#tmi but oh well

[wakandamama]

If this is TMI, oh well, but y'all.

My sister forced me to get fitted for a bra yesterday cus my mama had breast cancer before and y'all......

I thought DDD was the highest rank... Fuck you mean I'm a damn J cup???

IM A DAMN J CUP

The lingerie store ladies giggled so much when I told them I was DD. That lil white girl brought out that measure tape and said J cup, 38.

I've been wearing size 48 band because I had NO IDEA to go up in the cup. I've been avoiding underwire for a DECADE cus it would cut into me so. Just to get this damn J CUP bra and never felt so lifted in my life, my shoulders have never been this stress free since I first got tiddies in the 5th grade.

[kxrandomness]

GoT/HotD AU: Changbin and his dragon, Vermithor

"I tried to make my way with my own hands. I could not protect you... And now… we would never want again. If I claimed a dragon..." - Hugh Hammer

(gifs source: daenerys-stormborn & hvitserkk)

[kirstythejetblackgoldfish]

When your younger sister played a Scooby-Doo ghost and really swooced right onto the stage

[kweza]

broke my 10+ years no puking streak 🥲

[mandalhoerian]

Wait what?? What surgery are you going to have? Are you okay?

thank you so much for your concern! gonna have gallbladder surgery. i've been having regular bi-monthly attacks since august, if you suffered from gallbladder stones you know how absolutely hell the pain attacks can be, i end up in the e.r. each and every time 😭 been also having problems with the healthcare system about finding appointments out there and two of the doctors i went to refused to treat me and stuff because of how small the hospital is, one of them misdiagnosed me etc etc that's how i lost so much time. the new hospital i went to thankfully is going to operate on me, i'm just waiting for the surgery date to be decided. they told me it could take like months, so im hoping it doesnt come to it. fingers crossed!

[letsgivethisonemoreshot]

Reblogging because I had this and the nurses in the labor and delivery unit in the hospital didn’t even know what it was when I told them I had it. And we had to do artificial insemination to get pregnant because I couldn’t even put a tampon in let alone have intercourse.

However I had a wonderful ob that was super comforting and helpful and gave me a few options to treat it. . (Although the babies heads kinda took care of that) And made sure that accommodations were made for me during labor. Most importantly she made me feel like I wasn’t some broken freak and it is a valid medical issue.

Bottom line; if you think something is wrong. Seek help. If you’re not satisfied, keep fighting for yourself until someone takes you seriously. ♥️

We all know what erectile dysfunction is but literally no one is ever taught what vaginismus is and it can cause people to feel extremely lost, broken, and cause people to take their own lives. Raise. Awareness.

[just-a-nomad]

i can't stop thinking about how badly i want to fuck this girl's ass

[theonlythingimfuckingisstupid]

Yes I can eat today but at what cost?

[electricswordfish]

i have such a bad dunkin addiction im taking money out of my rent savings for therapy tomorrow and so i can get a little treat today because i have a packed schedule this week and i feel like im going to work myself to the bone

[anotherboredfan]

my dad said he dreamt mine and my siblings' names up even before he met my mom. funny thing about that, my name coincidentally fits to serve as combination of his and my mom's name

[lazylittledragon]

ok i swear i'm not going to talk about my breakup forever but the thing that just keeps bothering me:

i know that not getting what you need in a relationship is a COMPLETELY valid reason to end it but also. i feel like having a very vulnerable moment where i opened up about my struggles with intimacy and being relieved that i didn't have to keep doing things i wasn't comfortable with, then being dumped a YEAR later because of my lack of intimacy. is something i should be allowed to be very hurt by???

[garvalhaminho]

actually the big difference between the carstairs and the herondales is NOT 🙅‍♀ that the herondales think to love is to destroy and the carstairs love until it detroys them, no, it is that the carstairs go from friends to kinda lovers to desperate to actual lovers and the herondales go from oh my god i secretly love you to situationship to i'd sacrifice everything i am to save you to oh my god i love you *biggest cartoon heart eyes you've ever seen*

[youremyonlyhope]

Living with Body Focused Repetitive Behaviors

Me: *Is super stressed over life.*

Trichotillomania: Time to pull some hair! C'mon. You won't even notice you're doing it. It'll make you feel better.

Me: NO. *Spends 4 days putting hair in a mini twist protective style* There.

Dermatillomania: Hey. Your hands are free. And restless. And dry... Pick your skin. Bleed. Bleed.

Me: Stop! *Starts up a new crochet project to keep hands busy.* Ok cool.

Onychophagia: Hi hi. Your nails are.... perfect biting length... you should do that.

Me: Noooooooooooo *Paints nails.*

Dermatillomania: Oh look, you got some nail polish on your skin. Pick it off... now pick some more...

Me: SDJAKFDSJFKLDKAFDJKLAFJDKSAKLFDASL

[romulusfuckingroy]

one thing that I don’t think the succession writers necessarily intended (ESPECIALLY jesse armstrong) but I’m forever grateful to them for is fully fleshing out Roman’s sexual dysfunction in the narrative.

like they could’ve just had it be a one- or two-off joke, or quietly let it go away in the background. this is how so many other works treat it when a (male) character has sexual hangups, can’t fuck, etc. but they didn’t. yes it gets played for laughs, and yes it’s not always the focus of his story, but it’s always an intrinsic part of his character, which is rarely done in shows and movies and almost never done well.

when Roman is trying to force himself to fuck Tabitha, when he can’t seem to get the setting and factors right to go through with it, I recognized it. when he admitted to Gerri that he knew he probably wouldn’t be able to fuck her, but he really just wanted to try, I felt it.

there are characters who aren’t interested in sex. there are characters with complicated relationships with sex. but this was one of the first characters I’ve seen that shows what it’s like to want sex but be unable to do it, or do it the way they want, or make their body cooperate, or get out of their own head. maybe I’m just clueless or overdramatic but I genuinely never considered that my complicated feelings about sex could ever be portrayed with the grace and sympathy that succession gives Roman (when they’re not dogging him for it. This is the familial abuse show after all).

anyway that’s just my two cents, as a similarly fucked up person when it comes to sex

[purgaytorysupremacy]

oh nuts. a life experience has given me a new layer of perspective on Cas's homosexual declaration of love to Dean.

recently I had occasion to tell a person I had feelings for them knowing full well they didn't feel even a twinge of the same thing for me. while the whole thing was a decidedly unpleasant experience, I kept laughing at myself internally bc I didn't want to say "the happiness is just in saying it" like fucking Castiel over here. (we don't need to talk about it, it's fine.) (I am happier having said it and it's kind of bullshit, but I digress.)

because the thing is, the happiness isn't in just saying it, right? the happiness is in the having. I made a whole TikTok "proving" that the Empty didn't come for Cas when he confessed his love, but rather when he realized Dean loved him back. even for Cas, the happiness was in the having, not in the saying, however brief it was.

and I've always been one of those people who rolled their eyes at the whole concept. why would the happiness be in just being, in just saying it, if it's right there in front of you to have. and then it hit me like a tonne of bricks (as I was washing my kitchen counters).

Cas really didn't think he could have Dean.

at all. in any capacity. he really, truly, and honestly felt to the depths of himself that Dean did not have any twinge of similar feelings, that this really was a Hail Mary shot-in-the-dark. and I think me, personally, really didn't understand that about Cas. that his belief in his love being unrequited was that unshakable.

something else I've been pondering is how audiences have so much more empathy for fictional characters who share traits that IRL they find objectionable and unappealing. but the thing is about fictional characters is that we follow them around in their most private, vulnerable moments. we see Dean mourning Cas when he dies, literally killing himself because he can't live without him, but it's so easy to forget that we're the omniscient ones here.

Cas never knew.

Dean's whole thing was pushing him away, keeping him at arm's length, making it seem like whatever heroic thing he does for Cas he'd do for anyone. he downplays how important it is for Dean to share the Deancave with him, to show him his favourite movies, share his favourite songs. he acts like the things Cas does for him don't mean that much to hide how much they do mean. he uses "we" whenever he even gets in the vicinity of expressing a feeling. "We were worried." "We're glad you're back." "We needed a win." "You're our brother." The audience knew the difference. We saw how he'd clench his jaw or swallow hard or make a face that said "God, I'm being such an idiot". Because we saw him in those little moments. We got to see the cracks in the mask.

but Cas never knew.

the self-hating angel of Thursday was never going to think it was all a way for Dean to protect himself. obviously, that's the delicious tragedy of it all, but what I think I realized at the end of all that is Cas confessing his love to a Dean who didn't love him back wouldn't have worked. Because the happiness really is in the having. If happiness was just in saying it, then The Empty would have come before Cas even finished getting the words out of his mouth.

so Cas's plan wouldn't have worked if Dean didn't love him back.

this is just me yapping on about my own nonsense, but I do think it's really interesting. there's contentment in "just saying it". there's freedom and relief and an unburdening. I think one can argue that it makes being happy in the being easier. there is certainly some joy in telling a person you think that highly of them. but true happiness?

nah.

true happiness is always going to only be in the having. Cas didn't understand the difference until he experienced it, and by then, it was too late.

[secret-agent-of-bullshitery]

I'm afraid we've exhausted all possibilities for this conversation if y'all can't understand the fact that two men or two women can love each other, like shut your 'they're just friends' or 'nowadays men can't be friends with men' ass up. Ain't nobody give a shit, two men can LOVE each other, they can be in love just as two women can, just cause y'all lack the ability to understand doesn't make it less true. Y'all simply don't understand the complexity of relationships and it shows, i am so fed up spending everyday of my life arguing with the human versions of a headache, get a new hobby that doesn't involve tearing down people.