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From our stacks: Illustration from Success in Love and Marriage by Robert A. Rawlins. Detroit: Home Institute, Detroit Evening Times. n.d.
#misogyny#vintage#women#patriarchy#mansplaining#detroit#detroit history#success in love and marriage#feminism#instinct#natural#attractive#detroit public library
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Gone Girl (2014) / Succession (2018-2023)
#who is nick and who is amy changes on a daily basis. they take turns like its a game.#the whole murder-marriage makes them fall wildly in love again#this one's been in my drafts forever but its been 1 year since the world ended (s4 aired) so here it is#succession#gone girl#tomshiv#tom wambsgans#shiv roy#web weaving#my stuff
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same dynamic. to me
#wwdits#what we do in the shadows#star trek#spirk#mcspirk#txt.me#i love u third wheel that is essential to the success of the marriage 👍
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honestly if there's one change book to TV that I'm super grateful for it's ageing up Daniel Molloy. that wet sack of a boy needed to ripen to reach Bogosian!Daniel level of sass
#on a more serious note it just adds sm to this romance for me#armand let him go he let him have one full human life#he got to grow out of his addiction both to drugs and to armand/armand's blood#he failed two marriages and fucked up two daughters yes but that's life#he had a whole successful career#spn#there's a lot to unpack with regards to armand's mindfuckery sure but it WAS an act of love#selflessness even#he wasn't backed in a corner bc the akasha thing is pushed to the back#and i do think book!armand wouldnt have turned daniel when he did#if he'd seen another chance for daniel#70s!daniel took none of armand's shit either#but present daniel is far more equipped to stand his ground i think#and armand is going to see#that the romance of daniel's youth isn't as fickle as he thought#bc daniel still feels a ravening and hopeless desire#i could talk about this for hours#devil's minion#iwtv#daniel molloy
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OLIVIA BAKER ALL AMERICAN 6x13 "Victory Lap"
#all american#olivia baker#6x13#aadaily#aaedit#allamericanedit#oliviabakerdaily#ladiesofaau#dailytvwomen#cwladiesdaily#tvedit#tusermimi#mine#just the best girl in the world i LOVE you soooo#Congrats on success and future marriage MRS. JAMES!!
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3x4 | 4x10
#marriage#3x4#4x10#succession#successionedit#tomgreg#tom x greg#greg x tom#tom wambsgans#gregory hirsch#nicholas braun#matthew macfadyen#gif#gifs#gifset#love
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ok not to be insane but the whole tom putting the bidding sticker on greg situ is SO indicative of their entire relationship bc its all about Tom’s desire for control and ownership over something (due to him feeling powerless and out of control in his relationship with shiv). Him putting that sticker on Greg wasnt just a hehe ill look after you way it was much more ‘I own you. You are reliant on me now and I OWN you’. Which is a sentiment that is the very FABRIC of their relationship, calling back to the ‘I will not let go of what is mine’ water bottle scene. Obsessed actually
#tomgreg#succession#succession spoilers#like its a small detail BUT ITS SO!!!!#their dynamic is fun BECAUSE its so fucked up#it also shows toms biggest weakness (his inability to understand when someone is using him/doesnt see him as an equal/will always betray him#whilst the tomgreg and the tomshiv relationships are very DIFFERENT#theres so many ways in which they are the same#mainly around toms desperate loneliness and desire to simply BE desired#for him to feel important to someone#and i think throughout his marriage he has felt undesired and unimportant#so he seeks importance from controlling greg#OUGH im obsessed with him actually#he also cant take the risk that would be finding someone who authentically values and wants him without wanting something from him#hes so trapped in the Roy Web#i have many thoughts about tom wamsgans#i love you mr wamsgans
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John: Is with a girl for four years, she falls pregnant, they get married = baby-trapped!
Paul: Is with a girl on and off for a few months, she falls pregnant, they get married = romance of the century!
#yes I know paul's marriage was more successful in the long run but we all know that was pure luck on his part#she could have easily left his arse a year later#anyway can we stop pretending that john wasn't also in love with cyn in the beginning#she wasn't some random that he got knocked up and got stuck with
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Shout out to whoever said one of Shiv's visceral, emotional reasons was that Tom would never be able to take the moral high ground in their relationship again. Because exactly!
Shiv still might be fucked in the business sense because Tom is a puppet and Matsson doesn't respect her, but in terms of her marriage... She still wants him even after the worst things have been said, and the "worst thing" he was most upset by was that she repeatedly left him out to dry in pursuit of her own power. Well, now it doesn't matter how valid his complaints were! He can never make that particular point again without the most loaded silence of his life! And on top of that, he's added another betrayal of her. That new imbalance more than anything is what will derail the divorce, and make it so she's NOT meekly coming home and begging him to let her stay as his housewife or whatever.
Business power is still up in the air, but she's taken a huge amount of private power back. It was an emotional move driven more by hurt than logic, but she's still done it!
And I do appreciate the TomGreg parallel here, too, because Greg has always been Tom's solution to feeling like Shiv was above him. His own personal Roy to lord over. Their friction was coming from Greg growing an ego around the Roy name and trying to leverage himself out from under Tom's thumb. Well, now he's fucked it! It's not Royco anymore! Greg doesn't have Matsson's backing, his name is worthless, and he overplayed himself into a certain death situation. And then here's Tom, letting him stay despite the betrayal but only because Tom bought him.
Tom got the crown, Shiv got the marital upper hand to help her deal with that, and Tom got Greg to help him deal with that.
They are so fucking dysfunctional but maybe TomShiv can make this work 😘
#succession#succession spoilers#tomshiv#tomgreg#tom wambsgans#shiv roy#greg hirsch#i don't think the baby was gonna save this marriage. but this truest expression of how shiv roy views love might 😌#and who knows? maybe she *can* leverage some business power from their relationship 🤷♀️#i don't think she was honestly counting on it because she is her mother's daughter but it's not impossible if they fix their shit first#ladyluscinia
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shiv and tom r so good because. she's the girl of your dreams. the one in all the magazines you looked at since you were a child, yes, that specific one. you pulled her out of a pit, you made yourself useful to her, and she showed you her heart, and now you're in love. it's the love story of your dreams. but then you wake up, and that's not all of her: she is callous and she has her boot right on your neck and she will never acknowledge anything but you being in her debt. you wake in increments and you realise that her world has made you into a paper-mache man, and you have acquiesced to it, because you love her, and you love your story. you love the luxury that comes with it, the exclusive ICU ward you proposed to her in, the fuckall-big estate you were married in, the penthouse you've got your marital bed in, the vineyard you own which sends you boxes of wine. the waking takes a while, but when it's done you realise that she doesn't need you for any of it, that it comes as easy to her as birthright, and you've simply gone out of style. you've both said too many truths and the love story is cracked and gone because you wanted to, for once in your life, have something more than her. and so she leaves, but she likes that grasping part of you, so she comes back, and it repeats till you realise: there is something of you inside of her, literally. you've sunk your claws in and she's scrambling. you've got the girl, the company, and the child. it's the love story of your dreams.
#succession#shiv roy#tom wambsgans#the marriage of all time...#all of tom's love depends on how close to the illusion shiv can skate#how non-threatening she can be#how she mollifies him#when she doesn't he runs to betray her
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adding jack antonoff to the list of people i gotta send ten dollars to, for some walking around money. i disrespected his strange desire acoustic remaster (because it's bad) but hey can i say: this guys puts on one of the best live shows i've ever seen
#guy who has lost none of the joy to be had in performance#guy who despite his successes still just really loves music and making it with other people and doing it on stage for people#he remembered the name of every venue he'd ever played in the bay!! shout out to bottom of the hill!!#brought the audience into every song. let his band take the lead at least once in every song#guy who worshipped the very ground each of his horn players walked on#doing a springsteen impressions so committed and passionate you could see the elvis in it#just a very good show!!! six way marriage with his band live on stage!!!!#last time i saw him was ten years ago with charli xcx at a club in milwaukee#how the world has changed!!
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I know it doesn’t pan out but good for Claudia for being like “we should just kill him.” Like yeah girl kill him PLEASE. If Lestat gets to be a little bitch, Claudia and Louis can and should be allowed to wanna kill him about it as a treat 🥰 also I am cheering every time Lestat shows up in a new robe. So far I’ve counted three. They’re all very cute he looks so cozy.
Time for the finale~
#Iwtv#I’m MAJORLY digging the vibes of this show like- truly osmosis was not enough I basically went into this blind thinking it was sexy vampire#being sexy and it IS#but it also being a story about family and marriage was not something I expect and am PLEASANTLY surprised#also holy shit some of the lines in this script are immaculate#Pure poetry or super witty or things Lestat says that just make me die laughing like god I love it#it might beat succession for me#I think it definitely beats it tbh which is saying something bc I LOVE succession
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also i gotta say Greg this season of sucksession has become an even nastier more vulgar little snake than ever. to the point where i no longer find his awkward bumbling nature endearing. I used to kinda adore him now I just hope he falls into a deep pit causing his unnaturally long frame to fold up like a shitty capitalist accordion
#succession#hes still funny sometimes. and i know hes always been a simpering little schemer man. but hes gotten meaner#gotta be from prolonged tom exposure i guess#paradoxically im enjoying Tom more this season somehow.#but mostly because its hilarious how he n Shiv failed at marriage and are now failing even harder at divorce. i love mess
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I’D CASTRATE AND MARRY YOU IN A HEARTBEAT ????? TOM ????????? (← POV you just watched lion in the meadow for the first time and by you I mean me because what the fuck guys)
#succession is so wild and for WHAT#I love when they randomly drop out of pocket intertextual references#the insanity of it all#also don’t think I missed the potential foreshadowing here as well of tom ‘throwing shiv down the stairs’ ……….. he’s going to fuck her over#tbf she has thrown him under the bus several times at this point#BUT STILL#but anyway tom is so sad in his marriage that he would destroy shiv and marry her cousin instead real not fake ??????#tom’s relationship with greg has always foiled his relationship with shiv too 😳😳😳 tom projects everything onto greg#and yet he can’t stand the thought of losing him#because without greg he’d have nothing and be completely powerless#succession#tom wambsgans#greg hirsch#tomgreg#ghost speaks
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#tv: sex and the city#satcedit#sex and the city#satc#while i don't think this is true of all men#(obviously)#i definitely think it was true of trey#i do believe he loved charlotte#but she just fit all of the qualifications of what he was looking for in a wife#and honestly he fit the qualifications of what she was looking for in a husband#they both just wanted to be married#plenty of successful marriages have been forged that way#but it has nothing to do with fate#character: miranda hobbes#character: charlotte york#character: carrie bradshaw#things i made
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more asoiaf comparisons, parallels & antiparallels to the first dance of the dragons vs the second & final dance of the dragons (& possibly the sixth blackfyre rebellion): the blacks being daenerys i targaryen's supporters, the golds being aegon vi targaryen's supporters, tommen baratheon being a close equivalent to gaemon palehair & his mother essie & sylvenna sand which may be interpreted as a parallel with queen cersei lannister & taena merryweather of myr, trystane truefyre being a close equivalent to aegon/young griff & perkin being jon connington & the shepherd being the new high septon the high sparrow, dalton greyjoy being euron i greyjoy's ancestor & the latter surpassing him, alyn waters later alyn velaryon resembling aurane waters later aurane velaryon & finishing what their ancestors started. history repeats itself.
#LIKE!!!! LOOK AT THE PARALLELS BRUH#it kinda makes me wonder who the hightowers would support this time...#its literally so wild how history repeats itself#i think the lannisters would support aegon after he takes king's landing bc they're lowkey fucked either way.#cersei lannister's probably either in hiding at casterly rock or will end up as aegon's political prisoner. maybe jaime too idk.#i have no idea who would lead the lannisters on the side of the golds now that kevan's dead killed by varys tho... maybe genna lannister?#cersei jaime & tyrion's aunt? to parallel johanna lannister who attacked the ironborn like a boss bitch??#i personally predict aegon'll marry sansa who would have the north the riverlands & the vale at her back—it'd be arranged by baelish & varys#i also think it's possible he'd take arianne martell as another wife to parallel aegon & his wives visenya & rhaenys.#so by taking sansa & arianne as his wives & queens both of whom are well beloved in their countries he'd restore honor to their houses.#bc aerys & later the baratheon dynasty was a terrible time for the starks & the martells so he brings the north & dorne back into the fold.#so by marrying sansa he honors & respects her given her past betrothal to joffrey & forced marriage to tyrion & mending what aerys did#particularly to her grandfather rickard stark & her uncle brandon stark & to her aunt lyanna stark.#& by marrying arianne he's restoring honor to house martell considering all the bs his mother elia martell experienced in king's landing.#(whether elia actually Is his mother or who he perceives her to be) & restoring the line of succession again in dornish hands#& they'd probably marry him on the condition that the northerners & dornish gets special rights & privileges that others don't.#& not to mention that the targaryens starks & martells have a common enemy.#polygamy's a big nono in the faith of the seven but that didn't stop aegon & his wives & im sure after everything w/ the faith rn??#w/ cersei & the sparrows?? & considering aegon's actually a decent person & he'll be foreshadowed to be popular & loved??#i don't think most would bat an eye tbh. i actually think daenerys would wanna talk to aegon first tho.#then everything & everyone around them goes to shit & they end up fighting bc like. daenerys wants SO BADLY to have a family.#so like i don't see her immediately perceiving aegon as a threat.#the starks & most of the north would prolly be wary of dany @ 1st due to aerys & having a MASSIVE army w/ three dragons until the long night#except for like. maybe jon. but anyway the martells could be slightly wary of dany bc of what happened with quentyn in meereen.#idk maybe there's a division in the north & dorne. i think sansa & arianne would actually get along personally.#anyway im presuming stannis is gonna be at the nightfort & i personally don't think he's ever gonna come south again. he'll die at the wall.#ooc.
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