#the things i haven't told you

[greedandenby]

Jacob Anderson's onscreen partners/love interests over the years

(at least the ones I could find pics of)

Top to bottom/left to right:

Elizabeth Day in The Things I Haven't Told You / Freya Mavor in Skins / Sophie Stuckey in Comedown / Charlotte Beaumont in Broadchurch / Nathalie Emmanuel in Game of Thrones / Thaddea Graham in Doctor Who / Assad Zaman in Interview with the Vampire / Thomas Antony Olajide in Interview with the Vampire / Sam Reid in Interview with the Vampire.

TBC!

And here is the Sam Reid one.

[whydooldpeopletalk]

Speaking as someone who's been outed many, many times, by both "allies" and homo/transphobes, some of yall are way too comfortable sharing other peoples' queer identities.

"But what if I'm trying to be funny?" Doesn't matter.

"But what if I'm an ally?" Doesn't matter

"But what if the person I'm talking to is an ally?" Doesn't matter.

"But what if I'm queer?" Doesn't matter

"But what if the person I'm talking to is queer?" Doesn't matter.

"But what if the person I'm talking about is a stranger?" Doesn't matter.

"But what if it's really obvious?" First of all, ew. Second of all, Doesn't matter.

"But what if they didn't come out to me, I just figured it out on my own?" Doesn't matter.

"But what if they're getting misgendered?" It's just as easy to say 'actually she's a girl' as it is to say 'actually she's transgender and uses she/her'. If that person is pretransition, it's also easy to just bite your tongue and not say anything.

Unless that person has explicitly given you permission to share that information, you DON'T. No matter how certain you are that everyone is accepting, no matter how noble your intentions, it's not your information to share. Getting clocked sucks, getting outed sucks, and they're both an invasion of privacy no matter who's doing it.

[gigifluidcat]

[feathertailedcentipede]

there's no lock in the sleeping quarters, but even if there was he wouldn't have done anything because he didn't lock the cockpit either.

[meimeimeirin]

uve seen muzzle wrio, i give you this

salivating..... i mean what. i mean.

[littlespoonevan]

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[mbirnsings-71]

*sips my drink* God I love being a multishipper sometimes.

[lafragolina]

just kill me

[anxietycheesecake]

If you haven't watched the new ep, just dropping by to let you know the fandom is lying to you again. It's not canon, it's not a romantic love confession and that's not an opinion, it's just a fact. Like, seriously, girlies, reading and experiencing media differently is super valid, good for you if that was a love confession in your heart, but you can't look at people asking what happened in the eye and tell them nandermo is canon, that's like the queerbaiting is coming from inside the house lmao

[mayasaura]

I'm seeing a lot of people afraid that Kabru is going to make fun of Laios, bully Laios, or turn around to mock Laios behind his back, and that's understandable. Especially since he did lie to Laios by pretending to like his omlette right after the Toshiro nightmare scenario of pent-up resentment.

But guys. Kabru hasn't actually done any of that yet. The bullying or mocking? It isn't there. Kabru has done some wild stuff. He contemplated killing Laios to get out of an awkward social situation. He thinks Laios' interest in monsters might make him dangerous in the future. But at the point we're at in the anime, he has never once secretly mocked Laios, undermined Laios to someone else, or thought of Laios as a person he can't respect. If that's how Kabru is secretly thinking about Laios, he hasn't shown his hand yet.

It does seem like that's where he might be going, with his fake ass bitch encouragement about eating monsters and inscrutable motivations. I totally get feeling anxious or defensive about the potential, but if you let that anxiety fill in the gaps of what we don't yet know about Kabru's feelings and intentions, you might end up missing a lot.

Or you might be right, and I just want people to wait until he actually does the thing to condemn him for it. I'm not gonna tell you where this is going.*

*Unless you're anxious enough about it to want me to, in which case my dms are open.

[lemonduckisnowawake]

Over the Garden Wall is SUCH a fascinating show to me for a myriad of reasons. But one of the things that stuck with me was the symbolism of the Woodsman and his lantern. TW for discussions on grief and unhealthy coping mechanisms (that I might get wrong, just as a warning).

I'm sure this has been said before, but to me it's just such a fascinating representation of how we unintentionally keep despair alive by clinging to our overwhelming grief of those we lost. Maybe I'm misinterpreting something or looking too deeply into it, but it's just. The lantern that the Woodsman keeps lighting in the hopes that his daughter's soul will be kept alive through it is, in actuality, keeping the Beast alive. And in a similar way I've read tales and actually studied grief theories about how people keep the memory of their loved one alive; at first, it's a good thing, and it can take however long or short you need to it be since grief seems to be something that generally never really goes away.

But there can come a point where all you live for is the dead, which is what the Woodsman was doing in laboring day and night to keep the lantern alive. And in doing so, you start to poison yourself and, rather than keeping the person you lost in living memory, you start to keep alive the despair and darkness. You start to keep alive the Beast rather than the soul of your daughter, in other words. Sometimes, it's intentional, though. "If I let go of this despair and anguish of mine, doesn't that mean I'll forever lose that person I loved?" And sometimes, it's unintentional.

The conclusion of it is that you have to let them go...you have to let that despair (not grief, but the poisonous and hopeless grief) go. Maybe, like Wirt did, through unflinching practicality and sheer knowledge rather than emotion. Or something else. But maybe, then, you'll find that when the lantern of your despair is gone, it'll be dark at first but you'll slowly start to see a grander light. And maybe, you'll find that your daughter is still alive anyway, in the light rather than in the darkness.

[seventeendeer]

just watched the barbie movie everyone was discoursing about last year and I can't help but feel like a lot of the problems in its execution could have been avoided if the kid character's arc had been about learning to embrace girly stuff as an act of rebellion against the adultification of teen girls while barbie went full butch transmasc

[monstrsball]

new iwaoisuga au being pondered. heres the vision.

iwaoi and suga are neighbors. suga is under the impression that iwaoi are dating, or married, or something. his reasoning? they're together constantly, oikawa is pretty touchy, they bicker like an old married couple, etc. it seems clear to him!

he gets to know them and is a liiiittle into them. only a little! they are objectively attractive, it doesn't mean anything, shut UP daichi.

then one day while he and iwaizumi are hanging out, iwaizumi tries to make a move/ask him out and suga is like ⁉️ and iwaizumi in turn is like ⁉️ at suga's reaction because well iwaizumi is not always great at reading the room but he kinda thought they had something going there?? and suga is like "😧 what would oikawa think...!!" and iwaizumi is like "what does oikawa have to do with this???" and suga is like. "Uh ?" and this is how he learns that they are in fact not dating!

and then uh. more plot happens. i don't know

[alexjcrowley]

The Hobbit or Bilbo Baggins's Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad, Not At All Fun Steppe Vacation

[youchangedmedestiel]

The show ended and Destiel with it, so they decided to torture us in real life.

[outlying-hyppocrate]

i have officially returned. ask me anything.