#she hated it cos of her mom

[irl]

fudge gna b ready n t-minus 8 hrs

[thetimelordbatgirl]

According to Rise of Red, defintion of girl power is uh, shaming a girl, aka Chloe Charming, for uh...being a princess??? For being kind??? For being a rule obeyer??? For not liking getting dirty when there's literally nothing wrong with characters who don't like getting dirty- Seriously, this movie's odd love for shaming a female character can kinda go up there with D1's whole Mal shames Audrey scene to cheer up Evie....and maybe overtake it as worst time Descendants did this because at least that was one scene, this was a whole ass sub plot in Rise of Red for some reason.

[ahalliance]

anyone else feel like the joker

transcript [eng] below

[Video Transcript:

[First clip 18/05/2023 plays.]

Baghera: We have to teach [Pomme] to be a bit more vigorous, because she’s kinda scared of everything. We have to teach her how to live

Etoiles: Well we just need some stuff

Baghera: No but in the sense of— I get the impression that she doesn’t dare have fun because she’s scared of everything because of me. So we have to get her going

Etoiles: Uh…

Baghera: Yes, yes! I’m invested, Etoiles

Etoiles: Me, I gotta farm

[Second clip 19/12/2023 plays.]

Baghera: Well, we’re here to have fun, I thought you were talking about having fun, Etoiles!

Etoiles: The problem is if I don’t win [Purgatory 2] Pomme will be sad and I don’t want her to be sad

Baghera: But Pomme hasn’t been around for a long time!

Etoiles: Well yeah, she’s here, she’s in my heart and in everyone’s heart

end Video Transcript.]

[zeussim]

Ugh I am CONTINUING the traumadumping. But recently I went on a trip with my mom and aunt, and my mom bad a bit too much to drink and started talking about how awful my father is etc. and then she turned to and looked at me and said "you just run away" blaming me for leaving when my father was being a piece of shit, when all I've done for the past 10 yrs is stay, protect and put her first. And then she blamed me for the one time I left bc he yelled at me and I refused to stay under those circumstances. How selfish can a mother fucking be? I've endured him my whole life, I've always stayed with her when she's guilted me into staying no matter how uncomfortable and sick I felt. How dare she not acknowledge that? Because she is utterly incapable. She's a completely selfish being who can only think of how big a victim she is and how everybody ought to help her because she's so pitiful. And frankly, I am sick of it. I've always had to cater to her and never oppose her. When I was in treatment for depression and suicidal thoughts, who do you think played the victim-card and still does by talking about how hard it was sitting outside and waiting for me??? Ehm??? Mam? I was the one fucking dying. You were the one who ignored it when I told you I wasn't feeling well, and when I told you two years prior to discovering my depression at 14 that I had wanted to kill myself when I was 10, the only thing you said was "oh but then I would lose my daughter" and that was it. You didn't fucking use your brain to go "hmmm maybe my CHILD shouldn't be suicidal. Hmmm maybe she's telling me this bc she still is. Hmmm"

She's always been able to say whatever she wants to because she is the victim, while I have never been able to say anything to her because she is the victim. And every time I would dismiss her harshly after days of holding back, she would use it against me and blame me for being mean to her. I've always had to put her emotional needs before my own. Always. And she has never and will never see an issue with that. She may provide materialistic stuff but I would've rather had someone give me emotional support and space. Space to be who I was and am, and space to grow freely without being confined by her and her ideals. She really wanted children, yet she has never realised what being a mother actually is. It is unconditional love, and it is letting your child grow with plenty of nurture, never cutting them down when you don't like their growth but instead letting them grow into the amazing being, they're supposed to - even if that is different from what you're like. You cannot expect your children to be mini-me's. Children grow and become amazing, healthy beings with love and understanding, not restrictions and scolding.

[pentacass]

solistre 5/x

[holdoncallfailed]

the first time i had dinner at my childhood bff's house they said grace which was the craziest shit in the world to me so the next night before dinner with my own parents i asked why we didn't say grace and they made fun of me :/

[morningmask27]

I'm going to be bitching about Star for a while now. I'll tag them all with #asc spoilers, but really what the fuck was this book?

[ghostzzy]

man. the fucking 4D chess.

[attractthecrows]

brooo i hate having Dreams That Piss You Off i woke up all pissed off at NOTHIIINNNNNGGGGG

[irl]

yea

[iamnathannah]

I guess I can say this finally...

Yes, my Glorbie NWSL soccer prompt (that I'll maybe post one day) does feature Sophia Bush-adjacent slander and Barbie is pretty much Ali Krieger because I can't deal with cheaters and Gloria is her salvation as the new owner, a Honduramerican Rebecca Welton (America looks hot in a suit skirted or panted, it's required).

[socialjusticeace]

How tf did "decenter men" turn into "decenter ur mom"???????

istg every single stride to dismantle misogyny always turns into 'This is a woman's fault somehow' or 'stigmatize mental disorders more it'll stop men and get to the root of the problem this time i swear'

[allofuswantgwinam]

I actually had the worst day I’ve had in awhile now but i survived it

[pepprs]

beaver gnawing on wood noises

[bunnyb34r]

Theres an item in the November lush box that smells so fucking good I wanna eat it, and it smells like something I used to eat as a kid and I cant figure out what 😭 I'm thinking it was a starburst limited edition or maybe a limited edition skittle

Anyway it's sooo good and I hope it wins as one of the new year round in store items bc 🥺💕

The big ass body soap like erupted when I opened it so I had to use it and it's sooo good too it's scrubby and my hands smell so good (well did... I just ate chicken wings sgdgdgs)

Also we got stickers and I saw them before I read any of the notes in the box and one says "I 💚 Gary" and we were like ??? The snail???

He's one of the inventors of these items agdgdgdgdg

[mxdotpng]

im STILL angry. its almost been an entire day and im STILL ANGRY