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Happy birthday jimmy!

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hii selfshippers!! if your f/o has trauma or even ptsd, imagine comforting them after they've had a nightmare

they wake up or even jolt awake looking really distressed and panicked. you realize what happened and take some time to tell them that they're safe, and that nothing here can hurt them

it might take a while for them to be ready to go back to sleep, so you could spend that time getting them something warm to drink or holding them in your arms. maybe they want to vent a bit and tell you about their nightmare. this could be their first time opening up or maybe you already know all about what happened. maybe they don't even need to vent at all and your silent comfort is more than enough to make them feel better. either way, your f/o appreciates what you did so much and feels safest when they're with you :)

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hi, ur f/o loves you regardless of how emotionally open or distant you are!

if you feel that you share too much, open up too quickly, or tell your whole life story from the get go — your f/o loves you and loves knowing everything about you! they’re so glad that you felt comfortable enough to open up.

if you’ve been burned in the past, find it a little hard to be emotionally open, hesitate to share how you’re feeling — your f/o understands and loves you. they’ll be patient and they won’t push! they’ll be there when you’re ready, and they’ll be a safe space even when you’re not.

your f/o loves all assets of you — including the ones that you’re enthusiastic to share, and ones that you aren’t quite ready to talk about ♥️

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your f/o having a crush on you but they’re the worst at hiding it .. always perking up at the mention of your name , getting you gifts and paying for your food , offering to take trips with you and do things for you , rambling on and on about you with their friends with the sweetest smile and flushed face , always stuck to your side whenever you’re around .. and somehow , it’s obvious to everyone but you ;3

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reminder: your f/o is YOURS. nobody sees the character in the exact same way as you- everyone’s perception of them is at least a little different. your version is yours and nobody else’s <3

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parallel play with your f/o! imagine you both doing your own thing on the couch. maybe you're playing a game while your f/o gets work done on their laptop, or you're both doing your own respective crafts. are you in silence, or is there a movie or music on?

sharing snacks between you two!! asking for advice or making a sound that they echo back!! wonderful vibes fr

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this might be a bit of a specific post but your f/o will talk to you like a normal person

they're not going to constantly tell you about how difficult it is to talk to you compared to others, won't treat you like you're an alien among humans, or act like talking to you is like trying to figure out our world's biggest mysteries. they'll literally just talk to you

if or when you do need a bit of extra clarification, can't word something right, or anything else then they literally won't mind at all. the way you talk isn't a burden to them at all because you're a person like everyone else. it's literally not a problem in the slightest. who cares. if anyone is mean then fuck them

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drawing yourself with your f/o really does wonders. seeing the two of you side by side, how fitting you look next to each other. especially if it's a romantic pose or the expressions convey their deeply adoring feelings toward you, it's a good way to see it represented physically how lovely you are in their eyes.

please be kind to yourselves, see what your f/o sees, see how the two of you together become the picture of love itself <3

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I had a mental breakdown today lmao so I felt like finally contributing to the selfship community with some imagines <3

Imagine your f/o pulling you into their arms after a really rough day, comforting you in just the way you need.

Imagine your f/o making you dinner while you're given a chance to sit and process everything that's happened before they gently ask you about it.

Imagine your f/o holding you close as you finally fall asleep, feeling warm and loved because even though your day might have been trash, it was all worth it to come home to them.

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If there’s certain things you’re struggling with and you’re trying your best to make some changes for the better, but maybe you feel underappreciated or overlooked by others in your life for the things you’re doing; whether it’s big or small steps you’ve taken that you’re personally proud of, it's okay to feel that way. It's not a bad thing to want some attention for things you've accomplished. Just know that your f/o recognises all your efforts, and they’re so proud of you! Just keep going; you’re doing great, and remember your f/o is always there for you when you need it! (˶´ ˘ `˶) .☘︎ ݁˖

(Pro/Comshippers + Neutrals fuck off! This post ain’t for you!)

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for romantic/qpr f/os

Thinking about f/os being absolutely obsessed with you, mostly silently. Keeping a photo of you or something of yours with them at all times. Staring at you when they can, keeping close to you, close enough where they know your scent, absouletely NOT locked in when it comes to you

If anyone mentions stuff that even remotely relates to you in their mind, you're all they'll thinking about for the next hour and the next, over and over.

They're spinning you in their brain like a microwave, listening to a song over and over just so you'll stay in their thoughts

( Ib: @dolliepiilled )

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rereading this for happy support 🥹🥹💖💖💖

I know we don’t interact much (mostly because I’m shy) but I just wanted to let you know that whenever I see you show up on my dash, you just radiate so much warmth and positivity through your posts that it’s actually very comforting to see how kind you always are to folks and how inspiring you are! And I’m sorry you been dealing with negativity lately, but I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day/night! (@candyheartedchy)

Oh my goodness Chy!! Hi Chy!!! 💓!!!

This is just so, so, comforting to me 🥹 I'm so happy that I can bring some positivity and kindness for you and everyone! 🧡 I'm still trying to achieve it, and there are lots of obstacles along the way, but I hope I can continue to spread the love around and make the community as welcoming as possible!

I can't believe this! 🥹💗 This means a lot to me thank you so, so much Chy 😭😭💛 I'm so happy you think of me that way, its like the biggest compliment ever...!! You're my biggest inspiration and your encouragement motivates me to stay and keep doing what I love. Thank you, truly! 🥹

i hope you dont mind me drawing coral and abby as a thank you for this message! 🥹💜

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i like his stupid nose

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has anyone done this yet

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THANK YOU FOR THE TAG KURT SHFKV 💖💖💘💖💘💖💘💖💘💖

the song is so sweet i keep humming it lately ...💖

taglist: @over--heaven @iceicewifey @devizakura @showyoutheworldinmyeyes @sheepie-self-ships @dogcodedcatboy @bobmckenzie aand others! 🧡

ATTENTION

If you see this you are OBLIGATED to reblog w/ the song currently stuck in your head :)

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Just received my commission from my good friend and pal @kylilah !!! Goddd we are so cute, you captured us perfectly!!!

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“Holy cow! I think I've got one here Now just what am I supposed to do? I've got a number of irrational fears That I'd like to share with you.”

AH GUESS WHO JUST GOT THEIR COMMISSION WHAAHAAHAHAHAHA, LOOK AT THEM I LOVE IT SO MUCH

thank you sooooo much again @jils-things for this, i really really love how this turned out 😖

dividers by @/strangergraphics-archive

tag list!! — form on my pinned post

@iceicewifey @wisp-herr-rbs @bambikisses66 @over--heaven @charlies-crushes @wuffverine @ogatawife