#suspect DMs

[kettouryuujin]

Look, I get that the Gaza crisis is a real thing and a big deal. But sending me DMs asking for money is not the way to go - you just come off as a potential scammer. There’s way too many red flags from this.

I know your cause may be legitimate, but people could very well be using this to scam money for themselves. It’s scum of the earth behavior, but it exists, so yeah.

When I make a charitable donation of any sort, I’ll do it thru verified channels I can trust, not some random GoFundMe I get sent a link to.

[axolotlclown]

We need to remember that Shubble stated that Wilbur would manipulate and gaslight friends and family. With this, we must be patient with streamers that were close to Wilbur. This was likely surprising and shocking for them. They may need time to come to terms with what has happened.

I have been vocal about how important it is for men to be critical about abusive behaviors. However, Wilbur had many close friends—some would even consider him family—and now they may feel they hardly knew him at all.

There is a deep stress felt by viewers. It is difficult to think we have given any amount of time or money to an abuser. Could you imagine a close friend right now? The pain and betrayal must sear. They need time to understand what has happened and come to terms with it. Many of them may not be live in the coming days (weeks even).

That being said, as time passes, criticism may be necessary. Complacency is not an option. Men that are willing to ignore abuse to protect an abuser are just as pathetic as the abusers themselves.

Let's give this situation time to breathe. I ask that we give patience and courtesy to those close to Wilbur at this time. But please do not forget that this happened. There may be a few streamers hoping to lay low and then drop a collab in a few months. Do not let them. This is too important.

[nothing-but-paisley]

You ever just think about all the freshly unearthed heartache and bitterness Armand packs into the line "Why did I owe YOUGGh"

[qilingxiong]

shoutout to everyone in the mysterious lotus casebook tag i've talked with in the last few weeks since the show started airing. analyzing and theorizing about characters + themes and losing our minds together in tags is genuinely one of the most enjoyable collective experiences i've had in fandom in a while, and i'm so glad i've gotten to make friends with some of you through it (whether people i already knew from before but not too well, or new mutuals entirely). just wanted to say thank you to y'all in that neat little circle, you've all been wonderful 💜

[wolfbrawn]

ooc . Sorry for the disappearing act, your girl was trapped in A&E hell.

[mx-lamour]

This is the best thing I've seen all day.

Azalin body snatching Alek Gwilym declared non-canon. Now I can appreciate it as an interesting concept without panicking.

[adelaidedrubman]

smh finally get a tmj diagnosis this week and this asshole cat has to upstage me getting diagnosed with triaditis

[emilieduchatele]

My friend's suicidal

What should I do? How can I talk to them about it? If you've ever been there what would it have helped you to hear?

[dungeons-and-dictions]

Dungeon Master Tip:

Describe things equally. It makes it harder to tell what the important plot point is, making it feel more sandbox-y despite having a story.

Also, it’s fun to see your players either pet all the animals or panic at what you’ve said.

[headspacedad]

dear [I’ve already blocked you and can’t remember your bot name]

Look, I’m really sorry your boyfriend has erectile dysfunction and you want to have sex with someone -

but climbing into my clown car to tell me so as I’m careening down this tumblr freeway hitting every single blorbo street sign and nuanced Sonic character discussion rest stop I can might not be your best option for that kind of thing.

[ramicorn]

god i dont understand my mother

she gets norton security for two years that literally is just slowing down her computer and isnt going to save her credit details if the bank does get hacked

anyway this deal comes with a vpn

vpns suck up all the data simply trying to connect on my internet and doesn't do anything

me: gently non forcefully explaining how the vpn is wasting money we dont need to be wasting

my mother: no stop acting like you can ordering me around

me and my dad: the vpn is slowing everything down and making the internet cut out

my mother: its my money i can do what i want

why cant she admit when shes wrong?

anyway apparently im not allowed to be right ever and my friends lovely response was maybe the salesman tricked her and she feels guilty

ive had a friend in primary school straight up say they dont want to come over cause my mum is scary

she acts like people are breaking into the house and stealing stuff (they arent its in her head) and screaming at my dad over it cause he told them or something

at this point my dad only interferes with her screaming at me when he can win an argument about it

cant tell anybody this cause ill get the shut up treatment and i dont want to deal with that

[catboytenya]

You know what's never not be funny to me? Being mutuals with someone because you both follow each other's sideblogs but neither of you realize you're mutuals because one of you doesn't publicly list your mainblog that you follow from

[mars-ipan]

fortune doodles bc i finally got to play him recently. he's got a little crush but dw he's being So Normal About It

[bluesuedeclogs]

i like the balance i've struck of having distinct personal style while still coming off as "professional". and some of that is facilitated by the leeway granted by a nonprofit environment, as opposed to, say, finance. and some of that has been hardwired by a father who would comment on wrinkles in your clothes the second he saw you.

[essektheylyss]

You know it's BAD when you have to turn to your DM and go, "So this rumor does not sound like this smaller thing I heard blown out of proportions, right—this sounds like, Calamity-Hall of Prophecies bullshit?" and he says, "Yep. :3"

[ubersaur]

wonder what the eta is on waiting for a tumblr help ticket to get processed.