#sex education need

[goddess-of-frot]

The single benefit of so many transfems not being aware of how to touch and please themselves and other transfems is that when they do finally have sex with a transfem who does know, you get to touch them in places they never considered in ways they’d never thought and hear the hitch in their voice as their conception of sex melts away against the fingers pressed into them. Sex as educating them on their body and the new possibilities it’s capable of can be very hot, but also you can completely let it go to your head when she says it was the best sex she’s ever had.

[yuri-for-businesswomen]

i had a friend who was raped as a teenager and had a really strict mum who did not let her go out so she was really lonely. when she turned 18 she started going clubbing and since we live in a city with a big fetish scene, she started going to the kinky venue. since she was young, naive and very pretty, she was immediately roped in by older men who did bondage shootings with her and everything. she started working in the club. to me, she was clearly groomed, but she works in a fetish shop now and is fully immersed in the scene

i have a friend who answered a job ad for a secretary when she was abroad and she and her friend ran out of money but when they arrived there it was a brothel. they both prostituted themselves for several months. they were only 18. she still talks highly of that brothel, how clean and safe it was, and wants prostitution to be legal

i read the gut wrenching biography of a thai woman who ran away from home, whose parents refused her education and treated her brother very preferably while openly hating her, and entered prostitution in sex tourist destination pattaya at only 13. she was paid by men in their 50s first for her virginity, then to piss on her. she exited at 19 and developed psychosis. she defends sex buyers, hates feminists and wants prostitution to be legal

do you see where im going with this? brainwashing is real. despite the obvious facts, the grooming, the system that pushed and pulled them, the men taking advantage of them; they defend it. so yeah, we shouldnt dismiss firsthand testimony and personal experience, but always take it with a grain of salt, always contextualise, always see it as one part of a bigger picture. liberals dont do that and have duped too many people into not doing it either. „if thats her choice its none of our business“ fuck you!

[inkprilled]

Just before covid hit my brother and I at 15 and 19 found our selfs homeless. I had a choice, my brother would go into care or we could stay together, but only if I took responsibility for him and had somewhere to live. So I applyed for social housing, the guy that processed my case was sympathetic and at some points I was holding it together better than him, do you have any other family? No, Do you know where your mother is? I wish I did, how old is your brother? 15 are you in any fulltime education? Not anymore. He looked at me like I was something tragic and I suppose I was, there isn't a metaphor for what I looked like that works any better than just what his naked eyes saw; a girl abandoned by her mother, her life in a bag on her back completely thrown on how to deal with everything, and all he could do was fill out a form and send it and me off. it's going to be okay.

Somehow despite the odds we where given emergency accommodation and a year later a property to rent, I suspect we where pushed up the list because of my brothers age, we where lucky, some people wait years in hotels or streets all over the country, living out of suitcases and rucksacks.

As lucky as we where, luck didn't cover all the things I suddenly had to know. I had no idea how bills worked or paying my taxes, I didn't even really understand what "taxes" meant until the final notices where piling up in front of us. It's something they don't teach you in school or at least mine didn't. They never taught us how to survive in a world like this, they assume our parents would be there to explain or we'd be much older before it mattered. what's more useful in real life, how to formally address someone in an email or how to keep the lights on or how to find food when a tin of beans is too expensive.

Though I suppose the email ettique lesson was useful for something in the end,

To whomever it may concern, I'm writing to you regarding my payment plans and how I'm choosing to fork over alot of money and won't be buying enough food to live off this month. My regards.

[youruncleolaf]

derry girls 🤝 sex education

actresses moving on to historically set shows

[callhimnowmarisamylove]

"I was thinking about my wife... sorry, my ex-wife. I miss her. She's moved on, and I thought if I could have a fling, I might be able to move on too." "Can I ask you a question? Did the sex feel like you were cheating?" "It did. It felt like a betrayal."

MICHAEL and MAUREEN GROFF in SEX EDUCATION

[quinnigallagherjones]

NEED THESE TWO TO HAVE HAPPY AND HEALING ENDINGS PLEASE !!!!!

[kiakahawhovatic]

Okay but why is no one talking about the disability/accessibility scene in Sex Education 4x7? This is just a snippet of what myself and so many of us face on a daily basis.

We get left behind and discouraged both by our friends and the system DAILY. Yeah, we get a bit of support, sometimes the system will give us a little pat on the back and our friends will stand by us - but do you all see how hard daily life actually is?

When you see us as normal and coping, ask yourself - what do we have to do to support ourselves to make you feel like we fit in with your version of “normal”?

[86dove]

joey could be so, so tragic if anyone in this fandom wanted to think about him for more than five minutes

[rebeccahlamford]

Fellow aces, I need you to complete this questionnaire (only if you would like to!)

Particularly looking for asexuals of colour and/or British and Irish asexuals who aren't living in England to respond, but ALL responses welcome 😊

Go to https://tinyurl.com/acetvquestions to complete the survey and for more info! Thank you 💜

[crowlixcx]

I really am so glad that I came across Good Omens as a show that celebrates queerness with two middle-aged protagonists instead of high school kids

[buwheal]

Ooo you wanna look at the s4m posts so baaad /j

I hope you're doing well! I suppose since I've just drawn it, do you have any headcanons on Spamton’s identity? Either ygm or regular Spam. Anyway have a nice night you freak /lh

Swerving and skittering on the tile floor like some sort of fucked up creature towards the s4m tag Honestly? Im not super sure. I'd like to think all Addisons are pushed out the factory like a blank slate in terms of identity and pick up whatever they feel like along the way, which may be nothing, a lot of one side, everything inbetween, etc!!!!!! so many variations!!! As long as theyre selling products and raking it in, they could honestly care less what someone decides to be. I feel like for Spam's case he's defo chosen to be masculine because he likes the way he feels about himself that way, but im certain hes not one to shy away from some slightly more feminine things when hes feeling particularly more confident about himself (..not super often this guy is fucked up in so many ways),, makeup in particular he's fond of since hes so used to being slathered in it for ad shoots and whatnot from the BS era (cough because it also makes him look younger than he is, guy is aging </3) I am sure of one thing though, theres definitely something queer about this man, he's some flavor of faggot thats fs, i mean, look at what he's wearing. The duo colored glasses?? The v neckline?? Need i say more?

[ariofthevalleyofthewind]

THIS MOMENT

[tired-and-swaggy]

wait why did everyone else hate the end of sex education I didn’t think it was that bad actually

[sapphirebluejewel]

[thebigqueer]

the problem w so much media today is that they’re all obsessed w being representative and diverse which is a good thing in theory but then they focus so much on their diversity that they just lose the plot completely and it becomes mad boring

[isawthismeme]