#so thats healing me lmao
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You were the first person I thought of when I saw the Stan or Kyle poll. I was like "poor Teri, having to choose between her boys"
It was a painful choice, but I knew what I was getting myself into when I pushed so hard for Stan to win against Craig (╥_╥)
I won't admit to who I ended up voting for because I'm afraid the other one might develop a complex, but let it be known they're both winners in my heart ♡
#ask asteria#im so flattered that you thought of me!!!!#it really was a difficult question but i dont regret my choice#im also literally drawing them rn#so thats healing me lmao#much love mwah always happy to see you in my inbox
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#the fruit of a week worth of silent treatment from my father has ripen#i forgot to eat but not to drink water cause im thirsty af#my stomach was grumbling i didnt know why but i knew im afraid to make sounds if i make some food#as if im in quite place set lmao#but i survived#but if i tell my mom that i went a week witgout rice she would faint#but hey my mind was quite all this time so thats a bonus#so yeah#anselm vogelweide#my beloved#also just watched dear evan hansen and it heals me#im in the verge of letting go lmaoo okay thats not funny#i cried#embroidery#patchwork#patch#big gold brick#oscar isaac#i cant write ‘quiet’ properly it seems
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today i was such a good boy.
i...
neatened up my room (which involved cleaning up/organizing my desk, unpacking my overnight bag, and putting away my CVS purchases that were in my tote bag)
cleaned out expired stuff from the fridge and finally threw out some leftovers that were wayyy too old and washed the tupperware they were in
did TWO loads of laundry and TWO loads of ironing!!!
dusted and wiped down surfaces in the apartment
vacuumed and swiffered the entire apartment including moving heavy furniture to vacuum and swiffer behind/under those as well
vacuumed the couch and cleaned the fabric
ran errands and got some random kitchen gadgets ive been meaning to buy since moving in (garlic press & potato masher, mainly)
and now i am all done and its only like 4:30pm 😊 and later im going to get very spicy soup from the place near our building and my roommate is going to show me more of scream queens. i still have a little bit of a cough but overall life is good!!
#i was GOING to see anora finally this weekend but i think staying in is better for me right now.#i honestly might go see anora on tuesday to avoid having to think about the election lmao.#my roommates are gonna be watching MSNBC in the living room and i honestly cannot be around that#OH!! also ive been better about using lotion on my hands so all of the open bloody sores on them are basically healed and gone!!!#it would definitely be better to like. just not wash my hands so frequently and compulsively that they even get like that.#but baby steps i guess.#also i am now lying to multiple people IRL about being in counseling/therapy so thats fun i guess
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^ tensely deliberating whether or not i want to separately gradient dye every piece of fabric on this mans outfit. I think i already own denimy blue and black fabric dyes which would work for the skirt and outer cape, and i could get purple dye for the inner cape. How hard is gradient dyeing fabric tho?
Also i already own shoes that are the same shape and color as his but theyre like swirly florally burnt velvet, so not totally accurate but might add to the vibe
BTW if anyone knows of anyone whos already cosplayed eugene and wants to namedrop them, pls let me know!
#for his collar im thinking theres probably a sparkly glittery gold mesh out there#and it might work to dye that teal (blue over gold colored mesh?) to get a fabric thats tealish with gold sparkles#and overlay it on a teal background#might have some nice dimension and variation in color#also part of me genuinely considered getting his cartilage piercing LMAO but ill probably just glue some baubles on my ear#i do want to get a septum piercing but the con is in abt a month so no i do not have time to heal it and change out the jewelry#so fake septum will do#oh also i know the gradients are probs just shorthand for silky fabric or adding dimension but i love accuracy and going overboard#drawtectives
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wonpil is the most tender, warm-hearted, and loving man i've ever seen. listening to him play the piano just brought tears to my eyes. he suits the piano so much like i can't even put it into words... like piano chords are almost like warm hugs to me!! the kind of music that you could go home to after a long day and just cry in its embrace. i'd love to listen to him play the piano for as long as i can. and i hope he'll always find joy in making music and giving love.
#he was raised with so much love and care like you can just see it in the way he carries himself and treats his loved ones#n it's amazing that through all my heartbreaks n struggles he/day6 has always been there keeping me company through music n content n words#and everytime i feel like i need a stern reminder to myself to keep living for myself and not wallow in loneliness or yearning. they appear#2021 was a bad year for me but in the midst of it i stumbled across wonpil's healing radio n it had helped me so so so much#and i think thats the power of being in a lovely fandom of a talented and loving band. they give me so much comfort#wonpil on bbl: you must've had a long day today. and it must've been even tougher for you since it's a monday#me: CRYING MY EYES OUT.............#i really needed words of affirmation today lmao it has been such a shit day#anyway. wonpil is so great im just saying#<3
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[man who is so normal about his ocs voice] fuck this post happy birthday Alex and Rhys
#allen and I made these two & the world theyre from one year ago today!#these two are very dear to me and them + this project are very important to me in a way thats hard to articulate#but alex ended up being all my biggest fears insecurities and wish fulfillment all put into one character#and he helped me realized that Im not stuck being beholden to some fate that was decided for me by someone else#and that the happiness I want in life isnt an easy road but going through hell and back to get it is worth every second#usually around this time of year in general I reflect a lot about where I was this time last year and I wasnt the same person I am now#but these two have made me do that a lot. i wasnt in a good spot when I made alex. and things arent perfect now#but in a way he slowly helped me see all the things I needed to do to start getting better#so yes. i will be silly and get a little cake to celebrate my oc anniversary because in a way this is me celebrating my own healing#i can also get really mushy about how amazing its been to create a story with the love of my life who is equally as passionate about it#and hes so talented and how much I love hearing his thoughts and inputs on things#but Im getting too long winded already and Ill spare the dramatic rambling lmao.#anyway. happy birthday to the most toxic couple of 1994 and may they have many more#cal.txt#cal.png#oc: alex#alex and rhys#sanctified
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people are right to complain abt the amount of wyllstarion fics that are "wyll is astarion's therapist/knight/savior" but i'm gonna be real. those fic exist for literally every x astarion pairing. you put any other character in the proximity of that vampire twink and years of trauma-informed sex education is beamed into their brain
#for the record. this is not a good thing lmao#i dont want to read abt someone teaching astarion that consent is cool. i would like to read abt characters please.#this is why i cant get behind h*lstarion other than just not liking halsin. its all just halsin being like hey astarion. consent is cool.#and astarions like damn...... thanks we should fuck about that. consensually.#like i getttttt it people relate to astarion and want to use people being kind to him as a way to heal from their own trauma. thats fine#it is just. not super compelling to read lmao#anyways i think this only sticks out w wyllstarion because theres less of it so the mid/bad stuff doesnt have as much good to hide behind#posts by me
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real talk its so fucking Difficult to have been raised by someone who moralized food down to the molecular level like I know it wasn’t done with intent to hurt me (in fact it was done with intent to save me which is more irritating bc i feel guilty for being so angry bc they really were doing what they thought was right) but being told from basically birth that i must be resilient against any food i found alluring and that not giving into things with any sugar or fat was a sign of strength is actually quite insane whenever i think about it. Being like 5 years old in the supermarket asking if we can get the off brand honey nut cheerios instead of the plain ones and getting a lecture in the middle of the aisle that sweet things are addictive and bad for me and im only going to trap myself in a dopamine cycle and that even the fact that I asked should be a lesson in how dangerous and tempting food can be and im like. Ok. I am a literal child and the what im taking away from this is certain foods are Evil and Evil Foods Taste Better and Feel Good For Your Body and Brain and that once you start indulging you can never stop like. bro i rlly never stood a chance 😭😩
#Vent#I didnt try McDonald’s until i was 14/15 despite being a latchkey kid at 11 and living right across from one in the middle of a food desert#Bc i was genuinely actually afraid my dad would somehow know if i had a burger and/or that god would send me to hell if i got french fries#Most fast food places are still extremely novel to me bc i only tried them now in my 20s. This is also bc we were extremely poor but thats#It’s own whole separate thing lmao. Fast food will forever be a modern luxury in my eyes to some extent even if everything else heals#Almond dad shit hits different especially when hes an immigrant trying to set you up for a better life and live through you. Double whammy#When they give up everything for u whats giving up a few calories for them amiright#Especially bc he came from an overweight family that does have severe health issues so. TFW u give ur kid an 3d out of love or something ig#Anyway. Back to aesthetic posts in a bit im just thinking some thoughts tonight
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We already have a Furina-compatible Geo support/healer.
Her name is Noelle.
Just slap the Marechaussee Hunter set on her, press E and Q whenever you can, and make sure Furina’s Salon Solitaire is out as much as possible, and you’re golden.
oh noelle works super nicely with furina for sure!! wasnt trying to erase that at all, my bad - ive actually built my own c6 since who knows how long noelle recently with MH and fav for wet rock precisely for that reason too lmao
the reason i dont mention/count noelle in there is because the post was written mostly w my hopes for navias bennettless double geo teams in mind and the deal w noelle is that she has the requirement of constant field time in order to synergize with furina. and yes she has some flexibility with that bc 1.0 units dont lose infusion on swap but she needs that field time nonetheless.
and bc of that and unlike healers like jean, sayu, baizhu, charlotte and mika, noelle to me is less of an universal healer/support flex slot that fits furina teams of various compositions as opposed to an on-field unit whose own teams have excellent synergy with furina (kokomis another one). if you can afford the field time and want to utilize the damage + driving + healing potential they have to offer, its great!!! but limited in application still.
& thats why im still hoping for a proper geo healer to be released whod be more akin to those units i mentioned earlier - less field time needed, more frontloaded healing and preferably some additional buffs/support effects in their kit as well. bc even w noelles post-furina buff geo really doesnt have anyone like that ya know? and getting that mythical geo healer in chiori (since theres rly no other future geo chara leaked anywhere) would enable better furina teams for units like navia and itto who want that field time of their own (even tho navia needs far less of it than him). hell, even ning could get a bit of a glow up out of it lmao id love to use her more
also im just obsessed w chioris leaked design too so like. her being a geo healer that could enable double geo double hydro furina teams for navia would literally just be the dream for me in general JKWDJKDWJWD
#but thanks for the ask!!! couldve mayhaps been a bit more clear on the noelle thing or mentioned it offhand in the tags but eh#this thought process just went on more or less automatically in my head so i didnt rly even think abt it lmao#TC watcher brain 😔😔🤙🤙#navia can be played as pure quickswap with E + Q only thats true and you might be able to force some sorta noelle team w that but... idk#prolly gonna be playing navia w more emphasis on her own fieldtime and the geo infusion she gets so wont be a thing for me#also just bc noelle can swap without losing infusion doesnt mean every swap isnt costing her NAs and healing uptime soo#its not optimal for her either#genshin#genshin leaks#asks
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still thinking about how, after sozo died and he came back as a follower, i sent him on a missionary bc he kept following me around asking for quests i thought i was supposed to ignore. a day later he came back, said "sorry im a weak ass bitch" and died at my feet. it was the first time anyone has ever died on a missionary, and it was the special follower i was trying to keep alive. he had a 94% chance of succeeding. what is fucking wrong with him.
#honk.sfv#cotl spoilers#cult of the lamb spoilers#for the sozo dying part#i didnt know sozo is an ant!! thats so cool!!!!#hes a weak ass ant#now that i think about it i probably. shouldnt have sent him on a missionary. even if he had a high success rate. lmao.#this happened yesterday and i was so pissed i IMMEDIATELY resurrected his dumbass#i now realize that in order to heal him i needed to hear his requests in order to reject them so he can dissent#so i sent his ass to his death for no reason other than he was bothering me <3#BITCH UR NOT DYING ON ME I WANT THAT DAMN MUSHROOMO FOLLOWER FORM AND UR GONNA FUCKING GIVE IT TO ME
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my recording of the mohg fight, very glad to say that his fight is extremely fun :)
#ohhh this took ages to finally work in this post lol. anyways mohg fight. ridiculously fun.#elden ring#mohg#mohg lord of blood#yeah ill put this in main tags. full mohg fight. for the mohg enjoyers ig i really liked this fight#lots of like. particles being flung around but it never felt like bullshit so it was a fun while to fight him#my post#the 'jump for joy' in the phase change was planned while the 'my thanks' at the end wasnt which is why i do pull up the menu for that one#i left him alone for the nihil as a self-imposed 'gay penalty' bc i didnt want to just like. shred him during it yknow#he can have his theatrics for his healing and phase transition. a bit of respect with the 'my thanks' yknow i like him + the dynasty bit#hes got a funny little buddy in varre and a nice little grinding spot among all the blood soaked atrocities#ive heard ansbach is neat too. n ive been using bloody slash since the moment i got it so in a way ive been chilling with lord of blood#related stuff for a p long time. tbh its neat how varre is the first proper person you meet while mohg is arguably the most hidden demigod#dont think i have any bonus commentary with this one besides i got rlly fucking lucky later in this. yknow the bit lmao#always through him being extra vulnerable to bleed was funny but he apparently gets the lord of blood's exultation buff on bleed procs#so thats a rlly neat thing i found out- i ended up using that talisman for the fight (you can see it under the stamina bar a few times)#it is funny to me that his in-battle dialogue subtitles are all lowercase and lack punctuation beyond accent markings#anyways beyond the final boss the only boss i have left is malenia which should be. fucking fun. i'll get vids of that one for sure#i might get my first attempt at her bc that might be a fun comparison point when i manage to beat her#'my recording of the mohg fight' feels very like. professional. i just got it captured on ps4. it was a random attempt that was successful
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I just had a rant (with myself) about the character of Mama Jones in 2003 and how she was reduced to "haha, she babies her son and is basically looking for a babysitter for him lol" and how much I HATED that! She lost her husband to a very violent attack (implied), Casey was involved in this (also implied but for the life of me I cant get the timeline straight), the store her husband had got burned. This woman should have heeps of trauma that she most likely buried deep because SHE HAD TO RAISE CASEY ON HER OWN (I guess its implied theres an uncle or auntie bc of cousin sid, but theres no mention of them so I can only imagined they fucked right off), and she got reduced to that?? Come on 2003 you can do better. I KNOW you can do better
(Extra info on the notes bc its mostly ranting and it wouldnt make sense on the main post)
#tmnt#tmnt 2003#teenage mutant ninja turtles#tmnt 2003 casey jones#tmnt 2k3#i hope this reaches the right audience#sometimes you have to leech onto an incredibly background character and say 'I can do better than them'#if theres one thing about me is I WONT LET A WOMAN LET ALONE A MOTHER GET DISRESPECTED LIKE THAT#add to that the possibility that casey has a traumatic brain injury? her attitude makes way more sense#shes incredibly overprotective of her bc hes the last thing she has#i mean casey probably got his ass kicked to next tuesday that day too#great now I need Splinter to have an extensive talk with her about the fact her overprotectiveness is just hurting his son#bc hes not the child that lost a father and probably had to spend time in the hospital (and everything that comes with a brain injury)#hes an adult thats actually doing pretty good independently and she needs to see that and let go to start healing her own trauma#man im emotional over this woman Ive fabricated in my mind LMAO#i would say i might write this but that would require me knowing how to do that so 👍#oh man i make some pronouns mistakes in the tags lmao (he/him she/her casey and mama jones for the win i guess)
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anyway my daughters party went so much better that I could have hoped
#me and the two brothers in law and hubby played ultimate frisby with the kids#it was very healing from the trauma of ultimate frisby at homeschool group as a child#helps that im not being bullied anymore#hubby and the two brothers that came made a plan for which order theyre going to eat the rich in when the communist revolution happens lmao#sister in law that things are awkward with didnt interact as much as she might have in other days but we gave each other a long hug#that was good#shes not socially inept and i really really love her#all the cousins played so good!!#i want them to have one another as friends so badly#were going to all play frisby again in the future#not sure whether the two still with that awful place will participate and how#but thats hopeful#and brother in law whos struggling the most was leaning in#it was just really good
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#yesterday i was wandering around the campus where ive resided these last 4 years bc ive banned myself from running until my leg heals#and i was thinking like. what am i gonna miss about this place when i leave? bc im always thinking abt the things i cant wait to get away#from. and its a real short list. ill miss the palm trees bc i never get sick of seeing thrm. theyre so weird#ill miss the yucca. again bc theyre so weird looking. ill miss the way u can see where all the ants r bc in the non human populated areas#there isnt grass everywhere bc desert. ill miss that there r so many birds of prey hanging around. and the road runners and all the lil#lizards. and maybe in an abstract way ill miss being so close to the boarder bc when u live near a boarder boarders feel like bullshit#like staring down the road into another country. idk theres something i like abt that. ill probably also miss being able to run outside#all year long bc in the winter during the day all u need is a light jacket lol. where im going it gets real cold 🥶#maybe ill even miss the constant blue skies. but idk ive always liked a cloudy sky better. makes me think of home haha#ill def miss how convenient my apartment rn is. the loft bed. the low cost. the 5min walk to campus. sigh. but thats pretty much it. i#dont think ill miss anything else. im not really close with anyone. my boss was the reason i came here and she left this school in January#so thats it i guess. i think i stayed a year too long and was not well for a lot of my time here but so it goes#just gotta move to the next place. just gotta pray pray pray that i find an apartment soon. i dont even wanna say anything abt it bc im#afraid to jinx things. even tho thats irrational. like. i just gotta somehow project how good a tenant i am. im so quiet u will never see#me and i never complain abt anything bc i have brain problems. sigh. i cant wait for this transition to b over#im so so so ready to be in a new place doing new things. but at least my energy is back. im back to high energy on little sleep lol#i dont understand how my body functions lmao. somehow when i get a normal amount of sleep it's a sign that i feel awful#unrelated
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this is the last time i ever fly this close to the sun like. u have to understand. i just do not stan people, it's not part of who i am as a consumer and it never happened organically before, but this parasocial relationship (w build) basically ran itself. vegaspete was the reason i even started watching kinnporsche and it's been 6 months since the show ended and still some days in the last few weeks i had zero thoughts about anything else except vegaspete. and the worst part is the industry blurs the lines between actor and character so much, and pete was the character i identified the most with now it's virtually impossible for me to distinguish pete from build (hoping this might change but im not holding my breath).
anyway tldr ive been feeling like shit since yesterday. you let yourself stan celebrities once in your life for funsies and this is what happens.
#i wrote thousands of words in pete pov fic only in the last month and it like#PHYSICALLY pains me to think about resuming any of it now#i had to legit lie to my family yesterday and why i look so depressed LMAO#like the most clownshoe thing that has ever happened#i am just hiding everything behind ten layers of irony rn bczu it's actually so disturbing how much it hurts it's like something has been#ripped away from me and im never getting that enjoyment back ever again#i wrote about love and grief and friendship and immigration and abuse from the perspective of this man#this character helped me process and heal and make invaluable friends in this fandom#so yeah#the five stages of grief#thats what's up!
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was thinking about fire emblem (sorry) and thought about your arakawa family posts so here. what classes would the arakawa family be if they were in an fe game...
arakawa = as if i gotta fuckin say it. assassin
sawashiro = dread fighter
ichi = As If I Gotta Fuckin Say It Part II. hero
masato = sniper, exclusively equipped with crossbows. maaaaaaaybe bowknight if he doesn't get tired riding the horse
aoki = sage
mitsu = bard
#snap chats#jail to anon for thinking of FE and then making ME have to think about FE....#i couldve had sawashiro be a swordmaster but dread fighters are more flexible with the weapons they use#plus alm's dumb ass 'they fight to win and for the people they love'#i do not acknowledge 'to improve themselves' alright we'll leave with the 75% accuracy we can make it work if we twist it#75% IS basically a miss in FE but anyways#masato was the hardest one to think of everyone else is p straight forward LMAO#i cant have him as an attack-heavy unit cause. Well.#he also wouldn't HEAL people so i cant just call it a day and make him a priest#and as tempting as it was he wouldn't be about black magic hence Sage Class and using anima/light magic as aoki#listen if oliver was a bishop using dark magic im making exceptions to evil characters being 'morally favorable' classes#snipers are one of few classes who can use crossbows while also not being Extremely High Level#i was gonna have him be a bow knight but horseback riding can be stressful- ESP with a weapon#and thats just if youre a guy it def wouldnt be easy for someone with masato's condition#maybe if the horse goes real slow....#anyway there thats more FE than i should ever talk about on this blog LMAOOOO
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