#self-ship blog

[rays-selfship-madness]

[decoysatrn]

a conversation/realization Hori and his editor had about Bakugo and the final chapter

[sunflawyer]

has anyone done this yet

[tyrianludaship]

whatever you do, do NOT think about your normally stoic and temperamental F/O softening upon seeing you!!! do NOT imagine your normally grumpy and jaded F/O having a small smile when thinking of you!!! do NOT imagine warming your cold F/O's heart and being able to see a calmer, more peaceful side of them!! DO NOT-

[bunny-lovers]

Whatever you do don't imagine your f/o pre-relationship trying to show off whenever you're nearby. Don't imagine them looking over at you after doing something cool to see if you were watching. Definitely don't imagine them getting a bit flustered when they notice you were watching and you look proud.

proship/comship/neutral DNI

[stanfordsenbyhusband]

I love finding fanart of my f/o and immediately having to look away from my phone because aaaaaaaaa

Pro.shippers/com.shippers DNI please

[cocofawn]

do you ever so vividly imagine your fﾉo, it’s almost as if they were really there . . ?

you envision the curve of their spine, the slope of their shoulders, the contours of their face. 

the memory of their features is seared into the backs of your eyelids, burned into your mind. every detail is ingrained into your memory, from the exact shade of their hair to the precise angle of their nose.

you can recite the length and breadth of their form, the height of their stature, the weight of their limbs. you know the number of freckles on their skin, the width of their eyes, the length of their lashes. 

as you continue to slip deeper into your fantasy, you can hear their voice— you can, yes. the tone and timbre of their speech, the inflections in their words. you can recall their laughter, the sound ringing in your ears, the cadence reverberating in your chest.

you can even smell the faint traces of their perfume, the lingering scent of their shampoo, the heady aroma of their soap.

you can taste the kisses you conjure up in your mind, the sweetness of their lips . . or perhaps their saltiness.

they're there, they are real. you can sense them, you can feel them, you can reach out and touch them. and yet, they aren't, and you can't.

does anyone else feel this way, too . . ? does anyone else know what it's like, to have an imaginary companion, an ethereal lover, a spectral mate . . ?

[sora-rainsun]

This is me when I'm looking through someone's f/o list and I see a character from my favorite series that is unpopular/forgotten/most don't care about it:

[vampiiiiiire]

went to loving you island and all your f/os were there

[viktors-filipina-girlfriend]

[kay-selfships]

i don’t like certain ships with my f/os not because they’re problematic or anything but because i am a hater and they’re supposed to be with ME. hope that helps <3

[selfship-confession-box]

for a while, i ran two selfship imagines blogs: one strictly against proship and one that caters to proship to see how the two communities actually treat each other. I posted similar imagines on both blogs, none specifying the f/o's age, gender, etc, and nothing nsfw.

the proship blog's notifications were disgusting. people talking about the things they want to do to underaged characters, people fantasizing about feral animals, and one guy who pretended the imagines were about his irl sister he wanted to bang. I received the occasional "you need help" anon, but no threats or anything like that.

the no-proship blog? I received constant threats from the proship side. death threats. rape threats. one person made it a point to describe how he would "ruin" me every single day. another tried to doxx me (but ended up sending the address of a TJ Maxx halfway across the country). people talking about how I was "censoring the internet" and I need to "try reading some noncon to lighten up".

both blogs were deleted after a month, and I will never trust a proship person saying they're the ones being treated badly.

Dear god

[sunflawyer]

hey selfshippers, its okay to feel insecure sometimes. there are days when we feel like we dont deserve our f/os love, and thats okay. but please dont let it bring you down.

you looked up at them, eyes glistening with tears. "Do you ever wonder if... I mean, if you're truly happy with me? If I'm really the one you want to be with?"

they pulled you into their arms, their thumb gently brushing away a tear you hadn't realized had fallen. "Hey, listen to me," they began, their voice earnest and steady.

"You are my one and only. The day I met you, my life changed forever. You bring me joy, laughter, and love every single day. I can't imagine my life without you, and I don't want to."

their lips met your forehead and lingered there, "I love you," they whispered, "whether you believe it or not, I love you."

[tyrianludaship]

F/Os that make you experience the 5 stages of grief when you realize that you like them

[bunny-lovers]

When you see your f/o again after not appearing for a long time:

proship/comship/neutral DNI

[platonic-qpr-selfshipping]

hello selfship community can I offer you this