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instagram ads ship lawlu too 👀
#YES SIR ure so right THOSE ARE indeed luffy's yellow shorts🤭#ngl every time i see errors like these i either laugh my ass off or my shipper heart flutters like crazy#the validation feels amazing#one piece#lawlu#lulaw#law × luffy#luffy x law#op#monkey d. luffy#trafalgar law#torao#meme
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Don't quite know how to put this but there are certain story beats that, in order for me to actually like/admire the story, specifically have to be accomplished without being a big deal.
Like, does your story present ordinary, mundane, even ridiculous people as possessing worth and dignity? Cool. Does it pat itself on the back about doing that? Unfortunately, that has circled back around to patronizing.
Does your character make the lives of bit characters and nameless bystanders a priority, even when it distracts them from Important Plot Things? Nice! Does your character make a big production of/express a lot of angst about doing that? This only barely edges out "leaving them to die" in terms of my respect for said character.
Ordinary people are just as valuable and important as Our Heroes. But the narrative should have enough conviction about that to take it for granted, and let the audience catch up if need be. A Hero should definitely take it for granted, unless they're still in the process of becoming heroic.
Otherwise, I'm left with the sneaking suspicion that the writers don't really see this themselves.
#this is the distinction between what i tend to mentally categorize as 'hobbit-positive' stories#and ones that feel like they know they're SUPPOSED to be hobbit-positive but are struggling#lobelia sackville-baggins is a heroic figure by the end of lotr#but tolkien doesn't make a big song and dance about it or validate her by putting her next to the Actually Cool Characters(TM)#there's just the quiet revelation in amongst the other events that. huh. put under this kind of pressure lobelia was pretty amazing#and the other thing making me think of this was a moment in terror of the zygons where the doctor's escaping the ship#and frees the three humans they'd been impersonating on the way#it's barely even a story beat. they get to participate in destroying the ship and figuring out the enemy plans afterward#but actually rescuing them? it's so casual. and on the one hand that makes it not a Narrative Priority but also like. it's taken for grante#yeah those are people. the doctor doesn't need to think or talk about rescuing them he's just. gonna DO it#(is all of this lowkey an expression of my gripes about the tenth doctor era? maybe a /little./ sorry)#(i could also contrast the tenth doctor and daniel jackson's respective radiation poisoning deaths but these tags are long enough already)
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Good morning to you all. I gots the flu so I have to stay in bed today. 🤒 I hate this. Y'all send me healing vibes or something. I need some hot ramen 🍜.
#me#malina#trans#transgender#transfem#lgbtq#transgirl#trans woman#lgbtqia#selfie#i feel sick#trans is beautiful#girls like us#this is what trans looks like#okay to reblog#trans mtf#mtf hrt#mtf hormones#mtf positivity#trans hrt#hrt#hrt estrogen#mtf#trans pride#trans positivity#trans women are amazing#trans women are beautiful#trans women are women#trans women are valid#tgirl
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that moment with milchick and natalie talking about the paintings is such a standout moment for me
#milchick trying to find honest connection with natalie and her being unable to give it probably out of fear of what will happen if she does#milchick emphasizing that hes Truly grateful for them while trying to find validation from natalie that they are disrespectful and racist#the moment milchick says he appreciates the board’s appreciation of him natalie seems to know what’s coming next#and she already seems sad or sorry that she cant give milchick the solidarity he’s asking for in that moment at least not verbally#its such a good scene the acting is absolutely amazing it really made me feel some typa way#somebody help my girl natalie shes treated as even less of her own person than the innies are#at least the innies get to voice their displeasure and their own thoughts. natalie doesnt even get that#mr milchick#natalie kalen#severance#severance spoilers#morty talks woah
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I havent seen anyone talk about this but
The "I'll see you at the end" line of the song playing in Billy's resolve scene (when he decides to speak to Agatha and go on the witches road) as we focus on Tommy's name on the paper????
Yall that makes me cry SO HARD, its Billy's promise to Tommy.
"I'll see you at the end of the road and bring you back"
#billy kaplan#agatha harkness#agatha all along#aaa spoilers#billy maximoff#listen this show is amazing#i feel like critique towards it IS still valid tho especially with Billy's casting
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They're setting up nandermo platonic friendship and I encourage everyone to mentally prepare for that
#wwdits#nandor the relentless#guillermo de la cruz#nandermo#wwdits spoilers#negativity#“male friendship is-” SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP#yes it is important#no it is not underepresented#that's some homophobic bs#it's the most represented dynamic in tv history aside from heterosexual love#and don't you dare make it all about sex because you know damn well it wasn't#“just because you wanted the dirty homosexuals to have disgusting homosexual sex it doesn't mean-” FUCK OFF#this ship was more than that and it's fucking dishonest and lowkey homophobic to pretend people only wanted the two hot men to fuck#why do you think about sex the second gay love comes into the picture? are you like this with straight ships?#do not lie to me#i'm in your walls#(btw not shipping nandermo is cool that is not what i'm talking about here)#your feelings are valid and so are mine#amazing episode tho
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Red with flat affect but he's actually very affectionate and easily excited about things. He just doesn't emote. As kids it throws green off at first bc he doesn't like being ignored and thinks red is ignoring him/doesn't gaf. He's super rejection sensitive so gets upset but red manages to explain that he's not he just. Looks like this. As adults green finds it's cute rather than being upset by it.
#the red gap moe cannot be underestimated#idk wgat reds special interest would be kr wjat hed hyperfixate on. “pokemon” feels like a cheap answer#but hes also textually not into anything other than pokemon. and ppl irl hyperfixate on animals all the time so. its valid.#green is also modtly intetrsted in pokemom but specifically tje idea of being champion (as a kid(#once hes an adult idk.#reds stays as just Pokemon gis whole life im sure. ol reliable. but green seems like hed hage more varied interests#well actuallg in game likes talking abt acsrsskries and fashion so that !#and candy. kr whatever those tginfs are.#MAYBE IF RED WAS IN THE DAMN LODGE ID HAVE MORE IDEAS FKR JIS OTHER INTERERSTS!!!!!! NINTENDO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#green going to kalos and nkt just enjoying studying pokemon but also getting to indulge in his passion for fashion...amazing.#reguri#trainer red#trainer blue#although he js green to MEE#ive rantd sk much about how red cojld 100% work in lodge if they tried 😐😒#green oak#blue oak#pokemon headcanons
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(I apologize in advance, color meaning is a hyperfixation of mine. Probably has no significance at all in your thing, but the brain has been possessed.)
Now color can have several different interpretations of meanings.
Pomni's main colors are red, blue, and grey. Red usually symbolizes aggression (obviously, look at Anger from Inside Out), but also confidence, strength and courage. Blue is seen as more a calming color, we're not even gonna bring up sadness because it's. Kind of obvious, too. But blue can also represent aloofness. Grey is neutral, yes, but also represents boredom. (The more you know).
Caine's main colors are yellow and also red. See above for some representations of red. But it also represents passion and energy, along with love and strength. Yellow is kind of obvious all around, representing happiness and friendliness. But it also represents caution. Hence the bright yellow of those Wet Floor signs.
Ragatha's main colors are red, white and blue. So uh. See Pomni above for some representations already. But I'm assuming we're going a calmer/less aggressive route for our girl over here. Red also represents love. In Ragatha's case, blue seems to be more of the conservative, stable and reliable. White symbolizes purity and cleanliness. See also: churches
Jax, red and purple. I'm assuming we're going the more aggressive representation of red for this man right here, so probably strength and probably some anger issues. Purple, in some cases, represents royalty? For some reason? Idk man. It also represents creativity, wisdom and magic. That explains why a lot of Ms. Frizzle's dresses are purple. Anyway.
Gangle is a bit of a mystery, because due to the lighting, I can't tell if it's red or magenta. I'm going with magenta. Anyway, it can represent kindness, gentleness and compassion along with tolerance. Then there's depression as a representation. So uh. Take that as you will.
Z is a very, very dark purple with grey and brown. Wisdom for purple, but brown and grey's interpretations are interesting to me. Grey is neutral, as stated previously, along with boredom, but in this case, I think practicality (my dyslexic ass probably didn't spell that right) and seriousness fit more. Brown represents warmth but also stability. Interesting.
My man Kingr is two different shades of purple with light blue thrown in. Royalty/regality for purple, along with wisdom. There is some white thrown in, so Imma throw in athe hop and/or emptiness representation of white. Blue represents reliability and loyalty, which I find ironic, considering the type of model (most likely didn't refer to that right) Kingr is.
Anyway, I apologize, I'm sleep deprived and my author brain went "hey, what if".
No no, don't apologize. Colors DO have a significance to this AU like I've admitted in my confession about who the Patriarch is.
I don't have to correct most of your observations here as they are very much accurate (well done), so I'll only point out the ones you're specifically missing.
Pomni's is not only reds and blues as a callback to TADC Pomni, but also white and yellows. Greys have a significance to Pomni's arc that I'm not yet ready to disclose as of the moment, as the arc hasn't even begun yet, though your observation is still quite accurate nonetheless. Whites represent her "purity", but in a different, darker sense; her individuality is almost scrubbed clean due to what she went through. Reds and blues are actually inspired by the ideologies of the Philippine flag too, where if reds are on top, it means a war is afoot.
Pomni's war is not all external, it is also internal to her as her soul fragments fights against the overpowering yet broken directive that's currently puppeteering her.
Jax is also accurate (though purples don't represent royalty, it represents his creativity/adaptability, with immatureness and emotional instability), but you've also missed cyan. Cyans for him represent his calm, laid-back/carefree attitude that's can also be borderline indifference.
I am curious as to what you mean by Kingr though, as he is pretty loyal to the gang to the point of putting himself in line of danger if he deemed it necessary for everyone else's benefit/survival. He's on the process of abandoning old ideals of "every man for themselves".
#thanks for the ask!#tadc#tadc au#harlequin au#tadc harlequin au#the amazing digital circus#pomni#caine#ragatha#jax#gangle#zooble#kinger#hehehe color theory my beloved#thank you anon for your wonderful observations#I feel validated :3
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My favorite part about RWBY right now is how literally everyone stuck in the Ever After is experiencing the absolute Most on opposite ends of the spectrum.
Ruby is going through it. She’s jaded and traumatized. Hasn’t smiled in weeks. Lost her purpose. Doesn’t have a will to live. Etc.
Weiss? Just so fucking over it all. Everything keeps happening and it’s SO DUMB and SO INCONVENIENT. Why does nothing make sense here?
Yang and Blake? Thriving. Making out. Honest with their emotions and living their best lives kissing in a field of magic lilies.
Jaune? Homeboy just lived several years alone on an island suffering as his belief in all things good evaporates. He has gray hairs.
And like. We still don’t even know what’s going on in Remnant. Nora and Ren think two of their teammates are dead now? Penny got juiced. Winter is the Maiden. Is Qrow ok???
I miss Pyrrha.
#RWBY#Weiss being the comedic relief of this season was unexpected but amazing#also the bees kissed so I feel validated#someone help ruby tho dear god
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the person who i stopped being friends with came to my fucking house to ask me if i blocked her???? oh my fucking god lady you are 35 YEARS OLD??????
#i cant believe that fucking happened oh my god??????? she actually came to my house??????#remember how i was having a freakout about how i thought she’d come to my house n i was checking windows and shit HA i feel validated now#OH MY GOD??????? my boyfriend had to tell her to leave bc she just kept standing there at the door???????#he CLOSED THE BLINDS ON HER FACE AND STILL WOULDN’T LEAVE?????????#i cant believe that fucking happened I CANT BELIEVE A 35 YEAR OLD CONFRONTED ME IRL ABOUT BLOCKING HER PHONE NUMBER HOLY SHIT#thank god my amazing twin brother and his spouse and my boyfriend were here to help me bc id literally freak the fuck out if i was alone#i feel so unsafe now holy shit what a fucking weirdo 😭
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I never really put too much weight on the twins birth order, I don't think it really means anything to them or their dynamic.
#Sibling dynamics where the birth order means something are great amazing so fun so interesting absolute bangers#But I also don't want it slapped onto every single sibling dynamic ever and Dante and Vergil are twins#Putting so much weight on Vergil being just a little bit older just isn't a take I personally agree with?#And I guess twins can do that too but I just don't feel like it really fits them#I mean it's a completely valid way to interpret the twins of course I see the appeal but I personally don't like fitting them neatly into#younger and older sibling roles because I don't feel like they fit neatly#There are personal reasons that probably at least partly inform this opinion but I'm not gonna get into that#Devil May Cry#DMC#Vergil DMC#Dante DMC
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ik trans dipper is a popular hc in the gravity falls fandom but do we fw trans Mabel too
#mostly saying this bc ik dipper would be the most amazing ally#in the way that he does like a week of research on trans related stuff straight#and whenever Mabel feels invalid he pulls out a dictionary size google docs on why she's valid asf and always will be#also they both buy pride pins#scratch that Mabel would make pride pins lol#btw it seems like it's a general consensus amongst the fandom that their parents are in some way transphobic lol#which I can't say would be inaccurate#gravity falls#gf#dipper pines#mabel pines#mystery twins#transgender#trans#shiloh's shenanigans
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when I sit down to weep I wish someone would kiss my tears away and list all the good things about me
#desiblr#desi tumblr#desi girl#desi teen#idk what it is about today my thoughts are spiralling#wish someone would hold my face and tell me how amazing i am with examples and explanation#without making me feel guilty about fishing for compliments#like just? is validation so hard to give??
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How do you get so much love for your Cyberpunk 2077 screenshots? I spend hours posing, setting up lights etc etc but I get 0 love. Ok, I'm definitely not a professional photographer, but 0? Teach me, plsssss.
Oh my goodness, I need to gather my thoughts for this because as someone whose struggled with this for a long time, I understand 100% how you feel right now and I just want to give you a bit of advice.
I'm not a professional either, and what I mean by struggle is that when I first came into this fandom I came in with nothing. I hardly got any notes or any recognition for my posts as well.. Granted I was on console and console users sadly don't get the love they deserve, and I think they deserve just as much love if not more from people, and that doesn't happen, it's a fact.
When I started using mods and got on PC, I still barely got anything, and it started becoming a struggle for me because I fed off of validation and approval from others, and that is something I still struggle with to this day, maybe not as much, but I def still do and I think most people in this fandom do. No one can say they don't crave validation, we ALL do, if we didn't we would post n o t h i n g. And while I do agree that we should post for ourselves, we also post because when we do something we are super proud of, we want others to see it and enjoy it as well and there's NOTHING wrong with that at all. We reblog our things multiple times to push it out so other's can see (and because the algorithm truly sucks, just my opinion).
I was desperate for validation because I craved interaction and friendship, that's all I ever wanted, and I wanted to bond with people I have the same interests in and because of my desperate need for it I made enemies, still to this day. It only makes you feel icky on the inside when you're constantly trying to appease others, and while it's normal to want validation, it's not normal to only do it for that and that alone. I don't know who you are anon, and I cannot "teach" you, simply because what you're doing right now is good enough, not even good, it's great & regardless of how many people interact with your VP, you are good enough and you shouldn't stop, because if you love it that's the #1 most important thing. But also don't be afraid to reblog your stuff! Reblog it as often as you like.
Also, P.S.. I am still not always proud of what I do. I still get a little envious, it's human nature, I'm on a shitty laptop with horrible graphics and I can't do much with it, but I love taking VP, it's a passion and I will do it no matter how it looks. You should do it too, the best part of doing it is doing it because you enjoy it with no regrets. Sometimes this fandom will make you feel like you have to be the very best or at the very top for people to interact with you or enjoy your VP/art, and sometimes that's true, mostly it's true... but there are still good people here who genuinely appreciate all forms of VP, whether it's console, modding, gorgeous lighting, no lighting at all, etc. It's all beautiful, and at the end of the day, that validation is gonna come and go anyway. But you will continue to look at your art and go "yeaaaaah, I did that :)"
So please don't feel upset for getting "0" love, cos I promise someone loves it.
#personal#anon asks#cyberpunk 2077#cyberpunk 2077 fandom#getting personal here and outing my own struggles#because I have nothing to hide and I want to be as transparent as possible and honest when it comes to this type of stuff#please if anyone feels this way know your VP/art is wonderful and amazing#and validation is just a number#and yeah it's normal to want it and we all do#but it's not everything I swear#don't let numbers define you#even if we struggle with it#also feel free to reblog if it resonates
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What if i killed you instead?
This is my joker origin story btw.
The ask was already kinda annoying to begin with. I hate hate how tumblr turned transmasc/transfem into synonymous for trans boy/trans girl. Congrats, yall reinvented the gender binary! As someone who is both transmac and transfem, i hate it very much!
But like. Ok. Not really the askers' fault, and they're a minor, so whatever.
But then the reblog hit with me like a truck. It's an even more annoying truck. Look, i like yaoi as much as the person next door BUT GOD WHERE'S THE SELF AWARENESS???
STOP MAKING EVERYTHING ABOUT MEN!!! IM SAYING THIS AS A GUY MYSELF!! NO ITS NOT COOL JUST BC IT GAY WHEN LITERALLY EVERY POST OR ART THAT IS ABOUT YURI HAS AN STUPID "This but with men🙈🙊💞" COMMENT ON IT. IF YOU WSNT MIKURIN YAOI THEN MAKE YOUR OWN POST
#🪐.txt#im so sorry for op. their art and hc are amazing#and so so validating for me#im multigender + transmascfem so their miku being an explicitly transmac *woman* with top surgery even its so so dear to me#so im angry lols#also btw even if their mikurin was straight. its whatever. theyre t4t so theyre queer. beinh straight wouldn't make them lesser#*correction their miku is nb and uses she/he pronouns. but also he is a lesbian butch so my point still stands on feeling seen
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TMAGP 8 BIG SPOILERS
…Oh shit the manifesting worked???
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#tmagp#the magnus protocol#YAAAAAAAY#HEEEEEEEE#HE!!!!#H E !#I chose a great character to suddenly get obsessed with for no apparent reason 2 months before protocol#do you have any idea how it feels to project so heavily onto a character and… finally meet the happiest version of them?#It’s validating.#It’s great.#Sorry for the rant I just#I love him so much#he means so much to me#like a lot#A LOT a lot#I know it’s silly but seeing a character who’s had similar experiences and traumas to you finally be happy#It’s just so amazing#Maybe I should make a full post about it lmaaaoooo#Wait until Jonny and Alex ruin this#gerry keay#gerry delano#gerard keay
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