#this is not me being clingy

[tricksheart]

I think I might start blocking those who don't interact with me after a month. Rant under the cut. Not about anyone that follows me.

Me: Hey. Um, there was untagged irl dogs on your post. Can you please tag 'irl dogs'. It's even in my rules, thank you.

Other person: OMG! Don't eat me please. And tagging will be hard for me because they are my comfort. Let's not be mutuals anymore. Bye. ( softblocks instead of hard blocks ).

Me, who just saw the message and couldn't respond before: ...... :/ All I asked was for a trigger to be tagged, it's not the end of the world. Oh well, they really never wanted to put in the effort to rp with me anyways.

( I just hate when people don't read my rules and/or not put in effort to rp with me when I reached out to them several times. I guess it was for the best to go different ways. But dammit, they were so cool. And followed me first! I just don't know anymore. Some words of encouragement would be nice ).

Sorry everyone had to see this but it's just frustrating that people said they would be accommodating for triggers, IM them to talk about things like that and then backtrack.

[solarartzz]

“Miss Ayase… I love you! I don’t want to let go of you!”

[thebrainrotsreal]

Drew this real quick because I fucking love these two so much ???? Especially Bee. I wish they interacted more so badly. PLEASE.

Also learning how to draw these guys.. slowly.

[inkskinned]

they want to talk about mental illness and acceptance and how everyone is a little ocd it's cute and quirky and their "intrusive thoughts" are about cutting their hair off and you say yours are about taking a razorblade to your eye and they say ew can you not and everyone is a little adhd sometimes! except if you're late it's a personality flaw and it's because you are careless and cruel (and someone else with adhd mentions they can be on time, so why can't you?) and it's not an eating disorder if it's girl dinner! it's not mania if it's girl math! what do you mean you blew all of your savings on nonrefundable plane tickets for a plane you didn't even end up taking. what do you mean that you are afraid of eating. get over it. they roll their little lips up into a sneer. can you not, like, trauma dump?

they love it on them they like to wear pieces of your suffering like jewels so that it hangs off their tongue in rapiers. they are allowed to arm-chair diagnose and cherrypick their poisons but you can't ever miss too many showers because that's, like, "fuckken gross?" so anyone mean is a narcissist. so anyone with visual tics is clearly faking it and is so cringe. but they get to scream and hit customer service employees because well, i got overwhelmed.

you keep seeing these posts about how people pleasers are "inherently manipulative" and how it's totally unfair behavior. but you are a people pleaser, you have an ingrained fawn response. in the comments, you have typed and deleted the words just because it is technically true does not make it an empathetic or kind reading of the reaction about one million times. it is technically accurate, after all. you think of catholic guilt, how sometimes you feel bad when doing a good deed because the sense of pride you get from acting kind - that pride is a sin. the word "manipulation" is not without bias or stigma attached to it. many people with the fawn response are direct victims of someone who was malignantly manipulative. calling the victims manipulative too is an unfair and unkind reading of the situation. it would be better and more empathetic to say it is safety-seeking or connection-seeking behavior. yes, it can be toxic. no, in general it is not intended to be toxic. there is no reason to make mentally ill people feel worse for what we undergo.

you type why is everyone so quick to turn on someone showing clear signs of trauma but you already know the fucking answer, so what's the point of bothering. you kind of hate those this is what anxiety looks like! infographics because at this point you're so good at white-knuckling through a severe panic attack that people just think you're stoic. even people who know the situation sometimes comment you just don't seem depressed. and you're not a 9 year old white kid so there's no way you're on the spectrum, you're not obsessed with trains and you were never a good mathematician. okay then.

mental illness is trending. in 2012 tumblr said don't romanticize our symptoms but to be fair tiktok didn't exist yet. there's these series of videos where someone pretends to be "the most boring person on earth" and is just being a normal fucking person, which makes your skin crawl, because that probably means you are boring. your friend reads aloud a profile from tinder - no depressed bitches i fucking hate that mental illness crap. your father says that medication never actually works.

you still haven't told your grandmother that you're in therapy. despite everything (and the fact it's helping): you just don't want her to see you differently.

[lunarlivs]

but with him there, everything else fades away

drarry doodles below the cut <333

[kazumist]

aventurine never made it obvious that he’s clingy.

he doesn’t want to be vocal about these things—he wants you to know right away that he wants your affection. a hand to your waist as it gently rubs your hipbone, him burying his face in the crook of your neck all of a sudden, and many more. he doesn’t want to be vocal about these things at all.

it wasn’t like you hated it. in fact, you found it quite adorable that your lover had this side to him. despite being a gambler in… many ways, it was cute how he had such a clingy side to him. although of course, it will always be behind closed doors.

when aventurine came back home to you, he immediately wrapped his arms around you as you felt him mumble into your skin how he’s tired. your hand reaches the nape of his neck as you gently play with the hair in that area. you feel aventurine sigh in relief—who knew that a person like him would end up acting like an exhausted child from the playground when he’s tired? 

“long day?” you asked him. he just mumbles in agreement and you couldn’t help but chuckle at him.

it’s these little moments that reminds you that love is as simple as a comforting hug after a long day.

[forzathunder]

"I have many fears, most of them about Lucrezia." — Cesare Borgia (The Borgias, 2011-2013) + hints of insecurity

that she adores someone that much / if she will reject his dark nature and act of love and violence as Ursula did / if he truly is not part of her desires / that she easily forgets him

[anticidic]

Dazai and Chuuya sleeping in the same bed is such a funny concept to me because they'd terrorize each other so badly until someone took the couch

we have Dazai: chronic insomnia, needs his eyemasks, the room has to be totally, completely pitch dark or else he can't sleep, and he's a light sleeper

then we have Chuuya: hogs the bed, wiggles a lot and thrashes in his sleep, snores, likely to accidentally slap or kick Dazai in his sleep. or even just straight up bullies Dazai out of bed by rolling over onto him

Dazai would now need earplugs, he'd probably wake up for the fifth time in a night frustrated and reach over to plug Chuuya's nose so he's startled awake, a few pillows get tossed at each other

[crazymecjc]

but can you imagine Jace from Act3 end up seeing Viktor from season 1 and BECOMING absolutely crazy, careful, obsessed with staying with him all the time/making sure he doesn't get evil/corrupted by the Hexcore and still with the knowledge that this man saved him countless times from death, that he chose him in all dimensions and possibilities and that Old jace from the past DIDN'T realize it.

HI ANON. IM IMAGINING ‼️‼️‼️‼️

(I’m taking jayvik drawing requests! send me an ask!!)

[funkbun]

yuuuuuuck

[takesfew]

Johnshi (+one railao) as texts part 2

[impuls1veworm]

Unless you're into clingy men, dating Gojo would be so annoying. This mf won't let you leave the room without asking where you're going. He's not gonna follow you, but don't take too long. Even if you're just using the bathroom, if he thinks you're taking too long, he's outside the door asking what you're doing.

God forbid you try to go out with friends who aren't also his friends. He'll tell you to go out, have fun, and he doesn't care. Until it's 3 hours later and you hear a very familiar voice from behind you responding to what your friend just said.

This man is never leaving you alone. You're stuck with him for life.

[care666bear]

yeah I know I should be being worshipped for being so stinkin cute & so pathetic about all the ways I’m completely wrapped around your finger

[freensrcha]

early morning clingy jihyun 🥹

THE EIGHTH SENSE | EPISODE 10

[gumi-writes]

commissioned from hewoweens

i've taken to calling these guys the mean girls of eridia

(starring ais "my favourite kind of foreplay is getting my ass beat" and vere "i literally threw myself at her (sat on her lap expectantly and expected her to understand) why the fuck is she so dense" and tiên "*is tiên*")

[jesterjaxx]

Why is he constantly doing shit like this. Gay.