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The only way I can see Buddie not happening now is if the reason they pivoted from Eddie to Buck is because Ryan isn't comfortable portraying a gay character.
yeah, don't be coming in here with that bullshit.
ryan has no problem playing a gay character. im pretty sure he's done it before, and he's already said, in the past & in recent interviews that he's open to buddie. ryan guzman is the person who created the ship name.
if you wanna continue on with the rhetoric that ryan is homophobic, then go over to twitter or find another blog on here that follows the same rhetoric, but it ain't gonna slide here.
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hi, sorry if this is too personal but if you dont mind, will you let us know why did you leave SDA?
sorry i took so long to answer this, i've been trying to come up with a better answer but i think i will just be blunt: i value science and facts that are true in real life and not pulled completely out of someone's ass or their awful fundamentalist interpretation of the bible, and i don't appreciate religion being used as a tool to subjugate and instill fear. it was extremely fucked up to grow up wanting to die asap because i was taught the sunday law was imminent and i would be tortured and killed for going to church on saturday if i wasn't "lucky enough" to be dead first. i was barely educated as a child and when i went through the sda education system in high school and college it left gaping holes in my knowledge and cost exorbitant amounts of money to do so. "the health message" destroyed my relationships with food and (aided by lethal levels of misogyny) my body. they barely let women preach much less be ordained. i couldn't act normal about saturdays until recently. also i'm gay. also the constant pushing of missionary bullshit is evil. dude you get the side eye for wanting to drink coffee or use black pepper or eat pickles. they will go to the ends of the earth to "prove" the world is 6000 years old. why would you stay
#i could certainly continue with other heinous things about the seventh day adventist church but i think you get the point#idk man i think any religion or denomination that has a kid wanting to be dead circa 8 years old has got to go#that is the nicest way i can possibly put it#the ask tag#ex sda
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So do Ingo and Emmet have a like… telepathy in nihilego (as nihilego?? Idk what to call them 😭)? Does Ingo have any idea what’s going on, or did Nihilego-Emmet just show up and yoink him?
Their form is so terrifyingly cute, and I absolutely adore the design. That first drawing has absolutely enamored me to this au, I am sooo fascinated with this 👀 your art and designs are so good too, do you do concept art professionally or something?? Like this is great. Also the tags are very funny, Emmet telling Ingo his turn on the xbox is over 😆
Aaaa thank you so much for the question ^^!!
The inside of the bell is a bit like a closed off room, so they usually just talk in there. The reason Emmet leans forward to talk is because his voice is less clear in this burst form, also because holding onto Ingo makes him feel more secure (as in less worried that he’s going to get hurt). Technically Emmet could set up telepathy but that would be a very dangerous thing that he wouldn’t try with Ingo. Generally though they’ll communicate what they’re going to do by speaking/yelling, especially if Ingo needs Emmet to cover the bell while he strikes or if Emmet needs Ingo to freeze for a special move.
Also Ingo is aware of what’s happening! It’s mostly just weird being part of a new body so he’s getting to see what that’s like. In the actual context of the event, Ingo is actually the one who asks Emmet to fuse for the sake of winning the final battle. If I wasn’t stuck doing schoolwork I’d sketch a glimpse of that scene for you since it connects to their relationship and experience as fighters.
I’m very flattered you think I do this professionally ^^ I’m in highschool, I just do this for fun. It is something I’ve considered though!
I hope I could give you a satisfactory answer, thank you for asking :D
#submas#submas au#au#ingo#subway master ingo#ingo pokemon#nobori#emmet#subway master emmet#emmet pokemon#kudari#burst au#reburst au#pokemon fusion#as for setting up telepathy‚ the nicest way I can put it is that it would look like a surgical nightmare that is also irreversible#anyways thank you for asking anon ^^! when I get some free time I'll see about trying to draw stuff for this ask
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having a crush is like poison status effect whenever u have to think.
#my ocs#hello yes see i draw#I hate this so much ???????#what the fuck ??????#do u know how much effort I have to put in to not think about it. Like. Should I just kill myself at this point tbh.#and there’s people around me who are purposely trying to get a crush for like. Fun. Why.#this is psychological warfare.#though I guess their goals w crush is have one and never speak to him huh 💭 they just want a guy to think about when bored.#This happened to me by accident 💭 and I am. speaking to him often. I didn’t today though. hashtag winning 💪 (?)#I will get over it. I will speak to no one over midterms week and I will get so over him.#and then I will be so normal platonic about it.#this was supposed to happen in highschool I think I was supposed to get comfortable w this way earlier in life.#I don’t know I don’t care I just need to survive this at this point Jesus Christ.#and hey guess what I was just about to start gushing in this tag it snuck up on me wtf.#I do not want him. (<- affirmations)#I can never let anyone have my Tumblr or my art socials ever god imagine. Anyone seeing this.#it would suck so bad. Guys. I would have to kms.#why did I meet the most attractive and nicest and coolest guy immediately. why is this my first friend in 5 years.#sorry that is gushing huh. god this sucks so bad. I hate. having emotions.#well it’s not gushing it’s like objective fact people will not stop saying he’s won the genetic lottery to his face.#And I get crazy 2nd hand embarrassment every time but also not wrong.#they’re not wrong. ugh. killing myself.#guys why does every tag ramble end this way. guys. why. why am I becoming a real boy I want to be a puppet again actually.#ok. normal time 4 minutes left in movie clean bathroom then sneepy time and I will do so good not thinking about him and will sleep immedia
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I honestly think that the correct way to interact with any social media platform is to low key hate being there
I say this largely based on how some people on Tumblr have gone from calling it a hellsite (derogatory) to a hellsite (affectionate) and not only treat this site as if it lacks the flaws seen in every social media site, but that it's absolute worst flaws are actually "part of the charm"
The moment you actually like a site like Tumblr, the brainrot may be terminal
#tumblr#reddit#twitter#tiktok#social media#despite all the hate it gets tiktok has been my nicest social media experience#but even that place has issues with opaque moderation and weird site cultural aspects I've largely managed to avoid#tumblr is not exceptional#tumblr isn't even ceptional#I mainly just use this site to find stuff to post to r/curatedtumblr#or to make posts I can then put on r/curatedtumblr during self-post sundays#based on what I've seen of this place#it is the correct way to use tumblr
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Okay but since you started, to continue ar*row posting into 2024, it was blatantly obvious Quentin resented Laurel for being the one that lived when they all thought Sara died, and people still thought he was a good dad??? The whole Lance family was so fucked up and Laurel deserved a better family
oh yeah 100% both quentin and dinah thought the wrong daughter died on that boat. there is no doubt about it. they resented laurel for being alive instead of sara. they did not hide their favoritism well. with dinah, she was open about it. with quentin, it only came out in waves, usually when he was drunk but even when he was sober it still sometimes seeped out of him in these little hissed remarks.
it's one of the reasons thinking about laurel's childhood fascinates me so much. at a glance, the lance family was a normal middle class family. two beautiful, smart girls, a home, two parents with well respected careers and a loving marriage. a happy family.
but i have to wonder if it was really all that happy for laurel.
i mean. she dated oliver for years. devoted herself to him. adored him. she took him back when he made mistakes, she wanted to move in with him, she wanted to marry him, she loved him with everything the whole way through. and he treated her like trash. he cheated on her over and over and over again with her friends and her sister. he had zero respect for her. he was stupid and he was nasty and he was cruel. and it's not like the island changed him when it came to her. i'm sorry but it didn't. he was an arrow in her lung from the day she met him until the day she died. and she just. accepted that. she accepted that was all she would get and lived with it until the end. that was as far as she got in terms of believing in her own worth.
that kind of chronic, damaging low self esteem doesn't come from nowhere. laurel's canonical desperation and pleading and searching for love was one of her most devastating traits (partly because she was never able to find it) and it's something that can only come from the lack of love. and that shit starts at the top. it starts with mom and dad. they poisoned her. bit by bit until she was dead, gone, and replaced, quite literally, by a doppelganger.
no, i'll never understand why people love "papa lance." he was only a loving father to one daughter. he was an abuser to the other.
that's one of the reasons why one of the recurring characters in my laurel fics is her non canon grandmother. she needs at least one family member to love her completely and unconditionally. lord knows no one else did.
#quentin and dinah were failures as parents is the bottom line#and that's the nicest way i can put it#laurel deserved better right from the beginning#laurel lance#anti quentin lance#anti dinah drake lance#arrow discourse#asks#anon
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honestly, this whole chappell roan political discourse is very...white
#that's the nicest way i can put this#disclaimer that Everything i know about her is against my will. but no one wants to stop bringing it up#most of my political opinions are colored by the fact that i'm a southern black bitch. so#i'm just way too southern and black to give a shit about Any of this. and yet i can't avoid it ://#i also wish i could view politics through a white midwestern lens. but i can't!#rambles
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maintenance just let themselves in unannounced at 8:30 in a morning i was actually planning to sleep in until 9:45 and they woke me up by being loud :))
#abc shut it#words can’t even begin to describe how mad at am#no email no call nothing from our complete#this guy just let himself in and started working on our shit right outside my room#i thought any reason maintence needed to be in here was taken care of last week :))#like he’s putting all this shit from the storage closet on my desk#MY PC IS THERE?#and probably won’t put the stuff back in like#my guy#like i’m so fucking tired can we not do this shit#deadass might send my complex in email that just says WHAT THE FUCK in the nicest way possible bc#this is lowkey uncalled for?? but i might just be mad
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wait bbg do you not like Renee Rapp? or did I misunderstand ur tags on that post
No you understood correctly lol. I think I’ve said this before verbatim lol so sorry if I sound like a broken record to some people but absolutely nothing about her or her music appeals to me in any way.
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i'm gonna be honest e-s to me is like orochimaru where the narrative completely glosses over it but i as the reader am flabbergasted he's walking around the hidden leaf village still. why are you in my konoha
#ooc#this is the nicest way i can put that.#he may be the only character i can genuinely not ever muster the feelings that the narrative wants you to feel over him#alas i can merely tolerate his omnipresence as a loved character by both canon and fanon <- looks like i ate a lemon#the only thing that makes me feel better about being his one opp is that thancred probably feels the same way.
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MERCEDES????????????????
#if she's there for the bit good for her#if she signed. well. i hope tony becomes a whole new booker lmao and that's the nicest possible way i can put it#aew#text post
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Hey, Americans... please consider not eating animals for thanksgiving. 🙏
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From Daigo considering Kiryu a father figure and the substory with him in Y0 I assume Kiryu was there a lot to tell him not to be a little shit. Yayoi and Daigo do not have the closest relationship during his 30-year old rebellious teen phase, but I got the impression it wasn't always like that. The fact that 12-year old Daigo was hanging around Kamurocho with older kids does imply Yayoi wasn't keeping a close eye on him but I get the impression that what parenting she did do would have been vaguely in the right direction.
yeah yeah that's what i was referring to in me last ask: the fact that, through daigo's y0 substory, you learn that kiryu's pretty much been one of the only really consistent people in his life to hang out with him
when it comes to yayoi and her parenting though, she readily admits she priorities the clan over daigo's feelings and needs (not just when he's an adult, but admits that ever since he was a kid she and sohei have always chosen the clan over him). at the very least, she's incredibly self aware of how lacking she is as a mother, and so at the same time is remorseful about her inability to connect with nor help daigo when he needs it
all of that said, it's hard to gauge what her parenting skills are actually like. sure, daigo turned out to be a respectable man, but again kiryu- whether you like/hate him or question his capabilities as a father- had a key, significant role in daigo's upbringing and is undoubtedly the main influence on his personality and manners. considering how willing daigo was to bend to kiryu's word as a kid, it wouldn't be hard to assume that if yayoi was as hard on him as she is when he's an adult, he might not have had that rambunctious phase nor attitude. the most i can conclude about her parenting is that she's wholly neglectful (and outright abusive when it came to telling daigo she would be taking the role of acting chairman) due to her prioritization towards duty
#snap chats#if we also want to consider the fact yayoi is virtually unheard of after y2 then she and daigo really arent all that close#like i firmly believe yayoi just doesnt know how to parent#i mean this in The Nicest Way Possible My Queen but she probably operates like my mom does#seeing her family more as a business opposed as A Family#thats not to say she doesnt love daigo but she'll always put the clan over him and wont try to connect with him if he cant be there for it#i don't think she acts this way without remorse though but having to be The Wife Of A Yakuza she isnt given the luxury of motherhood#especially when she's daigo's only parent now but is still the ultimate successor to the tojo#she really cant offer an ounce of weakness so she has to be even stricter#so when she was given those chances to be a parent.. idk. its pretty hard to say because i /cant/ imagine her getting those chances#or even really wanting those chances and just putting the responsibility onto someone else like kiryu#i can only really imagine her just asking for a 'report' from daigo- like how are his grades and if everythings ok#but beyond that not really doing anything to ensure those things are truthful#idk maybe half of this ramble is just projection so take it however you like im just a dude on the internet with mommy issues ╮(╯-╰)╭
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Oh Hella your DM sounds like a good one! Hope you have fun and that coin is amazing should we add practice the coin trick to your schedule? /gen
ACTUALLY YEAH PLEASE
#my dm is such an angel i was a bit worried at first bc he's the one that was flirting with me#but he's cooled off and even so i can tell it's more the harmless kind than anything i'll actually have to set boundaries on#and we had our first session last night and it was genuinely insane like he's SUCH a good dm#i was so so immersed the entire time like he had this one NPC and he puts so much LIFE into his ocs like accents and mannerisms#not just backstory/set-up and this npc stayed with us the ENTIRE 4+ hour session#and at the very end he KILLED HIM and it was done so well that one of the players literally teared up#and the rest of us were just sat there in gobsmacked silence#and it's a SUPER wild group too like it's hard for the dm to wrangle them all at times bc jokes tend to domino and get rowdy#so to have us all like that and on the first session no less was INSANE#he also introduced a dragon and i said to him afterwards 'im getting that dragon' bc i mentioned another time that im DESPERATE#to get a pet dragon or even just a dragon i have some dodgy deal with ill take ANYTHING#and he just very casually went 'oh you'll get a dragon' HELLO??? FUCK YEAH#like he listens to his players and he keeps us on track without being too strict and gets super enthusiastic about our ideas#and the rest of the group are all so cool like they're all either queer or neurodivergent or both#i just feel for the first time in maybe my entire life that im in a completely non-judgemental place for my interests#like in the nicest way possible they're all just a bit weird and it would be very hard for me to be the weirdest one there#and there's something SO cathartic about that like literally go ham bc they're not gonna be scared off yk?#like even if i had an interest totally out of left field that none of them shared i just know they'd be so welcoming of it regardless#idk. they're neat. i think this campaign is gonna be really fucking cool#ask#hella goes to uni
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i need to draw o/ff characters again and post hcs abt them to my blog. oogoog
#i dont particularly like the popular hc that en/och eats his els/en. it feels weird to me for multiple reasons#KEEP IN MIND THIS IS ALL PERSONAL THINKINGS OK ok here i go#ik i said id post em on the blog but im abt to go to sleep so imma say it here#but like. mahybe im just crazy or looking too deep into things. but i dont see any reason for en/och = eats his els/en besides the fact#that hes fat. and like thats it from what i can rememebr.#like id ont. remember him saying any dialogue that would insinuate it??#OK hold on clarifying = eats them alive/eats their bodies and NOT just eating burnt ashes/sugar#OR it could also be something that like was thought of bc of the horror element of the game +#the zone is a zone that is like Heeyyyy everyone eats everyone here :) so obvs it could just be like a horror hc to go with the theme#or environment of the zone#so like obvs im not gonna like. be upset over ppl liking the hc like to most people it seems just canon to them#but i do not like it....not one bit. he WOULD gaslight and manipulate his workers. absoltuely. but he would NOT eat them alive.#i feel like en/och is too much of like...he has high standards for his foods (chef it up. he can make the fanciest of meals and the nicest#of cakes). so i feel like he'd be like. insulted like ummmmmm no lol that is NOT very presentable. and gross. put their ashes in it and#dress it up and maybe ill eats it then :] yk????#IDK. maybe im just thinking waayyyy too much into this. but i kinda dont care i love this game and i love en/och.#i dont need to fix him hes perfect as he is (manipulative and a cannibal but not like that way. ok?)#cant you let her win for once ?????#ok ok im done for now but for this game? my dear friends. i am ALWAYS open to talking about my thoughts#ow.file
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Bro when ppl start saying well misandry is real because men are pressured to not showcase their emotions ever or only in violent ways leading to a whole other host of suffering I just want to shake them and scream. That's not misandry, thats an extension of misogyny. Men are not being uniquely oppressed this is the negative effects of the power structure that our society has built around men being dominant and women being submissive. Like what do ppl often tell those men when pushing these things on them? They stay it makes them weak, and more specifically womanly. Because women are seen as weak and men as strong. So anything that's socially seen as a woman thing is seen as weak. Yes it affects men negatively as well but it's never been directed at them as a form of oppression, yall have absolutely failed at understanding systemic oppression on every level
#rat rambles#rat rants#just like how yes capitalism negatively effects ppl with money too but that doesnt mean it wasnt built to support them#like I know its discouraging to hear ppl talk abt how your society is built to uphold ppl like you while your still suffering#but in the nicest way I can manage rn fucking get over it#you know the reason this is effecting the ppl at the top too?#its because its built upon an incorrect worldview. not because misandry is real.#like if a prince got made king at a young age and was struggling with all of the expectations put on him that wouldn't mean hes oppressed#itd showcase the wider flaws in a system that assumes that one type of person is better than everyone else
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