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my paige wife delusions are really coming in hard rn😊
blushing and shi
NAH she got me kicking my damn FEET
#i'm sick#just shut up#paige madison fucking bueckers bro#found my dream girl#she lives in another state#and she doesn't know who i am
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my cousin might be lesbian ..... she grew up on the countryside in a very religious family her father is a pastor im feeling so so sorry for her im glad at least she's living in the capital now and pretty much has her independence is finishing college etc etc so hopefully everything will go well for her
#i dont talk to her at allllll#she lives in another state#but i hope shes happy#my mom said shes even dating so good for her
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Bonus 12: Beware the Grapes of Wrath.
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#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wei wuxian#wen qing#wen ning#WWX's main weapon as the Yiling patriarch is considered to be 'Wen Ning' - which makes sense as far as the whole necromancer thing goes.#However...That *is* Wen Qing's beloved baby brother!#In her perspective WWX skipped town for a few days (or so) and took WN with him#only for them both to show up bloodied and in a state of disarray.#There's no way he told her he was going out to duel Jiang Cheng. For several reasons.#He doesn't want to involve her in his messes anymore than he already has.#It's less that she would try and stop him and more so that he honestly wouldn't even think to say something about it to her.#WQ and him aren't partners in this situation. He actually openly disregards her opinions several times.#Wei Wuxian's emotional distance from everyone around him is a big part of this arc.#Like all good tragedies...his biggest flaw is his hubris. He doesn't *need* anyone when he's so capable on his own.#He doesn't need to ask permission when obviously this is the only way forwards.#He has to do it all on his own! No one else needs to be involved!#And if you've been in the position of realizing you have a problem of toxic self-reliance - you know how harmful this mindset is.#It's why it's so satisfying to see WWX in his 'new' life start to let other's share his burdens.#I will die on the hill of 'love means carrying each other's weight. All a burden means is that I can give you support and you support me.'#YLLZ is less 'competent and sexy' and more 'depressed and can't see it'.#Another lovely nod to the main theme here is how he starts leaning more and more into the rumours about him.#Though we are also still confronted with how these rumours fail to actually live up to reality.#Rumour has it the Yiling Patriarch is undefeatable. What a shame if that rumour turned out to be untrue!
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Hey, saw that you're having a bit of rough day. :(
I'm almost finished the next part.
But, would you like Prowl to bully "the wet bread moron" Josh? (as a treat. there's a part I could slide it in) Like a little petty revenge like get back at people being jerks to orcas?
-GLC
Oh I would absolutely love that yes🥺👉👈
#Prowl deserves that#especially since they all keep expecting him to behave like a crazy scared horse/j#I was spending a lot of time watching videos and reading articles about wild and captive orcas#sorry it's a bit unrelated just don't mind the tags kflgmdbd#yeah so. I remember going to aquarium a bunch of years ago and seeing those performances#I was absolutely AMAZED by orcas because as a kid I was kinda obsessed with them haha#watched a lot of documentaries. all about wild orcas#so shortly after I went to the aquarium I tried to look for their stuff on the internet. some recordings and photos and names of the animals#there were A LOT of people SCREAMING around that content. Telling everyone that those animals are abused and suffering#-and shouldn't be held captive. Calling the aquarium “the orca prison” and stuff#I remember how annoyed I was seeing them. Because the staff cheerfully told me that “see they live happy they have a lot of food and-#-and nothing to worry about. What else can they want?“#I was so pissed at those “crazy hysterical eco activists” because they were actively ruining such a fun place#Now when I know better I wish I could meet those people and thank them#they got what they were fighting for. well. mostly they did#Hunting orcas is illegal now thanks to them#and breeding stopped too#they refused to let their last surviving Orca free (she was caught. not born in captivity) but they stated they won't try to get more orcas#Every time I see something about wild orcas it's so amazing and every time I see what humans do to them it gets more horrible#With all that said. If someone is still reading this haha. I now have another idea for a character who's gonna suffer immensely#because I went to see what exactly those activists vere fighting against and now I have some fresh fucking ideas
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More than just the Demon.
#ffxiv#digital art#zenos yae galvus#venat#endwalker spoilers#will forever be fascinated with this man#look guys look- the literal embodiment of wol's wings of hope LOL (and me going hehe about that and footfalls)#the part of me that adores digging into the nuance of character writing (intentional or otherwise) is just latched onto zenos#and venat-- they cant just give us two characters who get really important 1v1 duels#and ask really important questions#and love the MC and are willing to risk themselves so unconditionally#and have them not live rent free in my brain#--and maybe this tiptoes into the realm of crack theory so beware there will be a lot past here--#but I cant help but think zenos is akin to an oracle or warrior of light but was tempered/corrupted by zodiark#or some strange happenstance of varis (who shares visual traits to golbez before 6.0 ever came out and the dark mana burst)#and carosa (who it seems zenos got his looks from- and he already looks like he has ties to venat and argos like minfillia does)#was he a result of the eternal chess match between the two parties' machinations? or just some strange twist of fate?#another day of him being “emet's successful experiment” (again- intentional or no) making me thonk#theres something so strange about the final days dreams and how dark aspected he is- that his void abilities are more tied to him tbh#yet his mannerisms beyond just what he's been through almost reminds me of light corruption and the uncanny calmness#we see in most beings associated with the light in any significant way and like second phase eden shiva#he almost has all the marks of someone who shouldve already had the echo or blessing of light but for one reason or another#was unable to hear hydaelyns call#of course it doesnt help i mentally associate him with connections to zero and how she was corrupted before she was even born#and durante- who states uncanny ability and connection with light and darkness and yet favors dark magic more#i simply live with the idea that zenos' soul was an eternally faithful companion to wol's and#this time the cardinal sin of separating the pair finally happened to rather dire consequences lmao
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What if we were both magic prodigies and it otherized us in different ways and we devoted ourselves to protecting a family member who has general other goals & priorities. What if we both did self-sacrifical devotion in opposite ways.
What if we were dark mirrors of each other and where I've grown overcontrolling you've grown complacent. What if, bought as a servant into a pretty loving home, ownership and control is what love looks like to me, and to you neglected and lonely growing up, love is gratefully taking any scraps of it you’re lent.
By belonging to someone, even if she comes back injured or fails at finding Delgal, she feels like she belongs and is cherished, by owning someone he feels safe in them not leaving him.

She’s what’s tethering him do you see… And he’s the only thing giving her direction and purpose in her state. She needs a compass and he needs a support.

They’re both so out of it 😭 It’s the weirdly intense and unearned mutual trust and reliance on each other?? They’re each other’s weird little comfort codependent teddy bear. Or at least they were headed towards that before SHE DIED THEN HE DIED THEN THEY BOTH FORGOT ABOUT EACH OTHER AND NEVER MET EVER AGAIN. Though she’s also the guard attack hound keeping him safe… And vice versa he heals her and can rewrite her very being with just one wave of his hand. They’re both so so mentally and physically vulnerable both but they cling onto each other. They can’t perceive things accurately but despite it all someway somehow they stumble into something closer to resembling companionship just before they both die. Falin is just that kind and Thistle is just that lonely. Overworked.
We both haven’t lived for ourselves in a very long time, haven’t we.


They both have a similar devotion to the people they love but again the difference is that Thistle starts overtsepping while Falin is self-effacing. The other difference between them is that people care about Falin <3 People have given up on Thistle long ago, and he has given people reasons to, while people refuse to give up on Falin. Yaad has a mini arc about it dw about it it’s ok he’s not all alone in the end 😭😭 He reached out for Marcille’s hand but they already all wanted to help him, they just had to be given the chance to, Yaad just had to be given the chance to, it’s okay I’m okay
Hey what if we learned to get in touch with our own identity and the world around us and living in the present again through being in the worst codependent situationship ever.
Falin and Thistle sitting in a tree, sucking on flowers together because they’re h-u-n-g-r-y 💕💕💕


I bet he’s only ever thought of flowers as useless ornaments. Weak weeds. But she shows him they’re tasty and useful and good and pretty in their own right too and deserve existing without proving their worth and waaa <33 Thistles…... Did you know thistles taste sweet if you remove the thorns and eat them?
"Even as a chimera, her kind nature remains" you can’t suppress her in the way that matters. You can’t soothe him in the way that matters. It’s doomed. You’re doomed. It’s all doomed. Save me.
#Spoilers#dungeon meshi manga spoilers#Thistle#falin touden#thistlin#OOOOH UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP THAT SOMEHOW WORKS OUT SAVE ME#I need them to be traumabonded kittens to not separate post-canon#I’m seeing a raise in post-canon thistle content/interest which makes me v happy#Fumi rambles#Falin learning to disobey orders with Thistle is one of my fave things. EAT THAT CURRY GIRL!!!! Nvm that it’s gonna get you killed#It’s good for the character arc#Falin and thistle sitting on a web o-b-s-e-s-s-i-n-g <3#This is somewhat of a tldr of my huge thistlin post. Plus some thoughts i had in discord or twitter#Keeping it for another day but tbh if you see their dynamic in canon as her thinking/having picked him as her mate it changes nothing#about her behavior which I find funny. Thistle accidentally claimed himself a parrot mate bc he’s bad with monsters confirmed#Ik my thing of them learning to relax and live in the present moment again is pretty fanon BUT IT’S WHAT KUI POINTED TOWARDS#With her calming him down from a panic attack and eating berries. With the baths for dandruffs. Etc. Thistle hasn’t socialized in a long#time and he wouldn’t if it wasn’t a tool he needed to interact with BUT it’s still socialization and it’s getting him in touch with his#surroundings again even if just a bit slowly but surely!! The Toudens have a superpower in reaching Thistle. Bless#How’s that one post go again. he refuses to develop he's part of the problem he maintains the cycle he's trapped in the cycle.#she's growing she's finding her place she escaped her original role she wants to help people she will never save him she will never save hi#Something something they have to abstract each other bc relationships with humans have always been too charged and unsafe#Only by seeing each other as more concept than person more object than peer can they truly be vulnerable#Like the fuckedupness lf their dynamic and state is WHY they’re so attached. Why their dynamic could be so raw and needy#The stars aligned in the worst way. Mission successfully faile#Tfw we both need to feel needed
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watching dead poets society with my mother and i cant make a single queercoded analysis this must be hell
#i pushed it by mentioning conformity in the metaphor (ha) of the christian church#she gave me a stink eye alone because i quickly reminded her what martin luther was fighting for (she loves the guy)#dead poets society#movies#neil perry#todd anderson#all im saying is that they totally kissed in the dorm room that 'im gonna be an actor' scene was gay as fuck#but separately the message about defying conformity really resonates with me#text post#my posts#movie about conformity and two guys who have a close friendship/little interest in women the formula is right there#as ive stated before my mom is sort of a horrible english major shes never willingly analyzed anything in her life#i hold the theory that she passed these skills on to me when she birthed me#yet another reason why i cannot have children what if i loose my passion for film and literature analysis#its especially bad bc i watch everything with a queer lens already on the camera death of the author bitch live laugh love
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Okay but why does picturing Shawn Spencer with a daughter whose mother passed away and is raising her with uncle Gus and Papa Henry make me super emotional.
Especially if the little girls other grandparents on her mother's side were a little upset about not being considered for full guardianship.
Imagine Carlton and Juliet finding out about his kiddo when they run into Shawn and Charlotte out for smoothies with Gus.
Juliet asks if this is a niece and bends down to her level to give Charlotte a little wave while Lassiter is silently cataloging all the similar facial features between Shawn and the little girl who is now hiding behind Shawn's legs.
He reaches around to pick her up and whispers something in her ear that Carlton can't quite hear.
"This is Miss Juliet and Mr Carlton, can you say hi Charlie?" Shawn says in the same soft voice, but loud enough for both Carlton and Juliet to hear this time.
Charlie shakes her head and buries it in Shawn's neck, he reaches up and strokes her curly brown hair, "sorry guys, she's a bit tired, we normally are home by now for her afternoon nap but uncle Gus insisted on smoothies".
"Um, excuse me, in what universe are you living? You absolutely wanted smoothies too--" Gus tries to interject but is cut off by a gasp from Juliet.
"Wait a second, she's yours??" Juliet blurts out, her blue eyes wide with shock, "when were you going to tell us?"
"Eventually," Shawn says cryptically after a beat.
He shifts the little girl in his arms slightly, away from the pair of Detectives, protectively for some reason, as though worried that one of them will snatch her out of Shawns arms at any moment.
"Look I can explain later, right now I have to get her home, Gus, I'll see you later".
And with that, Shawn grabs his bag from the table beside him and books it out of the smoothie place, leaving Gus with their drinks and a pair of thoroughly confused Detectives.
#my head canon with this is that her grandparents are definitely the type to call Shawn unfit to take care of Charlotte so they can take her#she is all they have left of their daughter who passed so its understandable but they also live in another state#shawn is a wonderful dad but nervous about Charlotte being known about#with his line of work she could be in danger and that would mean that his custody could be revoked#its easier to just keep this part of himself separate and hidden#psych thoughts#psych tv#psych fanfiction#shawn spencer#some whump potential
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i dunno that i would ever write a s.quid games verse for chiyo bc i don’t think it’d really get used, but man… i love it and i’m thinking of college drop out chiyo prior to getting her foot into the manga industry… ma’am was struggling and probably could’ve gotten roped into a game if you caught her in the right moment. it’d be interesting to see how she’d act in that setting ( i say, knowing she’s a self-sacrificing hero )
#BUT!!! could she stand to kill another person?? how would she handle it???#i mean in other verses she kinda has some reasoning that allows her to accept it and move on eventually — a motivation or state of being#but in that situation it comes down to ‘ i want to live and i want my friends to live ’#which is a good reason but i just know she’d struggle with the blood on her hands maybe not in the moment#but if she got out#in the moment chiyo is crying and then compartmentalizing i think#she’s trying to be strong bc others are struggling around her too#man i love herrrr and this show has me by the throat i fear :’ )))#get ready to ramble | ooc
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2, 4, 14 conall and 6, 10, 16 brigid?
2. What were their expectations going into the Conclave?
Conall was... I'd say cautiously optimistic going into the Conclave. I think if there wasn't a part of him that genuinely thought that good could come out of it, that the war could be ended, then he simply wouldn't have gone. He would've stayed on the run. But as it is, I think Conall, for all he doesn't really believe and for all he hates the way the Chantry has treated people, still has a part of him that wants to see the Chantry as an institution that can bring peace, if the right person is at the head of the operation.
4. Was there anything in their life they were looking forwards to doing once the Conclave was done?
Going home. Conall up until this point has spent the majority of his life in the Ostwick Circle, with extremely infrequent communication with/visits with his family. Part of this is on him, part of this is on his family members, but also a part is obviously on the nature of the Circles. He misses his sisters, man. But at this point, it's been so long that seeing his sisters no longer entails going home, and while I think he knows that he's not quite registered the fact that they won't be there anymore. So a lot of the time leading up the Conclave is filled with him thinking "at least I get to go home when this is over".
14. What type of Inquisitor are they? What are their motivations? How do they lead?
This is a weirdly hard question to answer for me and I don't know why. Conall starts out very compassionate, driven, and trusting. He wants to help as many people as possible and he wants the other mages to be free and he trusts far too frequently. As time goes on, I think the wanting to help as many people as possible stays but it becomes so much harder to do, to believe that he can do it, and he gets significantly more jaded.
6. Is the Herald impacted by Justinia's death? Or do they move on quickly?
Yeah, I'd say so. I don't think Brigid had a relationship with Justinia or anything, but she respected Justinia greatly and certainly mourns her. And there's also the immediate onset anxiety of "Hey, so what the fuck happens now?" that comes when the Divine and every single potential option for the next one is killed in on fell swoop. Not a good time for her, is what I'm saying.
10. What are the Herald's opinion on the Mage Rebellion and on mage rights?
Deeply, deeply complicated. Brigid isn't a die-hard, "The Chantry can do no wrong" Andrastian, but she is a sister, she does believe, so I think she really wants the Circles to be a net good for the world. But she also has a little brother who she hasn't seen in years because of the Circle, who may or may not be alive because for all she knows he was at the Conclave or he's been killed by some templar in the woods or he was killed by another mage when the rebellion first began. She also talks to a number of people in and around Redcliffe before making any firm decisions about whether to ally with the mages or templars, so their testimonies do not do great things for her already tumultuous thought process.
The thing about Brigid is that if things were a little bit different, I think she would side with the templars, or at least wouldn't take the mages on as full allies. A part of her, despite herself, is wary of them and the power they hold. But right now, despite a whole lot, I think the templars seem like the less reliable option. They don't want to follow the Chantry or the Inquisition, and Brigid being a sister makes her a very weird intersection of both, she does not make for a good leader for them. And on a much more selfish note, a part of her really wants to believe that her brother is alive, that he's out there somewhere, and that if she makes it clear to the world that the Inquisition supports the plight of the rebel mages (even if it isn't entirely true to her own values), then maybe he'll show up at their doorstep one day. She can hope.
16. What are the Inquisitor's thoughts on their advisors Leliana, Josephine and Cullen? Who do they listen to the most?
I think she's closest personally to Josephine. There's just something about the Josephine and her sense of humor that I think charms Brigid immediately. I think she trusts Leliana implicitly as her spymaster (Justinia wouldn't have chosen her if she wasn't good for the job, she clearly has loyalty to the Inquisition), but she's very wary of her as a person, probably until her personal quest. Despite my opinions on the matter, I think she trusts and genuinely enjoys the company of Cullen.
#space rambles#conall trevelyan#brigid trevelyan#dragon age inquisition#long post#(not really but to be safe)#also i know exactly who sent this ask so i know that it knows but for those of you who don't:#brigid and conall are my trevelyans and they are siblings!#conall is 5 years younger than her and a mage and brigid is a rogue and a chantry sister#both of them are at the conclave for their own reasons and i have two world states in my head with them#one where conall is the one to stumble on the ritual and live and one where brigid is the one who lives#they also have another sister named erin (who's 9 years older than brigid and 14 years older than conall)#she lives in antiva and she's my rook's mom#i think about them. all the time.#conall was my first inquisitor and i haven't gotten to actually play brigid because i've been at school but i'm so excited about her
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I wish So Bad that I could confidently recommend lob corp and library of ruina to people because they're both genuinely rly good games and I also need ppl I know to understand the insanity that is project moon but like godddd they are a fucking Investment. Both in time and in brainpower. I generally think ppl exaggerate how hard lob corp is but it's certainly not easy and when it does get hard it gets HARD. Also it literally requires at least one day 1 reset (basically a new game+) to fully beat the game and at this point I've done at least 10. And for lor I'm not nearly as far in and I'm just scratching the surface of the real game but it's a beast of its own. Also 100+ hours and also hard as hell. Like this game does not fuck around with its difficulty spikes it will make you use your brain and it will give you a damn headache in the process. It's also one of my favorite card combat games I've ever played with mechanics that just so beautifully complement each other to create a dynamic and interesting battle system that gives it a completely different vibe and feeling than any other deck builder games I've played to the point where it almost feels wrong to me to categorize them together. But also I am not even slightly joking abt the headache thing every time I play this damn game I close it with a horrible headache and have to take a multi day break. I think everyone should experience this with me <3
#rat rambles#for the record I have not played limbus company nor do I plan to but the cast is rly good and I know a lot of ppl vouch for it#let it be known if I ever do get around to reading limbus stuff I will become obsessed with outis shes so me bait#youre telling me shes a middle aged woman a war criminal and a bootlicker? sign me the fuck up#I <3 crusty dusty women who suck ass#also ofc don is also the beloved but thats a given#the real question would be which of the other limbus women would comsume my life#because theyre all contenders for characters that could make me go insane. for better or for worse.#also reason number 500 that everyone I know should play these games is that its sooooo fun to make project moon ocs#ofc I and I imagine most ppl mostly make nugget ocs (aka your employees and combat units in the first two games)#but like its just fun to make ocs in this world in general#the worldbuilding of this game is like 90% built on 'would that be fucked up or what?' and I adore it for that#theyll just be like yeah theres a whole faction that follows these things called prescripts which can range from super simple stuff to#literally impossible stuff and if you aren't able to follow them you will be killed and theres a guy whos job it is to hand them out and he#has to routinely inform people to their face that they have to destroy their lives or die and it eventually breaks him#and you go ok cool Im still not over the teleporting trains that dont actually instantly teleport but instead travel through pocket#dimensions over the course of thousands of years during which the passengers can be injured and mangled and feel pain but not die and it's#not uncommon for whole societies to be formed in them but once they arrive to their destination the state of all the passengers is#perfectly reverted back to their state uppon entering leading to them being none the wiser of anything that had previously happened to them#and they go yeah haha we liked love town too anyways wanna watch this robot have another mental breakdown#and you go fuck yeah and get your ass handed to you
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“Well Doc? What do you think? Can I pull off your look?”
This was prompted by a cute idea my friend and I were talking about where Rivet tries on Starline’s coat and he adjusts and fixes it for her because she didn’t put it on right.
But uh— then I went overboard and wanted to see if she could pull off his entire look, so, let’s just say hypothetical-villain-Rivet has been born!
Starline’s more just stunned that what’s going on in front of him somehow works.
#I’m in a rivetline state right now#i need fluffy wholesome to combat the sad I’m writing right now#sonic#sonic idw#dr starline#sonic oc#live doc reaction#starline the platypus#rivet the cat#rivetline#sonic oc x canon#yes sir that is your girlfriend and she’s somehow pulling off your look#maybe I’ll do some more art another time of a role reversal AU#villain rivet would be terrifying#she’d actually end up worse than Starline#my art#digital art#Starpoint Squad AU#Restoration Arc
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Learning Curve Hall-of-Famer right here. Tuvok making Chell clean the transporter room with the equivalent of a toothbrush as, I assume, a punishment of some sort & Harry coming out of left field with a 'You missed a spot <3' just to kick him while he's down. Harry, the man's gonna be there LITERALLY all day. Absolute bastards these Starfleet types <- said with love
#learning curve#Tuvok confiscating the Bajoran earring is obviously bad but his entire method of training is also just so ... it's a Lot#He's such a drill sargent v_v It's moments like these that make me think he and Harry would well together in the mirrorverse#B'Elanna: ?? But he'll be at it for hours! / Kim: (knowing that's the point) : ) .....#B'Elanna: Well good luck! / Harry: You missed a spot : )#Tuvok: Ten laps around the ship in increased gravity. Ten more laps if you talk back to me. Twenty. Thirty. Forty.#Twenty six hours scrubbing the floor as punishment. No stopping for water. I expect you to improve daily or I will consider this a failure.#Also Tuvok: I just don't understand why they aren't responding well to my training....hmm.... / Neelix: ................ : ) Um.#People like to focus on Tuvok as a good mentor or father figure but I really think that's only to very select and specific people about#select & specific things - this rigidity and lack of compassion and inability to understand others and general#vibe of being uncaring is also part of his personality#Like what Neelix said: 'That's the problem - you have no feeling for me but you have feelings against me' <- That sort of vibe#<- And also the fact that he's very close with Janeway despite (or perhaps because of) this is another interest component of them#Janeway who at the start of the show stated explictly that she was comfortable with her distance as Captain (which hints that she's not#like say - Pike. Who wants to get to know his crew intimately)#Idk I just think it's interesting!#Janeway & Tuvok as colder than other Human/Vulcan pairs is something that intrigues me. Janeway being comfortable with distance from others#and heavily segmenting her personal vs private lives and Tuvok who is the most quintessential Vulcan also being the closest to her for the#longest time (They've been friends 20 years prior to the show's opening)#There's no component of their relationship which demands Tuvok be more Human which is something I /WISH/....we EXPLORED more....the#Janeway-Tuvok friendship....it's SO telling that other Main Vulcan-Human pairs are like the most delved into relationships on screen but#Tuvok & Janeway's relationship is paid lip service but never REALLY is any time devoted to it explicitly. I wonder why that IS.
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“…The Anglo-Saxon era is often thought of as having been a golden age for women. Since the late eighteenth century, it has been a commonplace that women in England had better rights before the Norman Conquest than they did afterwards, and were held in higher esteem by society. Before 1066, said one eminent historian in the mid-twentieth century, men and women enjoyed ‘a rough and ready partnership’. As so often with golden ages, however, this picture rests on a selective reading of very limited and debatable evidence. One of its principal props is an account of German women written by the Roman historian Tacitus towards the end of the first century AD. These women, claimed Tacitus, were virtuous, frugal and chaste, and supported their sons and husbands by encouraging them to acts of valour. But this was simply a Roman praising ‘barbarian’ society in order to criticize his own. German women were portrayed as laudable because, unlike their Roman counterparts, they did not conduct adulterous affairs or waste their time at baths and theatres. The reality, unfortunately, seems to be that the status of women in first-century Germany and Anglo-Saxon England was no better than it was in later centuries.”
— Marc Morris, "Anglo-Saxons: The History of the Beginnings of England, 400-1066” / Pauline Stafford, "Women and the Norman Conquest"
"Anglo-Saxon England has thus been a Golden Age variously of women's domestication, women's legal emancipation, women's education and women's sexual liberation. The length of a tradition which has changed so fundamentally over time is no guarantee of its veracity. A cursory view of a range of evidence from either side of the 1066 divide casts immediate doubt on the idea of a brutal Norman ending of the Golden Age. The raw statistics of Domesday, for example, suggest a different picture of England on the eve of the Norman arrival. No more than five per cent of the total hidage of land recorded was in the hands of women in 1066. Of that five per cent, 80-85% was in the hands of only eight women, almost all of them members of the families of the great earls, particularly of earl Godwine, or of the royal family. By the tenth and eleventh centuries women other than the queen are virtually absent from the witness lists of the royal charters, and thus apparently from the political significance such witness lists record.”
#anglo-saxons#anglo-saxon england#norman conquest#english history#gender tag#medieval#I don't necessarily agree with Stafford about Henry I#He did name his daughter Matilda his heir but it's not really as simplistic as she makes it seem#We know he remarried soon after his son's death to a young woman who he travelled extensively with her to try and conceive another son#It was only after 5 years when it became clear that he and his second queen weren't having kids that he nominated Matilda#And even then he never shared authority with her (including authority in her own dower lands that HE gave her)#Also as multiple historians have pointed out - while Matilda was his immediate heir it's highly likely that he hoped to live long enough#to directly transfer the kingdom to his eldest grandson#Even some of Matilda's own supporters seem to have viewed the situation in a similar manner - for example the Gesta Stephani states that#Robert of Gloucester viewed Henry Plantagenet as his grandfather's true heir#ie: many contemporaries probably unfortunately viewed Matilda as a 'transitional point' so to speak#So while I do think that Henry I should be remembered as someone who tried to pass the throne to his daughter#I don't really think the picture was as straightforward or as empowering (in a sense) as Stafford paints it as#The reality was much more complex and frustrating and typical of its times#And I do think it does Matilda a disfavour to overlook that
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I feel like if a child is old enough to understand the concept of death and that their loved one has died, there’s no reason why going to a funeral would be any more upsetting than knowing they are dead in the first place. if the child is too young to understand the concept of death (ie a toddler or baby) there is also no reason not to take them to the funeral unless having to take care of them there would be distracting or burdensome on their parents.
#I was 5 when my grandma died and I don’t believe I attended the funeral bc she lived in another state (iirc my dad flew to Georgia and my#mom stayed home w me and my brother) but I remember hearing she had died and being upset#and I don’t think it would have been harmful in any way for me to be at the funeral if it had made logistical sense
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philly anyone anyone philly geoffthony tour philly anybody. geoffthony july 11 anyone
#this is entirely sincere btw . this is the only date i wouldn't have 2 request a day off work (or call out 🤐)#and i can't drag my sister bc she has photosensitive something. probably undiagnosed epilepsy#can't drag the bestie lives in another state#so i am once again asking#i could also possibly do scranton or asbury park..
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