#supportive Ramon

[captain-hen]

when eddie comes out to his family, ramon instantly makes it his mission to see him be happy and tries to set him up with all the nice mexican boys he knows (he's retired now he has the time) and he gets tia pepa on the case as well :) eddie cannot go to a single family gathering without his dad and aunt pulling out a long list of eligible bachelors for him to pick from and while he grumbles over it it secretly makes him feel so, so warm inside

[irisfluffy]

Eggs

[buddiedaydreamer911]

Helena: What was wrong with Ana?

Ramon: Yeah, she seemed like a lovely woman-

Eddie: that’s the point. she’s a woman.

Helena:

Ramon:

Adriana: ooohhhhhhhh

Sophia: omg things are finally starting to make sense about you-

[chayannesegg]

listen, i absolutely get ramon not wanting to talk to sunny & feeling hurt/betrayed by her helping tubbo

like, i'd hazard he might even feel more betrayed by them than tubbo himself—bc sunny & ramon probably talked about what family meant to him (during their sleepovers or something) and ramon has no insight into why they'd do that whereas tubbo, for all his actions have hurt ramon, very clearly has the emotional capacity of a wet paper plate and issues running deeper than marianas trench

but that makes it all the more heart wrenching that he won't hear her out (and you can see in the backgrounds of vods her multiple attempts over several days to get his attention just to be rebuffed) bc i bet if she could explain herself even a little things could be so different

it reminds of the situation from the other week where sunny wasn't talking with em and tubbo tried to explain that, even if you're mad at them, suddenly stopping talking to someone you love could make them feel awful and worse than you intended

and that is what's happening to sunny. it's miserable to see bc she was already so isolated and ramon, as her big brother, is someone she put a lot of trust in to be there for her and listen to her and it must feel to her like that was an empty promise to have him not even hearing her out.

and it's particularly tragic bc sunny didn't even want to mess with fit and pac. yes, she was "tempted" to aid tubbo in his quest, but I really don't think it was bc she was actually worried about being left behind when she agreed. i think she could tell tubbo was scared and hurting and not ready to accept the change and didn't want him to be alone. she didn't really have another option and every adult can see that but ramon is young and blinded by his hurt

and now sunny is left feeling abandoned and forgotten and replaced and it's exactly what their pa said would happen; self fulfilling prophecy :(

[tashastar678]

2024 VS 2023

I decided to redraw this because I really wanted to see how much I improved. What do you think?

[stagefoureddiediaz]

Eddie’s arc gonna be so so so good this season

The Chris stuff is going to hurt so bad and break me but healing is coming for them both and I’m expecting a Chris-tmas episode reunion of father and son

[svtskneecaps]

yknow what with the strife building between forever and bad and the ripple effect that might have on the server at large i think now is the perfect time to fridge bad. go touch grass, mr boyhalo, it's time to see people either fall apart or come together without you. bc listen. listen. when the dms are bumpin with 'bad can you ___' every thirty seconds. sometimes you just gotta steal badboyhalo and see what the fuck happens. i just want to know.

and i also want bad to slEEP GODDAMNIT

[lover-of-mine]

I love how we decided Ramon is a buddie shipper. So true besties. Let Eddie's dad be aggressively supportive of Eddie being happy with someone who's always there for him.

[callmebrutus]

also worth to mention

i do want qsmp project to continue. i want it to live. and i will proceed watching it when everything will be fixed, figured out and discussed. it's my hpfx, i can't drop it so easily.

so if you are going to send hate to quackity/new admins if there wil be any/cc's who wants to keep playing, or you don't want to see anything related to the server, you're welcome to soft block me. I understand your anger and you have the right to be upset, but we have our different ways. i will be liveblogging, i will be insane, i will be glad to any of the ccs stay or return if they want.

and i don't like seeing people encouraging creators to drop the project. not to mention it's a bm, because they all are adults and they know better what they want, without your commentary, but also it's just gives off negativity. so yeah, if you're this kind of person, please don't interact! or block me!

I don't want to make you uncomfortable and I don't want for you to make uncomfortable me.

i hope we agree on this.

stay safe!<3

[irisfluffy]

Mine 🌺🌺🌿🍃

[islib]

it's half past 1 am

I am smiling and giggling like a maniac over the relationship between a minecraft egg and a bald streamer

I have to write a presentation tomorrow but I also need to watch multiple vods because I am very parasocial about the other eggs

help.

[mariocki]

The Headless Eyes (1971)

"You've tried to alienate yourself but, Mal, I'm here, you -"

"Why? For two years I have been trying to live alone and to be able to accept this. Why are you here?"

"Because you haven't convinced me."

"Of what?"

"That you're incurable."

[icedteaandoldlace]

⭐️

Oh, thank you so much! This is going to be fun! Gonna dig a little into my favorite moment from Reversing the Damage (chapter 1 of Nights That Never End). I have the snippet here, for context. I think it probably speaks for itself, but I'm gonna elaborate on it, anyway.

So what's happening here—and throughout most of the chapter—is that Cisco is trying to explain his Reverse Flash trauma to Kamilla without oversharing and making her uncomfortable. And when she has an emotional reaction to learning about both what happened and how it still affects him, he tries to play it off like it isn't as bad as it sounds. He doesn't want her to be upset, or to feel obligated to listen and be supportive every time something bad from his past crops up again.

My semi-canon headcanon is that Cisco knows exactly the kind of relationship he wants, but doesn't feel entitled to expect or to ask for the amount of effort it would require from his partner to achieve the level of closeness that he wants. So he's in this place where he feels like giving 70% and receiving 30% is a reasonable exchange, because that's what he's used to (see: asking Cynthia if they could work out a better arrangement than the one they had, instead of asking her to leave the collectors and move in with him, which is what he really wanted). He doesn't really know how to have a girlfriend who is truly a partner. So he tries to convey to Kamilla that he's fine, and she doesn't have to take on all his emotional baggage, and he makes the joke that he doesn't expect her to hold his hand every time he has a nightmare, both in an attempt to lighten the mood, and as a subconscious deflection; he's basically offering to shut up and not bother Kamilla with his problems if she'd be more comfortable not knowing about them, before she has the chance to make the suggestion first, that way her setting that boundary would feel less like a rejection.

But of course, that's not what Kamilla wants. And she knows exactly what he's doing, even if he doesn't fully realize it himself. And she kinda wants to argue with him about it, but she doesn't know how to reassure him that she wants to be emotionally available for him, without sounding like she's just saying that to be polite. So instead of saying anything, she just holds his hand—literally—because that was the thing he said he didn't expect her to do. Without saying it outright, she's telling him that he should expect support and comfort from her when he needs it, because that's what loving someone means.

And Kamilla doesn't even consciously realize she's in love with him yet, but she's about to. Yeah, I know, canon says she knew he was the love of her life the moment she met him, but I see that more as her being instantly attracted to his personality, and recognizing that he was different/better than the guys she'd dated before, and someone who had the potential for her to be truly happy with. But actually falling in love with him was a process that required spending time with him and getting to know him. And my intent with the last line of this chapter is that this is the night Kamilla realizes she's in love with him. Because this isn't easy for her. Secondhand trauma is a very real and very not-fun thing, and the chapter ends with her lying awake, still thinking about the fact that Cisco's life almost ended before she even got the chance to meet him, and about the danger that the Reverse Flash still poses. Knowing what Cisco has been through and knowing that he isn't safe from it ever happening again is going to haunt her for a while, and that's gonna take her some time to emotionally recover from. But she is actively choosing to be Cisco's confidant and to go through all this with him, because to her it's worth it if it helps him heal. That's the thing that causes her to realize that she loves him, because she wouldn't be choosing this if she didn't.

As a final note, when I wrote Kamilla holding Cisco's hand as a way of telling him that she would be there for him whenever he needed her, it was 100% meant to be a precursor to this moment:

Because I LOVE this little moment so much and I wanted to give it some layers, and expanding on where Cisco's head is at the beginning of their relationship, and connecting that to where it is when their relationship is more developed shows just how good having Kamilla in his life has been for him.

[cayleeray7312]

More art of me and my bestie because yes ✨✨✨ Bonus for Rayfrog

[stagefoureddiediaz]

So is it a planned diaz parents visit or has Eddie already called them and they know what’s going on and are on their way??

Because the implications and possible reactions of Helena and Ramon are different in each circumstance.

they either walk in on Eddie’s life imploding having come to offer support and help

or they walk in on it imploding and find themselves unexpectedly in the middle of everything

[djsherriff-responses]

I'm imagining Jade exploring her sexuality and trying to ask Dolph for his experience in a not awkward at all way but Ramon walks in and makes it worse for everyone in a five mile radius

Yes we desperately need Ramon being an awkward old man who makes everything uncomfortable regarding the topic of sex in this fandom

Jade was probably talking to Dolph about how Pey'J's over protection of her made it impossible for her to have any relationship and Dolph bringing up weird stuff Alex did with him in comparison on how similar the two old men are, particularly that Alex got Dolph into calling him daddy (I think once Dolph got better mental health he'd feel conflicted on that element of his own sexuality) and that's when Ramon would walk in. Having the wrong impression of what the conversation is about, admit to accidently calling women mommy during sex as a way of comforting Dolph and how it's perfectly normal to be into that

Ramon would feel like shit when he gets the full context on why Jade was so grossed out when he did that