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macaronirats · 2 months ago

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Happy danger days birthday

#danger days to me holds so much anger and grief #just as much as tbp imo #not just because of what was happening in the band at the time but #especially because it was supposed to be a happy + hopeful album #but Gerard relapsing and the tensions in the band at the time made it miserable #the album definitely has a positive message and the spirit of fun continues #but I can’t help but feel a lil sad listening to it #mcr #my chemical romance #gerard way #frank iero #my chem #mikey way #ray toro #mcr fanart #danger days fanart #danger days the true lives of the fabulous killjoys #my art

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weaselmcdiesel · 9 months ago

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Do You Love The Color Of The 413?

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soyochii · 1 year ago

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Failed attempt to give Megumi a normal hairstyle 😭✌️

#jjk #jujutsu kaisen #megumi fushiguro #yuji itadori #nobara kugisaki #my art #nobara and yuji are actually gonna be fighting mahoraga 🪦🪦#believe it or not this was supposed to be a birthday illustration for megumi #but im fashionably late 😔😔😔#i love the trio's dynamic its so fun #Anyway its the 24th for me rn so happy /satosugu day to those who celebrate 😭😭😭

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biggest-gaudiest-patronuses · 1 year ago

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anyone else have multiple traumatic memories associated specifically with holidays/family vacations? because that is a topic I never see discussed in all the So You Had A Shitty Childhood, Now What? self-help books i've been reading. but for me, it was a significant thing. and the more i think about it the more it seems like this would be an (unfortunately) common experience. would be grateful to hear if this matches other peoples' experiences...

#not a shitpost #serious post #ask to tag #tw trauma #cptsd #c-ptsd #and if so we should TALK about it #because it means there are a whole group of survivors out there whose mental health regularly worsens during holidays #like i know i am most certainly not the only person who feels an undefined Dread hanging over christmas/my birthday/july 4 etc #bc too many shitty things happened during those times and now my brain is hypervigilant bc traditionally these are the Danger Times #and this seems like it would be particularly common for survivors of abusive/dysfunctional households (aka most people with c-ptsd)#because holidays/vacations typically mean 1) the whole family is together/being forced to interact #2) and undergoing external stressors e.g. travel/relatives aka 'outsiders' visiting/routines & coping mechanisms being interrupted etc #3) there is social pressure for this to be a Fun Family Bonding Experience which only highlights the cracks in the foundation #and exposes the common Everything Is Fine/We Are A Happy Family lie #4) the cognitive dissonance of feeling tired/anxious/stressed/afraid during a time when you are 'supposed' to be Making Good Memories #and then everyone is angry/tired/anxious/triggered and things boil over and something or someone goes Very Wrong #weird that i'm posting this in october when halloween is...sort of the ONLY holiday i have only good and happy feelings towards #i got lucky there #also i have positive feelings towards Labor Day but that's for socialist reasons

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critterbitter · 1 year ago

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Introducing! ELESA, the new kid on the block! She's a tiny bedraggled child from Sinnoh and not all that familiar with Galarian, the spoken language in Unova. (One day she'll be amazing. Right now though, she just wants to go play in the mud. And maybe get a better set of hearing aids.)

When not bitterly lonely, she’s scheming to run back to her old home. Or chasing the local patrat. Or watching nervously from the sidelines as other children play on the swings. Oh elesa. (loosely inspired by @/noxstrages' incredible comics about elesa's origins! Ty for the food.)

Masterpost to my submas comics!