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Reading a fic. Enjoying it. On chapter 11. Read the line "that isn't something you do for someone who's just a friend". Close the fic.
Fuck I hate the way society is
Fuck
Bullshit
I'm so tired
#grumble grumble#something something asexuality spectrum something something#there is literally nothing i wouldn't do for a friend shUT UP#hell id platonically marry someone to give them health insurance or whatever without hesitation or a second thought#stupid fic#i loathe the way society is and social norms and the lines they draw in relationships and#the way that friendships dont matter next to romantic relationships#bull fucking shit#... anyways#rant over goodbye#personal#fic talk
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Sweet Jesus, now the asexual tag is spammed by bots advertising supplements and other shit
I'M SO MAD
TUMBLR DO SOMETHING

#asexual spectrum#asexual#asexuality#aromantic asexual#acespec#ace pride#ace spectrum#ace mafia#spam bots#tumblr bots#i hate this#do something#ace memes#ace#tumblr do something#aaaaaa#aaaaaaaaaa#im so angry#tumblr memes
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"Love makes us human" no what makes us human is experiencing the joy that comes from eating foods in colors they're not supposed to be in(pistachio muffin, charcoal ice cream, java bananas)
#sadly javas are only blue when they're unripe but still#looks like something right outta botw#aromantic#asexual#aro#ace#aroace#acearo#aromantism#asexuality#arospec#acespec#aspec#aromantic spectrum#aro spec#aro spectrum#asexual spectrum#ace spec#ace spectrum#a spec#a spectrum
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Post-Flashpoint comics have been trying to push the idea of Jason as a ladies man and each time I have just not been convinced I say this with all the love in my heart I will concede to the fact that Jason Todd has had sex maybe 3 times. If I’m being generous
#I am not even an aroace Jason truther the way a lot of my dc mutuals are I just don’t see sex/romance as something he necessarily would#seek out. He’s too allergic to vulnerability for that#I don’t see him as completely asexual but def on the spectrum somewhere and he’s got low libido#New earth Jason was too busy being insane to engage in romance and that’s exactly how it should be methinks#too busy scheming to hook up#Jason Todd#dc#also he should have no rizz when it comes to someone he actually likes. I think rhato made that canon actually
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#asexual#aces#asexual spectrum#young aces#younger asexuals#lgbtqia#lgbtq community#lgbt polls#lgbt poll#asexual poll#im gonna tell you something my mom did#i love her and it wasn't that bad but still#when i told my mom i might be a lesbian (when i thought i was a girl) she asked if i thought of my 15-16 YEAR OLD BEST FRIEND NAKED!#i was so disgusted#so yeah#but normally i don't tell people about being asexual i don't know if I'll ever tell my mom#i wonder if she won't believe me y'know?#maybe i should im growing older and she is getting more comfortable to talk about relationships with me#aegosexual
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daily gentle reminder that the words we use to describe ourselves are labels. they're not immutable states of being, they're not all-encompassing, they're not permanent, they're not universal; labels are just words that we use to indicate something about our experience that we find important enough to communicate to others. if your experience with attraction is significantly different enough from a typical allo experience then aspec labels are there for you to use as long as you want them; and conversely, what aspec labels communicate is just that someone's experience is aligned enough with what we describe as aromanticism/asexuality to warrant telling people about it. you never need a label, you never need to keep a label, you never need to justify a label, and you never need to use a label for anything besides what you want it for. it's not a contract. it's an adjective that you can choose to use or not to use. all it needs to do is be useful for you. 💚🖤
#literally think about label makers. you're not printing out a cute little thing that says 'yarn' to put on your drawer#because that drawer is like. the universe's one true place to store yarn.#nah. that drawer just has yarn in it rn. and it's useful to you/maybe to other people to know that there's yarn in there.#might be something else later. might be more than yarn later. but like. that's not what the label is about. it's just communicating smth.#saw a post once that made a point about labels being like little signposts that you put out and! yeah!#labels are like pride flags or pronoun pins or fuckin. bumper stickers. they're just a way of saying something about yourself.#and you can use them however the fuck you want frankly#talking#aromantic#aromanticism#arospec#aroace#aro positivity#aspec#asexual#ace positivity#asexuality#ace spectrum
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* Aromantic includes arospec, asexual includes acespec, and aroace/acearo includes aroacespec/acearospec and other unit terms that may be used instead of aroace/acearo (ex: ay, spadillic, ...)
** Romantic/Sexual relations include literally any relationship that has romantic/sexual aspects (ex: hookups, long term/serious romantic/sexual relationships, flings, some QPRs, ...)
#hopefully I haven't forgot something important like last time..#aromantic#aromantic spec#aromantic spectrum#aro spec#arospec#asexual#asexual spec#asexual spectrum#ace spec#acespec#aromantic asexual#asexual aromantic#aro ace#ace aro#aroace#acearo#aroace spectrum#aroacespec#aro poll#ace poll#aroace poll#my post#poll post
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Lelesu says happy pride!
#ffxiv#ffxiv gpose#ffxiv wol#oc: lelesu lesu#this took me. half an hour#and i actually went into photoshop for this one though most of what you see was done in vanilla gpose#my edits#she's wobbles hands vaguely on the aroace spectrum; grey-something#but the ace flag felt like the easiest for me to achieve! so here we are#asexual#pride 2024
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yall i may just be super aroace but im on a team that has competition feb 14 and my teammates are so upset at the timing and i just dont get it
#asexuality#ace#aro#aroace#aroace spectrum#aromantic#i don’t get it#like why?????#am i missing something
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Me reading a fic where the person had an identidy realization that they were in he aroace spectrum and now they were figuring themselves out(I finally found something that understood me and a romance I could relate to after all these years)

#love loses! you're on the aroace spectrum and you dont fucking know what you are but you're definitely on the spectrum#but it's so hard to explain bcuz how do youve never had a real crush on someone but also have had platonic feelings for someone#and dont want to do the romance thing but also still want to have a queer platonic relationship and do romance things?#YOU DONT#IT DOESNT MAKE SENSE TO ME BUT I JUST KNOW#ESPECIALLY BECAUSE I CANT JUST GET CRUSHES ON PEOPLE IT TAKES YEARS I'VE ONLY HAD 1 CRUSH THROUGHOUT MY LIFE#AND I JUST WANTWD TO BE FRIENDS WITH HIM#I thought that was just me but the author was projecting and explained perfectly what i was going through#and ik i say “I cried” a lot when talking about something but i did actually cry#had to put my phone down bcuz it felt so nice to be understood#idk just venting and rambling lol#aroace#ace spectrum#gotta keep a journal on this bcuz i want to explain to people but it's so hard for even me to grasp#and i feel like they won't believe me anyways bcuz ive tried to himt st it but i just get weird looks#its annoying but it is what it is#aromantic#asexual#lgbt#queer#talking#rambling
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Writing smut for an ace character is actually so interesting because you’re forced to rely on the emotional connection, the power dynamics, the intellectual connection. Like no, bro is not getting off from the sights or sounds or sensations- he’s not getting off at all. He’s mentally enjoying the show of trust, the vulnerability. He’s enjoying making his partner feel so good, he’s enjoying the rawness between them, with all the walls down, all the barriers broken.
Idk, I just think it’s neat.
#this is coming from someone who is ace#it’s like YES FINALLY SOMETHING I CAN GET BEHIND#especially because asexuality is a spectrum and not ever ace person is sex repulsed#so just because a character is ace doesn’t mean they won’t be engaging in sex with their partner#yes this is about an appleradio smut i’m writing#appleradio#hazbin hotel alastor#characters#acespec#asexual#fic writing#smut writing
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Okay it’s like midnight but is it a nurodivergent or aroace thing to be like why is *insert action* romantic/sexual
Edit: okay so this was poorly written cause it was super fuckin early and i wanted to clear sum stuff up + I have no clue how to like idfk pin a rebog or smth anyways
I know I'm autistic, so im just wondering if this is something that i should expect from having ASD or if it could ALSO be a sign that I could be aroace
Yeah thx :]
#like I heard drawing on people was kinda flirty? like wha#I’m autistic btw so kinda just asking if thats something that comes in the starter pack or if i might be on the aroace spectrum#/j#now that I’m talking about it it seems more just like an ASD symptom but help#I just wanna be silly with my friends not lead a guy on :(#actually autistic#nurodiversity#aromantic#aroace#asexual
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I don't care what the hell are you doing, if your favourite is a silly guy that's more fucked up than they show they are then they're automatically somewhere in the aro/ace spectrum, no cap.
#aro/ace#aroace spectrum#aroace#aromantic asexual#silly guy#sillyposting#/silly#something something#ace spec#aro spec#aro#ace#aromantic#asexual
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hiiii doctorrrr :3
its me again and i dint really have a question i just wanna say YAY!!!!! cause im also aroace and it makes me super happy seeing an aroace person in a relationship cause some folk seem to think aromanticism/asexuality is a strict monolith (or something like that) when its a huge spectrum
anyways yeah have a great day doc [ALSO I HOPE YOU DONT MIND ME SPAM-LIKING!!! WHOOPS…]
aha yes, unfortunately being aroace is something that tends to be very heavily stereotyped in many cases. not that other identities dont have stereotypes of course, they do, but i do think both asexuality and aromanticism can be very unknown and misunderstood to a lot of people (among other things, even within the aroace community itself in some specific cases) which also often leads to a lot of generalization about what these things are and what they can mean for each person.
regardless, all of that said, yes i am aroace and very happily in a relationship! even though that is not something every aro and/or ace person will want or even entertain the idea of, it is something that is possible!
#i could go on and on#but the point is#as with most things its a spectrum#and as with most identities you shouldnt assume you suddenly know every little thing about someones preferences or identity#just because you might know a label they use#or something like that#grins#and i dont mind the spam liking by the way#i enjoy it#aroace#asexual#aromantic#important#the doc is in
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The aroace urge to somehow make sure every fucking person knows that I'm aroace so they don't flirt with me or think that I'm flirting with them or try to date me or any of that
Legitimately worried every day my co workers are going to get the WORNG impression
#does anyone else do this#please i cant be the only one#im legit worried all the time#every time i say something i go#are they gonna think I'm flirting???#and then i freak out#CUZ I DON'T FUCKING KNOW WHAT FLIRTING IS#AAAAAAAAAAAAAA#aroace#aromantic#asexual#aro#ace#aroacespec#aroace spectrum#aroace struggles
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just an asexual lesbian waiting for the day someone asks for my romantic orientation alongside my sexuality 😔
#when “what’s your sexuality” is a question on something they never include romantic orientation#do I click asexual or lesbian like ???#asexual spectrum#asexual#lesbian#lgbtqia#lgbtq#queer#homoromantic#queer community#lgbtqiia+#lgbtqi community#lgbtq issues#lgbt
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