#self ship ask games

[starseverance]

Age Gap F/O Asks

How big is the age gap between you and your F/O?

Did either of you hesitate getting into a relationship because of the age difference age?

Do you like the age gap, or are you indifferent/unhappy with it?

Does the age gap have a big effect on your relationship?

How would your relationship change if you were the same age?

How would your relationship change if you switched ages?

Do you notice any big generational differences between you?

Does the age gap in your relationship lend itself to a power dynamic, or are things balanced between the two of you?

Have you ever faced judgement for your difference in age?

Has your relationship ever been mistaken for something other than romantic?

Please do not copy/repost <3

[watermelonselfship]

🌈

🌈Rainbow: What was the happiest moment in your lore for you/your self-insert? Who all shared that happiness with you in canon?

The happiest was probably a close tie between when Crow explained his DID to the wereyote pack he was accepted into and his adoptive niece was born to, and when after having to out himself to the Pines family + Fiddleford as a wereyote to rescue his niece he was not just immediately accepted but also finally given the help they both needed.

The first one was while he was sent by the entity im referring to as Normalizing Force to eradicate the pack, actually. NF had, since Crow and Song were very young, convinced them that she was an angel sent to rid the world of evil and strangeness. They worked together until they were about 35-ish? And Crow was tasked to destroy a wereyote pack for being weres. Crow, instead of blindly following orders like he was expected to, just. Ended up talking to them. He realized that he and Song felt more seen with them than he'd ever felt anywhere else.

In that packs culture, having two selves was a normal and natural part of life. Some pack members viewed their coyote self as an integrated part of one's identity that was fragmented due to the transformation. Others saw it as a seperate being that took control of their body under the full moon- but one who's self and input were valued and celebrated. They were a team, not enemies fighting for control of a shared body. So when Crow explained his DID to his adoptive niece's parents(and omitted NF's occasional body possession), they not only understood him, but accepted both Crow and Song with open arms. So much so that later down the line they would agree when he asked them to turn him, and integrated them fully into their family. It's because of that bond that when NF eventually attacked the pack on her own, Crow was entrusted to keep his niece safe from harm, the girl about four years old or so.

The second was honestly extremely similar. His niece had snuck out to hang out past curfew with Dipper and Mabel, who had returned to Gravity Falls the next summer after the show ended. She and Crow ended up there after about a decade on the run from NF, who was kept at bay outside of Gravity Falls by the same barrier that a year before kept Bill's Weirdmageddon in. So she felt safe enough to start breaking rules. Unfortunately that rule was put in place because it was a full moon that night, and she transformed at a really inopportune time. It scared Dipper and Mabel who instinctively called out for their Grunkles, and Ford (who didn't know that they even had a friend over because he was busy chatting with Fiddleford who was visiting as well), hit the room first. Seeing what he believed to be a monster in the room with his nibblings, obviously he responded with strong force, and chased her out with the intent to kill or capture.

Crow, by this point, had realized that she was gone and despite being transformed himself took the risk and ran out into the night to find her to keep her safe. He tracked her quickly, dread in the pit of his stomach when he realized where she'd run off to- he didn't at this point get along all that well with Stanford for a handful of reasons, but he knew that when he had her cornered and raised his crossbow, he needed to act. He jumped between the two and covered her with his body, growling with his tail tucked.

Fiddleford, having heard the younger twins explain that the wereyote that Ford was chasing was actually their friend, caught up just before he pulled the trigger, and managed to get him to lower it. He had realized that if she was a Wereyote, it stood to reason that Crow/Song, her Auntle (combination aunt and uncle) likely was one too.

He reached his hand out and put it on the bridge of his snout, and the immediate relief in that touch was palpable. They all ended up going to the mystery shack after the tension broke, and when the sun rose the two changed back. Then, Crow could finally explain the situation- something he'd been dodging because the decade of running had him putting up walls so high he didn't think they could ever come down.

This is where the actual happiest moment comes in. After explaining everything, including the fact that he could sometimes still see NF's true form crackling across the dome around gravity falls at night, trying to break in, Fiddleford offered without hesitation to help kill or banish or otherwise get rid of NF. Ford looked uncomfortable during the explanation (too close to home for him), but immediately backed up Fiddleford. Stan definitely would have also but he was helping the kids with breakfast so not actually included in the convo, but would sign on later that day.

After so many years of having to protect his niece on his own with just him and Song, the promise that they belonged in Gravity Falls, and that there were still people who were willing to help him broke him. The immenseness of that relief made room for so much joy in his heart, and he finally was able to start seeing a future for himself. And it didn't involve running anymore. He'd always kept a strong face for his niece who he didn't want to grow up afraid, but in that moment he was able to just break and cry openly about the fact that if everything went to plan? They'd both be free soon.

[hatorishimaselfship]

💗: what was your first impression of me?

Relevant Ask Game Context

(as such this will be directed as though the ask was from Yashiro)

As rude as this might be to say, my first impression wasn't that special. Just another name on a list of students to teach that year - the second impression is what had something special to it.

My second impression was that it would be good to look out for you given everything you had been through. Trying to summon a ghost because you couldn't take one more day of waiting in regards to being loved back? Going as far as letting him pull you about and suggest weird ways of romance that I'm not sure he even knew himself...

All to the point you swallowed a mermaid scale and owed him a favor, to the point I got concerned for your safety. My first impression from that is that you were a complete disaster that needed someone to keep an eye on everything you keep getting yourself into, Yashiro! But... that's not always a bad thing. I'm a disaster, too, and... as long as you're continuing to be as thoughtful and as understanding as you are, that's what matters. It makes your life more fun, too, and that's the most important thing.

[happybird16]

🍷😚👻🥄🎃 :3

Hi Kat!!!

For 🍷, 👻, and sorta included 😚 i already answers those here

🥄: Whose the big spoon and who's the little spoon?

I move around a lot in my sleep, so he always has to put some of his weight on me to keep me in place. Instead of spoons, Levi sleeps on top of me, with his head resting on my chest. Sometimes we swap places though!!

🎃: What Halloween costumes would you and your f/o wear? Do you match?

Getting Levi in a costume is like pulling teeth. He doesn't want to do anything too difficult, or anything that requires greasy face makeup. (That's fine the stuff feels disgusting anyways). I tend towards more simple costumes anyways, so he usually doesn't argue too much with whatever i pick out for our couples costume. I tend towards scary though, and he's not huge on covering himself in fake blood 🩸 We'd rock costumes like zombies, vampires, demons etc!! He doesn't always match me though, he didn't want to be Krillin to my 18 :((

[deathdetermineslife]

domestic life f/o ask game!

🛌 - do you and your f/o sleep in the same bed? if you do, do you have a favorite and least favorite thing about sleeping together?

💐 - do you have a garden? what does it look like? do you instead keep flowers in your home? what kind?

🪺 - what does your dream back/front yard look like?

⛈️ - what do you do when there's bad storms? is there anything you do to comfort each other? or maybe you like to watch the storms?

🧭 - what's your ideal travel spot? if you could own a vacation home with your f/o, where would your home be?

🎂 - do you have any special birthday celebrations you partake in every year?

🎇 - do you and your f/o have a favorite holiday to celebrate together? what is it? do you have different holidays you like celebrating?

🔑 - which one of you locks themselves out of the house more often?

🛀 - do you and your f/o take baths together? do you have a favorite bath salt or soap to use when you do?

🌡️ - when you or your f/o gets sick, do you take care of each other? what do you do?

☃️ - in the winter time, is there anything fun you two do together? make snowmen, snow angels, bake holiday treats?

🥧 - have you and your f/o tried to bake something together? how did it go? what did you make?

🃏 - if you and your f/o were to be snowed in for several days with no power, what would you two do to keep away boredom?

🎬 - is there a go to movie that you and your f/o watch on a movie night? do they have a favorite? who picks the movies?

🕯️ - do you keep candles in your home? what kinds of candles do you like? what kinds do your f/o like?

(reblog to use :) feel free to send me and anyone you see reblogging this some asks! have a nice day :D)

[selfshipaskgames]

F/O Takeover Ask Game:

These questions are for your (F/O)s to answer about you!

⏰: If you had to very publicly profess your love for (S/I), how would you do it?

🆘: How do you let (S/I) know that they’re on your mind when you’re someplace crowded?

🧸: What does your bed look like? Is it just you and (S/I)? Are there stuffed animals? How many blankets and pillows do you have? Do you prefer the bed to be hot or cold?

👾: What are your favorite things to do with (S/I)? Who’s better at them?

🎃: Are you or (S/I) artsy at all? Do you ever hand-make things for each other?

😍: What color do you think looks the best on (S/I)?

☀️: Does (S/I) have an outfit that you think they look most attractive in? If so, what outfit is it?

🌾: Name five of your favorite things about (S/I). (Feel free to be as descriptive as you want!)

🚮: How do you deal with someone bothering (S/I)?

💐: If you saw this thing in the store, you would instantly buy it for (S/I)! What is the thing?

🦋: What’s the most special moment that you and (S/I) have ever shared?

[lipsticklens]

-ˏˋ self ship ask game ! જ⁀➴𖹭

🤍 : how did you first meet your f/o? what made you realize you were falling in love with them? what made them realize they were falling in love with you?

🫧 : who makes the other one laugh more, you or your f/o? do you tell each other jokes, or is it more a natural sense of humor?

🐇 : do you and your f/o have a pet together? if so, tell us about it! ( what's its name? what kind of animal is it? what's its temperament? ) if not, would you ever get one together?

🐚 : do you give each other gifts often? what's your favorite thing they've given you? what's their favorite thing you've given them?

🦷 : have you ever helped each other through injuries? who gets injured more, you or your f/o?

🕯 : do you and your f/o live together? why or why not? what do your living space(s) look like?

🪽 : do you and your f/o enjoy traveling together? do you do it often? what's your favorite place that you've traveled with them?

🦢 : do you both enjoy classically romantic dates? what's your favorite date you've been on with your f/o?

🛁 : what are some nonsexual forms of intimacy that you & your f/o enjoy? what's your favorite? what's their's?

💿 : reveal your music taste! share some songs that you and your f/o enjoy. how about some albums? some artists?

🕊 : how do you and your f/o dress? do you coordinate outfits together? do you dress similarly, or are you opposites?

☁️ : do you and your f/o enjoy movie nights? what kind of movies do you both enjoy watching? do either of you have a favorite movie, and if so, what does the other one think of it?

remember to practice reblog karma! ^^ you don't need to ask me ( op ) in order to reblog ☆ pr.osh.ip / c.omsh.ip / etc please dni!

[espresso-ships]

Self ship games!

I really wanted to do a f/o community game, so here it is! :D

Feel free to use this one, and tag me if you do! I'd love to see all of your ships <3

Template made with Canva

English isn't my main langugage so lmk if I spelled something wrong so I can fix it! :)

[dreamwinged]

misc. selfship asks ❤︎

thank you for 400! <3 answer these asks however you'd like, but please practice reblog karma if applicable! 💌

🧸 - how would your f/o try to comfort you if you were upset? 🦢 - what's a petty argument you'd have with your f/o? 🍡 - what nicknames do you have for each other?

🪽 - what was your first kiss with your f/o like, if you've had it?

🪺 - describe your f/os perception of you before you got together, compared to what it is now! 🪷 - if the roles were reversed and your f/o was the one selfshipping with you, what would their blog look like?

🧊 - how would your f/o text you? would they use proper punctuation/capitalization, or type more informally?

🍋‍🟩 - similarly, what would your contact names be for each other?

💍 - how do you and your f/o feel about marriage?

🪻 - what's your f/o's coffee or drink order?

☁️ - how does your f/o like to spend their free time with you? 🛍️ - what would your f/o get you as a gift? additionally, what would you get for them?

🫧 - what song(s) remind you of your f/o?

🪼 - what’s your favorite way to feel closer to your f/o?

proship/comship/neutral dni

[cursedmoon-doll13]

‘Imagine Your S/I Was Canon…’ Self-Ship Asks

✍️: Overall, how does the fandom trait you? Are you a beloved character, or hated? Are you popular, or a minor side character? Anything in between?

📝: How would your story in canon go? How would you influence the events of the original story?

🤪: What is your trait that fanon would exaggerate?

🥰: How would someone who loved you portray you?

😡: How would someone who hated you portray you?

👯: What canon character are you most similar to?

🌦️: Would you be accompanied by mostly fluff or angst fanfics? Both? Explain why.

🏷️: What is you and your f/o’s ship name?

❤️: How popular is you x your f/o? Are you a rarepair?

💞: Aside from with your f/o, who else would you commonly be shipped with? Why?

☕️: What are the most common plots of shipping fics between you and your f/o?

🛌: What tropes show up in fics involving your ship?

🪐: What would be your most popular AU and why?

💘: Why would people love your ship? Why would people dislike your ship? How might it start debates?

🙈: Why would your ship be thought of as cute/fluffy? Why would your ship be considered problematic?

🎞️: What ‘canon’ scenes would the fandom point to as evidence for the validity of your ship?

💌: How would your dynamic be portrayed? What might people focus on most? Any misconceptions?

👀: How does your ship with your f/o influence both of your characterisations and the world? Would there be any interesting metas written about your dynamic?

[liauditore]

Equally Invalid

[watermelonselfship]

Lace and whisper for Reth?

Whisper was answered [here]!

lace: what are you and your f/o wearing on a date?

Reth doesn't get a lot of time to actually go on dates, especially not ones where he'd need to dress up. Most dates are just sharing a meal together either at Story's housing plot, or a particularly slow day at the Inn either during or after his shift. So usually Reth just comes as he is!

Story doesn't really "get" the concept of dressing up for anything other than Performances, unless it serves The Narrative. With Reth, he doesn't feel like he's performing, and likes the ease that he gets to Just Exist. He's less likely to change his clothes, but he might change his hair up a bit, take down the random braids and brush it all out.

On the off chance they ARE going to dress up, like they managed to get free tickets to a Nice Place, they try to keep it simple. Neither Reth nor Story have many nice clothes, Reth bc his money is going elsewhere and Story because all his "nice clothes" are Performance Outfits and he can't dress like an Eldritch deer god pirate at the fancy dinner. Button downs and their nicest bottoms for both. Reth would probably tuck in his shirt, and stick with whatever pants look cleanest- though if he actually owned a skirt he might rotate through that once and a while. Story will NOT tuck his shirt, refuses and hates it, and will keep his shirt probably a button or two too unbuttoned for the venue. 50/50 on if he shows up with a skirt or pants.

More commonly though, with Story's fast paced lifestyle and Reth's crazy busy Schedual, they usually just don't bother doing anything different.

[bobmckenzie]

💟 pining stage ask game ! 💟

🏁 if not at the same time, who started pining first? how long until it became mutual (if ever)?

❣️describe a time one of you almost took a chance at making a move on the other, only to chicken out.

❓describe a time one of you did flirt or make a move, only for the other to remain totally oblivious.

😅 did anyone ever mistake you two for a couple? how did you both react?

🛏️ did you two ever have a "there's only one bed" moment?

💗 was either of you flirty during the pining stage?

🚫 what was holding you/them back from making a move or confessing your feelings?

🫂 what's one significant moment of physical contact you had during the pining stage?

😳 what moment flustered them the most?

😖 what moment flustered you the most?

💔 were there ever any moments of angst or jealousy thanks to the hidden feelings?

💭 who daydreamed about the other more often? what did they think about most?

🎵 are there any songs that describe your pining stage?

❌ did either of you ever try to get rid of your feelings for the other?

💘 (if applicable) what moment made them realize they were in love with you?

💓 (if applicable) what moment made you realize you were in love with them?

✨ share something random from the pining stage!

[the-bar-sinister]

Ask for OTPs and Self Ships

copied from a now gone post and blog: original url https://glitter-and-gasoline-deactivate.tumblr.com/post/687208822931095552

TW: angst, suggestive content, etc.

Who would end a heated argument by defending their actions with ‘because I love you!’ ?

What would they do if the other woke in a manic state after a nightmare?

Do they wear the other’s clothes? (sweatshirt, bandana, necklace, etc.)

Which one is more protective? Who needs to be ‘protected’?

Describe their cozy night in.

Who would beg the other not to leave? Who has to leave to protect the other?

Would they build a pillow fort together just because?

What happens if one of them gets sick?

What are their thoughts on having children?

Describe their first date.

Do either try to hide their emotions if upset? Can the other still tell?

Do they have many heated arguments? How do they smooth things over?

Who’s the bigger tease?

How do their personalities compliment each other? How do they clash?

Do they always say ‘i love you’ before leaving?

Can they stay up all night just talking?

Who’s more likely to pull the other in by the waist and kiss them passionately?

How likely are they to have fur babies? How many and what kind?

How do they feel about PDA?

Choose one song that perfectly describes their relationship.

Who would get into a fight to defend the other’s honor? Who tends to the other’s wounds?

What reminds each of their partner?

Who’s more likely to convince the other to stay in bed come morning?

Who’s more likely to give the other a massage?

Do they have any hobbies they share?

What are their vices?

Who is the light weight that needs to be taken care of after a party?

What are there thoughts on pet names? Do they have any?

Who is more likely to jump in an elevator? Who freaks out?

Your OTP gets to pick out each other’s outfits; what is each wearing?

Can they sit side by side without touching the other or are they handsy? (lacing fingers, touching knees, etc.)

Who’s the better story teller?

Who’s the better cook?

Who’s more likely to tell a dirty joke or story to make the other blush?

Who’s more artistic?

Who’s more likely to fire up the stove at 2am because the other woke up in the middle of the night hungry?

Which is more likely to swear?

Who is more sexually experimental? Who’s more vanilla?

Who would rescue an injured animal and nurse it back to health? What would the other think?

Who has an insatiable appetite? And what does the other do to help?

Which one would take their jacket it off and drape over the other one because they were visibly shivering?

What’s their favorite type of weather to enjoy together? (getting snowed in together, watching thunderstorms, etc.)

Who would give their life for the other without a second thought?

Who would dance in the kitchen making dinner? Would the other join in or watch from the doorway?

Can they fall asleep without the other?

Would they get frisky at the movies by themselves?

Does either of them have a secret that could potentially ruin their relationship?

Who’s the better driver?

Does either of them have a hard time being away from the other?

who’s more likely to do something out of spite?

What’s a non verbal way they say I love you?

Describe their weekend getaway?

Would they ever go skinny dipping?

Who’s more likely to carry the other to bed?

Do they like watching clouds or star gazing?

What do they do turn the other on/put them in the mood?

Whose the serious one when grocery shopping and who likes to toss random things in the cart?

Who’s more likely to hold a grudge after an argument?

Who tops? Who bottoms?

Who pulls the other closer when they’re sleeping?

[deathdetermineslife]

f/ovember ask game ~

♥️ - what's your absolute most favorite thing about s/i, if you had to narrow it down to one thing.

🐍 - if you two could own any pet, which pet would you own? is there any mythological pets or pets that are illegal to own where you live that you would like?

🕷️ - are either of you afraid of insects? who kills the spiders when one of you is scared? otherwise, who lets them out of the house?

⭐ - do either of you believe in zodiac signs? do you think your and s/is are compatible?

🌹 - what flower do you associate with s/i? if they were a field of flowers, what flowers would they be?

🌲 - do you have a favorite place to go with s/i? why Is it your favorite?

🐦‍⬛ - if you and s/i were birds, what kind of birds do you think you would be?

🌙 - do you like the nighttime? would you consider yourself a night owl? how about s/i?

🍒 - do you bake? do you and s/i bake together? do you have a go-to treat to make?

🐸 - ignoring s/is favorite animal, whats an animal that you associate with them?

🐈‍⬛ - do you prefer cats or dogs? is there any reason why?

⚜️ - have you and s/i ever traveled together before? is there anywhere you would like to take s/i?

🎀 - do you have a favorite outfit that s/i wears? what does it look like? do you ever help them pick out outfits?

🥬 - what's a meal, snack, or drink you introduced to s/i that they like? whats one that they introduced to you?

🖤 - has s/i ever told you a specific style of clothing that would look nice on you? what kind?

🐤 - would you and s/i ever live on a farm? what animals would you have? if you already do, what animals do you have currently?

🎈 - how do you like to celebrate s/i's birthday?

🌱 - do you like gardening? if so, what do you plant? and if you don't garden, whats something you would like to plant?

♣️ - do you ever play card games with s/i? do you have a favorite?

🐠 - do you like the ocean? do you have a favorite sea creature?

🖍️ - do you have a fun/silly pastime you like to engage in with s/i? what is it?

🍵 - do you ever make s/i tea or coffee? what kind? if you don't make them tea or coffee, is there something else you make for them? like hot chocolate?

✒️ - do you write s/i letters? or does s/i write you letters? both?

💛 - if you didnt know s/i, what would you guess their favorite color is?

💄 - what does a morning with you and s/i look like? do you have a routine, anything you two do together to get ready?

☘️ - do you have any superstitions? and quirks you do to follow those superstitions? (i.e, ringing bells before you leave the house to ask the spirits to watch over your home, knocking on wood to bring good luck, not opening umbrellas indoors, things like that.)

🎧 - is there any music that s/i listens to that youve started to like?

🌼 - do you give s/i flowers? how often do you give them flowers? what kind?

🍎 - is s/i picky? are you picky? if you go out to eat with s/i, is there any food you or they put on the others plate that you wont eat? (giving someone the pickles off of their burger, croutons off of their salad)

📗 - do you journal? what do you journal about? does s/i journal? have they ever let you read what they write?

🕸️ - do you like horror movies? does s/i like them? do you watch them together?

☀️ - how do you feel about the summertime?

feel free to use however you would like!!! please practice reblog karma and send an ask to someone if you reblog!!! I'm sure they would love some asks! feel free to send me some, as well, if you so choose.

[selfshipaskgames]

Self-Insert Ask Game:

🏳️‍🌈: What is your self-insert’s gender identity? What’s their sexuality? Are they the same as yours irl?

🐣: What are some unique experiences that your self-insert has had that you have not?

🧜: Are there any important parts of your self-insert’s life that can’t be recreated irl? What’s the most interesting one?

���: What is your self-insert’s most mundane hobby?

‼️: What is your self-insert’s most extreme hobby?

🏃‍➡️: Is your self-insert cautious, or are they a risk-taker? Does this match how you are irl?

👑: What’s something about your self-insert that completely matches up with you irl?

💞: What canon character has the most in common with your self-insert?

🌻: Who would your self-insert say that their biggest role model is?

⭐️: What does your self-insert do when they feel awkward?

❤️: What does your self-insert do when they feel happy?

❓: What’s a random fact about your self-insert that you want to share?