#this isnt meant to be disrespectful to anyone

[rene-darling]

here me out on this, afab Scara, reader eating him out while praying, since you mentioned in your 'how easy to bed each of the scara eras' that he likes being worshipped I think it'd be pretty interesting.

TO- be worshipped is to be loved.

...you pray daily, without fail you pray to your god, in a place..made best for prayer...credits [Oishru] on X

Hinted AFAB scaramouche though it's not clearly described, gn neutral reader, as reader's gender is not hinted to! Though if you squint its kinda hinted to the fact that the reader is in the church very often

So it can be perceived as nun!reader, but you can also take it as priest!reader

...scaramouche...

Wanderer wouldn't like to be worshipped as much as his past self, scaramouche would.

He finds it embarrassing to part his legs for you; in order for him to feel worshipped, he needs to feel above you, at least in the beginning. His back is cushioned by soft pillows as he tugs in your hair trying to ground himself in some way,

Tugging fists fulls he can't decide whether to pull you into the heat spreading through him or to push you away, it's too much!

And your soft, ever so sweet words- a contrast to your harsh tongue which eats him raw, a contrast to even his own harsh grip. But you never say anything. You don't complain about the scratch marks or the fist full of your hair that he pulls out

Nor about the blood that seeps from any part of you that he holds on to, his grip is never yielding, afraid that if he lets go, you'll go too.

But those thoughts get buried the longer the night goes on, spasms of his body shaking at every touch every lick every tug. His body presses against the statue of the archon, the stone carved to perfection. His gaze sometimes moved behind you to the church doors wondering what the nuns would think of the sacrilegious scene before them.

Tears as he listens to your murmur your face burned deep within him sending vibrations up his spine. Murmurs, more like prayers. The ones which would be considered holy, and innocent if not for where and how you were exactly praying.

His head rocked back and forth as if nodding in agreement to whatever you said, as if he himself would make it come true. Squirting onto your face as you drank him up like holy water,

You'll look up every once in a while, mouth dripping as you would ask him to fulfil your prayers "if- hah, if you bring me pleasure- then- I'll accept whatever prayer you wish for- AH-"

He's never felt this high, this above. Here you are at a place of worship- worshipping him. Your archon, your god. The one that he couldn't be.

Sweet slick drips down the hard stone of the statue as his legs are spread on top of either side of your shoulder. "Wh- ah mhm- am- I- I" barely a whisper, but you hear every oracle from your dear, "my archon." And with a pop of your lips as you let go of the meal that you were latched onto "my god."

That alone brings him over the edge, body slumping against the stone as tears fall like endless waterfalls. Yours, that's what he is.

[llondonfog]

No pls 😭 i hate the idea that raising Silver was a fun experiment out of curiosity to see if he could love a human or not, and that the answer still isnt clear. I hate the idea of Silver, the son of their enemy, being raised to be nothing but a soldier to serve Malleus in some poetic irony. I feel there’s love there but I’ve almost been transported into Silver’s mind where everything is melancholy and unclear. Does he matter as much as I believe he does 😭😭😭 or is it just a cruel tale of some foundling human always meant to be put somewhere else when the fairies are done with them

The thing is, is Silver capable of accepting the fact that Lilia's happiest moment is Malleus' hatching? Yeah, of course, who wouldn't. The man suffered for years, absolutely driven mad with guilt over Meleanor's death and the fear that he wouldn't be able to keep his promise and hatch the one thing that remained of her, the proof of her existence and love. He had to hatch Malleus, because Meleanor believed that he could, that he somehow carried enough love in those tired, aching, and emptied bones, a love that she saw in him when he couldn't even believe it of himself. If he couldn't, it would be one more insult to her name, a failure yet again, a last betrayal of her trust that he couldn't afford and wouldn't survive.

So that weeping? He's so damn dizzy with relief and love and affection for this silly creature inside that's a symbol of the love of the most important people in his life, how could one react in any other way? How fragile and vulnerable, to know that the happiest moment in Lilia's life is to realize after hundreds of years, he was capable of that love all along.

And Silver sees this— he sees the lengths that Lilia went to in order to hatch Malleus, the horrible abuse he stoically suffered from the Senate, the massive disrespect for all that he had lost and sacrificed. Of course he'd accept that this is Lilia's pivotal moment, the bittersweet reward for centuries of despair.

But on the other hand, Silver; a boy who has lost equally, if not more. He's been cast out of his own time, four hundred years into the future, where everyone and anyone who might have known him or his family (save for Lilia) has been long since dead, the kingdom he might have ruled long crumbled to dust. Is it even a footnote in the history textbook he reads? Is there any mention of the Knight of Dawn, of Princess Leia? Anything at all besides the ring in his hand and Lilia's memories to prove that they existed, that they were real, that they loved and wanted him as much as Meleanor had loved Malleus?

All he has, all he's known, is Lilia. Lilia, who found him, who woke him from the spell as the one fated to truly love him. Lilia who thought of killing him upon learning who had sired him, Lilia who raised him to be a guard, to serve those his father once stood against. Lilia who wondered if he could ever love a human, a question that I agree hasn't fully been answered (or acknowledged by Lilia himself) if we are to associate the fact Silver still bears the effects of the sleeping curse with the belief that either Lilia hasn't called him his son and confessed his love, or if Silver still struggles with self-love himself (and we can get into a whole debate over his self-worth and his view as a sacrificial tool, that's an endless discussion).

Lilia . . . whose happiest moment has nothing to do with the boy who calls himself Lilia's one and only son.

And regardless of how I fully understand why Malleus' hatching is that moment, it's still so fucking sad to me.

Your whole life is centered around this one person whom you love more than anyone else— your short, human life— and in reality, you didn't even feature in that person's dream. We only saw Silver's past due to the blot, memories that were completely out of order and not in sync with Lilia's true dream at all.

And Silver will never harbor resentment over this, he will always place his family and loved ones first, but damn it, I can be a little miserable about it. All that trauma we went through with the last update, and now we learn that finding Silver and learning to love the son of his greatest enemy (the son of the person that killed Meleanor!) wasn't Lilia's happiest moment?

Was it just for the poetic irony? I really hope not. I really hope that TWST gives the conversation that Lilia and Silver need to have the due gravity it deserves, because Lilia needs, whether Silver realizes it or not, to look that boy in the eye and tell him that he loves him, he's always been his son, and no matter what their pasts may show, he's been Silver Vanrouge all along.

[yakichoufd]

im really sorry people are being so rude to you over a ship! just want to send some positivity as i love your art and all your ships, and I hope people stop being so disrespectful instead of just finding wade/logan elsewhere (theres so much of it right now too! its not at all hard to find).

i support you closing asks if you have to, dealing with nastiness must take a toll on you and it isnt fair you have to deal with that on your own blog.

(sorry if this is worded badly, im terrible with wording things)

Thank you for your sweet message, dear Anon! I closed my asks for now, I do not know when I will re-open them. Maybe once the Deadpool/Wolverine fever will calm down for a bit. Plus there are still asks I meant to answer, but they are from 6 months ago....whoops. I agree poolverine fanarts are super easy to find right now. It is wonderful for anyone who ship them! I am tired of people getting mad at content they don't get from me or other creators. Instead of enjoying what we create and we share, they have to act like horrible spoiled whining kids. If you really want something, either commission a person you enjoy their work (if their commission are open and if your idea fits their TOS) or create the content you want to see!!! That's what I do!!! I create what I want to see. I am pretty sure that's how all of us proceed when we create a fanart, a fanfiction, a fan video etc... We created it because we wanted to see it. Anyone can do it. It is a matter of how much time and energy you are wiling to put into it. If you can not, then do not complain when others are sharing things they create in their own time for themselves. Sorry if my wording is all messed up. I am tired and english is not my mother tongue (plys my dyslexia sucks hard when i am tired haha)

[turtblurts-pkmnirl-hub]

okay. ive been trying not to let this anon get to me all that much today. keyword trying. but like. yknow. it really does feel like a slap to the face to watch what this anon said get reinforced in real time. the minute that i had z make a silly post offhandedly i got SO many more anons suddenly flood my inbox in a single instant than jaime had gotten in the entire day.

and like. i get it. z is interesting and she's a major source of information as to the offscreen ongoings of the other characrters! i get wanting to get all the juicy details from her whenever she's around.

but i think she's spoiled yall a lil too much.

its one thing to have a preference towards a specific character(s) and want to interact and ask questions about them! and i get not wanting to have to follow like several other blogs connected to them just to get the full story! thats whatever! i can understand that!

but its another thing entirely to not only come to someone's inbox and say TO THEIR FACE that you dont care about their character or their friends' characters, but to say that you follow one of their blogs and ACTIVELY BLOCK THE TAG OF THE CHARACTER THAT OWNS THE FUCKING BLOG just so that you can see what kinda shit z's talking abt.

what the fuck is up with that. why would say that to me. why would you say that to ANYONE.

thats such a slap to the fucking face. its disrespectful to me, to my friends, and to all of the time and effort we all put into all these characters that we roleplay FOR FUN.

ALSO HOLD ON IM JUST REMEMBERING THIS IS NOT THE FIRST TIME THIS HAS HAPPENED FOR US.

THIS EXACT THING HAPPENED WITH THE FRUITBASKET-GOSSIP BLOG AS WELL. THIS WAS SUCH A SLAP TO THE FUCKING FACE FOR ALL OF US, ESPECIALLY @/grims-local-pkmn-irl-hub AND @/cassi-pokeblogging-hub WHO PLAYED HONDEW AND STARF RESPECTIVELY. AND TBH THIS ANON WAS A LEGITIMATE MOTIVATION KILLER FOR THEM.

i dont care if this was meant to be in-character anon hate. this isnt good anon hate. this is just a shit thing to say period.

tld-fucking-r; if you are going to follow a roleplay account, respect the blogrunners and the characters that they play. dont say this shit to anyone. we're here to have fun, we're not obligated to do anything for you.

[luvmyoui]

four - why?

previous masterlist next

gp!myoui mina x fem!reader

warnings: toxic relationship, cursing, infidelity, sexism, pregnancy, teacher x student thing (v brief), mentions of sex, tell me if there's anything else!

word count: 2,313

a/n: PLEASE tell me m if this is going too fast, i feel like it is but i need an opinion frm someone reading it, bcz i have a faint idea but i think im going too fast yk?

before mina’s birth, due to the ultrasound pictures, mina was thought to be a boy. unlike most intersex girls, there was nothing unusual about her anatomy. when mina was born, she was recognized as a male and grew up being treated as one. mina wasn't always as bad as she grew up to be, in fact it wasn't until she started spending more time with her grandparents that her view on others changed. 

mina’s grandparents were very old fashioned, they had strong beliefs and they tried their best to instill them in mina. due to the time spent with her grandparents mina eventually started acting the way they did and started to believe the same things as them. they believed that women were meant to stay home and take care of the children while her husband provided for her. their beliefs were passed down to mina who was the sole heir of the family, having had no cousins or siblings. 

7th grade, that's around the time where most hit puberty. the same was for mina, when she turned 12 she finally hit puberty, but it didn't go exactly as expected. 

“dad, my chest keeps getting fatter but i'm not fat, it’s like i'm growing boobs!” mina exclaimed to her father, she had never been more confused. what was going on?

the thought of mina being intersex had never crossed her fathers mind before the day this happened. It also could have been just the hormones from mina hitting puberty which was causing her to grow breast tissue. due to the fact that there could be 2 explanations to this mina’s father saw it best to have her tested. It may have just been her hormones, but just to be safe he decided to get her tested. 

when the results came back it was uncovered that mina indeed was intersex. this information came as a shock to everyone in the myoui family, especially mina. 

“does that mean my dick will fall off?! am i gonna become a girl?!” was what mina first said when she was told that she was indeed intersex and she was growing breasts. 

“listen kiddo, your penis isnt gonna fall off. and technically you are a girl, but that won't change anything. you're still you.” mina’s father replied, trying to comfort her. 

due to how many changes mina was going through because of her gender identity her parents decided to move to a new city to allow mina a fresh start. in mina’s new school she presented herself as a female saying that she didn't want to be trans and she would stick to the gender she looked like. 

mina had never experienced something like changing schools, she didn't know anyone there.  people had tried to bully her, tried to insult her. but it had always backfired, mina would never allow any disrespect towards her. especially from someone below her. mina often got into trouble, but her parents always bought their way out of it. 

mina always seemed to be stirring up trouble at school, her parents figured it was because she didn't have anything else to do. due to this thought they put her in boxing, she seemed to like starting fights so maybe boxing would work as an outlet for her anger instead of her classmates. when proposing the idea, mina was ecstatic, she could now learn new ways to beat up the kids in her school.

despite her hard and mean demeanor, mina fairly quickly rose to be the most popular in her school. It had always been like that, mina being the most popular and sought out student by others. being the most popular girl in her school and the prettiest, she had many admirers, majority of them being males. her many male suitors quickly diminished though, when she was caught in the boys locker room comparing sizes with the quarterback. 

ever since that day it was made known to everyone that mina had a dick, and a big one at that. 

mina’s popularity wasn't just among her peers, mina was also quite popular among the teachers. she always turned her work in on time and was constantly participating during class. not only was she an exceptional student, but the money her teachers were gifted during teacher appreciation week made them like her all the more. for this reason whenever mina would get into trouble with other students the teachers would often turn a blind eye or take mina’s side. along with being arguably the most favored student, there were many rumors that she was favored in other ways too. 

“hey mina, you know the new teacher, the hot one?” shawn asked, the quarterback of the football team and mina's best friend. 

“yeah, i have her for history, why?” 

“you’re always talking about how you can pull any girl in the school, so i dare you to fuck her and record it.” shawn said to mina and her eyes widened in shock, this was only their sophomore year. how early did he want her kicked out? 

“fuck, okay. by next month ill get you a video of that bitch sucking my dick.” mina responded, she would never turn down a dare, especially one that included fucking someone. 

and true to her word by the next month she had sent a video into the group chat with all her friends of the said teacher on her knees sucking minas cock. It made sense to them that the teacher would sleep with mina but to let her record it? everyone was baffled at how she did it. In response mina just said that the teacher obviously didn't know she was being recorded. the video for obvious reasons didn't make it out of the group chat but it did cause many unconfirmed rumors amongst the students. 

although mina was known for fucking around, and never taking anyone seriously, that all changed when she met y/n. y/n was different, her beauty was on another level. The moment mina laid eyes on y/n she knew she was done for. that was the moment her reputation changed from fuckboy to lovergirl. she pursued y/n for months before she was given a chance but even while pursuing y/n there was nothing more that mina would want to do. y/n was it for her, she knew she wanted forever with y/n. 

mina had never acted this way, she would skip out on parties to spend time chasing after y/n. she refused all advances from other girls saying she was taken, it might not have been official but the moment mina saw y/n she was taken. It wasn't like you were a nobody either, everyone knew the y/n l/n you were only second to mina in popularity. mina for some reason had never noticed you, too focused on her own life; she never knew of your existence until she saw you laughing with your friends at a party. 

dating someone like mina wasn't always the easiest thing, mina had this huge superiority complex. your relationship with her was always you compromising on things. she acted as if she owned you, you weren't allowed to have any male friends, but she was allowed to be friends with anyone. 

mina would never tell you, but she liked the power trip she got whenever she was with you. you were the perfect girlfriend, you never complained, and you always did what she said. mina never wanted to lose you, no matter how it seemed or how she treated you she knew that she’d never find someone like you. 

when you had first told her you were pregnant mina couldn't believe it, it was like a dream. she had always wanted kids, especially with you. You were her girl and you were gonna have her baby. she honestly had no bad intentions, she always loved kids, having a son was always something she wanted.

the day she was told you were pregnant she called her grandparents, they were in japan so she couldn't personally meet them but she wanted their advice. the one person mina respected the most was her grandfather, and now that she was going to have a kid she wanted his advice. her grandfather told her that she should treat her girlfriend exceptionally because she was carrying the next generation. he told her that having a son was the best gift she could be blessed with. 

with her new found advice and information mina tried her hardest to be an amazing girlfriend to y/n. she obviously wouldn’t lie and say she enjoyed staying up at night while y/n cried and vomited but she still loved y/n and her child on the way. sometimes she would question herself and why she was even doing all this, why she was missing out on sleep for this stupid reason. y/n could do this herself, why did she always insist on mina staying up with her. mina never voiced these thoughts but they stayed on her mind.

mina felt so accomplished when she found out that she had in fact gotten y/n pregnant, and not only that, y/n was also going to keep the baby. all of her friends were surprised when she told them and didn't believe that mina had in fact knocked up the y/n l/n. y/n was known for her reputation of being a virgin and never getting intimate with anyone, much less getting pregnant. 

when the baby was born and the gender was seen to be a girl, mina was incredibly disappointed. she knew that y/n could have another baby but mina knew y/n would never agree to it. she resented y/n, it wasn't the child's fault for being born the way she was, it was y/n’s fault. deep down mina knew that no one was to blame but she could help but need someone to blame. 

maybe that's what led her to seek comfort in the arms of another, y/n’s body wasn't as desirable as it used to be. you had gained weight due to the pregnancy and mina hated that, she would often make comments on your body and weight in hopes that you would change it. the change was taking too long and mina was getting tired of waiting. she had needs and if you couldn't fulfill them she would have to find others to. 

mina tried to tell herself that it was you who made her do this, it was you who forced her into doing this. she left the home when you were sleeping and left to go to a party, ‘this is y/n’s fault, it’s on y/n’ is what she’d repeat to herself. she found someone pretty in no time, and she dragged them up to one of the rooms not letting her lips leave their skin. 

as she fucked the other girl all she could think of was you, the way your eyes squinted as you laughed, the smell of you, the way you said her name. she couldn't do this. mina didn't realize it, but the tears were pouring out of her eyes and onto the back of the girl under her. she never hated herself more, she wanted to throw up. She hadn’t drank anything, but she felt sick to her stomach. she pulled out and pulled up her pants, the other girl was confused and as she went to ask mina what happened mina left. 

she went back to her shared apartment with you and showered, she needed to wash it off, she felt disgusted with herself. how could she have done this, she sat in under the shower crying to herself. she hated herself for what she had done, she never thought of herself as cruel but there was no other word to use for her actions other than cruel. 

her skin was all pruned up by the time she exited the shower, she laid behind you in bed crying quietly into your shoulder. feeling the wetness on your shoulder you slowly stirred awake and turned around to see mina crying. she refused to tell you what upset her but she kept repeating ‘i love you’ and ‘i'm sorry’. you had no idea why she was saying this but you just wrapped your hands around her as she buried her face in your neck. 

after that day mina changed, it was a confusing change, and it led you to believe that mina was now cheating on you. after that day mina started acting more distant. you didn't know what happened but you could smell perfume that wasn't yours on her clothes when you washed them. mina was confused, maybe if mina was a different person she would've found herself wrong and changed. but in the end mina was still mina and she kept the thought that you made her do it in her head. the cheating stopped, but the way she treated you stayed the same. 

the thought that mina was mistreating you never crossed her mind once, you were made to take care of children, to cook, and to clean. her telling you to do this was the bare minimum, in mina’s eyes she treated you amazingly. 

mina never treated you badly, she loved you so much and she would never mistreat a loved one. her wanting to become an idol shouldn't have been a surprise for you and you should have supported her. she was the victim in this situation. maybe she wasn't as present in her child's life as she should've been, but if that really bothered you then it was your fault for not saying anything. 

If mina really hadn't done anything wrong then why did she feel so empty as she boarded the plane to korea only accompanied by your words. 

a/n: lets ignore that mina never had a boy name and all the other things that don't make sense🤗🤗 also im sorry if this is bad i didn't know what to write😭😭

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[furballfaggot]

I’m gonna gp mental woth this situation GIVE ME LIFE MY SAVIOR JESUS

funny thing i was just typing up some clarifications in your askbox lol

not sure about what adoraboys pronouns are so im gonna use hy/hyr since ive seen those used for hyr before but hi, some things:

transfemmasc's original coiner specified that it wasnt an intersex-exclusive term; the dsm-5 is notoriously flawed, biased, and sometimes just straight wrong so the reliance of p1 and p2 on it just to punch down is comically ableist

the "nsfw terms" are used in porn but arent inherently pornographic and hy didnt know their origins at the time

syscourse is fucking stupid

hy removed the closeted surname from hyr list a few days after adding it because hy figured it was disrespectful as a white person to use it

pro-para does not inherently mean pro-pedo/zoo/etc, especially when paired with anti-contact. there are so many non-harmful paraphilias in the world and on the web so immediately assuming anyone saying theyre pro-para is advocating for pedophilia and rape is shortsighted and unfair. i have very strong opinions on this point as someone whos also pro consensual paraphilia

adoraboy-hate-club is inciting harassment towards hyr and trying to cover with "well its not MEANT to do that!!!!!" despite the fact theyre explicitly doing that themselves

all of this could have been solved privately and any claims that there were attempts made are untrue

adoraboy-hate-club is now sending anons to any mutuals or supporters trying to get them to distance themselves from hyr even if their only involvement is hearing about it from mutuals and having any stance that isnt Strongly Anti Adoraboy

this isnt anywhere NEAR all of it but hy has an apology and explanation on hyr blog as hyr pinned post. tldr its wildly misinformative bullshit that could have easily been settled with a series of dms

[k4txlulzz]

i don't know if this is a hot take but i don't think the mystic messenger webtoon and its mc hana deserve the amount of hate they are getting

doesn't mean the manhwa isnt flawed, but it was rushed for a reason ! but if the fandom wasn't so disrespectful to the artist, she wouldn't feel the need to end it off too soon.

moreover, hana is not nearly as bad as people make her seem😭she doesn't lead anyone on, the webtoon is meant to portray that she harbors a slight crush on each member because the manhwa is based off of an otome game with more than one love interest ;w; she's relatable and fun, has great chemistry with everyone and especially seven

she's also pretty and her design is nice too ... i have no idea why ppl hate her lol she's a sweetie

im the biggest hana and mysme webtoon in general defender💪🏼

[aita-blorbos]

my friends directed me to this blog to see what people would think about my situation. theyre fully supportive, but wanna see what tumblr thinks, i guess.

aita for killing the person who murdered my family, and then killing my rich abusive adoptive father?

hi. im like, 19. or 20. i lost count. i dont care about gender, but i guess im male and use he/him. anyway. when i was around 10, there was a break and enter into my house. we were getting robbed. the robber killed my mom and dad, while i snuck into the kitchen do grab a kitchen knife. i stabbed him in the back and took his gun while he was stunned. i was scared to use it, so instead i just kept stabbing him until he stopped breathing. great childhood, i know.

anyway, after that, i was all alone. i didnt know where my brother went, and my parents were dead. we didnt really have an extensive family, so there were no funerals, and there was no one to take care of me. so for a while i just roamed the streets. some random guy saw me, and seeing a kid covered in blood probably isnt the most normal thing, so he ran up to ask if i was ok. he brought me to an orphanage, where i stayed for a while. eventually, my second "dad" (i dont even want to call him that. hes a disgrace compared to my real father, even calling him a parent feels disrespectful) came to the orphanage to adopt a kid. said kid was me. i was happy, cause id finally have a home again, and he was rich! i would be spoiled, and given a wonderful life for the trauma i had to go through.

i was wrong, though. the guy who adopted me was a prick. he was a rich scumbag who only thought about others if it meant he could say bad things about them. he was negligent, and would sometimes hit me. he got drunk all the time, and usually i was left alone in his huge house, only having the occasional housemaid to care for me. whenever i see pictures of the interiors of huge houses or mansions it gives me chills. anyway, after all this bullshit, i finally thought enough was enough. i still carried a few knives on me ever since the incident, in case something bad happened again. at night when no one except the two of us were in the house, i stabbed him in the heart while he was sleeping. i took all his money, and figured if worst comes to worst, i could pay my way out of being punished for murder. fortunately, that wasnt even necessary. when i called 911 pretending like i had no idea what happened, none of the officers even touched me. no one had a clue i had the weapon. it was eventually ruled down to a robber that got away, ironically enough.

after all this, i inherited all of his shit. all the money, the whole house, and all his stupid rich guy bullshit (think yachts, fancy cars). it was all mine. i turned the house into a housing unit, letting anyone who wanted to to live in it (like the homeless or people who needed to get away from an abusive household), given how huge it was. seriously, it felt like a palace in a disney movie. i sold all the shit he had that i didnt care about, or gave it away for free to others. i donate frequently to charity. i make sure i dont keep too much money for myself at a time, and i dont buy stupid things that i dont actually need. i dont want to become like him.

alright, so heres the final question. i know some people think murder is unacceptable, no matter how evil the victim is, that my parents may be watching me from the stars with hatred, and that rich peolle are assholes. but im trying my best to be a good person.

am i the asshole?

[portgas-d-rouge]

I do think we can have an indepth conversation about the transphobia of fandom spaces esp at the time of the theory becoming well known and the lingo not evolving with the new day. I see plenty of people tag crocodad and some tag both crocodad and crocomom just to reach the widest possible audience. I follow both tags to get the most content for it. I think it's less about transphobia rn and more about the fact that it's ingrained in the fandom

hmmmm the thing is i also think prioritizing popularity over praxis sucks. like you cultivate your audience... why are you appealing to that sort of person?

my point is that it being ingrained in fandom is transphobia itself. i dont think most ppl are trying to be malicious, but at some point you need to be the change you want to see in the world. by choosing to appeal to the status quo, you end up alienating those that are hurt by it. like its not a neutral "everyone wins" sort of thing. if yr tagging it with "crocmom" to challenge that idea and introduce ppl to transinclusive language thatd be cool - but i dont really see that happening.

i want to clarify that i dont think its totally off limits. like, i made art with a joke about dragon getting misgendered. but the point of it was, garp is an idiot and an asshole, and meant to relate to the experience of having a "well meaning" cis parent that still disrespects you. dragon's transness isnt the joke, garp's cisgender hypocrisy is. and i did tag it so ppl can filter it out if they need to. but like *gestures* clarity of purpose, centering trans experience. and even then, if i was cis idk if it would be okay to make that joke even if i had good intentions.

ultimately like, i cant stop anyone. i dont think it makes someone irredeemably bigoted or anything like that. i just find the general trend frustrating and a little hurtful.

[sassykinzonline]

ok so realistically, or not realistically, thoughts on Boruto? Thoughts on the whole family thing, Naruto being the hokage, would you change anything? Thoughts on other parings? Like, narusaku, sasuhina, sasusaku, narhina, gaanaru, etc. I’m having a brain riot and need opinions😭

boruto:

i feel like it wasnt really necessary to have bio kids be the lead of the anime especially if they were just going to rehash dynamics that already happened but het. based on the newest chapter, i have to say i wish they would stop hetconning things. naruto being hokage is whatever since im sure its what the audience was waiting for but in the manga they dont just have the older gen ninja just get trapped or killed, theyre off doing their own thing or dealing with subplots or whatever. i think the recent ninja storm game handles this way better than the manga and anime do. i think you can tell kishi isnt interested in this based on how lazy a lot of the storytelling choices are. he almost had something interesting going on with kawaki but then it just kinda went off the rails. so what would i change? i would just scrap the whole thing and approach it completely differently. im not even sure i would use kids given they had a real opportunity to make it more adult, kinda like the way atla transitioned into lok.

other pairings:

i pretty much hate the majority of ships ive come across, not gonna lie. i mean i dont judge anyone for coming up with them, thats their right but i just dont get the logic behind them. particularly certain ships like sasuhina would require both of us to be completely different people for it to work, but ultimately if people want to explore dynamics that way i dont care. if i look at certain ships as people are without their fundamental traits changing then...

narusaku - this is toxic because sakura doesnt respect naruto at all. she never will because shes always seen him as a nuisance. their relationship would be her "settling" for him given his newfound status as a hero and the fame and attention she would get from that, but behind closed doors she'd probably belittle him a lot. naruto would put up with it because he doesnt have a backbone /hj.

naruhina - i mean i think hinata's a nice enough person but they have no chemistry and she also just wants/needs things from naruto so its not healthy for him again. naruto should be with someone who can protect him, and who can fight for him (like me).

gaanaru - .........................begrudgingly gaara does fit the condition i mentioned above but i feel that politically they would be a bit at odds and gaara cant fully understand naruto. but yes as a consolation ship, this is probably one of the better ones.

this is where i say honestly, painfully, if you ask me, neji probably wouldve been best for naruto besides myself. he can understand naruto's worldview, he can protect naruto, he has a personality that complements naruto. the only thing is that neji still fundamentally sees hinata as a priority so i dont know how that would play out.

i cant comment on every single ship so i'll try and just go through ones i would fix and how, and then some "crackships" i have.

leesaku (or whatever you guys call it) - lee's probably the only one sakura disrespected and then ended up respecting. his personality is such that he deals with conflict extremely well and doesnt internalize things, so he would be able to respond to sakura's shallowness and pettiness. theyre both competitive. i feel that sakura would also learn from him how to take pride in achievements, failure, and growth and build her self-esteem properly. i dont like inosaku because regardless of Lesbian Rights or whatever, sakura has consistently treated ino like shit for no reason and its not even in a "um we're awkward way" its in a "ino risks her life for sakura because shes a good person and sakura curses her out" kind of thing. lesbians should be in healthy relationships.

tenkuro - theyre both meant to be experts in a certain field that complement each other. theyre both in the middle of two extreme personalities. kankuro is a bit less of a douchebag by the time he gets older. i wouldve paired this instead of shikatema if we had to have a crosscountry couple. shikatema is gross.

hinakiba - kiba's probably the only one who treated hinata with respect their entire lives and without wanting anything in return. like weirdly enough hes the only guy i can think of except maybe choji that didnt talk shit about a woman (whether it was deserved or not) so i feel like instantly that kind of makes him a good match for someone as meek as her. hes supportive without being passive and passionate without really being aggressive. i dont know what hinata does for him because i dont really know what hinata does for anyone, but i think kiba just wants A Woman so she fits the bill.

sasudeath - if i cant have naruto give me death.

inosai is probably the only ship i actually like because they compliment each other well. again i dont care about gay/straight whatever but if ino wants to date a hot guy, let her date one. she chose one that she gets along with easily, respects her (not just respects her but he loves her proudly), and tempers her personality well. theyre pretty cute in boruto. i would keep choji and karui only because cho cho is an angel.

[twentyfivemiceinatrenchcoat]

dennis is one of my fav mcs ever ur so real for that BUT

please PLEASE explain the makima & kishibe appeal to me bc. i am not seeing it

i would eat makima too if i was like dennis but cook her in the most disrespectful way possible like. make a pancake and flip it into the trashcan or something idk

like i get her writing is great but … THATS NOT ENOUGH TO MAKE ME NOT DESPISE HER

PHSHHFHSJ…… OK…… LOOK………..

ok so for kishibe i wont lie im just into dilfs. hes literally my Dad. i just think hes silly and funny and very sad. 

AND MAKIMA…. look i absolutely do not blame u . i get why ppl hate her i rly do. i just really really love. toxic mothers in media. (see also: kenjaku jjk…..) idk man shes just so INTERESTING to me like……

just. how she cant love other ppl bc her existence as the control devil puts her above everyone else….. shes so so isolated and uncaring but she also has this. interest? in living beings and warm things n good movies…. and she cant smoke bc it makes her cough a bunch…… and she cried from a movie scene of a mother hugging her son….. i just feel like makima has these tiny tiny moments that humanize her so much but shes also just. so blatantly inhuman. like she really is just a Devil masquerading as a human n that concept makes me insane

and god….. i know u didnt sign up for a ted talk but. the fact that her true dream was something like a family…… or a connection….,. JUST like aki and dennis n everyone else. but shes the one character who Does Not Find It bc!! she cant!!! she doesnt have the grounds for companionship bc her existence is meant to be completely alone at the top!!!!

her story isnt Tragic bc makima is awful and we’re not meant to be like ”noo makima :(” but her character is just soooo ironic and sad to me……. not a single person understood her until the very end and she never gave anyone the chance to.

makima is just. Yeah. i just think shes so interesting n i adore her and i think i could fix her <3 not rly but. yknow. im a lil obsessed.

[manie-sans-delire-x]

i agree with you every time you speak about how its so incredibly important to acknowledge female oppression based on sex, but why is it so hard to not call trans men "women"? like i don't get why so many people refuse to do that. both trans men and women have uteruses and vaginas, so why do they insist that it erases female oppression or harms women? it doesnt? the same thing happens with trans women. i think it really isnt that hard to speak about certain types of oppression while at the same time acknowledging that they very often overlap each other. like trans women and cis women both suffer misogyny, theyre both targets of sexual harassment and assault, and they both are the main victims of prostitution. trans men and women both suffer from sex-based oppression, obstetric and medical violence. trans men who are cis-passing dont suffer sexual harassment though, and they can navigate society with a considerable amount of male privilege (and so many radical feminists forget this, there ARE trans men who pass completely, most trans men who have used testosterone for a long time do, and they dont have to suffer misogyny in their daily life. it feels almost a bit insulting to hear people speak about them like they suffer the exact same oppression cis women do) trans women usually can't do this. people are diverse, and i dont get why its so difficult to speak about these things without excluding certain groups of people or just being fucking rude or disrespectful to them, many times on purpose. (sorry if i didnt explain myself well btw, english is not my first language)

Hi anon, your English is fine! Its super good actually. And thank you for acknowledging that female oppression is based off sex. But you should have stopped at "I agree with you every time you speak" lol! Jokes aside...

Transwomen (I think thats who you meant when you said transmen) are able to get surgery to have a sort of vagina, but no, they do not have uteruses... Not sure where you got that misinformation. Even if they had a uterus surgically transplanted, it would be nonfunctional and ultimately pointless to everyone. As they do not have eggs, they would be unable to have periods or get pregnant. I suspect there would be serious health risks involved too. In the same way, a transman would never be able to produce sperm even if they had a dick or balls surgically transplanted.

Girls, women, and boys are the main victims of prostitution and sex trafficking, simply because most of the "clients" are straight males. A smaller percentage of them are also sexually attracted to males, but as many of them are pedophiles, they prefer boys over grown men. So passing/not passing/extent of transition also has a lot to do with it. Traffickers of course do not care if someone is trans or not. If someone looks like a young female, they are a potential target. If they are not "passing" and look like an adult male, traffickers are likely uninterested because they are not sexually attracted, the clients are not interested, and a male is harder to physically fight and control. Or if they are smaller and young, they will happily traffic boys too- whether or not they identify as a girl. I guess what Im saying is that they do not purposefully look for transwomen, they look for girls, young women, and boys (and sometimes young men that are small/look way younger than they are). Basically anyone who looks young and vulnerable. Aside from sex, age is the next largest indicator of risk. It may even be number 1. Its not gender presentation. A female could identify as and present as a male but it would not matter to them if they can tell that they're female.

Transwomen are definitely victimized as well, but it is on incomparable scales, partly due to the vast difference in population size (1% to 50%), and usually for different reasons- transphobia, (which may or may not be mixed with misogyny). To say they are "both the main victims" makes it seem like its an equal amount, which is very much is not, luckily for transwomen.

All populations- including boys and men- experience sexual harassment and assault, but obviously that does not mean we might as well put them all in the same sex category because sex is not defined by level of oppression. Its not like, "oh you've experienced x amount of oppression in your lifetime, you may as well sit with the ladies" lol.

Transwomen are not oppressed under laws that only apply to females. Women are denied equal legal and social rights for being female, and as transwomen are biologically male, they are given equal rights from birth. As long as their birth certificate says "male", they will always be given these rights by the government.

I definitely agree that transmen who are cis-passing dont suffer sexual harassment (as much) and that they can navigate society with male privilege. But they can still be denied legal rights for being biologically female though, or be discriminated against anytime it says "female" on academic, professional, or legal paperwork. (And then transphobia can mix in with the misogyny when they see a male passing person). I also agree that they dont suffer the exact same oppression as cis women and that transwomen are not given this same luxury, because unfortunately as transwomen come to learn, misogyny is real and its a monster.

Why do you find it insulting to hear people say that passing transmen suffer the same oppression cis women do (because you know its not completely true), but you dont think its insulting to say that passing transwomen do NOT suffer the same oppression cis women do?

I think your whole argument boils down to "transwomen are oppressed just as much as ciswomen so should be considered women". Not only is that clearly not true when you look at laws, but again, sex is not defined by levels of oppression or life experience.

[regicide1997]

This is in reference to the reddit post I reblogged a couple hours ago. Making my own post because this is going to be a very much Christian-ish perspective and since OP of the other post is Jewish I'd rather not clog their notes with this stream-of-consciousness rant.

I'm still trying to wrap my head around how someone can fuck up that badly.

Sure, Peter's vision in Acts 10 allows you to eat otherwise unclean meats, that's one valid interpretation—I recently learned it's not the only interpretation, but it is probably the interpretation that Paul was following when he wrote this to the early church in Rome:

13 Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in the way of a brother or sister. 14 I am convinced, being fully persuaded in the Lord Jesus, that nothing is unclean in itself. But if anyone regards something as unclean, then for that person it is unclean. 15 If your brother or sister is distressed because of what you eat, you are no longer acting in love. Do not by your eating destroy someone for whom Christ died. 16 Therefore do not let what you know is good be spoken of as evil. 17 For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking, but of righteousness, peace and joy in the Holy Spirit, 18 because anyone who serves Christ in this way is pleasing to God and receives human approval.

19 Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification. 20 Do not destroy the work of God for the sake of food. All food is clean, but it is wrong for a person to eat anything that causes someone else to stumble. 21 It is better not to eat meat or drink wine or to do anything else that will cause your brother or sister to fall.

22 So whatever you believe about these things keep between yourself and God. Blessed is the one who does not condemn himself by what he approves. 23 But whoever has doubts is condemned if they eat, because their eating is not from faith; and everything that does not come from faith is sin.

(Romans 14:13-23)

TL;DR: In the presence of those with religious/moral/ethical dietary restrictions stricter than your own, follow their restrictions; and above all else, don't be an asshole. Now, I'll admit, I'm not the biggest fan of Paul, but he really hit the nail on the head with this one.

I'm reminded of a few minutes I glimpsed of an episode of The Big Bang Theory (back when I had cable, and before I had gained the common sense to change the channel when The Big Bang Theory was on) in which Sheldon's very much Evangelical mother comes for a visit and prepares food (it might have been turkey? or chicken? [looked it up, it was chicken]) for the protagonists, and she said to the one protag who was visibly of South Asian descent [looking it up: Raj], "I hope it's not one of the animals you people think is magic."

Yeah, it left a bad taste in my mouth, too.

Although it was written in a way that makes clear that this character is coming from a place of ignorance and Christian supremacism, she at least demonstrates a (half-hearted) attempt to be accommodating of other people's religious dietary restrictions (or at least what she assumed might be there; I might be wrong, but if I recall, the punchline was that Raj was an atheist. not going to bother looking it up, this post isnt meant to be an analysis of a fucking tbbt scene). Even though the wording is disrespectful of the beliefs surrounding the dietary restrictions, and even though the question of dietary restrictions (religious or otherwise) should've been addressed to the whole room (and not just the one person whose ethnicity reminded her that foreigners exist), she nonetheless acknowledged and was somewhat prepared to accommodate such dietary restrictions.

All of this to say: Imagine being worse than Sheldon's mom. Imagine not only knowing ahead of time that your guests (in particular, your son-in-law and his children, whom you invited for a meal) have dietary restrictions, and not only failing to prepare a meal that meets those restrictions, but purposely preparing a meal that violates those restrictions, and presenting it to your guests as if it satisfied the restrictions. Imagine being so disgustingly hateful, and claiming to act in love's name. Imagine having the audacity to demand an apology when the clanging cymbal of your hateful acts is met with similarly harsh words.

may god have mercy on your wretched souls, for were i in his place, i sure as hell would not.

If those parents-in-law had actually followed the New Testament guidelines they professed, then there should not have been any pork on the table, at all—not even as a side option for the sake of the Christian side of the family. When you (Christians) invite people for a meal, and all or the majority of your invited guests are Jewish, you don't take the non-kosher food out of the fridge; you prepare a kosher meal for all to enjoy. (Even if they say ahead of time that it's okay, you still do your best to go the extra mile to make your guests comfortable.) And above all, you don't be a fucking asshole.

And that's just the religious aspect of it. Religious aspects aside, the violation of trust, the violation of basic hospitality, the violation of consent entailed in preparing food that contains ingredients your guests have told you they cannot consume—regardless of reason—and serving that food to those guests under the pretense that it does not contain such ingredients... I'm not a lawyer, but I'm pretty sure that qualifies as assault.

[autistic-gay-men-kissing]

i am not caught up in shit. you asked why curly/daisuke was problematic. so i told you that he is in a position of power and that position of power makes it inherently unethical for him to persue daisuke who is half his age and his subordinate. i dont care what you think curly would or wouldnt do. i dont care how wholesome it is. you are missing the fucking point. you asked why its gross. its gross because captains, bosses, employers, anyone in a position of power over someone half their age making or accepting sexual advances towards that person they have power over is INHERENTLY PREDATORY due to the power they have. if you dont think curly is someone who would commit sexual violence, then you dont think curly would go after daisuke. because for him to do so would be a betrayal of his role as captain and a gross ethics violation.

like are you trying to misunderstand me or are you just pissed off? this isnt a headcanon, its fucking reality. and you being a victim of SA doesnt negate any of my points about you not taking it seriously. having it happen to you doesnt make someone incapable of talking about sexual assault in an inappropriate and disrespectful manner. ffs, i was assaulted by another victim. and i dont give a shit whats normal fandom behaviour, because im not getting mad at anyone for shipping anything, I AM ANSWERING A QUESTION THAT Y O U ASKED.

I never even meant in regards to sexual relations tbh. Really just in general.

Yes, I can see how it can become bad, I understand that it would be problematic in a work zone, I understand Curly’s power.

And I am very much taking it seriously. It is a serious thing.

Is that all that’s really wrong with it? The sexual relations?

[caelfyrekin]

cw rant/vent

can we go back to spamming my stupid pun post with notes instead of this garbage? seriously why did someone feel the need to write an entire fucking essay in their reblog

what i was partially trying to say and what maybe didnt get across was how weird it is to me that people sexualize/romanticize random body parts of celebrities

because like its one thing if youre attracted to someone youve seen in person and/or actually met, anything from a coworker to your significant other(s), but like parasocial relationships are just weird

especially in the case of something like women lusting over gay men or men lusting over lesbians because like its kinda disrespectful to the celebrity in question if that happens to be the case idk if it is here but its weird

and like its kinda one thing if a particular photo/gif is meant to be sexual/suggestive in nature but like making something like an interview where the celebrity is just talking about whatever into something "sexy" gets me weirded out

maybe its because im the kind of being that doesnt want to be perceived as sexual in any way and it baffles me sometimes that others genuinely want to be seen that way, not that theres anything wrong with that (as long as its not like kink/fetish stuff in public/in front of non-consenting individuals) theres nothing wrong with showing a little skin especially in hot weather for safety reasons

then again you will catch me wearing shorts in winter but thats because i overheat so easily and i dont like having long pants on especially when they get wet at the bottom from melted snow i would rather wear longer shorts and more layers up top idk

that reminds me i want to get another similar pair of shorts to one i already have + a pair of boots that isnt hard to walk in or so worn out i cant wear them anymore but thats not rant commentary thats just me rambling at this point idek what im doing or saying maybe i should shut up

as if anyone is going to read this anyway...

[sounknownvoid]

All that and then dean always runs away - which ironically is what sams always accused of doing...whenever sam's in actual bad shape and desperately needs dean - hes actually never there - for all his b.s and posturing about willing to do anything for his brother..examples: s4 - sam detox 1st time: hes locked up alone and crying n sufferring calling for dean,

s6- when sam gets soul back, against consent, sam wakes up in panic room alone and goes upstairs scared as to what he'd find coz he remembers only that he beat dean to a pulp and bobby/cas are dead - how long after he woke up with soul did he just lie there and grieve before he found the strength n courage to climb up those stairs - & who was there with him to explain/comfort ?.... not dean/no one,

s7-when sam puts all his soul-pieces together n wakes up whos there for him ? - no one -> he wakes up from having hell-memories restored alone to a frkn note telling him to get someplace - & he frkn does get there n tries to save em still

....n then sam is beset by hallucifer - how much of that is caused by lack of proper care or any care at all received after such a traumatic event(experiencing 180 years worth of lives,memories,feelings from hell in 1xshot)?, while he struggles to cope he gets mocked,teased and generally ignored - no thought to lets see if we can get sammy some help...no, lets tell him to hurt himself as a way of identifying whats real

at end of s7: when sam has now got compunded trauma and has lost bobby and everything else and then sees his best friend and his brother just vanish in black goo while still dealing with mental health issues of prev years hes left completely alone, you dont think the guy just broke? - & there was no one there to pick up the pieces, start of s8- straight after deans return its straight into "lets blame sam" rather than trying to figure out for real what sam might have gone through in that year....n then s9: lets violate sam (again) for "his own good" but not an ounce of support or understanding n then when hes screaming in agony coz of having needles poked into his very brain,

Is dean there to comfort n take care? - no, he cant even stand to stay n watch what hes wrought and so he walks off n makes it about himself n just stands there palling around with cas-boy as a "distraction" n then,

once sam is "rescued"(in deans mind), remove himself saying 'im poison" - fkn convenient isnt it that s9 dean doesnt actually have to face the consequences - dean is simply not there to help sam through his recovery from gadreels violations because he cant face upto what he's done n then he just turns that around on sam too...n gers himself manipukated by crowley into moc - & later, misunderstands what sam said when he said sam wouldnt do the same to him...so that, again, he can just avoid having to talk about what it was like for sam when he was possessed by gadreel - if he spent less than 5xseconds looking at that statement - if he knew his brother at all or genuinely did give a sht about him - he would have instantly known that sam meant that sam wouldnt violate and disrespect dean in that way.... and so it means sam is left to recover from gadreel also on his own with no support from dean....

and on, and on,and on....

yes, this turned into a very much anti-dean in the later seasons thing - not a fan of his hypocrisy and his abusive-ness towards someone he loudly and frequently proclaims and declares from rooftops to anyone who'll listen how much he "loves" - his brother!...gah!...

i'm watching spn with my mom (i'm caught up, she's seen seasons 11, 12, and 8) and we just started season 9 and she totally sympathized with dean tricking sam into being possessed and i'm honestly horrified???? like beyond shocked, beyond upset

OH MY GOSH YES. I’m sorry you had to hear that! I was talking about it with my older brother, and he said exactly the same thing! He is generally a Sam fan because he admires Sam’s intelligence and cunning, but he believed that, because Dean had “done it because he loved Sam,” it was okay and excusable.

And like… no? I mean, of course Dean was afraid. Of course he loves Sam and can hardly even entertain the thought of losing him, but those feelings don’t justify the kind of violation he forced on Sam without Sam’s knowledge or consent.

The thing is, I think a lot of people feel the way your mom and my brother do. It’s 100% about these emotional appeals. And I really do understand it. We’re wired to respond to these emotions. It’s why the asshole-with-a-tragic-past trope goes over so well and gets so much love. People just say, “Well, he was horrifically abused/locked in a basement/raised by bandits/made into a child soldier/witness to the murder of his entire clan/etc., so it’s entirely okay that he’d do these things.”

But it’s not okay. Really, what they should say is that it’s understandable. It’s completely understandable, but it’s also completely inexcusable.

I don’t blame people for thinking the way my brother and your mom think, but they are both unequivocally wrong. I understand how Dean’s emotional state contributed to his choice, but that doesn’t mean i excuse it. 

It wouldn’t sting as much, if at all, if Dean had actually acknowledged it like he did in the earlier seasons. Back then, when Sam confronted Dean about his choice to make a dangerous decision that affected Sam (and Dean), he acknowledged that it was a selfish choice he made because he didn’t want to be without Sam. But in s9, he turns all the blame on Sam.

Characters who make mistakes are complex, relatable characters, but it’s harder for me to like characters who make mistakes and then defend those mistakes and shift the blame. I’ve always wanted the show to return to the way it was in the earlier seasons, where it acknowledged how twisted up and flawed the characters were but still made watching their stories enjoyable. The narrative bias is especially apparent in the later seasons, and it’s so tiring.

alkjkljfdgjksjfkahkl anyway, I am so sorry for rambling, but yes. Stuff like that really is upsetting, but it really opened my eyes to the power of storytelling (for good and for ill). Like, what ideas did some viewers carry away from s9, I wonder? It’s amazing to watch all sorts of television that portrays all sorts of events, but I think it’s important to be a thoughtful consumer of this stuff.