#stereotypical adhd artist thing

[fawfulydoo]

not even a furry nor have i ever been but i wanna make a kemono mask of eevee lowkey. i feel like i could do it, given im a cosplay newbie and pulled off my candyman cosplay very well imo

[bitchimasnake-sss]

the monster trio (but make it highschool!au);

basically, what if these mf weren't illiterate?? highschool!au headcanons for the monster trio!!

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luffy:

- the class comedian (and doesn't know it) - like this man is out here just going about his day, doing stupid shit. he doesn't know why the class is laughing when the teacher asks him what he's doing and he says "eating. want some?" through a mouthful of doritos and a shit-eating grin - everyday, atleast once, he gets sent to the principle (the principle is garp lmao) and garp sends luffy back to the teacher because even he doesn't wanna deal with this precious himbo

- he runs track (and he is actually so good at it) - he's that one kid that has adhd and the whole school knows but he doesnt "adhd? what's that?" "you, luffy, that's you" - his homework? never complete; his handwriting? so shit it feels like ants crawling on paper; his uniform? something has to be missing always whether it's a button on his shirt, tie, belt, something. - one time he pulled up with one sock missing and when asked, he shrugged and said "sometimes things happen" - why did he say it like that??? - somehow, despite it all, he manages to pass (nami tutored him forcefully and made him pay her later) - best friends with the martial artist!zoro and cooking prodigy!sanji - nobody knows how these three are friends??? but they are ig - also, i headcannon him as the guy who is like 4 feet and after one summer comes back stretched out (hehe, pun intended) - always so kind to others even if he doesn't know them, always willing to help freshmen out and run errands for you if you need help - nobody knew he is related to his older brothers (ace, sabo) "how are you their brother??" "idk? how am i??" - just the bestest boy ever, golden retriever energy all day every day no matter what universe it is

zoro:

- you take one look at this mf and you think, ah here is the classic delinquent, stick-up-his-ass martial artist and you couldnt be more wrong - he is never dressed right but that's cause he doesn't know how to tie a tie and listen if he had the willpower to find the right socks at 7 in the morning, he will - he is just an incompetent fool, trust me 😭😭 - gets late on the regular cause he always takes the wrong turn - the one "jock" who isn't anything like a stereotypical jock? like he hangs out with soon-to-be valedictorian nami, idiot luffy, theatre kid!ussop and cook!sanji - nobody can understand how this friend group was formed??? - actually gets asked out a decent amount of times and always says "nah, im good" and walks away to his friends - people are starting to suspect if he's dating luffy from how hard their bromance is going "zolo!!! gooDMORNING!!" luffy yells as he launches onto zoro in the middle of the hallway at 8:03 am on a random tuesday zoro casually drops his backpack to catch luffy "morning" zoro replies as if it's casual behaviour - the amount of trophies the school has in his name is insane (nation level martial artist, roronoa zoro) - he is actually decent at school, he is just average and he's fine by it he doesn't give all that much of a shit in the academic sphere - casually pulls up to the parents-teacher meet with thE FUCKING WORLD REKNOWNED MARTIAL ARTIST, DRACULE MIHAWK??? "i see he passed in all his exams. how wonderful, zoro. let's leave now." "aight" - he doesn't even think twice when asked if he knows mihawk, he's just like "yeah that's my dad what about him?" - a certified dumbass in every universe

sanji:

- listen to me this mf went to masterchef junior and fucking won and people only know this cause the school hyped him up and not because he wanted people to know "omg sanji did you actually win-" "no that was my twin brother sanjo, please leave me alone" - actually prim and properly dressed, shows up at time everyday and gives in all of his assignments and submissions well before the due date (he is partially responsible for keeping zoro and luffy on track) - he was the one making cupcakes when nami was organizing a fundraiser for a nearby orphanage, he was the one who baked cookies cause sabo wanted to hand them out on his last day of school, he was the one who baked cakes for his classmate's surprise birthday party - rumor has it if you get on good terms with sanji, a mysterious box of homemade chocolate will be there in your locker the next day - despite all the hype he has, mf still gets no girls - like luffy, he is insanely kind to those who need help - has gotten almost suspended once for beating up a senior year kid for bullying a freshmen (luffy and zoro just stood by and laughed as that kid got his ass handed to him) - he is the son of THE FUCKING OWNER OF BARATIE, A FIVE STAR MICHELLIN RESTAURANT THAT IS FREQUENTED BY CELEBRITIES ALL THE TIME "omg omg sanji is it true that the rock visited your restaurant last night?!" "yeah, his daughter wanted to eat my tiramisu, she's really sweet" - so chill always (but simultaneously losing his shit) - the kinda person you'd love hanging out with - as i said, in any universe, he is still single (feed him the rizz rizz fruit pls)

a/n: tried something new tell me do you like it or love it? m.list

[dead-inside-demiboy]

I still enjoy Sander sides a fuck ton, but I've been out of the fandom for years now. That being said, I've been rewatching it recently and here's a really cool thing I've noticed!

So while they are characters and all of the sides feel fully fleshed out and realistic, they are also aspects personified and it was done SO WELL

Like of course Logan would get very stuck up and controlling with certain stuff, that's how logic operates. Especially with adhd, logic is usually the voice of guilt in the back of your head when you do things wrong. On the other end, logic is also silly, you sometimes remember something random for no reason. And of course Logan gets ignored a lot! How often do you listen to your logic 100%?

Of course Roman is grand and has large ambitions too big for his boots, that's what creativity feels like. Yes, Roman will be self centered, because if you're an artist (like Thomas) creativity is a big source of pride for you, especially if you post online. Roman being insecure makes sense when you think of imposter syndrome and how popular Thomas is. Obviously Roman loves Disney and cartoons, they actively spur on creative juices.

Of course Patton is pushy and controlling with his beliefs, that's what morality does! Growing up religious would only make that more extreme. Of course he's commonly listened to and taken at face value, your ethics/morals are some of the heaviest driving forces when they kick in, and it takes a lot to shift them. Obviously he's the least mature, your morals are instilled when you're young and you never really grow out of them. But he's also a dad because older male figures are stereotypically the ones that teach you morals in the first place!

Of course Virgil is so rude in the beginning but gets an acceptance arc, anxiety is a bitch to live with that fucks with everything else, but you need to learn to work with it, not against it, similar to any other emotion. He used to be part of the dark sides cause when you don't know what to do with feelings like that, you end up pushing them down or hurting yourself. He hates not being taken seriously because when you completely ignore and blow off your alarm bells it puts you in active danger!

Speaking of, Dark sides tangent! First of all, they aren't really the "bad" parts, they're just the parts of Thomas that he bottled up or tried to hide from himself. And the name "dark sides" is so good, cause it's like the dark side of the moon! Just as important as the light side, just different, harder to see if you aren't actively looking, and often ignored or viewed as "worse"

Tangent over. So!

Of course Janus's main role is to hide the other dark sides! He's representation of what happens when somebody hides parts of themselves. He has a villian and snake persona cause of religious reasons and because deceit is viewed as one of those bad things that need to be bottled up! He is at the core of a lot of self preservation and caring of others because for Thomas, that is the only time he's used Deceit so it's all that he can do.

Of course Remus is equally as prideful as Roman, he has the same issues with imposter syndrome! Of course he has a bunch of gore and sex jokes/ideas, he's the creative parts that morals state are "bad". Unlike Roman who's usually on topic, Remus goes constantly off tangent because that is what your wilder/more experimental side of creativity does! It just spits shit out and you figure out what sticks!

Its very similar to Greek mythology and idk! I just love when personification is done super well while making the characters still feel human!

[skylie-spiderlillis]

#8 Headcanons for Charles? ╰(⸝⸝⸝´꒳`⸝⸝⸝)╯

Sorry for taking time to answer!

Ohhhh. Charles my love!

Well this aren't my personal headcanons but they're one that I adopted.

Well demiromantic Charles, I talked about this before and I think this posts explains it pretty well and I completely support it.

Also using suspenders as a replacement for belts because belts reminds him of his dad.

ADHD Charles! Oh I love this ADHD messy boy and I resonate with him so much.

Also dyslexic Charles!

I think those hcs makes the fact that he and Edwin has their thing where Edwin is reading him stories even cuter.

I totally see how no matter how hard he tried to overcome his disabilities he was never good enough which made his home life more difficult (projecting? Whattt).

Oblivious bisexual Charles rights. Not really a hc but yeah, that boy is dumb he's just completely oblivious in the moment he just never considered that because of the heteronormative society he was raised in, it just never crossed his mind. I'm a full believer he's just slow in understanding stuff and he wants to take things slow with Edwin.

He's screaming bisexual we all in the fandom clocked him right away it's nothing special really. We all know he's bi. That's a bisexual disaster if I have ever seen one. (Emphasis on the disaster).

Also, Charles kept the lantern from when Edwin found him! And that was the lantern he used when he went back to hell. And another detail I didn't see anyone talking about he also kept the book Edwin read to him without he knew. Actually he kept following the next books coming out in this series.

I also love any type of hc that gives him any artistic hobby- artist, dancer, or anything really, any reason that he didn't fit the stereotypical masculine gender roles, and made him even a larger disappointment in his dad's eyes. Anything that made it harder for him. I'm a slut for angst what can I say. (Like I'm a Charles Rowland kinny it's pretty much obvious).

This is pretty much it I think!

Mostly I just love the work the show did with him. I don't feel like large and elaborate headcanons are needed him- the canon is already amazing. I just love some small pieces that gives even more depth to the canon lore.

This show is so good I don't need really big headcanons. I don't think I can top the canon.

I love people sending me asks! Pease send my more if you have any🫶

[se-hinton-confessions]

I personally like to think of The Shepards as half white or "passing" as white. It makes so much sense too due to the fact that it would cause resentment/self hatred on top of their economic status. They can't be themselves or express their culture. Not to mention passing as white would do well for them in the eyes of the legal system where they would receive slaps on the wrist rather jailed straight away or be racially profiled.

I just feel it would add a lot of character to The Shepards, especially if growing up one of them became a little "more white" than the others and the jealousy would double down or self resentment would increase.

(Bonus points if they all have different dads--I head canon that no one knows who Curly's real dad is and Mrs. Shepard lies to save what self respect/minimize gossip about her so Curly is "more white" than Angela but Angela and Tim are convinced they have the same Dad because they look so much alike but Tim grows to look more like their mother and Angela, while sill Angela, grow to resemble someone Tim doesn't recognize.).

I love seeing POC Shepards and I'll be honest back when the fandom didn't have much fan art (probably the early 2000s-2010s) what little fan art there was The Shepards were drawn as white, which, again, is fine. In a fandom like this where not many artists dwell we have to appreciate what we are given and respect other people's opinions.

ADHD rant but honestly it's fictional people guys, lets not call each other racist over things that are made up, no one out here is drawing harmful images or stereotyping people.

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[urnumber1star]

Roast Your OCs Tag!

Thanks for the tag @illarian-rambling! I took a short break but now I'm feeling a bit better and ready to start posting and doing things again! I'll do the trio of BRS + No One for this one! <3

Rules: boil your OC down to their barest, most cliche, stereotypical essentials, and phrase it like a headline

Sunshine didn't know what he was getting into and is now coping by collecting different parental figures. Good or Bad.

Annoying overachiever who cant socialize and needs to be humbled before he burns every bridge he has left.

Local artist with ADHD attempts to be helpful by accidently causing more problems but still tries anyway.

Got disowned by parents. Forgot the next day and now likes causing problems and stalking a dude who is constantly confused.

I'll tag @leahnardo-da-veggie, @kaylinalexanderbooks, @mysticstarlightduck, @melpomene-grey +anyone who wants to!

[lilysaus]

okay. this fucking picture made me so mad i went on a 15 minute rant to my sister while she was trying to read her book.

so ive been looking at a lot of pictures of posts on pinterest because thats just where i spend most of my time. most of these posts are on the topic of adhd. ive never been properly diagnosed, but reading through these posts has made me feel so welcomed and understood (more than my parents have made me feel, pretending that this is "all just a phase that ill get over soon because pretending to have adhd is just the thing right now") that i realized ON MY OWN that "hey maybe i do have adhd." well.

i found this post while scrolling through pinterest, and it really sparked my anger.

i have a friend who was diagnosed with add before it was considered an "outdated" term and scrapped because apparently ALL FUCKING FORMS OF NEURODIVERGENCY THAT ARENT AUTISM ARE JUST "ADHD".

i read this post and it was what sparked my anger and my 15 minute rant to my sister. people who get degrees in this stuff, or counselors at schools, never really know what youre going through. all they know is that youre having some problems and they need to be solved.

which brings me back to this picture. if you look up "is add still a thing" on google, this is the first picture to pop up. and just seeing the visual aids they put with it makes me furious enough to throw something or someone out a fifth story window. the little girl is fucking SMILING while thinking about the most common shit people think us neurodivergent folks think when distracted. first off, no. false. we dont just think of video games and candy. we think of the randomest shit possible, like how long can i sit here without blinking or what kind of funny shit can i draw on this one sheet of paper.

and ALSO.

you cant just categorize adhd as TWO SEPARATE THINGS and call it good. we dont fit under two umbrellas. theres too many of us. we each have our own figurative umbrellas that only we ourselves can fit under, no one else. thats the problem with neurotypicals. they fit the typical stereotype for humans: we try to understand everything by putting it in a box. those lists of "symptoms"? i match every single one. on both sides. so ha. take that SCIENTISTS. what am i? some kind of freak of nature because i dont fit under just ONE of your precious categories?

i also looked up what "inattentive" means and it made me angrier. according to oxford languages, "inattentive" means "not paying attention to something", which doesnt seem too bad, right? it fits some people perfectly with their symptoms, right? but its not the definition that bugs me. its the example sentence thats used. "a particularly dull and inattentive student". basically saying that if you dont pay attention well to something, youre dull and boring.

im sorry, what? sometimes i have trouble paying attention, sure, but you ask any of my friends and they can agree i am NOT boring in any way, shape, or form. non of them would describe me as "dull". inattentive? sure, but not dull. so to call it "inattentive" adhd, instead of just add, is stupid! my friend with ADD (not fucking adhd, stupid scientists) is one of the funniest, most entertaining people ive ever met. shes an incredible artist, super smart, and knows how to make anyone laugh. does that sound dull to you? does she have problems focusing sometimes? yes. does she struggle with doing something sometimes? yes. but dont the rest of us?

my point is, when i see things like this, it pisses me off. like, unless all of the scientists who agreed "add" is an outdated term have it themselves, i refuse to believe its outdated and i will continue to say that my friend has it. she was literally diagnosed by the doctor telling her "you have attention deficit and hyperactivity disorder without the hyperactivity." THATS JUST FUCKING ATTENTION DEFICIT DISORDER YOU DUMBASS!!!

anyway, i hope im not the only one who feels this way. i just felt it necessary to get this out there. maybe someday, people wont be so dumb and single minded. in my opinion, neurodivergent people are superior in intellect and creativity, but i guess until someone like that takes over the world and dropkicks neurotypicals into the stratosphere, we'll never know.

[varganardi]

Can you tell us more abt Laura pretty please

- @laloverboyy

AHSHSHHS YESS OFC <33

So basically!!

Her full name is Laura Bernardi.

She kinda started out as an OC and I wanted to have her as a character in my book - but who knows? She might still be in my stories one day HEHEH >:3 So therefore I've made her a background story already, but she's very based on me - with personality, dreams and goals, and family/friends dynamics etc.

When I started watching Better Call Saul I got this though of "LAURA AND NACHO WOULD BE PERFECT TOGETHER-" ...But I was also like: "ME AND NACHO SHOULD BE TOGETHER 👹" So I combined the two and turned Laura into a self-insert LMAO

Now for the story I have for Laura:

She's from Europe and spent her first years in Italy, before she moved to the US together with her dad and big brother Sergio.

They moved in with her grandparents, and she was very close with her grandpa - Valentino. He taught her to read and write and eventually she developed a passion for writing, just like Valentino had. He was basically her best friend, since she hated school and got bullied.

She is very close to her brother Sergio - who's three years older. He is very overprotective of his little sister and is the stereotypical "annoying brother" LOL He is currently living in Denver, where he's opened his own restaurant.

Laura is an artistic person. She enjoys poetry, music and art. It has been so since her childhood. Her interest in writing developed and eventually she started working as a journalist, after studying at university.

In her spare time, she hangs out with friends and family - they're all very important to her. And she makes her own books and poems too. She also likes reading and being outdoors, for example taking photos, going shopping or jogging/hiking.

She sometimes enjoy going to parties too.

Her fasion style is classy and simple. She also likes dark academia and grunge clothings (...but also adores pastel colors LOL)

As for her personality: She's both extroverted and introverted, it depends on who she's talking to! She is kind and caring, and good at reading people. Although she's a good person, she's very impulsive and sometimes says/does things without thinking twice. She was diagnosed with ADHD as a teen and also struggles with mental health.

She also loved animals! She has a cat and knows alot about cats and other animals. A bit of a nerd when it comes to cat facts :')

Relationship with Nacho 👀

Nacho and Sergio was best friends in school, so Nacho spent a lot of time in the Bernardi house. He got to know Laura's family, and Sergio got to know Nacho's family. The two families became friends and even had dinners together.

But Sergio and Nacho grew apart during the years. One main reason was Nacho joining the cartelm which he did not approve off. They stopped hanging out around the time Sergio moved to Denver.

After this, Nacho and Laura grew close. They had known each other for quite some years and knew each other well. They supported each other during difficult times and shared happy moments etc.

Laura even worked at A-Z Fine Upholstery (Nacho's dads store) before becoming an journalist! She was a troubled teen and Manuel Varga fixed her a job, and then she became colleagues.

They liked each other, but both were too scared to admit it. So they let each other go, and dated other people, breaking each others hearts over and over without knowing so...

After a bad breakup, Laura realized she still liked Nacho, and he developed feelings for her. They finally confessed to each other, and since then their love has bloomed.

Now, they live together in a house in Albuquerque, but plan on moving to Italy and start over, and live a life away from dangers and drama.

Laura is also planning on proposing to Nacho soon... 🤭

Random pictures

Laura S/I aestethic 💅

First drawing: The first drawing I made of Laura! Her design has changed a lot since LOL Second drawing: Latest drawing of her (and my fav art hahah) Third drawing: Sims 4 version of Laura :3

ALSOOO - This is what Sergio Bernardi looks like!! Had to make one for him too ahshshs (yep, he's an OC now and he's iconic)

That sums it up, I think ahhshss

THANK YOU SM FOR ASKING! <33 And sorry for making this reply so long LOL 😭

My English broke now and it's very late - so I hope this all made sense ahshshhs

[notexactlyrocketscience]

favourite adhd creators masterpost!

(especially for gender minorities, people of colour, and lgbtq+ community!) in no particular order:

adhdinos (ryan keats): just compassion and wholesome vibes.

the mini adhd coach by alice: incredible resource that highlights diverse experiences, presentations, and comorbidities of adhd outside the stereotypes.

adhd nutritionist (becca king): if you have trouble eating because of adhd, she’s going to save your life every day with compassionate advice that actually works.

how to adhd (jessica mccabe): her ted talk was one of the things that made me realise i may have adhd. her content covers a lot of breadth and is very resourceful.

adhd couple by ingri: the perfect resource when your partner (or friends!) also have adhd.

adhd superwoman (ingrid heyerdahl): more of the inspirational type, often featuring accounts of women with adhd.

izzie and adhd by izzie: incredible candid and heartwarming blog of her own experiences, with both celebratory and difficult moments.

authentically adhd by jak: here for the adhd positivity, staying for the gorgeous queer energy.

adhd alien (pina varnel): an incredible individual and artist who needs no introduction, they were the first adhd creator the majority of us stumbled across. <3

female adhd: great resource to learn about how adhd works in afab bodies, how symptoms interact with hormones, and the distinct impact of adhd on women's experiences in our society.

elyse myers: need i say more? her #theadhdway posts remind me of the untethered joy that can come with being neurodivergent. laughter is medicine and that’s what elyse is here to remind us.

this is a working list, so come back for more. <3 I am an instagram girlie so all of these link to instagram, but most (if not all!) of these creators are on twitter, tiktok, and tumblr (!!) as well! as someone with little to no access to mental health support for adhd, they have been imperative to my survival. I hope you find some comfort in them too!

[amindlessmadman]

ROLEPLAY THINGS

⟢ | intro

Okay so, to start off heres a little introduction! Remi, I’m a transmasc, 18+, write semi-lit to just two or more paragraphs, and I have quite the variety of ocs and possible new ocs (Im very flexible with characters).

⟢ | requirements

Important things first, please be older than 18 to reply as I am 19 and many of my ideas come with nsfw themes linked into them!

Please be patient when it comes to replies, I am a busy man and have adhd so I may get distracted and forget to reply! As well as I have a job, so replies may vary during those times.

Be open to short, three or so paragraphs, replies every now and then. I get burnt out pretty quick when always having to write out a lot, especially when I’m not feeling it. Although I mostly always mirror, I do sometimes tend to scale down on how much I write.

Open communication!! I can’t stress this enough, I would love to be able to talk out of character no matter what its about!

⟢ | genre, pairings & more

My all time favorites are horror, romance, angst, hurt/comfort, fluff and fantasy! As for pairings, I strictly only do M/M or M/NB. Im open to trans characters and others, I don’t discriminate, especially with how Im trans myself! On the topic of characters, some of my characters may be stereotypical. As stated previously, I have a big variety of characters and some may have some stereotypical elements. On top of that, if we do include nsfw, in terms of intimacy between our characters, I would prefer to write it out from a sub pov (sub bottom, sub top, or sub switch). Though Im flexible when it comes to that as well.

⟢ | pairing ideas

siren x deaf pirate

merman x pirate

single father x babysitter

servant x king

killer x investigator

killer!cop x cop investigator

vampire x immortal human

rival cowboys (their horses are in love)

hero x obsessive!villain

hero’s ex sidekick x villain (something like the sidekick was neglected/used by the hero!)

arranged marriage + human x vampire

arranged marriage + enimes to lovers

priest x demon

satanic!priest x angel

injured!werewolf x human

injured!nonhuman x human

injured!soldier x human

injured!anything x human

soft/sweet vampire x human (thinking something like a character whos the sweetest person you’ll ever meet and he turns out to be a blood thirsty vampire..)

artist x oc that came alive (im thinking something like the artist got a magical book and drew the oc in it, which made the oc come to life, ignore how unrealistic this is)

monster x scientist

spiderman variant x deadpool variant

+ a bunch more

^ plots can be altered to your liking

⟢ | random oc info

Some of my ocs aren’t 100% done, so if you ever ask me to see a description it may take some time! Especially with how my ocs adapt to the plot quite a lot and many things may be altered so they fit the plot!!

Im not a artist, many of my ocs will have faceclaims from pinterests or picrew (with the artists stated)!

( this is pretty lengthy, i apologize—)

[blamin8r]

Introduction Post

Yo, my name's Blam. I use he/him, I'm an American adult, a digital artist, and I like to watch cartoons. Probably got Autism and ADHD, if that says anything about me. I can only read, write, and speak in English, and can't really understand any other language, just a little bit of Spanish. I'll be learning some ASL at a later point though, which I look forward to a lot. I draw a lot of fan art for the things that I like, but what I primarily draw is SMG4 fan art and stuff of my original characters from my comic Electric Blades. I'm personally fine with gore and sexual content (especially sexual humor) but only as long as it's within the appropriate places to share such content. Fandom-wise, I'm a multi-shipper but not a pro-shipper, which basically means I'm fine with all ships as long as they don't encourage harmful stereotypes, relationship types, and especially abuse. I have my preferences of course, but I'll indulge in whatever pretty much. I try not to be mean, so hopefully you try to do the same? That's pretty much it and enjoy my blog.

[cxffeeshxp]

From what I remember the real issue there was that the artist just didn't have English as their first language and assumed those were just gendered adjectives, like a lot of languages have. (And I don't mean like the stereotypes associated with the words, a lot of english classes for the people who learn it as a recieved language teach those like "they mean the same thing but one is for boys and one is for girls")

Yes, maybe they should have checked it, or not made a comic like that if they aren't very good with the language in the first place, but you don't know what you don't know. Classic case of people assuming malice where there is actually ignorance.

~Their English seemed good enough for them to basically reinforce gender norms of 'women are only pretty and beautiful while men are only cool and handsome' rather than just having Sonic go. 'I appreciate the compliment but rather be called handsome/cool instead', which wouldn't have come off as... weird. The artist basically had Sonic's egotistical and ADHD riddled ass set Cream aside to explain what compliments are appropriate for certain genders and while those terms are pretty gendered.... Sonic... Sonic the Hedgehog I could never see giving a shit about any of that. May just be me, but Sonic always gave off a queer coding much like SpongeBob or Bugs Bunny.

Also, apparently, they went on a massive unfollow/block spree of trans sonic fam artist. I am not sure how true that is, but I saw it brought a few times.

Like this isn't a cancelation of the person I just thought the comic was goofy, especially given it was Sonic

[herei2-0]

introduction !! (kinda long)

‼️‼️TUMBLR MESSAGING WORKS NOW‼️‼️

hi !! my name is herei, you can call me rei for short if you'd like !! (basic dni criteria, pr0/c0mshit, z00s, m4ps, p3dos, racists, weirdos, and freaks)

DISCOMFORTS / DNI LIST IN CARRD !!!

about me:

I'm 14 and a freshman in highschool !! I have adhd and questioning autism !! i am a csa victim with ptsd so please, be respectful !! because of this, I am hypersexual, dni if you stereotype it, it's incredibly hurtful. (I don't express my hypersexuality very often, dw)

I go by He/They/It/Cat/Fox !! Im an omnisexual trans demiboy (ftm) in a lovely gay relationship !!

I call myself a cat kin because I copy and mimic the behavior of a cat, they are also my special interest !!

I'm a Mexican artist !! both trad and digital

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I'm no stranger to blocking and I block pretty spontaneously, and i don't soft block (unless necessary) and I stick to hard, cold, blocks, if u fit my dni or discomforts, ur probably getting blocked ,, yeah . I like to keep myself safe and comfortable >_<

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I use tone tags and I'd appreciate if you use them while talking to me !!

I'm no stranger to sensitive/suggestive topics, but I will not post anything explicit and will tag anything with proper tw/cws

my art/posts can contain triggering/Upsetting content such as

• Dr_g use/Substance ab_se

• Eye strain

• Bright colors

• Blood/Gore

• Unsettling content

• Or otherwise content not directed to a younger audience

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I'm multifandom and have many hyperfixes that last only a short while so please, don't follow me for 1 thing !! follow me bc i errm uooohhmm AM COOL !!!! yeah y yeah yeah tehehe

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[carrd and spacehey are kinda bright]

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[femmeofthevalley]

So at one of my jobs - a goddamn grocery store which fuck do I wanna die - I always get compliments on my bagging abilities and how well I pack things. Making room for everything, keeping as much cold stuff together as possible, all frágiles on top, etc.

Yesterday, this older lady kept complicating me and kept saying something with a very heavy accent.... so I kept misunderstanding. I didn't react externally, but it through me for a loop for sure.

What I heard, twice, was her mentioning I'm a visual organizer and have an eye for it, probably because I'm autistic......

Which um, bold statement and could hold some issues and/or stereotypes behind it..... except I'm not? Neurodivergent for sure, ADHD is a present thing in my life.

So I'm very concerned about being careful of confirming anything to not also be perpetuating some stuff, and her to clarify

Artistic, she was calling me artistic and I was basically gaping at her thinking "Jesus some people just say things without thinking it through huh" 🤦🏻‍♀️

And she's right, and I appreciate the compliments - it just sounded closer to the first options due to her accent 😅

[genericfangirlnumber4]

"A cishet person must have made this, no queer person would ever portray queerness in this way."

I have seen said about stories exactly like mine, as a bisexual, because nobody can seem to agree that we exist and sometimes our existence is the stereotypes about the person who doesn't know what they want and isn't ready to label it yet.

"This artist must be white."

I have seen said on the art of multiple POC artists because they drew curls a bit wrong or made other typical beginner mistakes, but on a non-white character.

"No SA victim would ever handle the subject in this way."

I have seen this a million times on SA stories I related directly to, and on every existence of noncon--Despite every woman I've ever met into noncon being SA victims. Apparently if SA didn't send you running to a nunnery to never be touched by another human again, you're Not Valid according to some people.

"No woman would ever write women like this."

Again, bisexual women apparently don't exist and should never be written the way we've lived. Also the people who say this about women *checks notes* examining themselves in the mirror??? I'm so happy for you that you never looked in the mirror and found things to pick apart or forced yourself to find something to appreciate, but not all of us are so lucky.

"This creator is obviously neurotypical. Everyone with autism/ADHD/depression understands-"

Literally there are so many different symptoms of any/all of those that it is impossible to write one story for one character that perfectly aligns with a real person's experience. Maybe the character with the issue you have is just not meant to have a version with the same symptom list, not everyone has every symptom every time. Especially if a character is meant to have more than one issue. A depressed autistic person is going to be different from a depressed allistic person, and different from a non-depressed autistic person.

"A cishet person must have made this, no queer person would ever portray queerness in this way."

"This artist must be white."

"No SA victim would ever handle the subject in this way."

"No woman would ever write women like this."

"This creator is obviously neurotypical. Everyone with autism/ADHD/depression understands-"

Nope.

People who make these blanket statements are very frequently proven wrong when the creator comes out as a member of that group. And even when they aren't proven wrong, even in cases where the creator isn't from the group in question, actual members of the group who don't fit whatever arbitrary criteria are being expressed will see these statements and feel excluded and erased.

Not everyone in your group is going to share your experiences. No single individual gets to personally decide what does or doesn't count as a "valid" expression of trauma or being part of a particular group, and creators are also not obligated to out themselves in order to "prove" their validity.

If something doesn't resonate with you, all that means is that it doesn't resonate with you. You don't have to like it. But you don't get to decide what it means to someone else.

[dumber-alek]

I treat astrology with the same level of gravity as uquiz tests - it's fun to talk about it with your friends but whether you're strawberry ice cream, a Taylor swift song, or fandom's little meow meow doesn't really have bearing on your life, and I won't make assumptions about based on what uquiz result you're getting.

However it just tickles me when people match with their zodiac signs stereotypes. Be it through serendipity, or the fact that these stereotypes are often vague and everyone kind of makes up their own. Or due to the simple psychology of 'people keep telling me I'm this, so i adjust my personality (or my perception of my personality) to be that specific thing.

So to set the stage the 'zodiac stereotypes' I know are : Virgos are "type-A personality" people, very organised, hate chaos, love rules and lists etc. Aquariuses are individualistic, quirky, artistic, but also antisocial and know-it-alls. Geminis are charismatic, social, well-liked but also two-faced, or just inconsistent.

That being said life pranked my friend who always said her neurotic nature, meticulousness, rigidity, lack of tolerance for chaos etc was because she's a Virgo. She was diagnosed with obsessive compulsive personality disorder lately.

She also always made fun of me that I'm just so scatter brained, distracted, weird and antisocial because I'm 'such an aquarius'. WRONG! Diagnosed with ADHD (possibly autistic?) a couple years later.

And my girlfriend, a Gemini, who before getting medicated, had very sudden changes of mood and could treat you completely different like a flip of a switch? Bipolar.

So take from it what you will. You could say that zodiac sign magic sometimes gives people matching mental disorders. I would say: if you have some personality traits that are making your life harder that people always say are due to your zodiac sign, talk to a mental health professional instead ✌️