#talk about overshare

[jakeperalta]

very sexy of joe alwyn to have the eyes of millions of prying swifties on him for months and to only ever be like "btw you should care about gaza"

[ominousgradient]

I feel like if the twins had a youtube channel it would all be SPENDING 24 HOURS IN A HAUNTED WALMART baby slop content with them pogging in every thumbnail

Meanwhile Snotlouts channel would consist of rant videos where he complains about his life and shits on media he dislikes and overall it'd just be him being a bitter little hater

[lily-claw]

Togachako Week Day 5: Middle School

What couldve been...

[wiremotherofficial]

i often feel bad for like running away across the country and estranging myself from my family on purpose, but then i make the mistake of trying to be open about literally anything and am instantly reminded that i objectively cannot survive in that environment

[hurglewurm]

me: we are Not going to worsen our life while in a minor depressive episode

the brain: :/

[asurrogateblog]

The Syd Poll

the topic of this poll is one that is frequently avoided in the pink floyd fandom, but inevitably one we all consider – our individual views on what we think caused syd's psychological struggles (and by extension, led to his departure from the band). I think that – at least in this neighborhood of tumblr – this is a conversation we are capable of having in a way that is civil, nuanced, and at least minimally disrespectful to syd.

So, to help facilitate this, here are some ground rules:

let's all assume we have a mutual understanding of the complexities of this. syd could never actually be reduced down to a poll, and all of our viewpoints are limited in various ways

the poll options just serve as just a conversation starter, and responses are not necessarily a statement of absolute beliefs

feel free to discuss as much or as little of your own perspective as you feel comfortable sharing.

in the case that debates break out, please try to assume good intent – and also demonstrate it (unless, for instance, someone is being blatantly insulting beyond a misunderstanding that needs correcting)

please do NOT vote if you are not actually a pink floyd fan with at least basic knowledge about what we're talking about here.

The options I've included below are not meant to be exhaustive, they are simply the "theories" that I have seen most commonly circulated. I have also decided not to include combinations. I'm fairly sure we'd all agree multiple factors were involved. Rather than make the poll too complicated, I ask you to instead select the one that you think is the "most" important to your viewpoint, and clarify further in your tags/comments as you wish.

so. here we go.

READ BEFORE VOTING ^^^^

(note of correction: "late-onset schizophrenia" should just be "schizophrenia". the typical timeline for onset of symptoms is late adolescence/early adulthood, so syd would've been well within that period at the time)

[bulbabutt]

kinda laughing for no reason about the shock people have when feminist men turn out to have abused women behind closed doors

it’s like when i tell people my father abused me that the assumption is that he’s religious and conservative, that he’d be racist and homophobic. complete opposite. definitely taught me a lot about how conservatives wish women would stay home with the children…. yet that is literally what he expected of my mother, you know? despite how he presented himself to society as being kind and charismatic, behind closed doors it was always loud and cruel. behind closed doors he hurt women in my family. he hurt me.

but you can probably still see him today on social media sites as the reply guy to many a leftist cause. championing the marginalized. advocating for believing women.

doesn’t mean he didn’t abuse me.

there’s not just an archetype of abusive men seeing women as having a role, it’s all about power and societal expectation. even the most liberal men will fall for it if they haven’t unpacked that kind of thing.

[atalienart]

I don't know what I'm doing with my life, don't mind me. I guess I'm procrastinating writing another chapter. Do you know any similar memes for procrastination purposes?

[the-one-who-lambs]

After a week, I finally wrote for an hour and got 400 words. My thoughts become messy if I haven't written in a while, which... consequently makes it harder to write. It's a catch-22: the thing that is most helpful is also one of the hardest to do. But nevertheless, I go on and persist!

[strawberri-draws]

Some dream Halloween costumes because I don’t have one this year </3

[relivethisdream]

“You need to be respectful towards people who aren’t comfortable sharing their F/Os, they have boundaries that need to be respected just as much as anyone else’s” and “While it’s completely fine to keep your distance from people who share your F/Os, you shouldn’t be putting them down just because they’re fine with sharing and you aren’t” are sentiments than CAN, and moreover SHOULD coexist

[bohnerrific69]

my peter brainrot is taking all of me so badly theses days, at the point that everytime i play a videogame i think "what would peter chose? or like? his fav character?"

[barghest-land]

tw suicide thanks to everyone who reached out and helped with the info, i'm sorry i can't really respond to messages rn cuz i just don't have any resources for it if anyone ever needs it tho, this thing works no matter where you're from and calling them from overseas isn't even expensive. it's english mostly but it's possible to talk in spanish to them too, idk about other languages; they also have a department (?) specially for queer people: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: +1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255) i thought it might also help someone. a few things that were important to me: it's also a crisis line. no, u don't have to be suicidal to call, no, u don't have to stand-on-the-roof-ready-to-jump to call. they usually call back on the next day to check if everything is ok, but they can't call back overseas. u can always do that urself if u need to tho that's ok too. also ofc u don't have to share any personal info. in my case it's also good that i don't have to speak my native language cuz i don't want a call to be traced by some phrases.

stay safe

[cumcoveredangelx]

i love when your blog has a normal non nude presence, both are fine but just know people do appreciate you for things outside of nudity :)

Wow thank you I appreciate this a lot.. seriously. I’m currently crying because it’s something I’ve done since I’m so young. I remember being so alone and going unnoticed for so long. The only encouraging positive thing I was ever told as a child was you’re pretty then followed up with BUT you’re also fat and not smart. I believed her.. I believed them. I thought or I hoped that being “pretty” and “attractive” would be enough.. but it’s not it’s an empty void I’ve chased my whole life.

[herefortarlos]

Please wish me luck as I call my dad back almost a week later since he tried to call me, but I was not in the mindset to deal with that. I am just barely in the "I can deal with this", headspace and I'm hoping this doesn't drain me. The second he inevitably starts taking about politics though, I am done.

[drawlfoy]

the one thing that my snobby ass private liberal arts college didn’t prepare me for was the amount of normal people i have to interact with on a regular basis