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Sorry. I meant cis ted.  I would never baby girls transman that would be offensive.
???? yeah i mean. i kind of figured you probably meant cis ted, i was saying I got distracted on the topic of feminization kink. also i mean. yeah it CAN be offensive but i was talking about how me, as a trans man, enjoys feminization kink on a trans male/transmasc character (in this case trent, sorry) bc i project a lot😩 and it's fun specifically because of the inherent contradictory na--i mean i did explain this? didn't i? i. sorry??
#please tell me im not about to get a bunch of anon hate for . [checks notes] having a kink#anyway i only like it done a certain way like. im not into misgendering or whatever its more just like. ohhh idk how to explain it rn#Again. Headache#but like. its ABOUT the contradictory nature of it its ABOUT how it#ironically--perhaps paradoxically--is validating of my/his gender#and like i mean. aftercare. praise kink anyone? good boy? love that shit. validation.#like. it's just. a guy can enjoy being feminized. and a trans guy is a guy#with as much wide variety as cis guys#and sometimes hes into that! and not necessarily in the specific Misgendering way but just. in the regular way. like a cis guy might be. yk#sources: I Am Into It And I'm Transmasc#anyway tldr IM babygirling trans trent bc id like to masculine enough to be babygirld.#plus ngl it just plays into my Complicated Gender Feelings#one of my ideal genders (i collect them like a dragon#im fluid i think but i lean very masc but in different shades?) is like#i want to look like a boy in girl's clothing if that makes sense. masculine enough that i could wear a dress and people would think#'guy in a dress' not 'lady' but still like. you know. wearing the dress.#and this plays into that--being masculine enough that you can be feminized and still be recognizably a guy? or know that you are still like#you and your partner still Know and Perceive you're a guy? you know?#the security of that in your own gender + safety/trust in your partner + it's FUN it's just fun#idk how else to explain it man but it's literally me projecting my personal feelings#also idk what emoji that is it wont load for me rip#ANYWAY sorry to derail thats why i did it in the tags. im just like#honestly not as interested in ted getting railed which--again not that it's not valid but it's also like 90 percent of the fan content for#the ship and like. again that's not invalid or Not Canon or something im just more interested in WRITING about trent getting railed#bc i have blorbo disease and my own preferences yknow?#askbox#anonymous#if i get like. Cancelled over this. im going to. like. walk into the sea
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While I agree that we can do whatever we want with Dreamtale's canon and shift it however we want in fics and stuff, as with any other Au; y'all can pry canon demiro+ace Dream¹ and canon genderless enby "boy" twins² from my cold, dead hands
1- "Pues se supone Dream es demiromantico asexual [= Dream's supposed to be demiromantic and asexual]" 2- "[...] energy balls have no gender, [...] they can feel like boys and call themselves with masculine pronouns, but they have no gender.", "[D]ream has no gender, [...] [he] is a ball of energy light. [He i]dentifies as a boy, but has no gender."
(I feel similarly about canon ADHD he/they aroace Ink btw, I just. Canon queer characters omg <3 like yes feel free to shift his character but omg)
#Also I'm trying so hard to find the source for this cause I KNOW it's been said before#But the villagers/people thought Dream was a girl as a kid (mainly bc of his mannerisms & clothes)#So imma be so fr; Dream feeling genderless; being treated like a girl and then growing up and preferring being identified as a guy#is literally my transmasc experience; I didn't feel anything as a kid; growing up I realized I wanted to be called a guy but I'm very enby#that's why; despite how much I love transfem Dream retellings; I hold such a special place in my heart for transmasc Dream#Transfem Nightmare I love tho; like; a lot lot; same as tmasc NM and only slightly below nb NM#(transfem enby NM is a GIFT TO THE WORLD) but tmasc Dream is just <3#I'm also SO VERY EXTREMELY FOND of it/its twins btw; I love them; I feel like they'd feel alright with being an it; something before someon#not in an insulting; self-deprecating way; but in a ''well; I am energy manifested''#similarly to how I feel as an alterhuman otherkin person#idk man I'm projecting#utmv#dreamtale
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With Warless Weekend over, it's time I address Plaidos openly accusing me of secretly being a man! Oh, yeah, she's doing that now. I'm tagging this because I'm annoyed at Very Popular Tumblr Transfeminist misgendering a trans woman because her politics are too transmasc-friendly.
Isn't it great how she cuts this off, implying I think segregation by sex is not a big deal, rather than it being ridiculous she's made Michfest specifically her 9/11? I try so often to word everything I say in a way that can't be snipped like this but I clearly fucked up here.
Let's breakdown the reasoning given in her reply to a reblog concurring that I'm probably a sockpuppet:
Plaidos is assuming as TRFs always do that her clique is fully representative of transfems on Tumblr so if she never sees me positively interacting with them I must specifically be avoiding them. The reality is that I simply don't inspect the genitals of everyone I interact with.
Not only do I often argue with self-identified TMEs, probably even more than trans women, but Plaidos is literally responding to a self-identified TME who's talking about me having argued with them, so framing this as me going after trans women is ridiculous. I can literally pull up screenshots that I'm pretty sure predate me coming back to Tumblr where I talk about how it seems from what I observed on the outside was that the rabidly transandrophobic crowd was mostly non-trans women bloodletting for one or two idols, which is a notion I was unfortunately and despairingly disillusioned of upon getting into the trenches myself.
Also, "dishonorable"? Is she a fucking Klingon?
Annnnnd there's the implication I am in fact a trans man. She's certainly saying I'm not a trans woman and that's also misgendering because I've said repeatedly that my gender rests firmly on being Not A Cis Woman. But why simply "implicate" I'm a man?
Hilarious. Doubly so since I just recently found out that person runs my favorite Y2K blog, which I'm sure will get used as 'proof' at some point.
Do I seriously need to post fucking gock lol? Are we literally down to genital inspections at this point?
My blog has a pre-discourse history where I mostly reblogged images and argued about a Dungeons & Dragons show!* I'm literally a published author! What about all the very specific kinks? Being a scholar of Imperial Japan? The very specific opinions I have on very specific media? My specific fandoms?
What an elaborate character I've constructed to come up with a multiple system where the system members even have surnames and are the distinct sources of specific parts of my personality and interests, including one who's Christian and one who's attempting to learn Hinduism but has only ever briefly mentioned it about twice.
I think TRFs have never moved past the point in development where people don't exist when you stop looking at them.
*much of which was about how much I hated the transmasc player's cis lesbian PC; make of that what you will
I don't block people very often, but I do in fact do that! Thicced-Witch has openly talked about me repeatedly having her blocked and unblocking her when it did no good. I also have prettykittenpaw and fite-club blocked because they got into the annoying habit of coming on to every one of my posts, and my tolerance for prettyeelwithagun ran out when she stuck by Thicced-Witch's misgendering of people for the purposes of "satire."
God, this is all so, so stupid. Transfeminism, everyone.
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FtM/Transmasc NPD Culture is your NPD severely affecting your dysphoria, needing to prove yourself as masculine enough to those around you because you're dysphoric and hyper aware of how others percieve you. Even if you don't necessarily view being feminine as a morally bad thing, there's an inherent social pressure to prove you're not "weak" on top of being brushed off and disregarded for being treated as female. Projecting yourself as extremely tough and strong both as a response to social pressure and as a need to prove you're enough and just as good or better than other men.
It's painful to be hyper aware of how toxic masculinity affects people while being trans and having NPD because I feel like I need to balance proving that I'm the most kind, understanding individual to other trans people, and that I know toxic masculinity is bad, while also proving to cis men and society at large that I am just as good as others are. On top of the inherent demonization of masculinity period in some queer spaces, being seen as a "gender traitor" or just as bad and oppressive as cis men for my gender identity.
It is a massive source of insecurity and internal conflict feeling like I need to prove to everyone around me that I am The Best when everyone around me has entirely different expectations of what's good enough.
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#npd culture is#transmasc npd culture is#actually narcissistic#actually npd#narcissistic personality disorder#npd#cluster b
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can you shut the fuck up youre making all trans guys look bad so fucking annoying. insane that u cant handle any fucking criticism whatsoever lol holy shit. whole ass fucking paragraph. gotta put that evil mean trans woman in her place right. god forbid someone gets frustrated at being consistently shit on by people in her community. im gonna be so real rn and say that as trans guys / tme people we have it so much easier its actually insane (coming from someone whos been thru corrective rape when i was 12 after i came out as a trans guy btw! theres my fucking pound of flesh. jesus.) not even rly trying to convince u but u just piss me the fuck off annoying as fuck
First off: So sorry about what happened to you, my most sincere condolences. It's the only thing I can really give, hope your life gives you enough peace and happyness to allow you to live with such an event.
Second:
You're making all trans guys look bad
I'm not a trans guy, I'm a transmasc, very different, a difference you should if not care about at least keep in mind if you want to respect less binary forms of masculinity. I don't speak as nor speak for trans guys, because I am not one, maybe if you actually read what I write you would know.
Insane that you can't handle any fucking criticism
Criticism where? Let me be absolutely blunt and sincere: All I see in the posts I replied to is tired, scared and hurt people who cope with said feelings by turning their vents into everyone else's problems.
I vent a fucking lot, everyone can see that, but when I vent I am sincere and point the source of my pain, how I feel, why I feel that way, and which people I believe reinforce it. What I don't do is go out of my way to involve people who have nothing to do with it or with how I feel.
Trust me I know how they feel, and the way they are dealing with it is incredibly self-destructive and I want nothing more than for them to get out of that shitty mental state that hurts them so they can feel better and have a slightly better life and emotional responses to the world.
Whole ass fucking paragraph
Yeah, that is how one transmits ideas. Shocking.
Gotta put that evil mean trans woman in her place right
I've replied to a couple posts so I don't know which one you're talking about, but I've no clue about the gender of the people who I replied to, I simply replied to shitty ideas, don't care who's behind them.
Pretty lame that you try to make this a gender war, don't you think?
God forbid someone gets frustrated at being consistently shit on by people in her community
"her" ok so this is you personally defending someone you know, I can tell.
Statement goes both ways don't you think? You think this is just for fun?? Yeah let's start a conflict that is affecting the lives of real people for fun!
We are fucking tired of the mockery, the disrespect, and the extreme policing of transmasc and trans men's language and experiences by people who have no say in them.
Do you care about that too or are you a hypocrite? Because when I reply to people's shit-ass posts I do in fact care about them otherwise I'd ignore em and let em keep hurting themselves.
"Oh but these ones attacked this person" I. Don't. Give. A. Fuck. There are shitheads everywhere, in every opinion and side of any conflict. There are gonna be shitheads who use this as an excuse to attack people of a certain particular gender they already had something against, it is irrelevant to the ideas exposed. Let's not act like there isn't a whole plethora of posts about killing transmasc please, you SHOULD care avout that too.
As transmascs/tme people we have it so much easier
You're free to have an opinion about your own experiences and I have no horse in that race. HOWEVER:
•You're not the only transmasc in the world and your opinion is very clearly not a universal truth, so don't you dare spit on everyone else's experiences by deciding what's true and what's not without counting with them.
• In your dumbass dychotomy of "tma/tme" transmasc are not the only ones put on the "tme" label and the same way I cannot talk about YOUR experiences you have no fucking right to talk about everyone else's experiences specially the ones from other identities and lives that you did not get to be or experience.
•Without dipping my toes in your opinion or your experiences I profoundly disagree with you.
• Lastly, WHO THE FUCK CARES WHO HAS IT WORSE?! WE'RE ALL FUCKING HURT AND BROKEN WE'RE LITERALLY KILLED IN THIS WORLD FOR JUST EXISTING, YOU WANT A COMPETITION??? GO FIGHT FOR TRANS PEOPLE'S RIGHTS TO COMPETE IN SPORTS INSTEAD OF CREATING OPRESSION OLYMPICS. GET YOUR COMFY ASS OUT OF YOUR INTERNET ARMCHAIR AND GO SEE WHAT'S GOING ON IN THE WORLD FFS.
There's my fucking pound of flesh. jesus.
Again so sorry you had to go through that, but you realize the whole point of this is to be able to have words for those specific forms of opression and awful events right?? To have experiences like that respected and treated with the seriousness they deserve right??? That is what we want.
You experienced transandrophobia, and the people you're defending right now don't want you to have a word for it, or allow only words picked by them as if they had any right to speak for you. Respect yourself more, man.
Not even rly trying to convince u but u just piss me the fuck off annoying as fuck
Hey at least you're honest, good. I don't give a fuck though, if you wanna keep hating me I have good news for you: I don't plan to ever shut the fuck up, enjoy.
The one person you hate is not me anyway, that is plain obvious... but that's a you thing to try and work on.
Sayonara dude👋🏻
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i know it’s frustrating and heartbreaking to see bigotry within our own community, but i feel like it’s really important to remember that despite the discourse and infighting, we are not each other’s worst enemies. trans women are not more likely to be transandrophobic than anyone else. trans women are not the biggest source of transandrophobia by a *long* shot. anyone who advocates for trans men by saying that trans women are our enemies is not an ally of mine.
Our? I'm a trans woman. Just because I defend transmacs and call out trans radfems doesn't make me a man.
Also, given what I've seen on here, and the fact that I was literally cancelled by several sizable friend groups of transfems for defending trans men, that's not a good sign.
Does every transfem hate transmascs? Of course not.
Has the vast majority of people who defend transandrophobic rhetoric been transfem given what I've seen on here, and other platforms as well as in real life? Yep.
I know of very few people who aren't transmasc who aren't transandrophobic, and I am in a shit load of trans spaces (well, I was, until I had the audacity to say that maybe we shouldn't shit transmascs)
Never said transfems are "our enemies" (I mean, they do say that you're your own worst enemy), just that the vast majority of bigotry is coming from my own side, and I gave my speculation as to why.
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I appreciate learning from your blogs (both transmasc stuff and Jewish stuff), so if it's not overstepping, I am interested in your thoughts on something. Knowing that the terms Zionism and Zionist are being misused so frequently, I did some introductory reading from a few sources, one of which was the ADL. I've found their Hate Symbols Database helpful in the past, and I was looking into their anti-bias training resources since the school I work for has been failing (spectacularly) at such training. Reading their page on Zionism answered some basic questions, and their Myths and Facts about the ADL page also mentioned that "anti-Zionism equates to antisemitism".
Knowing that you (if I am remembering the specifics correctly, sorry if I'm misremembering) are an anarchist and against the existence of all states (including a Jewish one, thus you have explained you are neither Zionist nor anti-Zionist), I was wondering what your general thoughts are of the ADL's perspective on Zionism, and on the ADL as an organization. I hope this question doesn't come off negatively; I know I'm lacking a lot of knowledge, so I'm very grateful to be corrected on anything I said that's wrong/hurtful/ignorant/naive.
Once I get my recent medical stuff figured out, I look forward to signing up to your Patreon and giving more consistently than here-and-there Kofi donations :)
a little background on the adl: it was founded after the conviction and lynching of leo frank. its original purpose was to pressure media and businesses who engaged in antisemitic discrimination or defamation (hence the name). some of the things they engaged in early on were boycotts, demanding prior review of theater productions to screen for antisemitic content, and pressuring advertisers who relied on antisemitic stereotypes. this was in the time leading up to the holocaust, when violence and discrimination against jews was surging all over the world, so it makes a lot of sense why an organization like this was founded.
in terms of the modern organization, i have mixed feelings. i think their hate symbols database can be helpful, and i think some of the data collection is good as well, but there are a lot of stances they have and statements they've made that i really do not agree with, and some of which i think are harmful. that, for me, is why i don't generally use the adl as a primary or sole source for any news or info. i always double check multiple sources and try to use pages like myjewishlearning for educational things.
the adl is also very explicitly pro israel, as in supportive of the current state and government of israel, which is something i'm very much not. as you mentioned, i am an anarchist so i oppose the concept of states in general, including israel, and i'm also highly critical of the current israeli government.
their page on zionism is...accurate from their point of view, and from a lot of progressive zionists' points of view. but i think it paints a rosy picture of zionism that avoids any of the problematics or history of political zionism, which is just not helpful at this point. they're correct that for most people, zionism means advocating for jewish statehood in eretz yisrael, and that there has absolutely been a sort of "yearning for zion" in the diaspora for hundreds of years. and they are correct that there are many zionists who do not support the current israeli government or who advocate for a two state solution.
i also staunchly disagree that antizionism is in and of itself antisemitism. i think it is an ideology and movement that does very easily and too often fall into antisemitism, just because of the nature of how intertwined the conversation is with jewish identity and the jewish people, and we have seen many examples of this over the past month. however, because of the nebulous nature of the definition of zionism, the definition of antizionism is also going to be nebulous. if someone says "i'm a zionist", unless they elaborate i'm not going to know if i'm talking to someone who thinks that jewish people should be able to live peacefully in eretz yisrael alongside other indigenous people or to someone who wants a sovereign jewish state where jews are the ones in power. if someone says "i'm an antizionist", unless they elaborate i'm not going to know if i'm talking to someone who opposes the current state and government of israel and the occupation or someone who thinks (((zionists))) control the media and the banks and that jewish people as a collective are killing palestinian babies for fun. so for me, the terms "zionism" and "antizionism" are kind of useless unless the person i'm talking to further explains their stance, which means trying to label either zionism or antizionism as entirely inherently Bad is counterintuitive to any goal.
so to wrap this up, for me, an unwillingness to tackle the problematics is why i tend to clash with a lot of zionists and zionist institutions and organizations, and it's why i don't generally trust the adl on anything related to israel without other sources to verify.
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I used to be a close transmasc friend of yours but you have genuinely made me (and others) sick with your fake top surgery tattoos. It's disrespectful, it makes fun of and trivialises a symbol of progress/pride that relates nothing to you. Binding is damaging and painful, you have no idea the pain actually transmasc people go through daily, hourly, by the minute or second to bind. You have no idea the pain of personally growing up transmasc. It's layered and it's complicated and it is Not yours. It will never be yours. You are appropriating our pain. Its disgusting. You are going to lose many friends and make many enemies for this. Hope you have fun faking being transmasc, I see half of Twitter already believes you. I don't want drama with you, or want you to publicly share this or talk to me. I'm just sharing this with you because it has made me sick to my stomach ever since I saw it. And this is an action you need to seriously rethink. You need to publicly come clean on those posts that you are not transmasc. I can tell you've worded it so it's hard for people to tell. You are lucky I haven't publicly made a statement.
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woke up today to all of these anons. unsure if they are all the same person but I'm going to treat them as such.
the fact of the matter is, my gender identity is more complicated than "i want to be transmasc". twitter is a horrible place to explain myself because of the character limit, and because i don't like justifying myself to people i don't know. Seeing as i've now been kicked/banned from a specific discord server i used to be in, i know exactly who this is, and i finally feel comfortable explaining myself fully. i know you, i care for you, and we're here on tumblr where i can actually sit down and write a proper essay. Thank you.
i'll break down my responses specifically to what you said, because I want this to be a good conversation.
(under the cut because its long, lol)
"it's disrespectful, it makes fun of and trivializes a symbol of progress/pride that relates nothing to you" — I derive no comedy from the tattoo. I didn't decide I wanted it lightly. saying that it "makes fun of" that symbol is categorically a misinterpretation of my earnest & sincere intent. I wear my heart on my sleeve, always.
saying that my experience "relates nothing" to the transmasc experience is a true statement. I started with a body I should've been comfortable in. The truth is—I was not—I am not comfortable with my body. I don't want a binary body. But my transition experience? was not anything like the transmasc one. I grew out my hair. I bought skirts and dresses. I began collecting earrings, all of them gifts from friends who love me. But when I approached HRT, I realized I wasn't happy with being a woman. I didn't want to get closer to a newer, different binary body. I wanted to be both, trans man and trans woman, simultaneously. I am bigender and nonbinary. to boil me down to "just wants to be transmasc" completely ignores the other half of me that wants breasts, that wants a feminine chest. my next step with my transition is, honestly, purchasing a breast form.
the issue now becomes, why get the tattoo if thats how i feel? if I still want a chest in some form or another?
because, I don't want my bare chest to be a source of dysphoria for that part of me. Remember, at the same time that I want breasts, i also don't want them. at the same time that I want long hair, i want short hair. at the same time I want masculine clothes, i want skirts. I am all of these things and MY PAIN is not being able to be everything combined all at once. It is, frankly, an impossible transition goal.
The scars take my natural chest and they turn it into something new that acknowledges my hypocrisy, that its not just the body of a man, that there is room for more, here. Just because it looks flat doesn't mean thats all it could be, or thats all it was. I want that symbol of transformation because I wish I got to transform. What is more "trans" than wanting to transform?
I will never be transmasc. That just doesn't properly describe my experiences, and it doesn't even fit my feelings about myself. But, at the end of the day, top scars don't belong just to transmasc people, they belong to nonbinary people too. AFAB people who don't seek being gendered one way or the other get top surgery, too. That's the group I feel closest aligned with, (except I want to be gendered both ways, simultaneously, rather than not being gendered at all).
ANYWAYS. thats the deep and thorough explanation of my gender i've been holding back from sharing on twitter. I don't even want to begin to imagine how many tweets long that thread would be LMAO.
back to breaking down your responses, sorry for the tangent. I felt that it was pertinent to illustrate how this tattoo is still a symbol of progress and pride to me, and how I relate to it through my experiences, so you can understand me. I still care about you. you will always be a friend in my mind, so you deserve it.
"Binding is damaging and painful, you have no idea the pain transmasc people go through" — I am well aware of the side effects of binding. They are the reason I didn't pursue HRT to obtain a chest, with binding as a solution for me still wanting a flat chest simultaneously.
That being said, I am living with the consequences of binding. My partner cannot breathe normally, and I constantly feel concern for his wellbeing whenever we need to do something physical (move furniture, walk uphill, etc.) BECAUSE of his history of binding. I know the damage it does.
"You have no idea the pain of growing up transmasc. It is not yours, it will never be yours" — this is true, though I could similarly say that you have no idea the pain of my strange feelings either. Just because we don't experience each other's exact pain doesn't stop us from feeling empathy for each other, for wanting better for each other.
The difference between us is—when I see someone in pain, i want them to do whatever they need to do to relieve that pain. when YOU see someone in pain—with MY pain, my strange pain that you don't understand (that you THINK you understand, but you don't)—your instinct is to use YOUR pain as a justification for hurting others. The fact that you're hurting is an awful one, and I am sorry I can't help you relieve it. But when you see another person happy because they've found a way to relieve some of THEIR OWN pain, it makes you angry. It doesn't make you happy that I found a way to transform my painful, dysphoric relationship with my body into a euphoric one.
as a community, we should rejoice and be happy when other trans people successfully make steps towards defeating their personal struggles with their body. We should be empathetic to each other's experiences. I understand your anger, but its not justified.
"You are going to lose many friends and make many enemies for this" — so far the only friend I've lost is you. all of my irl friends have been supportive, my partners are supportive, my online friends are supportive. Do all of them understand my complicated gender identity? No. I think maybe a lot of them think its a little stupid, honestly. But they're still happy for me. I'm very lucky to have friends who love me. I love them a lot, too, and they know it.
The enemies I've made from this don't know me, and I don't know them. They're not worth my time. You're different—YOU, anon, are worth my time. I know you. I care for you. Long after you have buried me in the ground for being a horrible person (in your eyes), i will still be thinking positively of you. I will still be rooting for you. That will never change.
"I don't want... you to publicly share this" — I'm sorry but you can't control what I do. If you wanted this to be private we should've had a private conversation about it. I was waiting for you to DM me and you never did. I wanted to have this conversation, and this is the place we have to do it, now that you've sent me these anons.
"I can tell you've worded it so its [hard to tell that you're not transmasc]" — This is true. I don't feel like spending 2 hours typing heartfelt responses to people I don't know on x dot com. (Thats how long its been, btw. I've been writing this for 2 hours now. Hopefully that stands for something—to help you understand how much I believe you deserve this explanation. I believe you deserve a lot more than what i've given you.)
I did not obscure my AGAB on purpose. I just think it doesn't matter and is not important enough to disclose. I'm nonbinary and I want a nonbinary body. That should be the end of the story, as far as the greater trans community should be concerned.
"You need to publicly come clean that you aren't transmasc"
quite frankly, its a little uncomfortable for you to assert that I should have to "come clean" about my AGAB. An interest in the genitals of trans people is something transphobes are particularly keen on. I think you should consider the parallels between your arguments and theirs. You still have some internalized transphobia to unpack.
I was there once too. I've already forgiven you.
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I feel like I've already addressed your arguments here. I don't care what people who don't know me have to say about me. They don't know me.
You should consider your status as a popular furry artist, anon. Its not unreasonable to assume that people agreed with you purely because of your following. I've received supportive messages from several people I met in your discord server about my tattoo, so I can assure you that not everyone in your circle feels the same way you do.
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I'm not lying about being transgender. Nonbinary is a transgender identity. Your interest in my AGAB, asserting that I need to come clean about it, is a transphobic assertion. Attacking a nonbinary person because you feel that they aren't being trans the right way is textbook nonbinaryphobia.
Anon 4 — "My binder made me sick today, i couldn't eat i felt faint and ill" — i'm genuinely sorry to hear that. No one deserves to have to endure that kind of pain for so long. You deserve better. You deserve to look at your body and feel happy. Everyone does.
"I felt sick remembering what you did. That you don't take transmasc pain seriously, or respect us" — I do take your pain seriously, and I respect you as a person. This long thoughtful post is evidence of that.
I understand the disgust you feel at the thought that someone would want to feel the pain you feel. But thats never what I wanted. Thats what you believe I wanted.
The truth is I have my own pain too. my own, personal, complex pain, which i've attempted to explain above. I shouldn't have to be burdened with explaining it to everyone who asks. I don't owe them my soul. I owe my soul to my friends and my partners, and I give it freely when asked by them. You asked. on tumblr dot com, my friend.
If thats not respect, then I don't know what is. Respect is a willingness to meet another person where they're at. I know that when you're hurting its hard to see the hurt you're inflicting onto others. Please trust me when I say I've been there, too. I've hurt. I've hurt others because my pain said that it was justified. I'm healing from it, from the guilt and the shame. I'm finally stopping the cycle of pain and self-hatred within myself. I hope you can get here with me someday, too.
I meant it when I said you'll always be a friend to me. I hope you take my words to heart.
have a nice day, thanks for reading 💛
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welcome to my blog!
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hi! i'm ozzy, a canine therian and otherheart. my canine types are a german shepard, vancouver coastal sea wolf, and a coyote, and that's what this blog is all about! main alter human blog is @coyote-swims
about me:
i am a transmasc alterhuman based in the southern united states. i'm a minor, so don't be weird, and i've been in the alter human community since around the middle of 2022.
i go by masculine terms and he/him, but i'm also cool with it/its and they/them.
this is a (semi) secret side blog so i follow from a diff account that is not nonhuman related whatsoever, but i won't be saying what my main is unless we're close for privacy reasons
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i am a polytherian but this blog is all about my canine types because those tend to be pretty strong.
i am simultaneously a service/SAR dog, a working dog/military dog, and a farm dog. i am not a police dog, my url just says k9 because it looks cool
all of my canine 'types are suntheriotypes!
i identify and refer to myself as a puppyboy/dogboy, because more often than not i feel i am part dog, sometimes its more prominent than others but normally i am at least part dog (this relates to my suntherian identity). i basically see myself as a kemonomimi. if i refer to myself as a puppyboy, dogboy, or anything of the like it is SFW. i am a minor and do not engage in kink.
i go by other names on my other blog but on here i prefer to be called Ozzy just because that's my dog name! or my name as a dog. that's me. my name. but only when i'm a dog. you get it? /silly
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blinkies ^^ (most of the sources have been lost, sorry! the puppy dawg and bottom three were all made by me, though)
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user box by @/druxic1canine!
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NSFW blogs, terfs, bigots, and basic DNI criteria applies to my blog. have a wonderful rest of your day!
#alterhumanity#therian#otherhearted#canine therian#dog therian#wolf therian#coyote therian#service dog therian#intro#pinned post#therian intro#military dog therian#working dog therian
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Palestine info posts (with help links):
https://www.tumblr.com/sulfurcosmos/732456971539775488?source=share
i am constantly reblogging posts with other donation sites, in case any links don't work or you want to give to a targeted fundraiser. ZIONISTS/"NEUTRAL OPINIONS" DNI, YOU AREN'T AND WILL NEVER BE WELCOME HERE. 🇵🇸🇵🇸
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INTRO POST‼️ (i'll add stuff if things change/i think of more stuff to put)
hi, i'm sigmund, you can call me sig (or another nickname if i've given you the okay)!! my pronouns are he/angel, i'm biflux, transmasc/xenoboy 🏳️⚧️, autistic, and i'm a MINOR🤬🤬🧨💥 so DON'T BE A /NEG FREAK OR ELSE
also fair warning, i am not an nsfw account by any means, but i do make immature/raunchy jokes sometimes/may reblog things that have mild or vague nsfw stuff in them (never heavily though). i try to limit myself, but if that still makes you uncomfortable then just be careful following or go someplace else, i won't be mad :3
my account is multifandom cause i love a lot of things and i can't pick one thing/put a concise list, but the things i post/reblog/like most often depends on what i'm currently into (right now it's unknown), so if you're following me then prepare for a mixed bag that's filled with mostly kitkats (also expect a lot of rarepairs, whether they're joking or not. i loooove rarepairs :3)
don't be scared to send in random asks, especially if we're mutuals!! i forget who i'm mooties with if i don't interact with them a lot, so i'm sorry if i seem like i'm ignoring you or anything 😭😭 i'm also kinda generally nervous to start conversations with people sometimes, but i would love to be friends with all my mutuals :3
i have an ao3 too, my user is also sigmxnd there!!!! i haven't posted in a while, but i'm typically always working on stuff, so just always keep an eye out :3
therian/otherkin & agere account (sfw interaction only): @notmeant-tobeseen
main au ask blog: @thesillyguyscorner-askblog
DO NOT INTERACT: basic dni criteria (homo/transphobes, zoos, yada yada), vivziepop supporters (i suppose its fine if you don't support her but like the shows, just please don't talk to me about them, it makes me very uncomfortable), ed/thinspo blogs, anti-therian/otherkin/alterhuman, endo "systems"/supporters, dsmp fans/supporters, wilbur soot fans/supporters, demonizing disorders/believes in cluster a/b/c abuse
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INTRODUCTION 🔮
◇Mink/Kitty/Petty
◇Gay | Transmasc | Aroacespec
◇Pkm | Bllk | Crk | Wuwa | Dmmd | Vocaloid | Kny | Beyblade | Nanbaka | +more
I'm quite new to Tumblr so I am still getting used to its interface, nevertheless I'd love to make mutuals so just simply ask!
This page is dedicated to Toren from Pokemon Power of Us. Toren is my all-time favorite character, and it's hard to find fellow fans or even content of him so this is just a source of my rambles to be documented and shared.
I am an artist, writer, athlete, and nerd. I'm apart of FFA and Beta Club aa well. I enjoy collecting merch of my favorite media, I'm bad at this so you can just learn more about me by talk to me :]
KALOPSIASHIPPING💀🧪
What is KalopsiaShipping?
KalopsiaShipping is the rare pairing of Toren and Guzma. I had been a fan of it since I've seen someone post them here on Tumblr! A friend ( @kr1ssalis ) and me are avid fans of the pair as well. This ship will be seen and referenced quite often on here, so that's why I feel the need to include it.
REQUEST RULES🎨
• No fetish! I am a minor and WILL find out
• Please pertain to just pokemon based requests as the main theme of here is Toren I will draw some general pokemon things
• Don't be upset if I don't draw it, I may have forgotten or not have time
• Request through my asks not my dms!
• I will either do traditional or digital and it will either be a sketch or full drawing. It's up to me so don't be mad
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#science divider#sister lucifer’s dividers#intro post#introduction#blog intro#toren#toren pokemon#pokemon#art#writing#kalopsiashipping#guzma#how do i talk about myself#ramblings#rambles#pokemon power of us#pokemon movie#pokemonpowerofus#request#art requests#art reqs open#reqs open#requests#gay
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☆ NOTE ☆ This is my alter ego/fictionkin account. I do NOT go by the name 'Gabby' while using this blog. Also, no, this is not a roleplay account nor is it satire.
⋆☆ Gabby's blog (main): @gabbydagoof ☆⋆
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☮ Heyo, everyone!! The name's Bud Budiovitch!! THE stupid fuckin creature from outer space!! . MY SOURCE: Space Goofs (S01 + S02) and Stupid Invaders ★ Literally a 90s hippie alien. What else can I say? ★ I AM OPEN TO MEET OTHER BUDS!! Let's go to Bud City together! ★ I go by he/em + it/its I'm Transmasc Genderfluid/Nonbinary ★ I'm 20 years old (in human years..) 🎂 - 16th December ★ I'm literally a neurodivergent alien Autistic, ADHD and OCD ★ I jokingly like to beef with Etno To all the Etnos out there, know that I don't actually mean any of it. I love you Etno! /platonic ★ I LOVE BUGS!! ★ Bit of a stoner ★ I don't like when ppl compare me to Anxiety from Inside out 2 ★ I am very into old school webcore and general weird junk ★ Cowboys are so cool oh my god- ★ Nostalgia hunting is fun! Especially through older cartoons ★ I'm a queer demisexual and greyromantic
★ I like to age regress often for comfort There won't be many posts about this, but know that all of the age regressing posts will have a tag
✨💕Stereo is my #1 queerplatonic bbg💕✨
My actual boyfriend is not a Stereo kin, but I like to express my love trough the Stereo Buds ship as this ship specifically represents the closeness and general (not just romantic) love we have for one another.
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x NSFW / general weirdos x Anti-kins x Mfs who believe in "cringe culture" x Roach haters x Hateful bigots n terfs x ETNO POLINO (this one's a joke!!)
Sillyposting - non-serious, silly posts tag Teen antics - age regress tag Bummerposting - vent tag Vocal stim - all the Bud stuff I tend to say frequently Buds rambles - ramble tag Doodle - art tag (includes art reposts from my main)
#bud budiovitch#fictionkin#intro post#intro#space goofs#stupid invaders#alterhuman#kin#nonhuman#retro#aliens#cartoon#weirdcore#webcore
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Nonhumanity Induced Gender Euphoria
Having nonhuman features as a trans person can be so gender affirming, even if complicated in my case. I might be in an AFAB human body, but I'm clearly a male cardinal because my feathers are bright red in headspace. This might not apply to all trans nonhumans of course, but I'm talking about personal experience here.
See, I'm a multifictive of two characters. One is an (arguably non)human-esque guy (Hunter), another is a little red cardinal (Flapjack). I'm in a way, a fusion of both, while having memories of being both separately as well. Not canon to my source, but we became one in our memories.
From my memories of me being Hunter, I was transmasc. I wasn't born as a guy, so I did my best to transition. Complications of circumstances aside, I presented as masculine and overall it was okay. Dysphoria was a bitch but I was managing as best I could with all the other stressors going on in my life.
As Flapjack, I was male and cis. While I was just a bird, I was a magic bird, and one with a different level of thinking and capabilities. I didn't question my gender at all, I was comfortable. I don't think I paid much mind to Hunter's either, if I even knew back then that he/I was not cis.
After we became one person in source... Well, I kept my humanoid form but grew red feathers all over my body, as well as claws, a tail and wings too. My humanoid gender features that I had already didn't change, but I gained the distinctive red feathers of a male cardinal. While that might have made my biological gender more complex, it made me as a whole feel euphoria anyway.
I still feel it here too. Even if I have the same body in headspace and even if my physical body is AFAB again, I still have my red feathers inside. I don't identify wholly as a man and am more xenogender than anything, but I enjoy feeling more masculine and being able to present that way.
I'm not the only one who feels gender euphoria from their kintypes/other nonhuman identities though. It's not the most common thing within our system but it's something we experience enough that it does impact us and how we feel.
A lot of people who have antlers feel validated in their masculine identity, for one big example. Obviously antlers meaning a thing is male depends on the species but for the purpose of feeling euphoria, it doesn't matter too much if you're not sure if you even fit any earthen species.
Some of us feel more validated by being spikier or fluffier or having certain colours or patterns. Things that aren't really applicable to human concepts of gender. Being nonhuman for some people means that they have many more ways to express their gender, and I think that's wonderful.
#alterhuman#nonhuman#fictive#plural system#plural#pluralgang#toh fictive#plurality#otherkin#fictionkin#fictionkind#toh alterhuman#transgender#xenogender#actually did#didosdd#endo safe#op#merlin (xe/he/they)#everything althu#everything plural#althu experiences#plural experiences#althu euphoria#queer althu#animal identity#fictional identity#nonhuman identity#otherkin experiences#everything otherkin
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WELCOME
she pinned on my intro til i post heya. feel free to read through my intro post... if you dare. you may wanna read my message/ask rules before interacting or sending an unsolicited ask/message (it's the section highlighted in green). have a swag day unless you bathe in bigotry, in which case i hope you bathe in different things in the near future because you smell horrible and no one likes you.
please note: please do not dm me asking for donations. i am sorry, but i am unable to donate to campaigns as i am a minor, currently have no source of income (will likely be years until im allowed to have one), and my whole family is also struggling pretty badly financially rn. i apologize deeply and pray you find peace and safety, and i will try my best to share campaigns when i can.
sorry this is so long this was the most i was able to condense it to (┬┬﹏┬┬)
❂ Greetings!
✦ I'm Blue da ba dee da ba dai, or at least that's my online name and the only one you really need to know.
✦ pronouns = they/he/ey/cos/it (primarily they/he).
✦ gender = transmasc enby, additional gender labels = genderfuck/genderpunk, androgyne, anarcho-queer.
✦ orientation = panromantic, demiromantic, grayace. i am not on tumblr to look for a romantic or sexual relationship. if you are, keep scrolling.
✦ im a minor, and dont feel comfortable stating my exact age.
✦ i consider myself punk and anti-capitalist.
this blog is my main and only blog, so all sorts of things go on it. some of the things you might find here include:
multifandom posting
shitposting
activism, politics, leftism
things that will radicalize you against your government
random rambling
my art maybe if im brave enough
my AU ideas, also if im brave enough
venting? maybe? (sometimes)
whatever random ass bullshit i want babey!!!!!!
if any of these things make you mad or uncomfortable, click away! its not worth it to type me an angry paragraph. if you want an honest non-hostile debate about personal belief systems, maybe, if i feel up for it, but the internet is a place to curate your own experiences and im already recovering from the mindset instilled from being constantly subjected to mentally draining content/discourse on other platforms (even in good faith) and i want this blog to not be like that. ultimately...
(ol' reliable)
❂ Additional info
❂ Tags legend (some tags i may still be going back and sorting through, apologies for that)
#file.🪐.txt (random rambling, thought dumps. dont ask why its a gator)
#go fund them (donation campaigns (may not always be on the gofundme website, but just all donation campaigns in general). please look through this tag and consider donating if you have the time/resources)
#sick art, #godly art (other peoples' cool art, used interchangeably, one isnt inherently better than the other it's just based on vibes)
#vent post (my vent posts, please feel free to filter this tag, i may talk about heavy/personal subjects)
‼️Note: i may reblog posts with nsfw/suggestive content or subject matter (for example, medical diagrams of private parts for trans reasons, artistic nudity, etc), ship posts with suggestive allusions (almost always in a comedic way), or make/reblog suggestive jokes. if you dont wanna see that ill always try to tag with #nudity, #suggestive, #suggestive joke. (plsplspls tell me if i forget, or if theres anything else you’d like me to tag, id be happy to ✌️)
❂ Fandoms
some of these i havent consumed in their entirety, ill mark them with purple if so
Welcome to Hell, The Owl House, Ace Attorney, The Amazing Digital Circus, Amphibia, The Amazing World of Gumball, Beastars, Cherry Crush, I'm In Love With The Villainess, Ramshackle, Heartstopper, Deltarune, Undertale, Bluey, Mob Psycho 100, Calvin and Hobbes
stuff i wanna consume but havent gotten the chance to
Madoka Magica, Sonic franchise (games + movies), Garfield (yes the cat)
❂ Interaction preferences, DNI criteria
not to get all twitter about it but please dont interact with me if it's because of, or if you support/fit the description of, any of the following (if you dont wanna look through all this just ctrl + f search a keyword ig):
✘ NSFW-related anything. Hell no, i am a minor and you WILL be blocked and reported (unless youre just a mutual making a suggestive joke thats fine lmao, im referring to people with 0 life training sending unsolicited naked pics like fucking toddlers)
✘ Conservatives/right-wing/MAGA imbeciles, centrists, homophobes, transphobes, zionists, antisemites/islamophobes (real ones, not Palestine supporters), radqueers/radfems/TERFs, predators, pedos, forced birth supporters, anti-neopronouns, anti-therian, beastiality supporters, sexists of any caliber.
✘ pro-sh or pro-ed blogs. (i hope you get the help you deserve and stop dooming others to a lifelong struggle. please seek help.)
✘ Donation-related asks. (i'm sorry, but any blog that messages me asking for donations, i'm going to immediately assume is a bot/scam. assuming you're not, i care and empathize deeply with your struggle, but i have no job/source of income in an already relatively poor household, with parents who are not necessarily keen on supporting gofundmes (i've asked multiple times) and with the previously mentioned high scam risk i'm very hesitant to share if im not 100000% sure.‼️‼️if you need donation you're going to have a much, MUCH better chance of fast aid from these subreddits instead of only through word-of-mouth on a site like tumblr. i care about your situation and don't want you to receive little to no aid simply because you're asking in less-than-ideal places.‼️‼️ i will of course still spread awareness of any campaign possible (especially relative to Palestine and Sudan) but even so, im still only a small and unknown blog, and you're MUCH better off using the subreddits, asking a more popular blog dedicated to this sort of thing or both. if you or anyone you know in Palestine/Sudan/otherwise struggling, i care about your safety and i pray you and your family are safe and receive aid as soon as possible. 🍉🙏)
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I need help from my trans and genderqueer people on here, and from their loved ones!
I myself am trans, and I'm trying to help my mum understand my identity better. I need recommendations for resources she can look into on her own so she can learn independently.
Articles and literature is preferred, but videos and podcasts and such are good as well. I am transmasc and genderqueer, so texts relating specifically to the transfem experience won't be super relevant, but feel free to drop them anyway! I want her understanding to be well rounded!
Some topics of particular focus are neopronouns and top surgery, but anything broadly pertaining to the trans experience is helpful too!
Also!
Please reblog so this gets around to people who can help!
The post was getting a little long so there's more context on what I need and where she's currently at on her learning journey below the cut!
Her current view on gender and sexuality is about as nuanced as is in 90s tv, which is to say she understands some people are gay and lesbians and bisexuals, and some men want to become women or vice versa, but that's about it.
She's been pretty resistant to learning from me, (I suspect because 1. she has a hard time having her worldview challenged by her subordinates, and 2. because I'm still fairly young, she regards most of what I say as opinion or fallible) but she's very erudite, so I think sitting down with researched, cited and peer reviewed texts written by vetted experts will be good for her, as she has a much easier time accepting new or challenging knowledge from those kinds of sources.
She's not actively hostile or anything, but she is pretty obtuse when it comes to things like neopronouns (which I use!) or micro identities, or what gender affirming care looks like.
I'm currently trying to get top surgery, and while I am an adult and don't technically need her to sign off on anything, I'm still living at home and I'd like her to be able to support me in the process. It'd also be great if she stopped using the wrong pronouns for me. It doesn't usually give me a lot of dysphoria, but it does emphasize the distance in our relationship.
Thank you for reading all of this! I greatly appreciate anything you can offer to help!
#trans#non bianry#nonbinary#trans experience#transgender#trans masc#trans man#trans people#transmasc#transfem#trans pride#genderqueer#genderfluid#neopronouns#queer#queer resources#queer education#lgbtq#lgbtq community#queer community#important
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Hi, we're The Analog System!
We're an unkown origins system of about 16 or so members, and we made this blog to discuss our experience and as a place for systems who don't know what their origins are or are still discovering their system!
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This blog isn't ran by anybody specific here are the intros of everyone who wants to contribute.
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Hiya I'm dread! I'm the host of the sys, genderfluid & transmasc, alterhuman & aroacespec. If you know my main & the other blog I mod for congrats, there's no prize though. I signoff with what ever my pronouns are that day btw
Hey, Jynx here, I'm a fictive of Jax from tadc & I'll probably post about that but I'm my own person & don't call me Jax. I'm Transmasc aswell, he/ve pronouns, uhh that's it
Greetings, I am Alastor,Alastra, Al, Allie or any other nicknames you may want to call me. I'm a hazbin hotel fictive but I am distinctly different from my source and don't appreciate being compared to him. I am gender apathetic and use any pronouns or gender terms but I do like star/starself simply for aesthetics.
Uhh Hi! I'm Vox, Vix, V or Vivian, also a hazbin fictive, also very different from source. He/him pronouns I think but I'm not sure yet. I might be genderqueer, idk, questioning foxkin and uh that's it for me!
Hello I'm Lynn, the only functional adult in this system. I'm a caretaker & I take the form of a humanoid lake monster in headspace. I use she/her & it/its pronouns. I'm agender.
Welcome, I am Sera, and I am fictionkin of Sera from hazbin hotel and I am not a fictive. I use she/ any divine/angel neoprouns, I'm an angel, we don't have genders. My role in the system is soother.
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We made this but it's free to use, preferably with credit^
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