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The feeling when you realize you're the token straight in your friend group
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The world isn’t ready for my alpha kid readings.
#jane crocker#jake english#roxy lalonde#dirk strider#homestuck#alpha kids#Jane is the struggler don’t you EVER contest that#many might argue it’s Jake but he doesn’t struggle inherently#usually he just vibes until he’s forced into situations wherein he struggles#Jane struggles from the beginning#her entire arc is a struggle#also had to change it from “the fujoshi” mostly cause I don’t like that and also cause it’s not as versatile as the other labels#I don’t actually think Dirk is boring btw i just think that when put up against his friends he has a lot less complexity going on#like his arc is fairly simple as opposed to Jane and Jake’s#and even Roxy’s#His problems seem inherently a lot more straight forward to me simply because he’s articulate enough to realize he has problems#Jane and Jake are almost there#problems are like on the tip of their tongues#and Roxy is kinda like the John of the team where she isn’t even gonna acknowledge the possibility of problems#girl is like “problems? haha not me#I’m the put together one in this group :)”#and just ignores all her internalized misogyny and heteronormativity#she is a mirror to Vriska in that they both put a lot of emphasis on preforming romanticism as a means of affirming their gender#anyway my alpha kid readings are way too boring so I feel like nobody would really be interested in them Sighhhh
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annabeth being piper’s sapphic awakening?? anyone???
lesbian visibility week is almost over so i had to post this draft…rip piper mclean you would’ve loved chappell roan and kissing girls
#this is a DRAFT DRAFT but i’ve been busy…#this MIGHT be controversial so therefore i’m telling you this is NOT anti percabeth#also piper is not looking at annabeth on purpose… something about a closeted sapphic woman in a heteronormative relationship#piper mclean#piper mclean fanart#annabeth chase#annabeth chase fanart#pipabeth#heroes of olympus fanart#heroes of olympus#pjo fanart#pjo hoo toa#pjo hoo toa tsats#pjoverse#pjo#rrverse#my art#riordanverse#riordan verse#the heroes of olympus
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me: all sanji fics are the same! it's always sanji having a breakdown over liking a man and going into an identity crisis and a spiral of internalized homophobia-
also me every time i read a sanji fic: OH MY GOD SANJI HAVING A BREAKDOWN OVER LIKING A MAN AND GOING INTO AN IDENTITY CRISIS AND A SPIRAL OF INTERNALIZED HOMOPHOBIA THIS IS SO GOOD AWKEBFNALKEWNFLKANELKN
#tbf it's just me relating to the 'being fucking repressed' part#i'm a lesbian who dealt with comphet for a very long time okay#and i just LOVE a good internalized homophobia fic#he's so traumatized someone free him from this jail called heteronormativity#he's such a cutie patootie i wanna kiss him and hug him and tell him everything will be okay#sanji you can kiss men it's fine darling#one piece#sanji#sanuso#lusan#acesan#zosan#whatever sanji ship you like idk
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not to engage with top/bottom discourse in the year of our lord 2024, but how on earth are people sleeping on dom bottom viktor and sub top jayce
#like i know that the reasons are 1. ableism and 2. heteronormative view of sex so if you are bottoming you're automatically a sub (???)#but it's so infuriating because it ignores their dynamics#like jayce can and will fuck that twink into oblivion. but only when that twink is telling him exactly how he wants it and directing things#expand your horizons people#arcane#arcane season 2#jayvik#jayce talis#arcane jayce#jayce x viktor#viktor arcane#viktor
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words by Sylvia Plath
i will not be well tomorrow. just a general psa
#still not over silco's death#like!!!! that's her father! and he wouldn't have given her up for anything! AUGH#surrogate father daughter relationships you will always be famous to me. especially grumpy father and mentally ill daughter#also yeah i know jinx and vi have a biological father but i couldn't find a good enough picture of him and also blood relation as the sole#....source of family is heteronormative bullshit. so yeah#anyway#arcane silco#silco and jinx#jinx arcane#arcane edit#my edit#arcane#arcane spoilers#silco arcane#jinx and silco#sylvia plath
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Watching a certain subsect of manhwa-only fans reduce yoo sangah to a "love interest waifu" character is so frustrating because it literally goes against the entire point of her character. She's been trying her whole life to escape the expectations put on her just because she's a conventionally attractive woman. She went against her family's wishes for her to marry rich and got a job to become independent, only to face harassment and sexism in her male-dominated workplace. She is frequently objectified and pushed to be appealing to the male gaze. Even kim dokja initially thinks of her as less of a person and more of an archetype. Yoo sangah is a woman trying to forge her own identity within a patriarchal society that will never see her for who she truly is.
I think it says something about the way we consume media that we always assume that an attractive female character who plays a particular role in the male mc's life must be a romantic interest - that most of the fandom discussions of yoo sangah I've seen are about whether she and kdj are going to get together romantically and that so many of us complain about being "tricked" into thinking that they are when their canon relationship remains entirely platonic by the end of the novel. When yoo sangah is close to kim dokja we expect the development of a romance between the two. If a woman is close with a man then we think that's the only option for their relationship. We are taught to see female characters not as their own people, but rather mere objects for men.
#orv#omniscient reader's viewpoint#omniscent reader#orv spoilers#omniscient reader's viewpoint spoilers#yoo sangah#kim dokja#the way misogyny + heteronormativity and amatonormativity shape how we interpret media is interesting#particularly the way female characters are treated in fandom but there's so much I could go on about#yoo sangah they will never make me hate you#platonic doksang my beloved
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Aroace people, he/him lesbians, and polyamorous people, we are holding hands in a circle in the support group I founded called: Queer Identities Nobody Understands That Are Constantly Villainized and Harangued With Pointless Arguments Regarding their Validity.
#queer#aromantic#asexual#polyamory#hatred for he/him lesbians is just so weird he’s literally just chilling leave him alone#aroace#fuck heteronormativity#fuck amatonormativity#fuck exclusionists
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In 7th grade our math teacher told us a story of 7th graders a few years back getting into a fistfight after arguing and when he told us one was a girl and the other was a guy one of my classmates shouted "Ooh, she was flirting 😲" and... It's just so interesting to me how some allos hear two kids getting expelled from fistfighting and come to the conclusion of there being romantic tensions between them.
#it's not all allos; but the fact that this was the conclusion a 13 year old came to is just so wrong#aromantic#asexual#aroace#amatonormativity#fuck amatonormativity#heteronormativity
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challengers (and, on some level iwtv) on the brain it really is so funny how so many people often will happily talk about polyamory as a solution to their little ships but when confronted with narratives that truly explore that it can't compute for them and they start picking teams of two.
#even if it's gay that's still heteronormative thinking. imo#because it's just not something they even understand/respect in real life#a throuple is always a scandal it's a juicy piece of gossip it's a display of audacity to youse#and with challengers being that spectacle of something so rarely portrayed (positively or negatively) it IS exciting!!#but really some people are just wired that way and it works for them and it can be the most blasé thing in the world#but also this world is full of unfortunate relationships attempting this with people who just aren't wired that way!#with monogamous-leaning(?) people trying something that doesn't work for them as a solution to their own relationship issues#and so as the majority they end up viewing it as inherently toxic and deviant. and then in fiction it's still just spicy to them!#challengers
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the way some of you treat sevika is a bit sad, I know she's unbearably hot, but she's way more than just smut, tough girls deserve to cry, be taken care of, be emotional, cuddle, and not just be your knight in shining armor
#arcane#sevika#sorry lesbian ranting#why are butches treated with heteronormative values#it genuinely pisses me off#like so much#especially with sevika#let her be soft#i see so much of her content being requests that are like#“sevika x oblivious reader SEX SMUT SEX SEX”#and im just like#sigh#go like a man if youre gonna act like that
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a quick drawing of jackie and shauna 🦋
#yellowjackets#yellowjackets fanart#shauna shipman#jackie taylor#been busy so rn i can only afford to do some quick doodles and drawings 😭#i have some projects on the backburner and it’s driving me mad i’m STILL not done with them#suffering from being tired and gay in a capitalist heteronormative world 😔
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Where did the idea that mel and viktor are jelous of each other even come from? In the show they are never once portrayed as being jelous of jayce spending time with the other, in fact it is often encouraged by mel
#there is something that feels so heteronormative about that pwople keep acting like they are jelous of eachother despite them not once being#portrayed as such. you cant fathom people being actually polyam can you?#meljayvik#arcane
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short butch Gomez and tall femme Morticia or you know, the Addams Family if we haven't changed anything. yeah, Morticia got pregnant from wild lesbian sex. thrice. deal with it
#or wait wait. they're t4t and it's gomez who got pregnant from wild lesbian sex#it's a satire on heteronormativity so you can do whatever you want#never liked what they did to the wednesday netflix series#they should be more unconventional and camp
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tradwife is a neogender for mostly cis people. change my mind
#i am not sure how serious i am about this but it's also just like. extremely funny that cis people are trying to earn#like prestige classes of cisgender heteronormative genders.#why yes tell me how you're an alpha sigma sigma male. tell me about your greek letters and your wolves and your hot take on masculinity#why yes tell me about how you're not like all the other girls but only in a way that only bolsters and sanctifies your femininity especiall#like i'm not being mean here it's just. extremely funny and really demonstrates to me that they are not that far from getting trans people#like. i think a lot of modern transphobia is cognitive dissonance because so many of them are so close to getting it. yet so far.#it's like. cis rebound.#gender#shitposting
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Just saying,
James is the spoiled one in the relationship. He’s used to getting all he wants because Effie and Monty would indulge his every whim. He’s dramatic as shit, loud, confident, but so theatrical about it.
Regulus is the more quiet one (though not shy or insecure AT ALL. This man was meant to inherit an empire and associate (if not better) the most powerful wizards, be honest with yourself, he was be confident and stoic), and if he wanted something, he had to take it for himself seeing as his parents mostly focused on Sirius for 15 years. He’s independent.
To summarise: Regulus wears the pants in the relationship and James is just happy to be there and be pampered and be bought nice things. Regulus calls him ‘love’ and he’s gone. He wears Reg’s jumpers when he’s home alone. He’s pathetically whipped and would let Reg do anything to him. James cooks so well and makes Reg a different dish each week bc this man is used to house elf menus and that wont cut it. Regulus stands behind him, chin on his shoulder arms around his waist asking about ingredients, and James just about fucking dies—
#also#not one person in the black family is short.#draco? talk. bellatrix? canonically 6 foot. sirius? canonically tall and built. reg? almost as tall as slug horn (6’2)#no one is taller than remus#but the ‘reg is so small’ and the fixation on him being frail and a raging bottom rubs me the wrong way#they both do sport and eat well people making James a huge muscle macho and reg small and whiny?#heteronormative bullshit#snap out of it#regulus black#jegulus#james potter#marauders#starchaser#sunseeker#regulus x james#regulus black x james potter#regulus and james#jegulus headcanon#regulus headcanon#james potter hc#slytherin skittles#marauders headcanon#dead gay wizards
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