#this is not forced or toxic positivity
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what do you do when you’re tired of the fight?
you say: not again, no more, I can’t do this.
and you keep on living anyway.
#Genuine#this is not forced or toxic positivity#this is hope with blood under her fingernails dragging your own corpse kicking and screaming into tomorrow#this is not ‘your mother will miss you’#this is spite and anger and spittle and so much rage coinciding with so much emptiness#This is buttered toast for dinner and lying on the floor afterwards. This is salivating over the knives and leaving them in the block#or maybe it’s not. Maybe they don’t stay in the kitchen but you text your friend after. You put disinfectant on the wounds#This is so messy and so painful and not the end for you#Not yet#We’ll stay here together#And if you want I can hold your hand through it
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BillFord is basically Dionysus x Ariadne but horrifying.
#and toxic#Ariadne really had it easy all things considered#like imagine being in her position#the all powerful god of madness took a fancy to you and forces your boyfriend to leave you#but then it turns out it was for the best bc Theseus’s turned out for the worst#and being married to Dionysus wasn’t too bad#greek mythology#ancient greek mythology#greek pantheon#Ariadne#Dionysus#dionysus x ariadne#billford#bill cipher#stanford pines#gravity falls#gravity falls stanford
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Genuinely so curious who Mike thinks is gonna be buying The Cage or the new DCTL GN bc with the way he tweets as far as he's concerned, it's not gonna be:
The queer people he has actively admitted he will never show any representation of in the games.
2. The POC he has actively fought against representing in his franchise. [Who he also mocked for thinking they would be represented in his franchise]
3. The Bendy fandom which has always been concerned with topics of diversity esp in the sense of queer people since its creation. Who he has responded to really poorly esp in regards to the GN.
4. The fans who critique him. [He blocked me for doing so lol]
5. His fans in general who he tweets about like this currently. [He's being vague about why people were mad at him or sent him 'nasty messages' because if you actually looked into why you'd see he was in the wrong. Either way, a very hateful way to speak abt ur own fanbase.]
Reminder while Mike is trash talking his fans he has always treated them rather poorly. The fans who won the fanart contest for Chapter 5 never got their posters actually in game due to it being rushed. Not only was chapter 5 a big slap to the face story wise, but it was literally so rushed he couldn't be bothered to add in the art his fans gave him for his game FOR FREE. [Meatly blames this on a crazy timeline, reminder him and Mike are the literal ceos of this company. The proposal of future updates here is also pretty cruel considering Mike nowadays happily admits he corrupted Chapter 5's source code and therefore literally can't update it At All currently. Because he is a moron]
At least they got to be in Boris and the dark survival, and by that I mean that was the Only game they got to be in so far, isn't that just treating your fans like you love them? Shoving their hard work into a spin off game almost nobody has played or addresses much. [Hell, who knows if with the Lone Wolf rebrand they'll even stay there. In which case they'll be in None of the games, only in the credits of BATIM]
6. The Bendy fans who just generally disagree with him on stuff. Like the new ink demon design where there is literally a public poll showing people generally prefer the old one.
7. The Bendy fans who can see he is actively lying to them. To their fucking faces.
He says this has always been the case, but screenshots and links to tweets regarding the books being canon prove it was not. Does he really think bendy fans are stupid or something? [Unless he's admitting here he lied to Kress when he told her the books were canon which sounds worse!]
8. Anyone who doesn't like the idea of giving money to a guy who laid off tons of employees then afterwards thought it was a great idea to express his anti-union views! Also brag about how good of an employer he was, according to his employees, he was not!
So in summary; Mike is an awful person who has not learned anything from the awful things he did. I will not be purchasing The Cage because, combined with this and his absolute refusal to take any kind of critique or see any differing interpretation of his franchise, I have no reason to think my problems with the franchise will ever be addressed or fixed. I probably will pirate The Cage along with any future Bendy Products [Including the movie] and will do my best to avoid giving it any kind of monetary support. Unless this changes any time soon, I can't see myself making anymore positive Bendy posts soon.
Mike has just managed to make it so hard to speak positively or optimistically of this franchise when he's so willing to broadcast how little he cares about it or its fans. I'm at the point where I refuse to pull any of my punches with my problems with it. What's the point of trying to play nice with my critique when either way the people creating it don't care?
So with this post, I want to invite anyone who feels similarly about the franchise to tell me, make a post or send an ask talking about how all of this makes you feel. It may not change how things are, but genuinely seeing other people share my feelings of anger makes me feel better. It feels nice to see when other people share our same concerns and worries. I'd also love to know if anyone else thinks they'll be avoiding purchasing Bendy products over this.
I'm not forcing anyone to participate in it nor trying to say anyone who doesn't supports mike but genuinely maybe if we can collectively decide to boycott things like the movie, graphic novel and The Cage... It might at least make the bendy devs acknowledge how much they have destroyed their own fandom's faith and trust in them.
The way Mike tweets about his actions like he had no control over why people were mad at him at least proves to me he takes NONE of it back nor regrets it. If you didn't know about his actions and only went off his tweets, you would be led to believe Mike has been needlessly picked apart by fans over things he couldn't control [or in his own words, had his words twisted and taken out of context]. That is not how you speak about your actions if you have actually learned better from them.
anyway, that has been my bendy dev callout post. This is an open invitation to anyone feeling similarly upset about the way the franchise is going to talk about it. It's genuinely nice to see how people feel about this and the more we talk about the more it's likely the bendy devs are forced to address our concerns. I don't think they will but hey, that's why I'm not gonna support them with my money anymore nor am I gonna be nice to them in any content I make critiquing Bendy. I mean I'm also basically making this post just in case anyone asks me Why I feel this way towards to bendy devs/as a way to respond to anyone who thinks I am too harsh in my critique in the future.
As always, it seems the best part of Bendy isn't actually anything about canon but about what the fan's are creating with the ideas Bendy failed to do anything interesting with.
Also the books, the books slap.
#batim#batdr#bendy and the ink machine#bendy and the dark revival#ramblez#bendy and the silent city#bendy the cage#for the record another reason Im making this post is bc some of the only good resources to learn abt why the bendy devs suck are some old#very longer videos and this is a very long post but I thought it was important to document the recent shit theyve been doing alongside some#of the worst past things theyve done bc Mike has been trying to misinform people on what happened but those videos are still great resource#if you want more info n such#long post#mike D#for anyone who doesnt wanna hear abt him since he doesnt go by mood anymore#sorry if this is rambley or emotional Im just so sick of these guys fr dskjhgskdfjghskdjhgkjhsd#I miss when I didnt spend my days stressed about the awful shit mike is gonna say next and how I would have to disprove it in a post later#or explain why its bad to have a cast of nothing but cishet white guys n constantly fight back against any push for diversity in said cast#genuinely its just tiring esp when u see other bendy fans give ignorant or very silly defenses/takes on those things#n then u lose a lot of respect for them bc they are speaking on stuff they dont know much abt so confidently and therefore misinforming#people or even encouraging very bad views on stuff like diversity n its importance#Im not saying people like that are bad people but it is stressful n upsetting when u see someone u thought knew better do that sort of thin#it makes it hard to trust them again on other issues bc u now dont trust they know what they r talking abt!!#like please think twice before telling young artists making norman white was a tough and complicated decision it was fucking not the bendy#devs just think all their humans are white by default and dont wanna change that its been proven time n time again thats all it is#and defending them just bc u like a franchise they made is very very bad!! They are not ur friends!! they suck and we seriously need to#stop pretending they dont!! toxic positivity is only gonna make the fandom an absolute nightmare its not gonna make ANYTHING better#it just means people will be forced to PRETEND they never have negative thoughts abt the franchise n therefore make them burned out#just look at other similar fandoms please lets not make those same mistakes!!#sorry can u tell Ive been having just. A time recently#anyways back to making my queer ass bendy fan game full of so much diversity mike will prolly shit when he sees it DKFJGHKSDJHGKJHSD
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Thought about the toxic ep Almost died
#rick and morty#like jesus fucking christ whatd they put in that episode#my irrational attachments eye twitch while looking at toxic morty#im gripping my hair im clawinh at my face genuinely Rick being fully aware of his abuse of morty and doing nothing to stop it#fucking toxic morty as well bruh.#him immediatelly begging rick to save him once he re-fused#like loooolll this loser thinks asking for help is bad because his grandpa beat it into him loooolllllllll#me when im in most lifechanging events competition and rest and ricklaxation walks in#WHY DID THEY WRITE THAT. WERE THEY CRAZY. LIKE WHAT MOTIVATED THEM TO DO SOMETHING LIKE THIS#all sooo slash positive im feeling so. like im feeling so much right now#he was forced to think about rest and ricklaxation for 30 seconds
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for those folks that run across this post and feel some kind of way about it, i'm sorry. those that find this post resonates with them, remember, no one is owed your gratitude and forced gratitude isn't gratitude at all. i'll let the tags do the rest of the talking.
#junk journal#baked tarot#collage#journal#art journal#use the stickers#junk journal july#cptsd life#cptsdhealing#toxic positivity#forced gratitude#chronic illness#fibromyalgia#religious trauma
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I 1000000000% believe in Carol and Daryl going canon
my name's hanna, and i am toxic and aggressively positive about #caryl. i believe in what i am watching on screen, i believe in Melissa, and i believe in hope. cause we all gotta believe in something. 😊
#twd#the walking dead#caryl#i have zero agendas#i aint gonna come to you and force you to believe anything#you do you#whatever you're feeling is valid#so dont come and try to invalidate my own feelings#you've been warned#my toxic positivity might be contagious!#hanna.txt
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I honestly wish the fandom had a middle ground somewhere between coddling the devs and tearing them apart. Criticism is nice, necessary and welcome. Using "negative" words to express your opinion isn't necessarily bad, it's just not sugarcoating. But there is a difference between that and nitpicking EVERYTHING they do and make. If we make these people feel like they can do nothing right, they'll rightfully tell us to go fuck off lmao
#touchstarved game#touchstarved#vaulture rambles#some ppl on insta are wild#I'm also not fond of toxic and forced positivity#but damn dude chill
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Emma: Hope I cannot believe you got suspended for punching another student in the face! Hope: In my defence, you didn't hear what he said. Emma: Really? And what did he say? Hope: ... He said, "what are you going to do, punch me in the face?".
#ouat#hope swan jones#emma swan#do NOT ask where this came form#but hope having anger issues is deeply fascinating to me#she's forced into a life of toxic positivity and just... cracks#(in this scenario she punched a homophobe who was harassing her gf)
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Gwaynston soulmates au, where are they… not soulmates. the universe didn't choose them for each other. none of them blindly dissolves into the other, their characters do not fit perfectly, like a folded puzzle, they do not have a special connection in which they understand each other without words, their experiences are different and their worldviews are not identical. but despite a lot of squabbles and misunderstandings at the beginning, they continue to stick together, they make efforts to make it work. This is not like a linear journey where there is a clear exposition-beginning-culmination-end. It is a winding path with many potholes on the road. but the love that fills their hearts, the realization that they are someone's priority, the sense that they are not alone in this world and the desire to share every moment with this person and no one else, makes all the hard work they do worthwhile. because the universe didn't choose them for each other, but they did.
#No it's far from sad if it seemed that way#they are simply deprived of cheat codes and forced to work as if in a realistic relationship (it is)#and this only makes their bond stronger because it was their conscious choice#the relationship of two mature people who do not want the past to define their common present#Because I think Criston might have had a sad experience with a soulmate.#Gwayne looks like someone who has never believed in this concept secretly worried that he did not meet his own#They start out as forced allies who have looked at each other and decided that they want to fight for it#Gwayne learns to give in#and Criston who always sacrifices himself for the interests of others learns to accept and put himself in an equal position#(because excessive sacrifice also tends to spill over into toxicity)#gwayston#gwaynston#criston x gwayne#gwayne hightower#criston cole#hotd#house of the dragon#my post
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For the boys who cry. (Me).
I'M A REAL BOY BOY AND I CRY
I LOVE MYSELF AND I WANT TO TRY
(Lyrics from Samaritans by Idles)
Background with no text cuz i'm way proud of it
#forcemasc#eh im hesitant to even put it in tags cuz my hearts rlly not in it today but#my positive masculine affirmations i usually categorise alongside my more forceful forcemasc#so its ok i think. enjoy. and know its ok to cry and be emotional. shits rough sometimes#be a better man than our dads were eh? im always striving for that#this song very much is one i relate to as someone who bought into toxic ideals to try and be me#and then am slowly having to relearn what being a man can be to me without buying into the toxicity that poisons the male role models in my#life. cuz i dont wanna be my dad or step dad lol. n theyre the types who've said this shit to me bout manning up growing balls#and it feels even more rebellious masculine and powerful to me to spit in that and go no fuck you. im a real man and i cry#and it doesnt make me any less of a man or less tough or hard#or less able to partake in hard masculine spaces and aesthetics#i can be a man who cries AND a man who can leave a bootprint on your face to remind you where you belong hah#thats part of whats nice abt forcemasc is a kink space where you CAN delve into harder more brutal things while compartmentalising#that thought process seperately from yr non-kink worldview of emotional regulation and emotional health! or whatever idk lol
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That moment in Elpis...
#ffxiv#ffxiv art#ffxiv wol#meteion#meteion ffxiv#MyDrawings#endwalker#endwalker spoilers#ffxiv spoilers#i think about this so much#Arsay's always veered towards toxic positivity#like she literally will force herself to smile through things#not think about how much things upset her#she doesnt let herself process or move on from things she just carried it all with her#and pretended like that weight wasnt there#in comes super empath bird who hits arsay with the mental equivalent of a sack of bricks#and proceeded to have the closest thing arsay will ever get to therapy#WOL posting#Arsay Nun
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On one hand, I want a final fantasy 6 remake, because the game is criminally underrated and the amount of fan content (which is all absolutely fantastic btw) is Not Enough for my neurodivergent, hyperfixating brain.
On the other hand, that would inevitably encourage more people to join the fandom, which would be great, except it seems these days the bigger a fandom gets the more toxic it becomes, and I really like what we have going on over here in our little corner. We all just love the game and its characters and nobody fights about who should and shouldn't date who or who you shouldn't like because they're ~problematique~. Nobody's trying to make one ship morally better than another, nobody's calling anyone names or threatening to doxx people who don't agree with their opinions. It's so peaceful and I love that for us. We're just vibing. Moisturized. Unbothered. In our lane. Flourishing.
#as someone who was in an extremely toxic and chaotic fandom and lowkey still traumatized#to the point where I'm afraid to mention which fandom it was/what my ship was#i have to say#i genuinely love it here#i was nervous at first sharing my ships and headcanons but everyone is so chill i was worried for nothing#thank you to everyone I've interacted with who has made this fandom a healing experience for me#i shudder to think about what some of the people i interacted with in a previous fandom would do with ff6#probably would take edgar's flirting at face value and call him problematic for objectifying women#instead of considering the narrative and what we know about him and the way he actually treats women#my man drinks loving and respecting women juice he's not a creep#or that weird moment with relm that admittedly made me double take before i realized what he meant#theyd have a whole campaign against him lmfao#bc those people boil characters alive until they're just a formless pile of tropes and stereotypes#and seem to disregard all positive aspects of a character they don't like which is fine#but then they go and try to force other people to think like they do and ugh#theres a lot of silly moments in the game and aspects of these characters that make them well rounded and realistically flawed at times#and i fear that would get lost in the chaos if the floodgates opened after a remake#maybe im just jaded lmao#im jaded and i have anxiety so im always thinking about The Worst Case Scenario#the collective positive spirit of the dwellers in this fandom might actually foster a positive space if more people were to come in#ff6#my post#i was gonna say maybe this is bc we're mostly adults#but that falls flat when i remember how some of the most toxic and immature people in some fandoms are grown ass adults#who bully each other and younger fans#and some of the most mature and cool people were actually younger#maybe ff6 fans are just built different lmao#also idk how old anyone else actually is there might be teenagers here i just don't think about it a lot
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I have decided that I am just going to be positive and strong. Sure, there are always obstacles and negativity in life, but there are also many, many blessings. The trees, the plants, animals, nature, waterfalls, lakes, the sky, the sun, my man and our son, love, smiles, friendly encounters, tasty food to cook and eat, beautiful things to see and touch and smell and hold.
Despite my traumatic past and long history of depression, I am making this choice. I will make it every day as long as I live, even if it is difficult to do so, for letting heartache and trauma and pain and sadness decide for me is not how I want to live. There are so, so many blessings and beautiful things in life. You just have to look for them, and stop letting other things make the choice for you.
#every time i post stuff like this I get a bunch of angry negative people saying stuff like "you never struggled with depression if you can#believe shit like this“ or ”toxic positivity blah blah blah“ or some other kind of self-defeating thing#you CAN change your mindset if you really want to.#YES I still struggle with feelings of worthlessness and sadness and stress#I still struggle sometimes with my trauma and negativity#but that is something you have to choose to do#day in and day out - you have to decide that you want to get better#and you CAN#you don't know me or the things I have gone through - the hellish years of having to force myself to find reasons to live every day#the things i did to cope and live because as much as I wished to die I didn't want to - the amounts of strength I had to muster to keep goi
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He's despicable, I'll take 12.
[Work-In-Progress]
Please feel free to drop your favorite toxic positivity slogans in the notes!
I want to write at least one such quote on this image. The top contender right now is "We all have the same 24 hours in a day!"
Also valid examples: "Nothing's impossible!", "Anyone can do it!", and "Pull yourself up by the bootstraps!" - or maybe just "Self-made :)"
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Originally drawn in crayon at my local bar's game night because tabletop games are slow as fuck
#wip#Adventure Time#simon petrikov#fionna and cake spoilers#fionna & cake#the winter king#winter king#fionna and cake#alt-text#image description#my art#I've been trying to get those glasses even all evening. eh. I'll figure it out.#probably will trace a mirror of the the other one#genuinely fucking obsessed with him as a metaphor for toxic positivity. especially as it pertains to class and mental illness.#because the people who say your burdens shouldn't bother you... simply don't have to carry those same burdens#whooole lot of people say we all have the same 24 hours when they have the money to pay someone else to clean their house!#I'll probably repeat all of this in the actual post of the image if I finish it#which I probably will. I've done most of the work already and I want to make him look more fucked up#winter king already seemed sus but when he said he conquered the crown 'thru sheer force of will' i genuinely yelled at the screen#'OH YOU MOTHERFUCKER OH YOU PIECE OF SHIT YOU BASTARD'#'haha! come now. Conquering the crown is as easy as manifesting your own reality!!' - i was screaminnnngggg#he's an incredibly validating character in the way that he is proven to be absolutely fucking full of shit#also he's sexy. which doesn't hurt. but mostly I'm obsessed with how perfectly he mirrors the attitude of 'self-made' rich and abled people#you can do anything you put your mind to!! and if it turns out to be impossible it's because you didn't want it bad enough SIMON!!!!#simon is soooo relatable in that ep#'manifest your dreams! it's! easy! especially if! someone else is bearing all that pesky SOUL-CRUSHING WEIGHT lol'#I thought the episode was going to end with Simon putting on Winter King's crown and#discovering that the WK just got lucky and happened to get a crown that was just... not a problem. just a magic non-cursed crown.#I think that would have worked well but I like what they ended up doing way better#'anyone can do it!' is said out loud but the QUIET part goes 'so if you can't do it that's because you suck'.
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SNS community: being happy with every little ounce of our ship that will never be canon
SS community: has a ship that is canon, has a manga and getting animated episodes yet still miserable, complaining about everything and being verbally abusive to others
#sasunaru#narusasu#anti sasusaku#difference between a positive healthy ship and a toxic forced ship#This is inspired by ss stans complaining about their animated episodes looking 'ugly'
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I find it ironic that the same people who will flock and shriek at any posts critical of Akito's conclusion (her getting away scot free with years of abuse) will constantly go on and on about how Fruits Basket is about forgiveness and if you don't like the ending "you didn't understand the story or themes" will say that Kyo deserved the harsh treatment he received during the hospital arc for two reasons 1st he hurt Tohru's feelings and 2nd it is funny. He was looking out for Tohru by rejecting her yes he did it in a very harsh way but he had his reasons such as his crippling guilt and his future confinement. And people in general treating him like crap and saying he is worthless it was because of people like Akito who instilled those ideas into his head. Kyo should have been allowed to explain himself sooner and Akito should have never been allowed anywhere near Tohru after she tried to murder her.
#Fruits Basket#Tohru Honda#Kyo Sohma#Kyoru#Anti Akito Sohma#Anti Natsuki Takaya#Anti Fruits Basket ending#Fruits Basket critical#OOC writing#Anti toxic positivity#Anti forced forgiveness#The characters deserved better
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