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One of the worst ideas I've seen genuinely spread around the LGBT community is that liking a gnc person of the opposite gender is "fetishizing".
Bi women liking feminine boys is not "fetishization". Fem men aren't inherently gay or bi. Straight women liking fem men is not fetishization either. He is LITTERALLY within her sexuality but because you only view feminine men as "soft boy femboy little Twink gays who get preyed on by those creepy Fujoshis straight women 🥺" instead of... Ya know... Just a man who is feminine and could be litterally any sexuality, you think that wlm woman is a predator.
Sams gose with y'all and your stupidity surround masculine women. Bi men can like butches and masc women and it's not "fetishizing lesbians". Masc women aren't Inherently lesbian or bi. Straight Men liking masculine women isn't fetishization because she is LITTERALLY within his sexuality but because you only view straight men as "predatory creepy rapists who want to assault the fat ugly hairy dyke whose CLEARLY only presenting that way to drive men off but men feel entitled to her body" instead of, ya know, just a masculine woman who could be of litterally any sexuality, you think that mlw man is a predator.
If you want more cis het men to feel comfortable wearing dresses and skirts and nail polish and make up, you have to stop both the external cishet and internal LGBT assumptions about men who like feminine things. A bigot calling him a faggot and you calling him a queer~🏳️🌈 are both forcing a sexuality based connotation onto this random man that can get him in serious danger from homophobes and transphobes. Your gaydar is wrong.
If you want more cis het women to feel comfortable wearing suits and boots and cutting their hair short and having visible body hair, you have to stop both the external cishet and internal LGBT assumptions about women who like masculine things. A bigot calling her a dyke and you calling her a queer~🏳️🌈 are both forcing a sexuality based connotation onto this random woman that can get her in serious danger from homophobes and transphobes. Your gaydar is wrong.
Stop assuming all gender nonconformity is based in gayness and transness. Is it a good indicator? Sometimes but never assume and once you stop assuming, you help more cishets feel comfortable participating in gender fuckery. Stop assuming every masc woman is a butch and stop assuming every fem man is a Twink. Those are gay labels and there's nothing Inherently LGBT about presentation.
#levi speaks#stop telling bi or straight women they are fetishizing creeps for thirsting after a cis man in a dress#stop telling bi or straight men they are fetishizing creeps if they go after women in suits or women with leg hair#its only fetishization if they are actually gay and the bi or straight person dosemt leave them alone#yall throw around queer too much a woman in a suit is auto-queer#shes just a woman in a fucking suit#not everyone is queer#q slur#tw q slur#f slur#tw f slur#d slur#tw d slur#im a two spirit bisexual mlm and wlw i can reclaim all three of these words dont clown
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this was the most fun ive had drawing something in like a week please enjoy her!! the dress is from this blog here ^_^
#drawing lace is so hard oh my god but its worth it and it gets fun after a while#tgaa#ryunosuke naruhodo#ryuunosuke naruhodou#she turned out so good im so happy w her#i love when i draw a ryuu im truly proud of like Fuck yes there she is! looking like herself#genderbends are fun…. you people are so correct she makes an excellent woman#i think my official hc is still ryuunosuke cis guy who eventually realizes he doesnt really see himself as any gender—#—but keeps using he/him bc its easy and he doesnt really jive with anything else#but also on the side i think transfem ryu or just a genderbend au is so fun#so anyway yea#i realized that i can draw whatever i want whenever i want for any reason so have girlnosuke#woman kazuma also in lolita might come soon. we’ll seeeee#or maybe masc ryuu in one of the fancy suits on that blog#she/herlock sholmes maybe? i have a fem hmmk draft in my docs rn lmao#regardless. i want a chuunosuke headband now#my art#the great ace attorney
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hi
#pretty lady you scare me#Entity draws#my art#g-man#gman#g-woman#gwoman#I'm under the firm belief that if gman was a transwoman she would look almost exatly the same with like#slighter higher heels on her shoes and a SLIGHTLY altered suit#I just felt like fucking around here#also those earrings are so her coded ngl#hl#half-life#half life#gwomansweep#second most pretiest girl I have seen
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Me, two weeks ago: hey mom, I won’t be here on the 23rd
Mom, already getting angry: why not? >:(
Me: I’m still on sick leave and I can’t do both days so I figured you’d rather I be here on Christmas Eve
Mom: …alright, I see your point. I guess that’s fine then. If you weren’t gonna show up for Christmas, I’d drag your ass down here and give you a reason to be sick.
Me: 🥲 yes, mother
FLASHFORWARD TO TODAY
Sis: uh, why is mom saying she doesn’t know anything about you not being here on the 23rd?
Me: for THE LOVE OF…..
Me, texting her: hi mom just a reminder that I won’t be joining you on Monday :) Can’t wait for Christmas tho haha
#I WAS SO IMPRESSED WITH HER FOR LIKE 0.2 SECONDS#GOOD GOD WOMAN#JUST BECAUSE IT DOESNT SUIT YOUR MOOD DOESNT MEAN IT DIDNT HAPPEN#…watch me be ignored by her the entirety of Christmas#because I’ve dared mess with her stupid traditions#god forbid I don’t show up when she wants at the expense of my own mental health#grrrrrrr#misha rants#I don’t wanna go at all just be fucking happy I show up for the mental torture that is this fucking family#tw: shitty parents#don’t know how to tw this I’m sorry
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(okay this one actually is to help me decide something)
I ruled out all the WoC based on period typical racism / this needs to be a woman his parents approve of. So this is who I am left with based on my various story requirements
#s speaks#trc noir au#trc#for Liliana it has to be that she and Gansey have not properly communicated about their respective lovers so none of these#four people are clear about the fact they could be content in a lil lavender marriage#until things come out after Gansey’s death.#and then Neeve.. the thing there is that she is wealthy but not in a *respectable* way in addition to her age#the latter could be overlooked by the Gansey’s imo if she were a proper aristocrat. but then the handwave for that would be they’re just#going to take any chance for their son to marry a rich woman before it’s too late / they’ve given up on more#and that would really fuck Blue up. so that’d be interesting#Adele is probably the least complicated option and I did like her in TRK#they’re also new money but.. working with what I’ve got#and we don’t know much about Liliana’s family background so. she could easily be wealthy I could write her as old money if it suited
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Wonder Woman #12
Variant Cover by Julian Totino Tedesco
#im in a hating on the sword + shield mood today but i like the gravity of this cover#shes going to war but its a solemn affair. she understands the consequences and what is about to happen and is saddened by the necessity#that calls for it#imo the best cover for this issue#like the fornés one looks cool as FUCK im not going to lie to you all. holy shit. but her not having the lasso there and instead having the#massive sword and shield unfortunately pisses me the fuck off. so i cant endorse it as diana. even though its fucking insane to look at.#hot damn.#the sampere cover looks rlly good this time too. its a simple fact that his art is always fire though even when the writing and events#depicted make me mad#at least the sampere cover has diana with her lasso in the absolute power suit UNLIKE SOME PPL (dan mora)#and uh the less we say abt the other covers the better. especially (mainly) the swimsuit one. bc what the fuck.#why are we doing swimsuit variants again and also diana doesnt even look good in it ugh#diana of themyscira#ignore the tags its mostly me complaining lets just talk abt how i like this cover#wonder woman#still feel the aversion to the sword/shield convo esp bc im in a mood abt comics atm but i like the gravitas#shes heading to battle but mourns that there needs to be one in the first place
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Gonna use this image any time someone says something low key sexist about Sable (ie "she's showing too much skin" regarding a fucking bathing suit 😭🤦)
I don't hear you complaining about Spirit 😭
#I swear to god some people in this community#just say ‘cover them up whore’ like a normal sexist does#also people who targeted the sables because of their bathing suit outfit and then others saying it’s fine to do that#because of what she’s wearing… do you not hear yourselves?!#purity culture will be the death of us all#and then when you play sable because you look and dress like her and then people say whoever plays her is a ‘gooner’#get off the fucking internet and talk to an actual alt woman#(this is low key a vague post about someone streaming with their friends and making fun of the sable that joined the three of them because#she had the bathing suit skin on and they were saying shit like ‘what a normal amount of clothing you have’ and the whole chat joined in.#it was the first game and I literally couldn’t watch them after that because it just made me so mad. YOU DON’T KNOW WHO’S BEHIND THE SCREEN#for all you know it’s just an alt woman who likes the outfit and your making fun of her because you think skin = sex = gooner which says a#hella lot about YOU more than the person playing her. if you know who I'm vauging about don't be a dick and harass them or send this to the#I was so mad that I just closed the stream and reblogged sable pictures because this hate against her so fucking insane.#I'm not trying to start drama. I'm just tired of this bullshit. I don't think they knew how insensitive stuff like what they were saying is#(even though they really should have; they're an adult and their words having meaning and they clearly have a young fanbase that looks up#them so they should be more careful about the shit they say) but I'm not here to try to fight anyone. I'm just furious about#constantly having to point out how fucking stupid this is and how it's rooted in sexism and purity culture.#when you say this shit you're not just 'making fun of a character'. you're indirectly making fun of alt women who dress less conservatively#you are indirectly shaming a group of people who already have to deal with prejudice outside of your 'jokes')#I love how misogyny and sexism is such a funny joke to these guys (no I don't)#I’m so fucking sick of how this community treats alt women#(speaking as an alt fashion afab person myself)#anyway. I'm just going to eat my dinner in silence.#nah who am I kidding I'm pulling up [popular 90s anime magical girl show staring 'rabbit' whose tag I don't want this to go to]#dead by daylight#dbd#rant#mint mumbles
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good morning everyone I woke up and my brain chose sadness about one of my vtm characters.
Her name is Mary Ramsey and she's Malkavian and her Bane is based in Capgras and I just realized that the fact most of her baggage is in romantic endeavors (specifically her romantic dreams being absolutely shattered by a man who did a 180 on her) was a way of coping with shit at the time
This woman is also the biggest baddest bitch in Las Vegas and probably the state of Nevada in the 1980s and I love that for her (she's a prince in the Camarilla)
#original sin#originally i told bunny she would be unromancable#(we have two settings between us for vtm. mine is 1980s vegas hers is modern dc)#and then. then she made a man with one and i do mean one single dot in charisma. who is part of the inquisition.#(also of relation to coco who im p sure i mentioned previously. in my post abt jack the ripper)#his name is ken and originally he was dragged to mary because he found jacks place and tried to take his sister back#and then despite the fact jack popped off mesmerize and held it long enough that ken was securely in custody#he did really well when mary tried to use the forgetful mind on him (also. you can get so creative with that ability i should talk abt it)#(but i digress)#and then the two actually ended up like. talking. the chemistry was so fucking instant. in the most genuine way.#also a tentative peace was brokered (mary brought down one of the landline phones and talked to the head of the local inquisition branch.#who is coco and kens mom. long story short and odd duck who is far more interested in study than destruction.)#the time of the evening meant that escorting ken at least back to his mom was likely ill advised but mary would keep a personal eye on him#... and then THIS MAN LOSES HIS ENTIRE VIRGINITY TO NOT JUST A BAD BITCH. BUT A PRINCE OF THE CAMARILLA. WHO IS FUCKING 6TH GEN#i mean there was a lot more to it outside of that#like both of them talking on a more personal base in the most weirdly honest way (mostly weird because of their positions)#n just. yeah#yeah this guy has exactly one charisma to his name but hes got the tism rizz and the rizz of just an earnest young man and somehow#he found exactly the kinda woman that is 1) very drawn to those things and 2)#she compliments and contrasts him in the ways that suit both of them best#jesus christ. im gonna cry b y e
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fuck if you click the jaden link on my pinned (it's just search results if you look up her name) she really is being flanderized at the moment. by me. she's not defined by violence i promise she has depths trust me......
#oh god incoming yapping about her in the tags. didn't expect it to be this long waugh#her taking up that yuppie persona isn't just because she likes bespoke suits it's because she feels like that's what she needs to do to be#taken seriously as a woman. always being parroted at told what to do and not to do more than her male peers do yknow#(but like i said she does like dressing up leaning more masculine if she were given the chance to do anything she would keep doing that)#the want of violence is manifestation for lacking control in her own life#she hates authority but not in the punk way. she rebels because she hates being told what to do given that was what all her life was#she wants to be the boot is what i'm saying. she will never side with the anarchs but she also might defect from the cams at some point#also she's a character that was born outta my mind that finds yuppies and failchildren fascinating irl i couldn't care less about#people like her's struggles like oh you had a rich father had many opportunities and can just throw money around like it's nothing#idgaf if your father disliked you ngl#like yea her problems were you to view it from an outsider's perspective is very first world rich girl and i won't really care either BUT#it's important for her character arc !#that's why i liken her to a chained dog often esp in the events of vtmb. the 'chained' part here is integral. could even be a chained wolf#both iggy and lacroix can acts foils to her but i won't get to that here lol#i like ironically referring her to as a girlboss but i don't think she cares about being a representation for women in what is usually the#sense for that word. but she's also not a fuck you i got mine either she's just an ambitious career climber#well she didn't know what that felt like in life being a nepo baby and all but all that work for lacroix taught her a lesson in job securit#chixtalks
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thinking about changing uriel's resurreccion from the. pavo real/fenix idea i had and just makin him paloma instead.
#i still like the peacock/phoenix thing#and i will still keep his color theming to oranges and stuff#but i............. there is symbolism with the dove that i like for him#ive been wanting to redesign him for a while anyway now#his sword still has its pretty gradient ribbon. its crucial.#oh yeah i have. a drawing of my girls that i want to post soon.#i need to finish it though.#suheila got a bit of an update. shes just in her pjs constantly now. with slippers and everything.#vinetta the venus fly trap lady has a solidified name now#and marisol. has a more solidified design. both normal and resurreccion.#i will draw them all. ALL.#god same with nuada and lorcan. theyve got some updates#lorcan though its more like. when alice meets him hes different than he initially looked#hes missing an earring and has his hair down when she meets him#annnd i also solidified ideas/concepts for alice's antagonists i guess?#there is. xavier. her mentor figure. i accidentally made him look like fucking ilberd from ffxiv jghgjkhjdgf#and then the random mook guy that is just kind of an asshole but still a problem. idr his name i think its albrecht????? lmfao#AND THEN: horrible woman main antag: torn between her being named temperance or prudence. both are funny to me.#was also thinking about swapping vinetta and suheila's resurreccions bc i keep thinking about what suits their personalities more??? idk ma#hello i have been thinking about arrancar a lot.#you WILL get to see them soon. once i have the will to finish art.
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my mom's being a cunt over my sister bleaching her hair give me a fucking break. i'll kill you
#shes fucking unbereable when it comes to Anything regarding bodies but especially the hair. like rapunzel type of insane#if you ask her she will be like well you can do what you want (as long as its natural colors) its your hair :)#but if you do it shes gonna spend the whole time saying you look worse it doesnt suit you etc#my sister just texted me like moms comment was well its perfect for your 18th you look 30 :(#YOURE A GROWN WOMAN....BE SO FR#i remember the only time i cut my hair short (above my shoulders) she spent the following year telling me i looked ugly (i was 14)
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Buddy Daddies episode 12 WAS SO GOOD WTF IM SOBBING I CANT EVEN WITH THIS BEAUTIFUL FAMILY. I LOVE THEM SO MUCH!!!
Spoilers (and my unhinged thoughts) in the tags just fyi
#i loved the action of the full-on assault on the mansion#and like yess get Ogino's bitch ass#that whole fight in the mansion was pretty gayyy no lie#rei in his suit with his hair down was HOTT like wtf#that xmas photo of them all just makes me wanna cry it's so adorable#poor Miri when they told her her mama wasnt gonna be able to make it to the concert like my heart#wish rei's dad would've got taken out but i kinda get why rei did what he did#as in the long run that was prob better for getting the organization off their backs fully#since simultaneously proved he was serious about leaving and that he couldnt be an assassin anymore#tho he looks like he can still use his arm pretty well in the future tho#and im sorry DID REI TELL HIS DAD HE WAS SLEEPING IN THE SAME BED AS KAZUKI AND MIRI LIKE OMG WHAT A FUCKING PSYCHOLOGICAL POWER MOVE#he really was like FUCK YOU DAD Kazuki and Miri and I are a real family#i started bawling when they showed Miri older like the fact that they all got to grow up together and be a family im so happy#but also like a lil sad bc does that mean there is no hope for a season 2? Like pls i need to know what happened between the times#i wanna see her growing up and them two managing to make a real family#ahhhh i love how kyu is still clearly a part of their lives by the photos#i wholeheartedly believe kazuki getting drinks with a woman was him drinking with Carol & Dorothy while complaining (in a loving way)#about how Rei can only make french toast loll and just like Dorothy listening with this completely knowing look on her face#and the photos of Karin from France like she looks so happy!#@kazuki's goatee whyyyy lolll#FUCK I JUST HAVE SO MANY FEELINGS ABOUT THIS SHOW AND LOVE THEM SO MUCH#buddy daddies#buddy daddies spoilers#buddy daddies episode 12#daughter daddies#i want to scream into the void about how happy i am they all got to be a family together#idk what to do with myself now like the past few weeks have been so wrapped up in this show idk who i am anymore#fuck pls i NEED A SEASON 2#OR LIKE A MOVIE
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I have three episodes left of "Tokyo Love Story (1991)" (free on archive.org with English subtitles), and I really should finish it. I started it almost entirely to get visuals on Tokyo in 1991, especially in terms of fashion, but overall the story and personal drama has been enough to keep me engaged. And I'm so close to the end! But I don't think I can handle any more of whatever it is Rika has going on. There's being bad at communication. There's being bad at communication because romantic dramas live and die in the space between what people say, what they think they're saying, and what they do. And then there's whatever the fuck Rika has going on.
#like i don't absolve 'kanchi' of the times he lied to her or obfuscated something -- his birthday for instance#but there are just so many times he flat out asks rika what's going on or what she's thinking and she will not answer#all the times that she's made a big deal out of something but then hidden said thing away from him yet gets mad he didn't read her mind#and then y'know all the 'i'm gonna push you hard straight at the woman you used to be in love with no matter how much you protest' stuff#oh well! still a good drama of course#and shot on film with decent cameras so it doesn't have that cheap look more modern japanese tv usually does#plus mikami is a sleazeball but man can he wear the fuck out of a sweater/blazer combo#...of all the 'posts just for me' i've made this one is like top five#anyway mikami i'll never forget you standing 185cm tall in a sweater/s2-piece suit while emotionally cheating on your childhood love
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can i talk about maxs weird thing with spring bonnie or is it too close to incest
#its the spring bonnie that he specifically made up in his head as a child NOT. just william afton#but it is influenced by william getting on his good side with spring bonnie roxy wasnt scared of spring bonnie like she was of will#but. thats not like too weird right. max definitely thinks of her as his boyfriend/father figure. which is definitely weird but like i dont#think thats pushing it too far right. all that to say max fucking that plushie spring bonnie (definitely life sized plushie he owns) is real#unless you think thats too weird in which case its not real he just snuggles up in bed with her#theres a degree of seperation between spring bonnie as wills character that he played on stage and designed#theyre different from max’s interpretation of her. notably shes a woman and she is all around a lot different than even the one she#interacted with as a kid which would have been wills version. the diner had a third version who was essentially just a side character for#fredbear and he was played a bit differently when different employees were in the suit. yknow. will played them closer to his own but it#didnt stick like the simpler version#simons spouting
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reese reese it rhymes with grease
#what a fucking stupid name first of all. no I'll never stop hating him sorry 😭 he's why I hate men in suits he's just so irritating#and the show wants us to think he's sooo cool and badass#shut UPPP he's ugly and he sucks and the show won't let us forget abt how bad his ex's abuse and murder made HIM feel#it rly was peak manpain writing. okay maybe not spn level but. up there#and the writing for his interactions w black characters and esp black children was so goddamn weird#no dude you don't know what it's like to live in an extremely racist city as a black boy? allow him to be a child wtf...#also CARTER and root dying before him. yeah I'm really going to be sad about this shitty white guy as much better female characters#black women and lesbians die instead. omg#helen has a bit of rich white woman syndrome to her but she's not as obnoxious about it. I think. and eve ruled#I WISH that show had treated her better...maybe I should finish it. well no wait I remember why I didn't#badly mangled writing....#cor.txt
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folk punk ver.
• local news legend
• stick n poke
• sister wife sex strike
these ones are male/female duos
• days n daze
• the taxpayers
we are past swifties calling themselves punks and have arrived at swift calling herself punk
#also fucking cackling at the photo#didn’t listen to reputations or whatever but she’s literally just wearing a suit#considering she’s a rich white woman i think she would rather die than be put in the pit
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