#straight relationships

[anotherfandomtrash]

Some time ago me and my roommate were watching some trash TV show and in one moment a guy came home and saw his girlfriend talking to her male friend who he didn't know and he became really angry because of that. I said that it's not rational and it's okay to not know about every single person your partner talks to. But my roommate answered that she too would get mad if something like that happened with her and her boyfriend and ended with something like "Maybe it's just a straight people thing".

After that I started to wonder a little and decided to create this. Even if not many people will see this I'm still curious

[sowhatnotcreative]

Aparently some women think it's ~evil~ (towards women) to recognize that actually no man vill ever properly respect and love a woman as a fellow human.

You're an adult now, it's not evil to tell you what men are like just as it's not evil to tell you santa clause and god isn't real. Grow up. You've had your teenage delusions. Now you know.

You can still choose to love a man if you want to. We are just people on the internet, we don't decide what you do with your life or whether you should stay safe or not.

As usual tho men are not judged for doing the bad. It's actually WOMEN who are bad for naming it!

[b-lysia]

... monogamy is a structure built inherently upon the oppression/definition of Women by Patriarchy, wherein a Woman is property and a desirable body to be owned and used for property (children) management, property generation, and sexual relief.

The puritan brainrot taking so many socials by storm, the "porn-brained" concept is a result of this fundamental idea of Patriarchy trying to repackage and reassert itself as a dominant social framework.

The anxiety over cheating, under this framework, is a consequence of the anxiety that such a reality would create in anyone who has accepted their lot as a Woman or Man in this dichotomy, and fears losing their only perceived source of worth and/or a valuable piece of property(because patriarchy oppresses both groups, regardless of what some dumb fuck who's never masturbated without crying before might tell you).

TLDR: Your desire to monopolize someone else's attention is in fact a weird and toxic consequence of you internalizing the social values of the fucked up world you live in. Not "romantic love" or a valid response to being really into someone. It's just your anxiety over being worthless in a society that values you only as far as you can be useful property, or control useful property (be willingly exploited, or exploit others with value).

Unlearn that shit, you're weird

[disciplesofjehovah]

Love is between man and woman!

[misespinas]

Things about my boyfriend I enjoy:

He's funny and smart and always calls me beautiful/pretty/cute

He's really fucking cute

When I cut my hair short he said it's his favorite style on me and kept playing with it

He dresses really well and uses a bunch of different colors (he does not own any sweatpants)

He watched Brokeback Mountain with me on Valentine's day last year

He calls me when I'm on my way home at night to make sure I'm safe

He lays his head in my lap/on my shoulder when he's tired even when we're with his friends

When I ask for help with my homework or practicing Spanish he always does

He has never said anything bad about his mother the entire time we've dated

When I complain about the men that are creepy, weird, and/or predatory, he never takes offense or tries to assure me he's not like that

We've dated for 3 years and we never had sex because he knows I'm not ready for it, he has never once tried to talk me into it or convince me to

I talk about the men in my life I'm afraid of, hate, or uncomfortable around most the time. But there are men in my life I am best friends with, like my boyfriend

[lgbtq-archives]

𝗠𝘆 𝗦𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗴𝗴𝗹𝗲 𝗮𝘀 𝗮 𝗚𝗮𝘆 𝗠𝗮𝗻 𝗶𝗻 𝗮 𝗦𝘁𝗿𝗮𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽!

[stars-and-birds]

Dana’s last ‘fuck you’ to Disney

He/they collector

Genderqueer/bi-gender papa king

TWO girlfriend kisses

Onscreen mlm kiss

Implied aladarius

a happy ending to the bi/enby couple

A happy ending to the aro/ace character

And

Death to the white Christian puritain

[lavendervirgos]

Things I need someone to say to me and that would make me melt like 🫠:

“You are such a slut for me, my darling. You love to take my cock, don’t you? You love to be filled to the brim, to be fucked until you can’t form words, until you can’t stop crying because of how good it feels, don't you?"

and

“You want more, my pretty little whore? You want to be filled with my cum until it overflows? You want to take it all?”

[sowhatnotcreative]

But ~my~ Nigel is ~different~.

I guarantee you he is not.

[hymyarts]

"We Myrmidons are not the sentimental type."

[thestarfishface]

“There is no platonic explanation for thi-“ Sprays u with water. Sprays u

[disciplesofjehovah]

[ink-5oul]

Straight relationships scare me cause one moment you'll be out getting coffee and the next they're pushing you through an interdimensional rift

[arabella-s-arts]

Scenes/Things in Supernatural that genuinely don't make sense to me if Dean was straight:

The confession booth scene.

Sam just rolling with the fact that Dean's siren is a guy while still thinking sirens infect people through sex.

Dean being flustered by several men: Gunner Lawless, Aaron, Doctor Sexy, etc.

All the parallels between Destiel and other couples. (A big one being "last night on Earth" bc how do you do that accidentally.)

Having all the gay jokes be on Dean instead of Sam.

Paralleling Sam meeting his childhood celebrity crush with Dean meeting Gunner Lawless.

The boner Dean got when Cas cleaned up.

Dean gulping after Cas does an impression from a Western movie.

Charlie, a lesbian, calling Castiel "dreamy."

The way Mary looks at Dean and Cas when they hug.

Dean wondering why everyone assumes he's gay, while Sam not caring.

The logic that Charlie can't flirt with guys because she's only attracted to women, but then having Dean flirt with the guy for her.

Dean seeming disappointed when learning that Aaron's flirting was fake.

The amount of time Dean and Cas spend staring at each other.

Dean canonically having an orgy with Crowley.

A woman saying that she knows when someone's pining for someone else to Dean, just for us to learn that Dean was never in love with Amara.

The set design and script choices that lead to a cross in the background while Dean said "I do." to Cas after he came back to life.

That time when Dean wanted to say something and Cas was like, "It's okay, I heard your prayer." But Dean still looked like he wanted to say something important.

Amara: [about Dean] "I can see inside your heart. Feel the love you feel. Except, it’s cloaked in shame.”

If you want to have a more expansive list, @destiel-is-real-idgaf added to this one quite nicely.

[thesoftboiledegg]