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can i be fr for a minute?? sending abuse to people online for holding different views than you is not activism and in fact actively hurts your cause. most people are not extreme in their viewpoints, you can give them a new perspective if you're willing to spend some time explaining shit. if someone is saying something you disagree with and you rush in there to condescend to them and call them disgusting and subhuman and dont even TRY to explain calmly why their views are harmful, they're going to shut you out instantly and double down on their views.
most people are simply genuinely ignorant to the issues they're talking about - they just pick their views up from the news and the world around them and express opinions because that's what every person does. if you run in there and tell them they're scum for it, what then? if someone does that to you, are you going to think "maybe i should do some research" or are you going to think "this person is an asshole, im blocking them." a lot of you think you're activists and then refuse to do any kind of actual WORK to support your cause.
#this is not about the isr*el thing even tho thats obviously a huge issue rn#its just a pattern ive observed online#im not saying you have to be kind to people who oppress you dont twist my words#but if youre trying to support any cause and you think calling people names is going to help#youre a fucking idiot lol#people call themelves activists and pro-X cause because they called their opposition dirty c*nts online#how the hell is that meant to help anyone? theyre just going to retreat into their propaganda chambers because you proved what the leaders#of those spaces have been telling them#you can obvs block people if you dont want to deal w them but thats a neutral action. sending abuse harms ur cause.#text#like educating ignorant people is hard work! yeah! its also the entire fucking point of activisim#and if you think its too much effort then just stop pretending you give a shit tbh#like my parents managed to change our neighbour's very xenophobic stance on migrants with a calm conversation#some people will listen and some wont and shes not exactly going out to protests for migrants rights but shes not hostile anymore#and a lot of yall think that isnt good enough but let me tell you it IS good because these things take time!#unlearning things is MUCH harder than learning them in the first place and a lot of people grew up in environments that taught them#very discriminatory and conservative views and its actually not their fault. and its hard to educate yourself differently on something you#have no idea is not true. where do you start w that?
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the sense that cassie would knock into tony
#not even only regarding Gregory but ellis as well#she'd see this perfectly good friend who cares about tony and has stuck by him for years that tony grew up with#and yeah hes a little flawed but not enough to be dropped or condemned#and shed see how tony blows him off and resents him bc of his own pent up anger and wants to stop hanging out with him#on top of watching tony treat gregory as only a mystery/ggy#(bc this would have to be post book+sb and pre ruin id say)#and shed get mad not only on gregorys behalf but on ellis'#friendship is so important to her and shes grateful to have met Gregory every day#gregory whos flawed like ellis is but tony still wants to take him for granted#both ellis and gregory#shed yell soo much sense into him#and its even more interesting during some sort of plotline where they have to stick together#like ur my only ally and its killing me watching you treat your friends like this but i have to stick with you#doesnt mean i wont scream at you after noticing all this#tony and cassie having different outlooks on a ggy esque plotline#like finding him or solving it or something (but cassies friendship was with the real gregory)#and she watches how as she cares about helping and saving her friend and making sure hes okay#tony is treating it like a detective case and like gregory is just a mystery to solve like hes a goal and not a person#or his FRIEND#cassie would be soo mad#maybe like during ruin or something tony is there#and she doesnt know about the murderous part until she yells at tony about how hes treating finding Gregory#and then he explains it all to her but is like i donnttt think it was him he mighhtt have been possessed#imagining post ruin Tony is the only thing keeping cassie from spiraling#like thyere trapped down there for a bit and he finds a way out but cassie has been being whispered to by the mask and shit#he keeps her from being turned against gregory in this case#using the words she threw in his face about friendship back in hers#not-gregory duo#tony#cassie
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Whatever. More Eglantine because yeah💖
#bart#limbus company#limbus company oc#honestly i can't begin to say whats wrong with her bc theres a lot#I CAN SUMMERIZE IT THOUGH!!!#*deep breath* Roman Catholic widow#does that make sense? shes in shit for ass amounds of deep and she wont talk abt ut#not that anybody would like to hear her bullshit its like taking a nuke to your dome#I've been slowly chiseling away at her stuff and ive mostly got it im just debating if she should be in the outskirts or something#im trying not figure out the funniest option#shes European bc ofc she is because most of the horrors come from thag fuckass area#they was doing insane shit during the boom in Catholicism can you believe that?(you can)#THAT PERSON IN THE FIRST ONE IS HER LATE WIFE!!!! HER LATE WIFEEE#that may or may not be bela Lugosi#how Eglantine got of dracula? idk. freak pizzaz🫴✨
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here's the thing about shannon diaz
she shouldnt have died because she didnt deserve that but i still dont like her
sure eddie said he did the same thing as she did by running to join the military but...were they same?
its not like eddie left in the middle of the night with only a note left behind and then just...didnt contact them for like 2 years! I mean, we saw him facetiming as much as he could in an active warzone and we know he did everything to get back to chris!
but here's the thing: shannon did! she left without any word in the middle of the night!
i think its fine that she left eddie, in fact good for her for leaving his ass because i just know he never stood up for her to his overbearing parents and she 100% deserved better
But its the way she left christopher with only a note for when he was older and then went zero contact for however long and i firmly believe if eddie hadn't reached out to her first she would never have tried to contact christopher and that's just unforgivable to me
you can, and should, leave your spouse if it isnt working out, but to leave your kid completely behind without a word? thats horrifying to me
#like thats your kid! they didnt ask to be born! but they're here and they're responsiblity for the REST OF YOUR LIFE#911 abc#anti shannon diaz#i keep seeing all this stuff for her and yeah shes a great character but i still wont forgive her#i dont care that eddie forgave her#if my mom left without a fucking note and then ghosted me and only came into my life because she had no choice and felt guilty? yeah no#i take a hard stance to that but it could be because my mom literally will never call me or make the effort in our relationship#im a grown ass adult and that shit stings i just know it's devastating when your a kid when your mom just ignores you#although my parental issues are more in line with bucks in that my parents just ignored me for most of my life
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anyone else out here a middle child saddled with eldest daughter responsibilities?
#a bumper sticker that says 'middle-child neglect and eldest-child duties'#i want to believe it started when my older sister moved out but. lets be real. it's always been me.#i am genuinely acting care-giver to my chronically ill younger sister while my dad watches basketball on the couch#and my mom doesnt get out of bed.#like. my mom is pretty sick too and works all day and does most of the housekeeping too#so i dont blame her at all.#i mean i guess my dad works all day but. for real king you can't get up off the couch to support your daughter crying and heaving#no that falls to me. yeah yeah I'll get her a drink and make sure she takes her meds.#what's that? yeah I'll rub her back and run a cloth under the sink and bring her something to eat too.#oh? yes fine I wont take a gummy so i wont sleep because she's in a flare up and needs them more than me#to be clear!! I'm not blaming her either like clearly she feels like shit and she feels guilty all the time#i just. some amount of help from anyone else. or at least maybe. idk A DAY I can rest when i feel like shit#but oh- no- she's coughing up bile again. yep I'll come bring a bucket.
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I just need to rant for a second :)
Screaming into the void please dont judge me
#that feeling when you and the person you live with have to move out of two rooms of your flat because the flooring had to be done there#and your girlfriend just. doesnt. do. anything. unless you strongarm her into it at which point she snaps at you and treats you#like you are unreasonable for not letting her just sit there and ply video games while you do all the work#eventhough its her fault that we didnt even have a full week to prepare for it because she just took the fastest possible appointment for it#when they called her to do the appointment#also sitting there like 'it will be fine we can do it in time' yea no shit because i am actually doing all the fucking work#its not like i usually do almost all the chores anyways#i ask her to help me move her pottet plants she is just like 'no. not because i dont want to help but because i dont want to move them'#why does she have to act as if she is doing me a fucking favour when putting away her own stuff that she never cleans up otherwise anyways#i am tired#like great. let me just do all of the work and then get angry at me when i ask you when you will be able to cook after taking 'me time'#because i have to clean out the kitchen but you thought it was a good idea to bring meat that has to be cooked today#because from tomorrow on we wont have a kitchen for 7 days#but then you definetly wont do the dishes after cooking which means ill have to do it#ontop of all the other stuff#idk im just annoyed#incredibly annoyed
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She's just like me fr
#im taking down this post tomorrow once ill be in a better place mentally. probably.#im a mix of all the Akashi sibs this shit aint even funny#(i wont stop making jokes about it tho)#also heres your reason why I like to schrödinger Senju's gender — im protecting a bit too much so she cant be cis. or at least fully gender#conforming. shes everything and nothing at all yknow? loved that for her. loved that for me#*projecting
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if you think im mean about my sister a. shes abusive and rwinger and has been bullying my whole life in spite of my trying again and again at bidding for connection with here so atp idrc bc ive tried so hard with her and shes never changes and i just cant be assed but also b. you have no idea how much im holding back for her sake.
#my moms the good person here bc she told me to cool it down about her. if she didnt say anything i'd be popping off near daily.#be thankful she pays for your house at all lil bitch. or considers you fucking at all. or thinks about you ever.#if i were her i'd drop you entirely atp. w your disrespectful entitled fucking ass.#be thankful ANYONE bothers to take care of your pets when you have your lil breakdowns. you have no fucking idea how hard it#is on people for you to do this. if you do it again on purpose knowing that imma tell them to let the dogs suffer bc its your#responsibility not theirs. and if you cant find someone to take care of them when you have issues then you need to give them tf away.#bc quite frankly? no one on this side of the family owes you jack fucking shit. be thankful you have a fucking roof over your head#bc better people than you get kicked out on the street for the most tame shit. be fucking thankful you little fucking cunt.#if you ever try some shit i will rock your fucking world. you're lucky i havent yet given what you've done to me my entire fucking life.#feel spared by me.#also again- if you think im being too harsh- you have no idea what sparked this. and i wont mention it bc the less ppl know about#the shit she pulled the better off & safer her victim is. just know that it sparked a fight response in me. not many things do#that besides people who threaten my or people i care abouts safety.
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throwing away stuff from a past life is so weird
#ive held onto trinkets and photos and notes from people that treated me like shit and are no longer in my life but still i found myself thin#king well what if one day they come back knowing fully well that wont happen but it makes me think if theres a universe where things were di#fferent#also reading back to my elementary school diary i want to protect that little girl so much because its still me shes still inside me and she#s so strong but she can’t even fathom what the future looks like#im just feeling so emotional because everything that ever happened to me was so unexpected and my present self is working through trauma and#dealing with grieving both dead and alive people and my future self is probably hopefully in a better place but i can’t stop of that little#kid being so beautifully ignorant about whats about to happen. i just think its comforting knowing i loved so much back then and i still l#love so much now and that after everything its still me#if you read till here wow hi hug your close ones tell them you love them take pictures and have conversations and ask them questions so many#questions#yapping sesh#life is weird
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so i am singing that vitellia in the end... but at what fucking cost.
'you gotta sing this softer'
'what'
'this is mozart'
'this is vitellia'
'this is mozart'
'im singing about how much i hate this mf and want him dead before the end of the day'
'this is mozart'
'i wanna murder a guy'
'this is mozart'
'...'
'softer. gentle. mozart'
'...ok'
#they're killing me here#i already bargained for ONE (1) note in chest (thank you so so much that i am ALLOWED to sing an A3 in chest voice <333) and now THIS#THIS is why people hate mozart. fuck you.#i recorded that rehearsal and the first version sounds SO MUCH BETTER. after i did what she asked me to do its just. so fucking boring.#i hate it here#i love this duet so much but frfr im not sure i wanna do it if i have to do it on their terms.#also like sorry to be a bitch but you're a pianist girl. just stick to your stuff and let me take care of mine.#just because you're playing this like you're constipated because tHiS iS mOzArT doesnt mean the rest of us dont care either.#its possible i never will get the chance to sing the entire vitellia so i want to do justice. as much as im able. to this one chance i get#it took me A Long While to deal with the fact that i wont be able to bark that 'indegno' and 'regno' like i always envisioned.#but like. ok. whatever. i can still make it Entertaining. THIS however. no. no fucking way.#and its not even about me being a big-headed know-it-all who thinks she's better than everyone because. lol and lmao clearly im Not#but this is about having a fucking SOUL. its about actually taking the libretto into consideration too. its about trying to figure out#WHY mozart wrote it the way he did. like sorry but this is another fiordiligi case where its CLEAR that the amplitudes the crazy jumps#are there FOR A REASON. the reason is HE WANTED A CONTRAST. some fucking EMOTION. he sure as hell didnt want it to be Soft And Gentle.#i know it because i talked to him and he told me im right about everything as always and you can eat shit girl bye#grrrrrrrr im so angry#i knos i sound so arrogant here but please. please i just want to make this music fun and enjoyable. i just dont want it to be boring#please understand my vision im begging you
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i must be fr the only person who never rly cared for vee but thats mostly cause one of the first things we saw her do was throw away and give away luzs stuff as if it was hers and i just know if someone did that to me id be so pissed. do NOT touch my shit dude istg. like they didnt even know if luz was dead or not like at least wait a few years or some shit. not a month. its so petty of me but its also a fictional character so. i dont even hate her i just dont rly care in general
#my post#definitely not tagging the fandom even for blog purposes cause i dont need people talking to me about this ajfjajd#im literally just expressing this cause i think about it every time i see vee#i just know if some people saw this theyd make a fuss cause shes def a loved character which is fair#like. dude my nephews kept coming into my room when i wasnt there and trying to take my things#so much so that when i was at therapy on tuesday and therefore couldnt protect my room#THE BROKE ONE OF MY FIGURINES. MY ESPEON. i had to superglue the tail back on but it doesnt even fit right and i cant even#remember how it fit anymore and i. oh my FUCK. not to mention they straight up succeeded in stealing my glameow plush#and taking it back to their house. it was fine and i got it back thankfully but like ???#stop touching my shit ??? stop breaking and stealing my shit ???#i just dont like people messing with my stuff. its hard to even pinpoint why. i just dont like it.#so seeing her do that to luz was so irritating. girl thats not your shit leave it alone !!!!! at least put it in storage ???#its one thing to steal someones life (im not judging that part /srs) but its like. at least respect their stuff dude...#<- i am literally the only mf who cares about this jfjsjd i keep wanting to say more but i think i sound. so weird so i wont
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Thinking about going back to support group because I'm sick to my stomach with the amount of transphobia I've heard/dealt with over the past week alone, but also eww vulnerability
#mostly there are just people in support group who annoy the shit out of me#last time i went there were 31 people and it was impossible to hold one conversation#so maybe ill go back if it gets small again but its pride month so...#and im too <3 fucking <3 busy <3#im becoming so grouchy but also just tired and dead inside because of transphobia#almost came out to the entire family just because ive had enough#to the old fart who visited the library and spouted hate-speech for half an hour:#i hope you get fucking cancer you shitstain#saying we need immigrants so we can make them work the low-wage jobs#and that 'transsexuals cross the border to molest kids'#and what did my supervisor do about it. she smiled all sweet and encouraged him.#im going to take her job. i will. because im basically already doing it.#its a fucking feminist library do your job as a manager and kick the bigot out#you do not have to be polite to everyone. not everyone should have 'frEeDoM of SpeEcH'#whatever the crusty old ballsack is gonna die before me anyway and he wont be back
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guys what if i want to make my own apollo justice game.
#i need to write a prequel to aa4 pls pls pls pls pls#okay get this: so phoenix isnt disbarred yet and he doesnt have trucy. hes still taking and winning cases#one day he gets a call from edgeworth and hes all like ''wright i need your assistance'' and hes like what for and edgeworth goes#''ive been given the most ridiculous case and i think youre the only man in law who can take care of it''#so phoenix bikes his ass to the detention center and boom. child behind bars#and phoenix is like ??? hey kid what are doing here. and this kid is the most surly mfer on the planet like you couldnt get-#-a word out of him if you tried. hes kinda giving phoenix the stink eye too but hes just the littlest guy on earth#and phoenix feels bad for him so he tries to get a rundown of the case (maybe edgeworth gave him an autopsy report or smth beforehand)#but get this. the kid still wont speak. he hasnt even moved a muscle. and after some prodding you find out this little dude-#-doesnt speak english (i dont love aa6 but i think apollos tragic backstory can be interesting so we're going w that but taking it seriousl#anyways so maya is like omg this kid is speaking khurainese but hers is kinda broken bc shes not from the mainland and only knows it-#-from like prayers#so you only get bits and pieces of the kids testimony. plus he still doesnt wanna talk bc ''dhurk told me not to talk to you''#so you start following the new lead but you ask too many questions and apollos like oh shit i said too much and wont talk to you anymore#but now you have two leads: khur'ain and a man named ''dhurk'' plus the fact that this is kid might be new to america since-#-he cant speak english but is smack dab in the middle of california. its all v curious and phoenix wants to get to the bottom of it#for the rest of the case i feel like it would go in the direction of ''we dont know exactly whats up w this dhurk guy or where this kid-#-came from but we do get him acquitted and phoenix is able to save him from the dark path he was heading towards'' thus steering apollo-#-in the direction of law and giving him a wayyyy better reason than aa6 gave him <3#i kind of like the interlinked nature of ace attorney's storytelling. like everything leads into smth else and everyone is impacted-#-by another person before they even become properly entangled w each other's lives#like how mia faced dahlia years before she met phoenix but dahlia was the one to connect them#or how trucy gave phoenix the diary paper but she's also the one who ropes apollo into the waa. even before they know they're siblings#or how lamoire left apollo and trucy as children and when they reunite as adults they cant recognise each other but they all find each-#-other anyways#i could go on but i think this could be cool yknow esp bc i think the most interesting thing about apollo's aa6 backstory is his life-#-post dhurk. like where did he stay? was he a foster kid? was he put into the system? how did that affect him? what kind of ppl took him in#i just wanna know how that whole thing would have effected him bc like when yiu think about it how did he even get to america?? his dad's#-considered a terrorist. idk man i think its interesting and apollo and dhurks interactions are one of the only good parts of aa6
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I finally have art inspiration! Gonna finish some projects and put out doodles and
…ah.
#fuck dogs#FUCK those stupid animals#everyone is telling me its my fault for ’’lEaViNg iT oUt WhErE sHe CaN gEt iT’’#are you fucking kidding me#i paid 250 for a brand new tv after my cat knocked it over#didnt want your tv broken? shit dawg should have mounted it to the wall#take responsibility for your fucking dog#lazy ass fucking asshole uncle#i left my ipad to charge sitting in the recliner chair while i showered#45 minutes#im taking the fucking tv to my room if he wont buy me a new pencil#vent#cw//vent#honeycomb
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Im thinking about how some people (ive seen) have this mild hint of Snobbiness when it comes to whether or not you save each song individually like The Old Days (I used to do that) . You download the song + edit the artist name + add a song image… but have you considered that. If you have any form of disability with your hands that its time conuming epecially if you’re just starting and have 500+ songs of backlog? Also even if youre able bodied its just so time consuming and i cant squeeze in the time to download and sort 500+ music if i have more important things to do
#so I DONT have disability in my hands but my partner does my baby girl alright#and like idk im just thinking#like IDC what anyone does yknow? i dont give a shit#but if you start acting snobby i will literally start coming for your throat#i think we need to kill ceos and destroy captialism instead of judge whos better at storing music#its not FAIR that spotify doesnt pay their artists properly#but i get a bad taste in my mouth when i see people being RUDE to others who use streaming#does that make sense? is this a bad take?#like for example even if i could do this personally its so time consuming and we dont have TIME to move 500+ songs around anymore#maybe if we started it sure but like#as in started doing this a lkong time ago but its not a LONG TIME AGO anymore#idk. maybe this is a bad take#talking#am i making sense?? im just pissed off because i know that if someone told this to my girlfriend ‘hey you should delete spotify and#download all your songs and change the artist icons etc’#ill start grabbing a shovel because i know she wont have the time or spoons to do that#anyway…
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its always "be your own person, i support you self expressing yourself" but as soon as i mention anything i want to do all of a sudden its the wrong decision and i should just do whatever my mum tells me
#like ok i dont want to go to church anymore i don't want to read the bible with you anymore and i don't want to do a master's degree#after my current course i would like to rest and find a job and when i mention this its 'no no no you have to do and listen to what i say#im your mother i know everything even though i have shown that i actually have no idea about your interests'#its the same with what career i want to go into with film. i want to be in the art department but my mum so badly does not#want me to be in that department she always gets upset when i say i would love to be a production designer and its like#the actual industry job is very likely not going to EXACTLY like how it is at my school.... there is a whole department for that#its noy just one person doing everything. and then i have the coding classes...#i am literally taking them so she will shut up and wont start crying the same way she does when my sister doesn't do what she#tells her to do. i have NO INTEREST in tech at all and I'm taking these stupid classes because she secretly wants me#to be in tech because she knows everything abt that industry and not film I#and when i say uh i dont want to do that actually she just guilt trips me into doing i literally cant take this shit anymore
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