#the queer community means so so much to me
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i <3 creepy hallway
creepy hallway number one <3
alright time for more home life stuff . the bedroom scene came up as a way of trying to reintegrate the gold statue from earlier, since i just really love trying to find old elements and tie them in as plot relevant as time goes on . not usually planned, but it comes through during the editing stage, which is a fun game of deciding what scenes to keep, and which to get rid of . i wasn't so certain about this one, but i loved the idea of baby ford interacting with mabel, who's slightly older... i need to draw art of it, honestly . they're cute
it's really gratifying seeing people pick up on what i've been setting up as part of ford and the statue, the fact i was able to effectively communicate something going on means the world to me . the rest of the story is gonna dig into it more so i won't lay it all out here, but it really is so much fun . makes the whole writing process feel so communicative when people share thoughts and interpretations . especially when the scenes are meant to be read into !
we also get the closet yay . sure that's not gonna be important at all
writing the kids big blow up fight was a trip and a half . the original vision was a pretty shallow "we're stressed out and out grunkles should stop being mean to each other :(", just as a way to try and push forward the dynamics between ford and stan . that still exists, it's just a lot more focus being put onto the kids themselves . they're tertiary characters for sure, but i like thinking about their home life, and how that impacts them
one of the challenges is trying to have the fight feel fairly balanced between the two of them . shoutouts to my brother and wife for the full ass socratic seminar we had about threading that needle . how do you get a conversation where a young trans boy is trying to discuss his fears about his life and his body, and keeps getting shut down ? how do you balance that with a little girl who feels like it's her job to be the sweet, happy, emotionally intellegent adult in the room ? i'm happy with the end result but boy was it stressful
bill also wasn't gonna be here but i wanted more bill so . he got to come back . i really liked tying in nick with the spit to the little chats their having in the paradox dimension . love the lil hand pinch that was just a treat for meeeee, i get to be indulgent in my fics as much as i want . i also like the fact that ford is under some indescribable pain that entire time . they got a dynamic in this story that makes me laugh .
you know whats funny is i didn't even realize ship of theseus was a paradox writing a lot of the stuff about paradoxes . for some reason i just stumbled into that one . very funny . or, no wait -- i totally knew the entire time my brain is the size of three (3) whole apples
oh man and the entire lab scene i just loved writing . i love including bathroom breaks . i love dipper's poor hygiene . i love the fact the kids traded gold for soda, they're such perfect lil con men in training . and again the whole talk about star trek was so indulgent and fun
the brothers grew up queer in the 60's/70's and that's a major part of their arc . i hope to get across the ways they both hurt each other both as kids and adults . they still got so much to work on, and i just don't know if they've got the time
anyways creepy hallway bill time
favorite part:
âClark.â Ford stiffens, stops. Looks up. âWhat?â âThat, uh, captain guy. The one with the, he had the big, you knowââ Stan gestures over his chest, puffing his pecs out a bit more. âAlways had em out, shirt cut off or whatever. Got all hot and sweaty. Great hair.â â...Kirk?â Ford turns in his seat, slightly, to get a better look at his brother. Stan clicks his tongue, points his index finger in recollection. â Kirk .â He repeats, and the image of the guy blooms in Stanïżœïżœs head. Ford had a magazine with him on the cover, about as disheveled and beat up as a guy could look, shirt torn open. That particular mag went âmissingâ into Stanâs stash, and he laughs at that old memory getting drudged up. âI, uh. Was a fan , back then.â
i just love how neither one of them can say what they're talking about out loud lol
Stan and Ford have a conversation, Mabel and Dipper get a bit absurd, and something gold is given meaning.
If you don't look, you won't see it fading.
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every time someone comes out to me as trans i feel this great ache. like thank you. for trusting me, for being kind to yourself in admitting this, for being brave. im sorry for all the ways the world wont be ready for you yet.
#my sibling came out to me last night#the transfem experience can be so intense and scary and honestly were not close but i hope they find peace w their experience#ok to rb#transgender#lgbtq community#lgbtqia#queer community#this is really cheesy in my phrasing but its whats on my mind rn#ive been several peoples first coming out experience w both transness and queerness#and its an honor but no one person can set you up for what your experience will be#i just hope i offer something of meaning to these ppl#the queer community means so so much to me#as someone who experiences low empathy it always shocks me how much it makes me feel and brings up the empathy i so rarely feel intensely#might delete this later bc the tags are very ranty but still ok to rb if it resonates w u#or edit it later to remove the tags
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I donât think you guys UNDERTSNAD how important Edwin and Charlesâ relationship is to me as an aroace person. THAT is what I want from a relationship. Something such an obvious mix of romantic and platonic and I-donât-even-know that all the lines blur bc the only important thing is that you love them like youâve loved nothing else and are so devoted that you would do nothing else but love and protect and cherish them for all your worth. isnât it the love that matters more than what type of love it is? why do their labels need to be so cut and dry? why does it need to be anything more? why canât they just be? why canât they love each other how they want to love each other? why do they need to be anything else?
#coming from an aroace person who has never came out to someone without them asking is I was confused#or if I was sure#or if it was bc of trauma#they mean so much to me#and I donât think it was intentional to code them so heavily towards aroace community#but isnât that just what being aroace spec is?#loving people in a way people donât understand? Loving outside of the binary?#and isnât that charles and Edwinâs story?#so whether it was intentional or not#they are THE reference to a representation of how aroace love can appear#even if they arenât aroace themselves#they def arenât aroace rep tho donât get me wrong. I just connect to them a lot as an aroace person#dbd#charles rowland#dead boy detectives#edwin payne#charles x edwin#payneland#chedwin#uhhh#aroace#asexual#aromantic#thoughts#queer#hcs
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You know queer people made a thing when:
#their sharp little teeth mean so much to me and the entire queer community#nimona#nimona spoilers#iâm so fuckin HYPE
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i know I've mentioned my interpretation of mizu's gender a million times on here but i don't think i ever fully elaborated on it.
so on that note i just wanna ramble about that for a bit. basically, it's my reading of the show that mizu is nonbinary, so let me dig into that.
putting the rest under the cut because it ended up being pretty long lol. also here have a cute mizu pic of her being happy and most at ease with herself, symbolised by her letting her hair down. <3 ok let's proceed.
thus, when i refer to mizu as nonbinary, i am interpreting mizu as a woman, but not ONLY a woman. not strictly a woman. she is also a man. she is also neither of these things, she is something in between, while at the same time she is none of these at all. i've said as much many times, but i just don't want people to think that when i say nonbinary, it inherently means a "third androgynous gender" that essentially turns the gender binary into a gender trinary. not only is that going against what the term nonbinary was crafted for (to go against rigid boxes and categorisation of gender identities), but also, not all nonbinary people fall under that category or definition, and that's definitely not the way i interpret mizu.
okay before i go deeper i'd just like to address some important things. first of all, this post is an analysis of canon, and thus everything i am arguing for is about my own interpretation of the show, and not some baseless projected headcanon i am projecting onto the character. please remember there is a difference between an interpretation (subjective; interpretations will differ from viewer to viewer, but ultimately it is firmly rooted in evidence taken from the source material) VS a headcanon (unrelated and often even contrary to what is presented in canon; opinions wildly differ and they cannot be argued for because there is no canonical evidence to back it up).
ALSO please note that nonbinary is an umbrella term. this means that it applies to a vast range of gender identities. other identities that fall under the nonbinary umbrella include agender, bigender, genderfluid, and so on. however, it's my personal preference to use the term nonbinary as it is, simply because i'm not a fan of microlabels (more power to you if you do like them and find they suit you more though!).
also, before anyone fights me on this, let me clarify further that gender means something different to everyone. it's not your biological sex or physical characteristics. but at the same time, gender is not mere presentation. you can be a trans woman and still present masculineâeither because you're closeted and forced to, or because you just want toâand either way, that doesn't take away from your identity as a woman. same goes for trans men. if you're a trans man but you wear skirts and don't bind or don't get top surgery, that doesn't make you any less of a man. because gender non-conformity exists, and does not only apply to cis people! some lesbians are nonbinary and prefer using he/him pronouns while dressing masculinely, but that doesn't mean they're a man, or that they're any less of a lesbian. neither does this mean that they're a cis woman.
the thing about queer identities in general is that, like i said, they mean something different to everyone, because how you identifyâregardless of your biological attributes and fashion or pronounsâis an extremely personal experience. so a nonbinary person and a gnc cis woman's experiences might have plenty of overlap, but what distinguishes between the two is up to the individual. there's no set requirements to distinguish you as one or the other, but it's up to you to decide what you identify as, based on what you feel. either way, by simply identifying yourself as anything under the LGBTQ+ umbrella, you are already communicating to the world that you are not what a conservative, cisheteronormative society wants you to be.
which is why i find all this queer infighting on labels to be so ridiculous. because we're all fighting the same fight; the common enemy is a societal structure that divides us into set roles and expectations purely based on our biological parts. that's why biological essentialism in the queer community is a fucking disease. because by arguing that women are inherently weak and fragile and soft and gentle and must be protected from evil ugly men, while men are inherently strong and angry and violent and exploitative of women, these people are advocating for the same fucked up system that marginalises and abuses women as well as effeminate and/or gay men.
anyway. i'm going on a tangent. this was meant to be a blue eye samurai post. so yeah back to thatâ the point i'm trying to make is that there's no singular way to identify as anything, as everyone's views on gender, especially their own, is specific and personal to the individual.
so with that being said, yes you can definitely interpret mizu as a gnc cis woman and that's a totally valid reading of the text. however, interpreting her as nonbinary or transmasc also doesn't take away from her experiences with misogyny and female oppression, because nonbinary and transmasc folks also experience these things.
me, personally, i view her as nonbinary but not necessarily or not always transmasc because i still believe femininity and womanhood is a very inherent part of who mizu is. for example, from what we've seen, she does not like binding. it does not give her gender euphoria, but is instead very uncomfortable for her both physically and mentally, and represents her suppressing her true self. which is why when she "invites the whole" of herself, she stands completely bare in front of the fire, breasts unbound and hair untied. when she is on the ship heading to a new land in the ending scene, she is no longer hiding her neck and the lack of an adam's apple. we can thus infer that mizu does not have body dysmorphia. she is, in fact, comfortable in her body, and relies on it extremely, because her body is a weapon. instead, what mizu hates about herself is her faceâher blue eyes. she hates herself for her hybridised racial identity, hates herself for being a racial Other. hates that she has no home in her homeland. thus it is important to note that these are not queer or feminist themes, but postcolonial ones.*
* and as a tiny aside on this subject, i really do wish more of the fandom discussion would talk about this more. it's just such an essential part to reading her character. like someone who's read homi k bhabha's location of culture and has watched this show, PLEASE talk to me so we can ramble all about how the show is all about home and alienation from community. please. okay anywayâ
nevertheless, queer and feminist themes (which are not mutually exclusive by the way!) are still prevalent in her story, though they are not the main issue that she is struggling with. but she does struggle with it to some extent, and we see this especially during her marriage with mikio, where we see her struggle in women's domestic spaces.
on the other hand, though, she finds no trouble or discomfort in being a man or being around other menâeven naked onesâand does not seem stifled by living as one, does not seem all that bothered or uncomfortable navigating through men's spaces. contrast this to something like disney's mulan (1998), where we do see mulan struggle in navigating through men's spaces, as she feels uncomfortable being around so many men, always feeling like she doesn't belong and that she's inherently different from them. mizu has no such experiences like this, as her very personality and approach to life is what can be categorised as typically "masculine". she is straightforward and blunt. her first meeting with mikio, she tells him straight to his face that he's old while frowning and raising a brow at him. she approaches problems with her muscles and fists (or swords), rather than with her words or mind. compare this with mulan, who, while well-trained by the end of the movie, still uses her sharp wits rather than brute strength. this is a typically "feminine" approach. it's also the approach akemi relies on throughout the showâthrough her intelligence and persuasive tongue, she navigates the brothel with ease. mizu, in contrast to someone like mulan and akemi, struggles with womanhood and femininity, and feels detached from it.
thus, in my opinion, mizu is not simply a man, nor is she simply a woman. she is both. man and woman. masculine and feminine. she has to accept both, rather than suppress one or the other. her name means water. fluid.
as a side note, while i do believe mizu is nonbinary, i also primarily use she/her pronouns for her, but this is a personal preference. i find it's easier to use in fanfic (singular they is confusing to write stories with, but again, that's just my feelings on it, and this is coming from someone who uses they/they pronouns). i also lean towards she/her because it's what the creators and all the official promotional copywriting of the show uses. and even though i am a "death to the author" enjoyer, i feel that when interpreting things that are left open-ended, it does help to look at the creators' take on things. also because, in general, being nonbinary simply doesn't necessitate the use of they/them pronouns. nonbinary is not just a third gender. it's about breaking the binary, in any which way, and that's exactly what mizu does, constantly.
also, i'd also like to mention that one of show's head of story even referred to her with the term "nonbinary", rather than simply "androgynous" (see pic below). and it's possible this could be a slip up on his part, in which he believes the terms are interchangeable (they're not btw), but regardless i find it a very interesting word choice, and one that supports my argument.
so anyway yeah that's my incredibly long rambling post.
TL;DR nonbinary mizu rights đđ»đđ»đđ» congrats if you reached the end of this btw. also ily. unless you're a TERF in which case fuck off. ok i'm done.
#shut up haydar#fandom.rtf#meta dissertations.pdf#mizu blue eye samurai#mizu bes#blue eye samurai#blue eye samurai meta#sorry if this is redundant btw i just cant stop thinking thoughts :3#btw i am a mixed* southeast asian who is also nonbinary. just in case that's important context#by mixed* i mean i'm asian+asian but diff ethnicities lol. i dont have a white bone in my body god bless<3#my whiteness is purely learned thru cultural osmosis + bcs my parents taught me english as a first language (boooo đ
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)#also i live in the global south so i think EYE know a thing or two about being gnc in a society of rigid awful gender rolesâŒïž#so likeee i think its ridiculous that its an either-or thing#mizu can be nonbinary while still being a woman of colour ÂŻ\_(ă)_/ÂŻ#also ummm as much as i love queer themes and gay people i wish people would talk more about the racial otherness / community aspect#as mentioned in the post above#you don't need to read bhabha's whole book btw but just take a look at some of his ideas and you'll get what im talking about#like the fact that the fandom mostly ignores those themes in the story makes me feel like :( :/#cuz to me THATS the thing that spoke to me most and its a shame that its just not talked about enough#i mean i know why thats likely the case. but still.#whoops im rambling again đ€Ș
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Close ups on the pocket details!!! I'm SUPER happy w how the top pockets look đłđłđł
I think the variety of pride pins with the moral panic button/Mr Faggot beadwork just. Really sells it. Shadow the Hedgehog voice Pee Your Pants. If you're going to be a shithead about me I'm going to be really annoying and do a bit about it. Plus the little golden angel pin... ALSO really pulls the whole thing together. "God help you" Right in front of my guardian angel? Really? đAnd how could I not make mention of. The Skull. I love you The Skull. It's a button (not sewn on yet, pinned) that I filled the details in w nail polish. Oh yeah! Besides the bottle cap pins (acrylics sealed with mod podge and a prayer), the biggest addition there is the chain lining the pocket flap! I think it looks SO SLICK
The pansy was gonna go on the queer side, but then I got the boutonniere idea! And I think it looks nice! Kinda adds to the asymmetry of the floral print/plaid blocking. And... of course.... I have... my friends...... đ„ș Biggest additions here are the glow-star pentagram pin, soda tabs and the heart locket!
I don't really have many new additions to the bottom pockets. Not yet! The only thing I did was stitch one side of the handcuff chain, and rearrange the pins holding up the other side. The cuffs/scorpion was just an impulse addition before going to a concert. But I do like it! And it looks even better now! Meanwhile, that other pocket, I actually have no idea what I'll do. Sakura is just there cause she matches really well, esp w the angel pin actually!
#punk tag#diy punk#my projects#I FORGOT I USED THAT TAG .#also i AM gonna put patches on this thang I PROMISE. I WAS TOO SCARED LAST RUN. THIS RUN. WILL BE DIFFERENT.#again still waiting. but i really really wanted to show off/talk about the details!!!!!#i have sooooo many Thoughts behind this jacket like. an entire ideology. it almost feels like drag in a way#like! in the sense that there's a performance and art going on here. if my existence is inherently controversial#then i'm gonna lean into that. make you sit with that. and i'm NO LONGER CUTE ABOUT IT#<- guy who called himself cute yesterday bc I LOOKED REALLY GOOD. IT WAS AWESOME. OKAY#i forget i have a body and a face so much.#also! the cuffs!!! feel like a slight nod to the kink community. like. i really do feel like the demonization of kink#is the reason why so much. everything is so bad. i have thoughts about this but i can't fully articulate them rn#but like. points at the sign that says all queerness and esp queer expression is kink in the eyes of bigots#points at the sign that those are my friends you asshole. it might even be me. who knows....#any which way! really coming together! i do really need to get studs though i think. the. horrors.#and also i'll look sick as hell.#rn i feel it's... well. not exactly subtle but i am fortunate to live in a safe area. i live in mind your own business state.#not like. saying that to you i mean like that's the general attitude where i live LMFAOOO#the worst i've gotten is a lady saying 'god help you' to me in passing. and that was really recent#an indication of ohhh changing tides. unsettling. but also she couldn't even look me in the eye when she said that lmfao#any which way! i am thinking of my safety but also i do feel like i'm lucky enough to have time.#my jacket
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I will never be over how at its core OFMD is about queer hope and joy in finding the strength to change and grow, specially during a stage in life/age at which the majority will say that you should be settled with who you are and what you're doing
From Stede falling in love with a man and finally realising he's queer, and embracing that with all the overwhelming joy that he can possibly embody, after years stuck in an unhappy marriage trying to force himself into a role that didn't fit him
To Ed finally falling in love with someone and using that as a catalyst for change to find out for himself what he wants to do and who he wants to be, after years of feeling like he was stuck in one place and treading water
To Izzy finally finding a safe community where he can try out new things and find new ways to express himself, after years of being so tightly wound up and repressed
To Anne & Mary stuck in a rut and unhappy but scared they're too old to change, burning down their old life so they can move on forward together and try something new
To Buttons doing the impossible and changing into a fucking bird
Doesn't it give you hope?
Doesn't it make you overwhelmed?
That no matter what age you're at and no matter how scared you are and no matter how impossible it seems, you can still grow, you can still change, you can still find your people and you can still discover new things about yourself.
That you don't need to figure out everything about yourself in your 20s. That you don't need to fall in love and start the perfect life by your 30s. That you don't need to know exactly who you are and how you're expected to spend your life by your 40s.
That you don't need to remain stuck in the box you put yourself into because that's what people dictated or because that's what was safest.
That you can always grow and change and try something new and it's never too late
#specially if you're asian there's so much pressure to get everything settled for the rest of your life before you reach your 30s#and finding queer community early on is /much/ harder#it becomes very easy to feel like you're failing in life if you don't hit every single checkpoint expected of you before you reach your 30s#so seeing a show about older queer people reaching these checkpoints at an older age heals something in me#they fucked up izzy's personal arc tho BUT I also understand this show's about gentlebeard#& for that to happen they needed to surgically remove izzy from ed (or they could have made it into a polycule- WHO SAID THAT!?)#someone's probably already said this in a much more put together way but i'm currently having emotions about it so...#ofmd spoilers#ofmd#our flag means death#our flag means death spoilers#our flag means death season 2#ofmd season 2#ofmd s2#our flag means death s2#gentlebeard#blackbonnet#ofmd edward teach#ofmd ed teach#edward teach#ofmd stede#stede bonnet#ofmd izzy#izzy hands#ofmd buttons#nathaniel buttons#ofmd mary read#mary read#ofmd anne bonny#anne bonny
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everyone! I need yâallâs help, so I love love love an author named T.J.Baer. He is a small, trans author who is trying to kickstart audiobooks for his new two books âDreamersâ and âThe Boy Who was kissedâ. He is kickstarting âDreamersâ first and if that does well, he will do one for âThe Boy Who Was Kissedâ
please at least just check out this video and see more about this!!
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#I donât normally post stuff like this#But this means so much to me#transgender#trans author#queer community#author#Youtube
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i have officially returned. ask me anything.
#random thoughts#i'll probably answer it tomorrow because i'm tired. i don't know why.#ciel if you see this i've been nicer to myself these past few days following your birthday. taking care of myself in general aspects.#which i sort of hate myself for but it's okay because. uh. i won't be like this forever. i'll be better at what i'm trying to do i promise.#new year's resolution is not fucking with me.........#oh also!! i've been sort of feeling like a dead person at times. and also like a cockroach. i have had to repeatedly tell myself that#i'm not dead i'm not dead!!!!#because i'm not. obviously. and i know i'm not. my brain is just silly. it likes to tell me i am things i am not like book characters.#and recently my mother got me my own rosary and we've been practicing praying together with my brother.#can you imagine how bad it must be for me to turn to christianity as a coping mechanism? not even when i was terrorized with death thoughts#not even in august for fuck's sake.#but it's actually not that bad. though i think i like the idea of organized religion more than i like being a part of it.#also i feel like my being catholic (mostly non-practicing) is betraying the queer community somehow. like. queer people have suffered#so much because of the christian church in general. so it's like. being christian is weird when i'm also queer.#but also then i feel weird when i try to do things in relation to christianity. like. put saint in my artist name.#that feels blasphemous i don't know. is it?????? it's not that serious either way but. augh.#i am going to write a song about this. also fellow christians is it okay to use the lyric 'uselessly clutching her rosary' or is that bad?#because i mean. technically. the she i'm referring to sort of is. because god isn't solving any of our problems.#he's just fucking. watching. if he's even real.#(and no my disappearance isn't related to the catholicism thing it's something else. as in the one thing i haven't told anyone else but cie#and an irl friend. if you are ciel then i am completely open to talking about said thing.#otherwise i will continue to drop cryptic little notes on my blog because I AM SILLY. {: )#going to play roblox now and maybe say hello to you fuckers on discord for a bit of fun. goodbye.
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iâm. hmm. ok still canât get over bi benedict
THANK YOUUUU and that small gay panic from francesca amazing
#pt of s3 bridgerton#it makes me need a cigarette#and i donât smoke lmaooo#but my god we lost creloise to poor communication#mostly on eloiseâs end#bby girl#you were everywhere#and i donât blame you#still reeling from last seasons drama#but not properly dealing with that and just repressing it#then lashing out on penelope and cressida#i hope scotland helps her grow more#i think season 3 set her up for season 4 being her season#that or benedict#but i do hope now the penloise have reconciled#so does creloise#they were good friends#i mean it was because of lady whistledown that they even became friends#but it was because of her too that they had that explosive end of a friendship that was good for them#ahhh#i canât words any more#but i do hope creloise reconnects even as friends#they deserve that much#creloise#bridgerton#bridgerton spoilers#we got 2 bi reps#maybe in the future some queer eloise#ÂŻ\_(ă)_/ÂŻ
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@katkastrofa, circa 40-ish hours ago: Hey, what if our newest bunch of OCs adopted a baby from one of the other brothel girls who knew she couldnât afford to raise one? That would make for some fun shenanigans :D
Me, with a notoriously non existent sleep schedule, instinct of self preservation or concern for my poor wrist: Alright, bet. Watch how fast I can make you fall in love with this hypothetical baby >:)
Daneli as a gentle and loving caretaker-turned-adoptive-mother is something that can be So Personal, actually, and originally I was going to leave it at this quick sketch, but then I got carried away thinking about what this child will grow up to be like raised by this little gang of misfits, soâŠ
Here she is!! A little older and so, so beautiful, I need more of her in my life immediately, sheâs way too precious
And, because I wouldnât be me if I didnât also add a sapphic element to this absolute cinnamon roll, a small crack ship that Iâm only half serious about for when sheâs a little older still:
All in all, we may be getting impossibly far from canon, but I for one already cannot get enough of sweet darling Kumisai <3
(I fully drew three pieces from scratch in 9 hours I cannot feel my brain or my hands anymore send help)
#my art#artists on tumblr#the legend of korra#original characters#jinora#wow. nia drew a canon character? what is this?? who was I replaced by???#but joking aside. a small explanation for this crack ship#originally it was me editing my timeline and realising that Kumisai would be around 14/15 during book 4. the same age as Jinora#so my mind immediately went đđđ and I decided to go for it#since in sotrl I sorta implied Jinora had a gay awakening by watching Suiren. so.. why not go all out and make her another baby queer?#no offence to Kai. what they had was rather cute tbh. but it felt kinda out of nowhere and just added for the sake of parental drama#plus she was a young girl meeting someone her age for the first time. of course she got a crush#doesnât mean she has to stick with it you know?#anyway. as for how they would meet. Midori could introduce them :D#Kumisai is Daneliâs daughter. whoâs a friend of Summiyaâs. whoâs Zaheerâs sister. whoâs Midoriâs uncle. whoâs friends with Jinora#and spirits know Jinora deserves to act her age a little more often. she has way too many responsibilities on her shoulders#so maybe Midori would think that a friend her age would do her some good#and donât even try to tell me these two wouldnât be absolutely adorable puppy crushing on each other. look how cute Jinora turned out here#might be the first time Iâve drawn her? not sure. maybe I did before but it was A LONG time ago. 2019 ish#but okay. enough rambling about Jinora. back to Kumisai#I donât really have too many headcanons about her yet. but sheâs probably rather happy and carefree#having a large support system as a result of being raised communally#I think she considers Daneli her mom and the others are her aunties. auntie Shezan in particular is a notoriously bad influence :)#and maybe one day sheâd get to meet her bio mom. but only if thatâs something both of them want. not sure yet#I feel like sheâs rather disconnected from her water tribe heritage since everyone around her is Earth Kingdom. save Phailin whoâs half FN#but she still has small hints of blue in her clothing. the colour matching her beautiful eyes. maybe she is curious about her bio dad a bit#since unlike with her bio mom no one knew him and canât tell her anything. thatâs bound to come as a natural curiosity at some point right?#maybe that can be part of her story when sheâs an adult. trying to find her bio dad. but ultimately it doesnât matter that much#because Daneli is her mom and the only parent she needs <3 Iâm really just throwing out suggestions here to fill the tag space#kaaatttt come discuss all this stuff with me I waited all night for you to wake up >:) distract me from my grandmaâs tv watching
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question for you all
(the husband is NOT abed. important info)
(read the tags for my âabbreviatedâ thoughts If You So Desire)
#because like#obviously heâs gay like I think we all agree his character makes no sense unless you read him as gay#so him having a wife would likely completely counteract all that queer coding and just be. completely wrong for him#which would be difficult to watch tbh#BUT#if he has a husband it means the writers acknowledge his queerness but are ignoring what that means for his relationship with abed#like theyâre just making him gay for representation points and giving him some throwaway husband character#voltron style#actually both of these options are kinda voltron style tbh#but one of them is referencing klance and one is referencing shiro or whatever his name is#Iâve never actually seen that show thank god that migjt be too much for me#ANYWAY I got very sidetracked#so yeah him having a husband would also be. ouchie. like what about abed. what about everything theyve been through#what abouuuut trust#jesus christ okay thatâs enough tags#just curious abt yalls thoughts on this#community#nbc community#community nbc#abed nadir#troy barnes#trobed#troy and abed#community tv#six seasons and a movie#community movie
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#I mean I am on both the aromatic and asexual spectrums#and I do already refer to myself as Angled Aroace#but like there have been times where I've felt that attraction#not often but sometimes#I mean I call myself queer#but I wouldn't wanna like give anyone false hope by SAYING I'm queer#incase they think I am gay or bi (or rlly any orientation that they might have a shot with)#like I don't want someone to make a move the get upset#bc I said I'm queer even tho I'm primarily on the aspec (with some v rare instances of attraction yes)#like love and sex and stuff like that is so heavily centered in the queer community and rlly just society as a whole#that I feel like if I just say I'm queer that me being aspec won't even be on their radar#and ik I shouldn't care what ppl think#but I just hate when ppl are upset me and it feels like it'd be such an awkward situation to be in#and I don't have the time or the energy to explain wtf it means to be an âomni-oriented aroflux greysexualâ yk?????#honestly I barely consider myself omni-oriented nowadays#not as much as I did#I just don't rlly feel the attraction often enough to use the term or identify w it#it's mostly to explain the attraction I felt more in the past#or thought I felt#idk.#anyway#aroace? not aroace?#I don't wanna like appropriate the term but it feels like the most concise word I can use w/o feeling like a complete and utter liar.#aroace#aspec#tumblr polls#queer
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Not to be a simp but gods Gomez and Morticia
âI would die for her! I would kill for her! Either way, what bliss!â ARE YOU FUCKIN KIDDING ME?! Iâm just supposed to keep living normally after hearing that?!
A husband and wife so deeply devoted and in love that they cannot wait to be buried side by side? A couple for whom death isnât the end not even necessarily because of an afterlife but because decaying together sounds so magical?! And people just expected me to be normal after that?
He sees the universe in her eyes and she sees it in his and when it all eventually dies their love will remain etched on their headstones for everyone to see forevermore?! An eternity of silence and yet theyâre screaming I LOVE YOU I ADORE YOU I TREASURE YOU and people will be able to feel it just by looking at their grave and they will be confused and afraid because they canât imagine being so in love that being left to rot in boxes in the ground together sounds just as romantic as a candle lit dinner
#anyways Iâm built different and by that I mean transgender and autistic and queer#when I get my legal name change Iâm changing my last name to Addams#they would get me itâd be great to be in that family#Iâd show up and be like âhey guys I would like to be an Addams and also to study decaying corpsesâ#and theyâd be like âby gods youâre an Addams already! weâve missed you so much!â#something something I need a supportive community#ani rambles#the addams family#gomez addams#morticia addams#addams family#I would die for her I would kill for her either way what bliss
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izzy participating in drag and publicly embracing his own artistic talents as a form of queer self and community acceptance is genuinely so healing im gonna pass away
#it truly means so much to me i am not normal about this#bc weâve all been there as queers#and first foray into interacting with your community is liberating and genuinely changes you forever#and with the unicorn metaphor too#someone sedate me#izzy hands#ofmd#ofmd spoilers#ofmd s2#ofmd s2 spoilers#my posts
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All that said though I think there's a lot of room for the ages to be up for interpretation, for the Askr siblings. But the key thing to me is that it was established Book 4 that Sharena has been an adult for some time (for Alfonse to say it like that), meanwhile it's established through Sanaki that Veronica is a young teen or even pre-teen. That's really what matters to me, when it comes to my own discomfort with romantically shipping Veronica with either of them, extending to Thrasir and Lif as well. I also feel like the bridal duo does a good job portraying that Sharena and Veronica's relationship is more of a mentor/role model thing, a family friend or a friend you consider family.
#feh#TALKING. SO MUCH ABOUT THIS. so sorry LMFAOOOO#like. it's complicated. found family can be complicated. i never want to use that phrase to write off romantic pairings either#like. it's a whole thing in the queer/kink community. i mean. the whole concept of leather daddies LMFAOOO#but like. to me this isn't that. bc each sibling met/has known veronica since she was a kid/they were already adults#and much like they way i always think of veronica as being 13 or 15 depending on the portrait#i feel like the askr siblings would feel the same. that's just what i think.#i've also just been in the shoes of veronica i think. where i'd be in a group of much older kids as a younger kid#esp w the age differences between me and my sisters!#idk it's just a personal thing to me. again not starting discourse about it. đ
đ§#fe veronica#sharena#fe alfonse
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