#the absolute mad woman.

[laweyd]

Friendly reminder that I made a new comic for @shortboxcomicsfair coming this October !!

It’s going to be a romantic thriller with a hint of comedy and the supernatural !

[bananonbinary]

as a certified Diagnosed Autist(TM) i cannot stress enough that i am not only pro- self-diagnosis, but also pretty anti- legal medical diagnosis. it is, at best, a cruel hoop we have to jump through so privileged people will deign to give us what we need. don't fucking do that shit unless you have to, it was disgustingly expensive, fucking humiliating, infantilizing, and dehumanizing, and would probably actively cause problems in my life if i didn't have some really good allistic (-passing) people in my corner and also wasn't so fucking disabled that it mostly doesn't matter.

literally get that diagnosis if you need it for job/school accessibility shit or SSI or whatever, and otherwise dont tell the government SHIT about yourself. there is zero good reason for them to want that information. that's between you and the people you want in your life.

[princescar]

Enomatsumiki ot3 charts bc them and Chappell Roan is the only thing that has been keeping me stable

[lifeandeathepub]

mochizun heard y'all calling vnc queerbaiting and said NOT ON MY WATCH. absolute icon. gay people win again. polycule rights.

[sweetestberryofthebunch]

Guess who‘s about to restart Act 2 because Mizora and Wyll were bitching and then Shadowheart had some feelings and AND THEN FUCKING GALE cockblocked my Karlach Romance scene so long that it glitched into non existence and she basically friendzoned me in the process :/ I literally finished everything when i realised and decided to look at the Wiki lmao. At least it’s kind of a common thing that happens so it wasn’t my fault. Bye bye five hours of pretty good gameplay, I‘ll see you again when i rush through this a second time…

[paperglader]

imgonnagetyouback is the most franchaela post michaela's return from india song to ever be sung. no i will not elaborate.

[xadenviolct]

FINALLY got around to reading the Xaden POV bonus chapter 27 that came with the paperback edition of Fourth Wing released this past Tuesday.

I mean, I've had it on my shelf since Tuesday. (We are totally not talking about the different number of editions of these books I've gotten so far. Because there is NO SUCH THING as too many when it comes to this series, I swear!)

Anyway...

I've said it over and over, that I desperately need more Xaden POV chapters for a whole bunch of reasons, and not the least of which is Sgaeyl. Sgaeyl is fucking awesome and I love her and the bond she has with Xaden and just-- I need more Sgaeyl, okay?!

Especially with the events at the end of Iron Flame but we're not going into that right now.

This bonus chapter just further confirmed my "GIVE ME MORE SGAEYL" desperation. I mean, it goes without saying that I desperately need more Xaden--because, um, hello? It's Xaden! We're talking about a character that took me in an utter choke hold so fucking much so quickly more than any other in recent memory--

But yeah.

I'm basically rambling to say this:

I need more Xaden.

I need more Sgaeyl.

And I just... need more of all of them.

But definitely those two.

[stardustdiiving]

They’re going to confirm my idea of Arlecchino cycles of abuse story and I am going to go absolutely bonkers

[80sdragonbreath]

This bugged me this morning

I had a "discussion" (lol, can anything on Tumblr be called a discussion?) with two feminists. Not particularly hardcore feminists.

We got to the topic of divorce and how men can't complain about unfair court outcomes because, basically, men don't ask for custody. One of the two feminists even offered a feminist source to back their claims up with.

...

I told them my story.

I was a stay-at-home dad for the first 7 years of my kids lives. I did everything including all the housework. But when the marriage deteriorated, my (now ex-) wife made false allegations against me, had me removed from my own home and from my kids' lives, didn't adhere to a single court order, destroyed my (very good) relationship with my children, and made it obvious to everyone that if I continued to seek to be a part of my kids lives, she would destroy everyone around her.

It was the most painful decision I have ever had the misfortune to face.

Do I fight for what's rightfully my kids' and my futures - a demonstrated loving and caring father in their lives?

Or do I spare them from the glaringly obvious destructive witch who sees them as pawns in her game and WILL NOT STOP until she has destroyed everyone?

I chose to spare them. I intentionally signed myself out of my own children's lives, to spare them from a fate worse than I could imagine. It was the least-bad of the (only) bad outcomes that we faced. There wasn't an opportunity to choose a good outcome, or even a balanced or fair outcome. That wasn't on the table.

It broke my heart.

So MY stats will record that I voluntarily gave up all access to my own children. I am one of the feminists "stats" that shows that dads simply DO NOT CARE about their children.

"Ehrmergerd! If men akshually cared about their kids, and ASKED for custody, they would get it! My feminist source tells me so! LMAO LOSER"

That breaks my heart a second time.

90% of the men that I came across in that time told me the same story. They didn't want to fight, but their ex was making life impossible, and their ex had told them outright that she would destroy them and their relationships if they didn't comply with her demands.

That's not included in the "stats" of fathers giving up access to their own children.

Nope, and no feminists want to think that a) women are capable of that, or b) that if she's doing it, she's acting alone. Of course, it must be something HE'S done!

Even my sister said to me "Well you must have done SOMETHING for her to act that way?"

Or maybe, dear sister, maybe she has a mental illness?? It's NEVER the woman's fault, apparently.

This conversation brought up too much for me to handle, so I blocked them, where normally I wouldn't.

Men are telling you their lived experience, and you're telling them they are wrong.

Didn't that happen to women once upon a time.....?

[laweyd]

〰️ The Fool, The absolute Mad Woman.〰️

100+ b/w pages, a romantic thriller with a hint of comedy.

I’m happy present my new comic coming out at @shortboxcomicsfair this October !!

[ctrl-lupin]

I'm too gay for this shit

[lesbianwyllravengard]

I think the fact that 100% of the "toxicity" from gale and mystra's relationship prior to what we see in the game is completely fabricated by fanon should say a lot about the misogyny gale stans so easily fall into. But y'all aren't ready for that convo obviously

[fleshdyk3]

god i fucking hate my dad

[timoswerner]

that blonde demon woman needs to be stopped

[evilmosquito47893]

People who don't have to do Irish in school, you don't understand how lucky you are. Count your days.

A single glance at cúpla would put you in a coma, cáca milis would probably kill you

[makotonaegiunderstander]

do you ever go do autism crazy for something you can feel it in ur chest. like it’s hard to breathe almost it’s making you gasp for breath and jump around physically. got an adrenaline rush thinking abt Kirigiri.