#MAKE IT MAKE SENSE

[philosophicalparadox]

Exactly. I just had this conversation with my future mil. Don’t wait until you’re so upset about The Thing that you freakin explode to tell me it bothers you. Because at that point it is ENTIRELY your own fault for hurting your own feelings. And I will not be sympathetic or empathetic in the least. Tell me it bothers you and what you’d like for me to do for it to not bother you, when you notice it bothering you, and we will get on just fine.

Waiting until you’re so frustrated because I literally can not read thy mind and can not see the cues (which are usually inconsistent little “hints”) to blow up about it is not constructive, is stressful, and wastes literally everybody’s time. So yeah, I am going to be mad at that. Not mad about the grievances, just the way they are presented. And I’m also not going to act like I’m sorry about it, because the onus was on thee to communicate discomfort directly and ye did not. My disability is not fixable. I can not magic myself, no matter how well I mask, into being able to see things that are invisible to me because my brain won’t let me see them.

I get into it with her over my ADHD too. I can’t fix that. It’s part of how my brain works and unfortunately I do not respond well to the medication. (It makes me very jittery and affects my better judgment so much I’m a danger to myself). So I’m stuck like this. I will never “grow up” and be able to consistently remember something I’ve walked away from. I will never “be an adult” and have the executive functioning to even take care of myself. I’m doomed. Trapped. Stuck like this forever.

I’ve learned to give myself grace since being diagnosed, I’m perfectly willing to adapt to make other people more comfortable, within reason, but I can’t do that if I don’t know what makes them comfortable!!! But lord, ask any neurotypical what you should do and it’s a war because they have no clue, or “you’re an adult, you should just ✨magically ✨know these things”.

I saw some snippet of a callout post for an autistic trans woman where they list social faux pas she committed, and I think we allistic people should all feel 100x more ashamed of not telling people in the moment how we feel about what they're doing. I think its extremely evil and cruel to not only lie to an autistic person and blame them for it but also to feel justified shaming them for your behavior. And it's currently the social norm to do that

[evenwhenihadnothingihad-stucky]

Steve Rogers: *attempts suicide by crashing a plane into the arctic shortly after Bucky dies*

Also Steve Rogers: *leaves Bucky permanently after not seeing him for five years*

Like wtf Marvel

[rizzoreads88]

“ 3 bat boys and 3 sisters is too predictable”

“If Elain and Azriel end up together there is nothing to suprise the readers”

“Elain and Azriel are too obvious”

✨Ya’ll know this is a Romance/Fantasy series right? Not a Thriller? You’re supposed to see the romance coming.✨

That means you see the build up for the romantic pairing..

You see the chemistry already there.

But it’s funny absolutely no one used any of these “points” against Nessian. Or Bryce and Hunt.

Just be honest you don’t really care about these “points” you just want it to be that way for GA and it’s not.

[rivercloak]

Luigi: *in altoona where tried to book a motel room then went to mcdonalds where he was arrested*

Footage is released of luigi in altoona trying to book a motel room and then going to mcdonalds where he is arrested

2 braincell owners: welp, he must be guilty

[lyricallyxo]

I'm sorry it's Will's job to take care of El and it's Mike's job to take care of Will...where's the relationship here??

Wow...they really are the delusional ones now guys 😅

[texaschainsawmascara]

links to the donations mentioned

https://unrwa.org/

https://www.instagram.com/gazamutualaid

https://campusbailfunds.com

[marzipanandminutiae]

hey international followers

just in case you want a taste of precisely HOW fractured the US is we also just elected our first openly trans person to Congress (Sarah McBride, from Delaware) and five states enshrined abortion rights into their state constitutions, with Missouri overturning its previous ban

in the same election that gave us Cheeto Hitler II: Electric Boogaloo

[chappellrroan]

[delaneytveit]

its wild to me how tamlin point blank explains what fey/re did to his court, how she hurt it and weakened their only defnese against Hybern in the process because she threw a hissy fit over the fact that he tried everything to get her back from someone who has made the entire world think that he is the absolute scum of the earth. and fey/re has the audacity to say that he “doesn’t get to rewrite the narrative”

like HUH??????

i’m sorry but… there was not a single thing that he said she did that she didn’t do.

like sweetheart you admitted that what you did to the spring court was bad not even 3 pages ago. but now that you get called out for it???? now its rewriting the narrative.

[charleemoon]

i can't believe apollo is canonically 5'5. has a flip phone with charms, ringtone is a song he likes by a band he hates. can't swim and doesn't like driving. good at random things, like astrology and hula hooping. keeps mangas in his work desk. used to watch doctor who. only reads the newspaper funnies. doesn't open up, no matter how much he's asked. dedicated to his favorite color. too serious, afraid of being seen as a joke. picked up a stray calico cat and named it calico. calls everyone san/mr/ms except his sister and his best friend. refers to himself as ore, masculine and a little rough. instinctually cleans when he sees a mess. can't control how loud he is. scared of heights. spent two months unemployed because he wouldn't work for someone who broke his trust. cries easily for people he loves. prickly, short-tempered. empathetic and loving. the son of musicians. simple, brown haired and brown eyed. plain. just a guy with passion and intensity and kindness. unwavering, unyielding

[overlord-of-chaos]

I find people who don’t understand asexuality so bizarre. Like, a vast majority of the world population can comprehend not being attracted to about half the people on the planet and knowing they never will be but as soon as someone’s not attracted to all of them they’re like idk, sounds sus. Are you sure? Have you exhausted every possible option here would you like to think about it a little longer

[burst-of-iridescent]

antis will hate on zutara for being a colonizer/colonized ship and then turn around and ship zuko with mai — the girl who was at best indifferent to her country’s imperialism while enjoying the privileges of being a high-ranking member of the colonizing state, and at worst actively complicit in said colonization, without ever undergoing any growth or showing any signs of disagreement with the ruling regime, even till the very end — and expect people to take them seriously lmfaooo

[eilinelsghost]

Ok friends, this has bugged me for awhile now so help me solve it.

In LOTR we're giving two contradicting depictions of Elves and their horses: the Glorfindel approach and the Legolas approach.

In the Glorfindel approach, we're told through various references that he rides Asfaloth with a saddle, stirrups, and reins.

While in the Legolas approach, we're told instead that the "Elvish way with all good beasts" is to ride them with none of these items and direct them solely with the spoken word.

So how do we square these, friends?

Extra points if you give me your unhinged headcanons about this in the replies/tags. I want to hear all about those.

[despazito]

germany's green party after the country phases out all nuclear energy to save the planet and becomes the EU's largest coal consumer

[trossards]

they’re focusing so much on the war in ukraine during this year’s eurovision, russia isn’t allowed to participate, there’s even songs condemning war … but israel is still here? and people still support them? all of this while israel’s actions against palestinians include land seizures, killings, injuries, movement restrictions, denial of nationality, and other inhumane acts. accepting and supporting israel means you’re endorsing genocide and ethnic cleansing.