#sorry for no comment 😭

[soot-support]

[meant to be anonymous; I just wanna share my thoughts & idk where to post them, sorry if it's too long/offensive/redundant]

Time frame

They were dating the whole 2022 and months into 2023 (Shubb's words) idk how many months exactly but my guess is March/April 2023 cuz they used the same set up in April (probably Shubb was taking her stuff from Wil's flat)

I feel like they both had a certain idea in their mind but ended up badly. Their relationship was mutually toxic & I hope they both heal

The idea of marriage and kids + other issues

My only guess about Shubb with that idea that could make sense is that she was frequently fantasising about it (maybe Wil as well, especially at the beginning of the relationship)

They probably talked about the future at the beginning of their relationship (the biting, the mutual wish to get married & have children in the future, establishing boundaries, whether they keep their relationship public or private, ect) and it became an occuring theme during it (well or poorly communicated)

Wil either:

started having doubts about the idea (which is understandable)

could've changed his mind/starting to resent the idea if her daydreaming was an occuring theme in (like how many times can you hear the same thing before you snap or something?)

Another thing - compatibility:

(very likely) aro/aro-spec allosexual guy

alloromantic ace woman (who came out as demi during their relationship iirc but I think she's back to being ace)

Other contributors: poor communication, the pretty constant band touring, Techno's death, long-distance relationship, her feeling obligated to stay in the relationship/take care of him, Wil's depression/depressive state, possible eventual growing resentment towards each other, the issue with biting, ect

Another thing: Wil's love bombing (Shubb's words) Was it really love bombing or just honeymoon phase? (the guy was crushing on her since ~2020) Like there's a fine line between those things but very blurry

Shubb's Reddit post (using UTC)

The post was made on 17 Nov 2023 0:00-3:11 (I checked it few times. It was 12 months old on 16 Nov ~23:20; a year old on 17 Nov at 3:11) Coincidentally, it was when Shubb streamed & talked about not having been complimented for 2 months & you could hear Wil in the background (someone said it was Oli but I think it was Wil)

The post has one capture on the Wayback Machine made 18 Nov 2023 at ~17:30. The post has 2 upvotes & 8 comments:

1 from automoderator

5 made when the post was published

2 made when/after the stream happened

Idk when the post was deleted or if you can comment on deleted posts if they weren't archived. If you can't, that means the post was deleted during/soon after the stream. If you can then before it (idk when) but it got archived after the stream probably

/conspiracy mode/ at the worst, she wanted people to find the post to point more at Wil. At the best, it was her way of coping with the relationship

Side note, the account she used had 2 comments on r/HazbinHotel I think. I think the account still exists

^^^

[kidovna]

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[starscream-is-my-wife]

Sometimes a day makes you want a Starscream to bite and squeeze

[moonsart]

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[choccy-milky]

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[lowpolybread]

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[myokk]

WHAT IS UP WITH THE HOGWARTS LEGACY FANDOM?????????????

I am so fucking fed up with this fandom & honestly it makes me lose any desire to post anything here anymore.

So many people here look at EVERYTHING as a damn competition and it’s NOT. It should be a place for people to brainrot together, talk about theories, and enjoy seeing what other people draw and write etc. Have I sometimes felt insecure bc I don’t get as many notes as other people?! Yes of course…but I always focus on the connections and the lovely people I’ve met and like talking to bc that’s why I post in the first place. I didn’t spend 4 months posting my fic to 10 kudos and 1 comment with basically no feedback bc I care about popularity😆😆

I’ve never been part of a fandom before this one but honestly everything feels so immature here, especially lately. Is it NORMAL to send hate to people who interpret the characters differently than you?! Or send hate to people who ship something you don’t like???? Is it NORMAL to start a confessions blog that’s for people to vague post about others & give everyone reading it anxiety??? (And NO, it’s not “leveling the playing field” wtf). Is it NORMAL to be so close minded, that you’re always trying to start shit with other people?!!??

It is SO FUCKING EXHAUSTING & honestly I try my hardest to NOT feed into any negativity and I’ve never posted the hate I’ve gotten because quite frankly, it’s ridiculous.

I genuinely love seeing what all of you post and always try to comment when I have the mental energy, because I love having a sense of community and you’re all very talented.

[dnpbeats]

preshow from yesterday!! :)

[swampybogg]

[somewhereincairparavel]

i have ALWAYS promptly looked forward to jason grace's povs in the hoo books to the point where'd I'd flip the pages till I find the words "JASON" and would count the amount of povs he has in the whole book before I even finished reading, so I feel excited knowing that I'll get to his povs soon. there, I said it.

[aliusfrater]

[rivetgoth]

Not sure what it’ll take to fix the massive misconception that testosterone HRT is something you take for a series of superficial / external changes and then stop. I mean it’s obviously fine to do that if you’re doing so with intentionality but all the time I see guys casually say stuff about “having gotten all the changes” or “the changes have plateaued” or “it’s not doing anything anymore” and citing that as reason to stop taking it. That just objectively isn’t how HRT works.

The external changes are great but hormones are doing way more behind the scenes than just giving you facial hair and a deeper voice, especially when it comes to aging. Individuals with T-dominant endocrine systems and individuals with E-dominant endocrine systems age differently. Fat distribution isn’t a one and done thing; those patterns continue to change and evolve over the course of your life. You as an old man on T for decades will look different than someone who has had an E-dominant endocrine system for that same amount of time. Tbh I think a lot of it is the fact that guys are accessing T at younger ages now and it’s just par for the course that young people don’t take aging into consideration lol. At 18-19 and younger you aren’t even really comprehending that you’re going to age, and for a group statistically more likely to be suicidal that’s tenfold. Lack of substantial research on the longterm effects of both HRT and stopping HRT play into this too.

That said though I think detransition fearmongering and even sort of misdirected transmisogyny kinda comes into play here as well. Testosterone as a substance that causes “permanent damage” is largely weaponized against trans women but it is also used to threaten us not to transition in the first place. The word “permanent” carries with it a lot of weight and you see all these people talk about the “permanent” effects of T but what’s lost in these conversations is what cisgender society is threateningly calling a “permanent” change is like… different than what these changes in an estrogen-dominant body do actually look like. We talk a lot about facial and body hair being a “permanent” change on T, but transmascs who stop T and trans women on E alike can report that estrogen causes these hairs to grow in softer and lighter; they won’t look how they did on T. Bottom growth is another “permanent” change that can shrink as erections soften. Your voice (another often-described-as-permanent effect) can change as E changes the body’s ability to grow and retain muscle. I think beyond splash damage from societal transmisogyny I’d even say some of the lack of understanding here comes from intracommunity transmisogyny & trans men not fully comprehending the level of change possible on estrogen, internalizing the sentiment that trans women’s changes are less meaningful than ours and not talking to trans women about what estrogen-based transition really looks like.

And again I’m not saying this to berate the people who intentionally go on T, know what to expect by stopping it, and do so with intentionality because they have a vision for what they want. That’s awesome, 100% valid. Do you. It’s more the wider misconception I see of HRT as something that “plateaus” and leaves a series of permanent unchanging effects while no longer doing anything else. And to overstep just a little I honestly think there are some men who would be happier if they continued to take T and are falling victim to larger transphobic institutions that have convinced them it’s unnecessary. As itskobold said on my post about HRT timelines you will keep changing forever. So it’s best to really consider what you want the layout of your endocrine system to be as those changes continue to occur.

[twistedappletree]

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wei wuxian: twink don’t wrink

[sakasakiii]

Hii! I just wanna say, your blog is life to me! Literally come here to scroll on tough days, and seeing all the character designs and funny comics makes everything better! Really love your art style and designs. I know this has been asked before but I'm wondering if I could use your art as profile pictures? I really appreciate the joy your art brings!

hihi hello!!! first off, thank you so much for your kind words! i'm sorry for how delayed this response has been (im just getting back into tumblr after one of many hiatuses... AGAIN!!!), but it warms my heart on my own tough days to hear you enjoy my designs and comics! it means a lot, so thank you again!! ❤️❤️

now onto your question about using my art as a pfp: that's absolutely fine! by the time i'm answering this it's likely a bit late already, but i hope this clears things up in the long run. im absolutely ok with anyone using my art as pfps/icons, just so long as you remember to credit me, don't claim as own, dont use for AI training, etc etc.... hope that clears things up, and sorry again for taking so long to see this!

[kbsd]

reading ww2 rpf is so funny because in addition to “he would not fucking say that” you get things like “that car would not be fucking automatic” or “that item would not be fucking plastic”

[feketeribizli]

you dont need to get it