#stfu fandom police

[jezunya]

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[localgardenweed]

Just saw the new video Hargreaves posted via tiktok and im sorry i sighed seeing the Tord clip im sorry gang i cant get myself hyped.

I dont know why but for a while now all the Tord stuff has been leaving a bad taste in my mouth cause before it was “guys dont ask us about Tord stop asking ugh so annoying” to “hey guys dropping more Tord merch, episodes, spinoff show and also gonna send him over to do a concert with Miku” or some shit like ok they realized he is a cash cow its okay to admit that but idk, as much as I love Tord i feel like it would have been better to let him go bury him in satin laid down on a bed of roses sunk into the river at dawn sent away with the words of a love song. I know people love Tord and I DO TOO if you look through my old stuff you knew he was like one of my favs and also ya know the whole oc x canon stuff but i dont know, knowing Larson wanted Tord out of the show after he left just for him to be brought back in The End, show ended and like hm well this is it to Beyond dropping and getting made fun of for wanting him back to then turning him into a cash cow and whole joke and middle finger to fans who wanted him back by teasing them with him behind a paywall or just murdering him on screen. I know they need money this shit doesn’t come for free but idk it always left a bad taste in my mouth. For those who are happy for the possible probably maybe return of Tord, good for you guys, but im gonna hold off on celebrating.

[bitchy-peachy]

The fact that there's still fandom content policing dumbfucks at ao3 that think reporting fanfics will make ao3 a vanilla pg-13 site. (I've seen y'all "report" crusade. Give us a fucking break, epic losers of shit)

Sorry, but you do realize that sites like ao3 exist cos of annoying ass stupid site ruining whiny little fucks like you, right?

Y'all run around thinking everything has to pander to your sensitive asses and "organize" to be annoying and "change" sites.

Fuck you and your stupid ass little crusade. Nobody asked you for this. Nobody even fucking likes you.

Stick to the dead fandom sites you've already ruined instead of fucking up more shit, you pathetic eyesores.

[evermoredeluxe]

I'm a huge mcu fan and I've been hoping they'll sneak even a 2 second random cameo of her. Just a "Wait was that Taylor Swift?" moment

im a mild-mcu fan and i love when taylor makes people mad so yeah make it happen lol

[lord-squiggletits]

It actually really annoys me how "expecting people to read the source material" is considered gatekeeping these days because like. Besides the obvious reasons, it's pretty off-putting trying to have conversations with people who only know a bite sized chunk of the overall story they claim to be a fan of? Like it's so off-putting to try and jump into a headcanon conversation like "oh yeah I think you could also add this aspect from this part of the comics" and the response you get is either "I haven't read that part" at best or "I literally don't care" at worst because it's like. Okay. I don't really want to hang out with people who seem disinterested or outright hateful towards the things that I like, so I'm literally just going to leave that space.

I guess you can be a fan of something without consuming every story it has to offer, but it's pretty fucking annoying to share fandom spaces with people who basically don't give a damn about the source material and will call you a meanie if you point out how this is perhaps a little bit strange.

[yourtwistedlies]

❝ women’s hearts are lethal weapons ❞

val ! ✩ she/her ✩ minor ✩ jason grace’s gf (REAL) ✩ speak now obsessed ✩ gracie abrams lovebot ✩ summer baby ✩ certified procrastinator ✩ professional listener ✩ pathological people pleaser ✩ general amaya’s #1 fan ✩ fitz vacker defender ✩ honorary grammar police ✩ kpop stan (mostly ggs) ✩ my moots’ cheerleader ✩ under the illusion i can write ✩ somewhat smart ✩ cabin 13 girl ✩

dni: if you are racist, homophobic, xenophobic, support kill all ___, sexist, 18+ only, religiophobic, creepy, toxic, or literally just a jerk, please leave!

byi: i swear sometimes!! i also adore using cute nicknames and pet names for my moots!! if you don’t feel comfortable w/ that or anything else, please let me know <33

moots - wattpad - ao3 - carrd - follower event (coming soon ⁉️) - save the children!

•̩̩͙⁺ the basics ₊˚. ↴ ·˚༘

call me valerie/val or twisted!!

she/her, straight (heterosexual), minor (18+ only acc’s please do not follow), 18+ do not interact unless i interact first or we are moots (on my list or to be added- i am the judge of who is to be added), cancer (zodiac, but i don’t believe in them), Christian (i post about it sometimes), << summer baby, entp (mbti), 8w7 (enneagram), ambivert, slytherin, cabin 13, shade (guys i swear i wasn’t trying to be edgy or smth with the past two and this 😭😭 i took the official quizzes i promise lmao), swiftie, kpop fan, staying up writing until 4am gives me life, purple is the best color (this is not up to debate, only yellow even comes close), proud notes app writer, CATS > DOGS (occasionally my verdict changes), bunny lover, chronic platonic sofitzer, i’m either hyperactive or extremely tired (there is no in between), people say im smart, but sometimes i feel like the biggest idiot ever lmao, and ofc dex dizznee’s much needed publicist (my favorite role of mine ever)!!!

•̩̩͙⁺ music ₊˚. ↴ ·˚༘

taylor swift, olivia rodrigo, sza, conan gray, alicia keys, emei, gracie abrams, maisie peters, sabrina carpenter, laufey, queen riri (rihanna), adele, beabadoobee, tiffany day, le sserafim, ive, newjeans, itzy, nmixx, stay-c, aespa, everglow, txt (baby fan), illit ＆ more kpop, lizzy mcalpine, pheobe bridgers, nessa barrett, pinkpantheress, claire rosinkranz, lyn lapid, alessia cara, reneé rapp, mckenna grace, and more!!

as i hope you can tell, i like a lot of music :)

•̩̩͙⁺ books ₊˚. ↴ ·˚༘

pjo, hoo, (never read toa, but yes, ik what happens in tbm), the rrverse, kotlc, city spies, ss (spy school), alex rider (not done with rr), the academy for the unbreakable arts,

and my many other fandoms i’ve forgotten about (dead magisterium fandom oop-)

i’ll add more fandoms as i remember them lol

•̩̩͙⁺ ships ₊˚. ↴ ·˚༘

rayllum, clauderry (stfu they’re adorable), percabeth (otp energy), sokeefe, dexiana, tiana (yes i know im the most indecisive bitch ever shut up you toad /jjjj i actually love u platonically), jason grace x ME (/j but i do love him lol), and more!!

•̩̩͙⁺ blogs ₊˚. ↴ ·˚༘

side blog: @yourtangledpromises

taylor blog: @iknowplxces (guys this is so abandoned + has my old intro 🤮 ignore this js trust - august 15 2024 val)

and perhaps more?? (muahahaha)

•̩̩͙⁺ side note ₊˚. ↴ ·˚༘

if you’d like to be added to my moots list, or talk, please tell me (by wonder girls)!!

if we’re moots we’re actually bffs now (you just don’t notice it yet)

if i don’t respond to your ask/tag/rb/literally anything immediately i am not ignoring you!! i’m just lazy or busy and will do it later <33

im your biggest fan btw

1 Corinthians 16:14

with love,

valerie

[damnfandomproblems]

5234:

"FFS, it would be nice if this blog ever had any new material. enough with the fucking "proship bad", "antiship bad" "me speaking as x still thinks y is bad" STFU. Jesus christ yall are more insufferable than the shippers you complain about"

Person walks into bakery, complains about the bakery smell, insists they start carrying salad greens. No, but metaphor aside, considering how pervasive censorship, "proshit dni", and morality policing are in fandom, either get used to a lot of submissions like that or. You know. There's that little button called "unfollow". Or "block", if you're feeling kinky.

Posting as a response to a previous problem.

[cr1msond1sgrace]

❝ Triple the six, abandon your god because he don't exist. ❞

⧼ Introduction ⧽

heyo! im dorian (prns are he/it), a disabled, queer, and mentally ill writer who's polyam as fuck with 3 partners. this blog mainly is regarding writing, the occasional fandom post, disability, and general bs from the void. on occassion i will also reblog otherkin and aesthetic stuff <33 (along with witchy things)

i'm 18, so i'd mostly prefer if i had a 16+ interaction via asks and dms, but those are open! I dont bite at all <3

underneath the cut is listing of fandoms, music taste, and more! it also will list my general opinions and dni as well.

⧼ Music Artists + genres ⧽

chase atlantic

black veil brides

sleep token

bad omens

6arelyhuman

odetari

VIOLA

hoizer

written by wolves

dark divine

genres

rock folk/indie dark/alt pop hyperpop anything that scratches the brain properly /j

⧼ Fandoms + Hobbies ⧽

my top two fandoms happen to be a dead fandom and one fandom that would have people bitching like hell at me. however i have no shame in what i like, so it's ffxv and helluva/hazbin. ffxv is practically a dead fandom while you either like helluva/hazbin or you actively shit upon it.

however, i have no tolerance for the latter. i consume problematic content critically and i dont worship the ground that viviziepop walks upon. i'm always for and will be for the critical consuption of problematic media as long as it's not someone trying to advocate for the original harry potter series (marauders are the exception, because they barely even use canon).

i am an avid writer with a love for everything tragic, so my current wip is one about reincarnated gods and BY GOD I WILL NOT STFU ABOUT IT. i also write poetry so do expect that.

⧼ DNI ⧽

though a dni is often fruitless, do know i actively block and remove those who harass me.

but here's the list.

basic dni

zionists

those who tone police minorities

if you're easily offended by slur humor / slur jokes

under 15

valentino (hazbin) supporters/apologists GTFO.

if you get bitchy about those who consume 'problematic' media

that would be all, good day <3

and remember to drink some damn water, eat, and use the restroom if you havent.

[gamerwoman3d]

Honestly Shrek and Bi-Han look more like brothers in these two pictures than Scorpion and Sub-Zero ever did, you better be careful or the super-hetero-purity fandom bullies will be upon you.

saved the rant for the tags

MK1 fandom is still being havoc and fighting about who ships who while here I'm shipping Sub-zero Bi Han with Shrek

[dotthings]

I'm just going to call a spade a spade. The obnoxious Jensen stan twitter queens who are toxic and over parasocializing and overbearing simply don't care. They don't care how they look. They don't care how many Jensen fans they alienate--real, actual, long term Jensen fans.

Jensen stan twitter's joy policing, harassment, dogpiling, negative projections onto Jensen, misinformation, hatred, ship shaming, or spiraling and attacking people over perceived slights, and in some cases, the way they shame other fans for merely existing while not stanning Jensen in the narrow terms "they" (meaning, the hard core Jensen stan twitter queens) decided was the only way to stan Jensen, plus blatant disregard for basic 101 objective and universal fandom etiquette like: don't steal photo ops, erase the fan from the photo to turn it into a manip (WTF??? Are they this parasocially desperate?? Do they understand Jensen and Danneel are ACTUALLY MARRIED??), then show hostility and absolute disrespect about the rights of the owner of the op.

(And they have the unmitigated gall to ship shame?? To try to paint destiel shippers as The Problem??? Are you effing kidding me??? It's not easy to face you've become what you supposedly can't tolerate and they'll likely never get there.)

And facts are facts are facts. They will have to cope. I don't gaf how angry they are. Let them rage. They can't undo facts.

Many people love Misha and ship Destiel and that includes many Jensen fans. Nor are the Jensen stan twitter queens the entire universe of Jensen fandom. Period. No, stfu. There is no argument here. I'm giving facts.

You are not less of a Jensen fan because you love Misha and Cas and ship Destiel. Period. Inarguable. No I don't gaf about any counter arguments. No, stfu. This is not arguable. Get lost.

Jensen is very very fond of Misha and they are close friends. Period. No. Stfu. No arguments. Accept reality or get out.

They're mad that any Jensen fans look up to Danneel. They're mad that JenMish fans--who genuinely like both Jensen and Misha and respect them BOTH--exist. They're angry people even so much as ship cockles (even when that lane is legit less boundary crossing and less parasocialized toxicity than the stans who keep hating on them). They're angry that Destiel shippers exist. They're angry that anyone still loves Cas. They are extra angry that any Jensen fans also love those things and that they have to share Jensen with us. They're a gatekeeping hyperparasocialized toxic mess.

Well. Same. However much they want to gatekeep the rest of us away from Jensen that's how much I wish they would stay away from Jensen. Quite the impasse, isn't it. The way they ignore or disregard or trample over actual Jensen perspectives for the convenience of their hate projections puts me into a parasocialized defensive mood. Get away from him!!!!!

And I am over the excuses. "But SPN--" "But Cas--" "But Misha stans--" "but hellers--" cool story, and Jensen fans have a right to their own sets of grievances, I have many myself. But it's moot, because it's not an excuse to keep being a-holes.

[nestastits]

I feel like we should divide Nesta stans into two, you are either a Pro-Nesta Nesta stan, or an Anti-IC Nesta stan. There is no in between.

When I first got into this fandom I was starting to like Nesta, and loved her healing/redemption/growth, even if I thought the events in the books were kinda wonky and the book wasn't really for me.

Then I got here and was like SHESH No thank you... Those Anti-IC Nesta stans are so scary and bloodthirsty... God forbid you like someone else too...

Hating Rhys/Cassian and Feyre/Elain more than they like Nesta and call themselves "Pro Nesta"

I completely agree!

People are allowed to hate a character, they’re allowed to love a character and still be critical of them, it’s the way they handle those thoughts though. I’ve seen many completely disregard Nesta’s own thought process to hate on characters 😭.

I don’t get why people tell me I’m crazy or that I’m fandom policing when I say stuff about the way certain pro Nesta’s act, everyone is allowed to do what they want in the fandom but please at least know your fav character before you try to analyze them and make up a narrative to fit which characters you do and don’t like lols. Lately, it’s gotten so bad to the point antis know Nesta better than the people who claim they love her. Nesta is not some victim of the ic nor does she hate them… Nesta is also not some party girl or this rude bitch so many of her stans fit her into being 😭.

And yes I will say the Nesta stans who hate the ic can be very hard to interact with. Also, I’ve seen them complain all the time how people hate Nesta and comment under pro vids or posts of her about how they hate her… but then they do the same fucking thing on a pro ic/rhys post😐. Like you can’t complain about the other side doing it when YOU yourself do it. I think the whole anti culture has also took a toll on some of them and has made them act truly awful to others… cause being anti literally everything and just constantly spewing this hatred is not healthy at all for anyone involved.

And being anti acosf but pro Nesta cannot coexist, I’m sorry haha. But acosf is Nesta’s book, it’s her character arc that made many start loving her. You don’t have to like some of the things that happened in it but to say Nesta would’ve been better off w/o the events of acosf just shows that perhaps you don’t really understand nes that well. And also, telling people that they don’t understand real world concerns/struggles if they like a certain fictional character/couple is fucking insane… and yes I did see one of them do this and proceed to tag it incorrectly to ensure that the pro side saw.

I love Nesta with my whole heart but I also love the other characters, so it’s been very hard for me to make friends unfortunately. I think people need to take a breather and remember the books are meant to be enjoyed and so are the characters. Anyways, if you see me answer this pls dm me I’d love to be friends with you haha.

sidenote: people who criticize sjm’s work while they themselves are not authors are fucking weird and need to stfu sometimes. But also being an author AND still criticizing a fellow author for their writing style (a bestselling author too) is mean girl behavior lmao. At the end of the day, sjm is a good writer and creates wonderful stories for us to enjoy.

[barbatosgossipsection]

I hate hate HATE when people in fandoms think they’re correct because they have the tiniest piece of supporting evidence to their point. No good evidence and no reason and the hc doesn’t even match the vibes of the character it’s about but if you openly disagree with the hc you’re wrong because they implied it because of the connotations of one word said once in a side chapter or something.

Obviously fandoms will be fandoms and they’re gonna make head canons that become accepted, that’s not what I’m complaining about, my complaint is with people who get offended and act like you’re attacking them by disagreeing because their reasoning just isn’t it😭

This keeps happening with hcs in the obey me community esp with NSFW headcanons regarding a character being a dom/sub (for some reason people hate when you say lucifer is a dom or Levi is a sub despite their behaviour in game lmao) but it happens with other things too. PLEASEEE stfu if you’re going to police people’s headcanons and tell them they can’t think something. Scroll past the post u don’t need to comment that u disagree🙏

— Anon

[underestimated-heroine]

Maybe I'm wrong, but I think it's time to start sending all antis and fanpol links & info relating less to fandom than to to broader conversations about censorship, sex & shame, the general history of policing sexuality, and discussions about fetishes and kinks in general. The whole "fandom? Lol stfu," thing exponentially worsened this bullshit.

At the end of the day, it doesn't matter who it pertains to or how cringe you find the uniting interest of the group it applies to or the way they enjoy that interest. Harassment, zealotry, purity-policing, misogyny, and queer oppression are as serious in this case as they are in any other.

There's a ton of great stuff written on this problem as it specifically relates to fandom, but it's becoming increasingly obvious that we need to adjust our strategy, because this is getting ridiculous. Isolating the discussion is like the most bass-ackwards, counterproductive shit that's recently happened to worsen this problem.

No, actually, people who write weird sex shit aren't "just as bad and annoying" as the people who report them to the FBI as pedophiles, suicide-bait them, doxx them, and force them to check themselves into the hospital.

"SWERFs/TERFs/radfems suck, but so does everyone they try to indoctrinate or harass lol kys." That's how you sound. Because that's actually what you're saying, if you've read even a tiny bit about this.

Be fucking serious.

[6ebe]

Also I really hate how f1 fans perpetuate the myth that athletes are never allowed to eat carbs / sweets like it makes me want to pull my hair out !! Just bc half of those men walk around with eating disorders unhealthy relationships with food does not mean that ALL of them adhere to the same made up ‘rules’. Like can we all stop like .. group shaming drivers whenever they eat smth sweet on camera..? Like ‘hehe look at him don’t tell his trainer’ like ?? STFU WHATS WRONG WITH UUUUUUU why does the fandom collectively find vicarious joy in policing what these men eat ??

[kitten4sannie]

groupie!reader fanatic back here again to rant 🫰🏻

I made the fatal mistake of reading your reply out in public and I had to be physically restrained, biting on my fist to not scream, crawling across the floor, dry heaving, almost got the police called on me.

THE RIVALRY??? ARE YOU KIDDING??? stfu I will punch a wall. Also the positions you picked for the members in hj's band... I swear your brain... FAT SMOOCH. Beautiful, majestic, mind blowing. I would have taken anything you'd have given me but the way our minds connected??? Slay

Also yes, I do write but not for kpop 🫣 but I lowkey want to. I might make a separate account and do an identity reveal haha. reading other people's work is so fun but sometimes I have this insane urge to do it myself, especially the fluff because smut intimidates me. You, though, eat every single time, no crumbs left. I have read every single fic of yours (except jongho's because I physically cannot do it - he's too baby; and mingi sometimes is too bestie for me... but yungi fics SLAP - size kink grahhhhhh) ANYWAY

I would love a tag omg are you kidding me. I'll literally fall in love. I thought I was being a nuisance with that second ask but I'm so happy to see that you replied with just as much enthusiasm, literally made my day.

Also, if I do end up making a kpop account, you might end up blocking me because I'm annoying- but I'll only do it if I get a fic out first, and you'll be the first to know 🫶🏻

hi again!! sjshdhhd you’re so funny stop ittt and not the police getting called on you pleaseee 😭😭😭😭

i’m glad you’re into the rivalry as much as i am 👀👀 yessss you saw the vision too!! i love that our brains are the same ✨ whewww i just thought about jongho playing the drums and i - like imagine how calloused his fingers would be….

anygaysss oh which fandom(s) do you write for? yess you totally should!! ooh yes that’s actually what got me into writing fics like i used to read so many and i was like ‘hmm i would’ve written it this way or changed it here” and then i was like wait i can just write my own shit what am i doing?? yess fluff hits me right in the heart but smut mannn that hits me right in the proverbial dick 😩 holy shit that’s so sweet of you to read most of them 😭😭 noo i feel that about jongho i’m only like a year old than him but he’s still apple boy to meee but sometimes… sometimes i get thoughts bc he’s just so strong and i just want him to toss me around like a rag doll or some shit 😔 oooof mingi is a different story i’d let that man rearrange my guts and leave me high and dry afterwards goddamn that man is soooooo fine sorry i’m getting carried away - yungi ughhhh my god imagine getting split open by the twin towers 👀 alright i swear i’m done fjdkdis

shshdg you’ll fall in love stop it rnnn 😭 yayy okay how about groupie anon?? no you’re not a nuisance in the slightest!! it means the world to me that someone’s this passionate about my stories and plus i like talking to people about fun stuff like this! i made your day?? awwwwh you actually made mine too! i get so happy when i see your asks!

blocking you sjdjhd i promise i won’t! that’s so sweet of you omg yess def let me know!!

[bimirmir]

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(HWDP in bio is a polish equivalent of fuck the police fyi)

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Writing tag → [tba]

Ramble tag → [Bimi stfu]

🌸 My stories / characters

The Golden Middle [TGM]

Feathered Cosmos [FC/TFC]

My Dead Sister, Carol [MDSC]

🌸 What fandoms will you see the most of?

Guardians Of The Galaxy [GOTG]

Mairimashita! Iruma-kun [M!IK]

Rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles [ROTTMNT]

Zenless Zone Zero [ZZZ]

Sk8 The Infinity [SK8]

Sonic The Hedgehog [STH]

The creativity of Brandon Rogers [BRCU]

{They're not the only medias i deeply enjoy, i just seem to like creating stuff with them the most.}

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Please send suggestions in form of asks, not trough pv 🩷 (it's easier for me to make an answer post)

Feel free to hit me on pv with anything (as long as it's SFW) Even just to casually chat

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