ABLE TO IN THE FUTURE#because the danger increases as i become more androgynous and visibly trans#i fucking resent this pissing contest more and more#and while we’re on the topic its really weird to act like there aren’t trans women who are safe to use one restroom or another#either fully boymoding or fully transitioned and passing#like why are we having a genuinely useful conversation through this arbitrary lens#tma (cannot go to any bathroom safely) and tme (can go to one or more bathrooms safely)#its so fucking stupid
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when ppl are like "do u know ppl of x minority that ur still in contact with" as a gotcha ig to say ur not actually as open and progressive as you say you are but bud... i dont talk to anyone from my past, lmao, I dont think thats a fair metric to go by quite frankly
#no i dont talk to that person anymore. just like i dont talk to any of the privileged ppl i knew anymore either lmao#i kinda cut everyone off bc apparently ppl in my state just have a hard on for being judgemental assholes all the time and im tired of it#i thought maybe it was me but i hear from ppl who arent from here all the time that ppl are way more weird and cliquey here#and its hard to make friends so. i feel less bad now lmao.#i thought i was crazy but no im seeing reality perfectly clearly. ppl just are super cliquey here for no reason#and anyone who strays from the status quo in any capacity must be Shunned and Condemned for being Wiyuurrd#the more right leaning types dont try to hide it. but the progressive try to cloak their disgust and uncomfortability with people#being different with a bunch of excuses. literally making shit up about me to justify hating me so they can still feel progressive#while hating and making fun of me in an explicitly rw way#like. acting like kiwifarms people out here being fucking strategic n shit pretending to like me so they can make fun of me type shit like#you look like a nazi dawg lmao.#you make me feel like hanging out with my brothers friends- who definitely leaned a bit to the right- is more ideal bc at least they're#fucking out in the open and honest about making fun of me bc they think im weird. yall are too cowardly to just own up to it.#'n-no i swear its because he did [thing i either did but it didnt go down the way they said or something they made up]! i swear im not#just making shit up just to make fun of him !!!!!!! i promie!!!!'#i literally cut off all my hair bc of taking 'lsd' from those same brothers friends bc i went fucking crazy basically (trying to emphasize#how low the bar is that id rather hang out with these dudes than the more left leaning ppl i knew) and people assumed i did it bc some girl#who had or died of cancer that i never even fucking heard before??? like idk. ig they thought i was trying to be insulting or smthn????#i didnt even know who this chick was and it was my first time hearing about her when ppl told me someone spread that rumor.#bitch i was sitting in my bathroom for hours having weird discussions in myself and basically fighting between my real self#and what felt like an external force of all the judgements ppl have made about me manifest into one being (zero) trying to convince me#i couldnt be me and i felt like he possessed me to cut off all my hair and i heard him say 'THIS ISNT YOUR REAL HAIR!!!'#since it was dyed at the time and i was embracing being trans and embracing being my true self but something about that 'trip'#fucked me up and detrans and it had a lot to do w another trip i had w those same brothers friends making me feel inadequate.#i dont know who da fuck you were talking about bitch im living in a nightmare over here can we talk about that instead of whatever tf#you're going on about and making up to justify hating me and ignoring my suffering?
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the people who are afraid of trans people being in the bathroom with their children are definitely the people who are too lazy to keep an adequate eye on their kid in public places. be honest. you’re more afraid your little demon is going to violate a stranger’s privacy by crawling under the stall and then possibly, hypothetically, see a set of genitalia they’ve never seen before.
#I said before I’ve had many uncomfortable public restroom experiences due to children and none due to trans people#and somehow someone misinterpreted that as me saying kids shouldn’t be allowed in public bathrooms#I’m asking you to keep an eye on them for the 3 minutes it takes you to piss.#even if you have to hold their hand the entire time
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the cool thing about being a closeted trans woman is that you get to have a job where all your coworkers are cis men and hear them say the dumbest shit imaginable (derogatory)
#i love trying to take my break and having to listen to two old ass men talk about gendered sports and gendered bathrooms for 10 minutes#they're not even arguing#they have the same opinion they just keep repeating it#and transphobic dudes like this ALWAYS end up telling on themselves#they'll be like “okay.. so i can i go in the womens' restroom?”#every single fucking time#and it's like. idk man#i just don't think admitting to the same thing you're accusing trans women of doing is the slam dunk you think it is
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circles and circles
#[dykedreaming]#lesbian nsft#dyke nsft#butch nsft#🍃.post#t4t nsft#trans nsft#taking selfies to tease my wife in the bar bathroom ☺️🌸🍃
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