#Selfship Ask Games

[starseverance]

Age Gap F/O Asks

How big is the age gap between you and your F/O?

Did either of you hesitate getting into a relationship because of the age difference age?

Do you like the age gap, or are you indifferent/unhappy with it?

Does the age gap have a big effect on your relationship?

How would your relationship change if you were the same age?

How would your relationship change if you switched ages?

Do you notice any big generational differences between you?

Does the age gap in your relationship lend itself to a power dynamic, or are things balanced between the two of you?

Have you ever faced judgement for your difference in age?

Has your relationship ever been mistaken for something other than romantic?

Please do not copy/repost <3

[queen-of-the-boos]

Because I am a music autistic and I don't see many of these around...

Music Ask Game: Selfship Edition

💿 - Give us a song that fits your f/o's vibe!

🎙 - What song would you like to sing to your f/o?

🎧 - Your f/o just found your music player! What song do they find playing on it?

🎤 - Your f/o caught you singing! What song would you be singing and how would you react? How would they react?

🎼 - Give us a song that matches your s/i's vibe!

🎹 - Can your f/o play any instruments?

🎵 - What song would you recommend to your f/o?

🎶 - If you could assign your f/o a musical artist, who would it be?

🔊- Does your f/o like loud music?

💜 - Give us a song that describes you and f/o's relationship!

📀 - Does your f/o have a theme song? Show it to us! (Or give us one you think would be their theme song!)

🕺- What song would you and your f/o dance to?

Proshippers this isn't for you.

[selfship-confession-box]

i want to do longer ask games that aren't just putting in a number/emoji, but actively writing f/o letters, f/o flusters, etc, but it's frustrating to do so.

anxiety. it's so hard not to be anxious that i've said something wrong + offended the person or gotten their f/o completely ooc... i hate it

wanting to get stuff in my inbox as well. it's so discouraging to send out fun stuff to people (which is always a delight) and never get anything back. i get jealous sometimes bc i'll see people i follow getting SO MANY asks, f/o letters, etc and i'll get maybe 1 ask if im lucky when i reblog a ask meme. never mind f/o letter games, stuff like that - i'll get 0 stuff.

idk. it's just discouraging. combine that w/ getting worn out in the selfship community bc of so much drama n stuff and it makes me want to close my account and start over privately sometimes.

sorry for the rant/ramble. -frustrated/anxious person

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[caesarsprincess]

12, 13, 14, 15 and 16? ^^

I apologize for being late answering these, I am dealing with quite a lot of burnout these days, but it's always fun to respond to asks ^.^

12) Do they have many heated arguments? How do they smooth things over?

- Not really a lot of arguments these days, and when it does happen it's mostly about morality and what things are acceptable to do in the name of science.

13) Who is the bigger tease?

- We both tease, but when I do it it's mostly me being a brat and finding it fun to see him leashed, though in the end I know he's not into being the receiving end. I respect that, so I am most often the receiving end for that kind of stuff.

14) How do their personalities compliment each other? How do they clash?

- Personality wise we are pretty much perfect for each other, the only clash being morality. Astrology agrees that we have chemistry, as I am Aquarius and he's Aries, these are known to have "electrifying compatibility".

15) Do they always say "I love you" before leaving?

- Yes.

16) Can they stay up all night just talking?

- No - he can stay up all night working. I'm usually too tired to stay up late.

[unknown-ladies]

i dont know much abt you but you were asking for asks in the tag and im curious about the mha background characters, so have some asks for the poly ask game!

🐈Do you all share one big bed together or do you have different beds?

🦥In a modern setting, what job would each of you have?

🐅Do you have any pets? If so, what are they? If not, what kind of pets would you like to adopt?

Ooooh! For the polyamorous selfship ask game! Sorry for taking a while with this! Some Clarification: They're not all MHA background characters, that's ONLY 🔥. The others are from different settings! 🔘 is a background villain from Yu-Gi-Oh! Arc-V, 🔴 is a background character from Pokémon Horizons, and Hoshizora Miyuki/Cure Happy is from Smile Precure! I'll answer all of these despite the separate sources! - Azalea

🐈: "Do you all share one big bed together or do you have different beds?"

Given Miyuki's age and 🔥's age, we all decided different beds would be the best option. It allows everyone to have their own space just as those two would need at their ages, and would prevent any overcrowding on top of that! It prevents conflicts too, such as 🔥 and Miyuki being heroes while 🔘 is a proud villain.

This doesn't mean we'll never sleep in the same bed, though! There are always moments when they'd like to share the same bed for the night, whether to cuddle underneath blankets, recover from a nightmare, or just has someone to sleep beside. We have different beds, but we don't always use them.

🦥: "In a modern setting, what job would each of you have?"

In a way, everyone's settings are already modern given how their universes work, the difference isn't really timewise, but in what's possible for each of their worlds. However, jobs in that sense would be a little tough to pick out. I'm an unemployed stay-at-home mother currently, and I don't imagine that would change much with these four. Miyuki and 🔥 aren't old enough to take on jobs where I live, they'd still be students, but for 🔥 the school would no longer be a Hero Course school.

For 🔘 I think she'd become a retail worker at a card game and nerd memoribilia store, learning judge rules for several games, hosting weekly tournaments to hand out prize packs, and more. She feels like the kind of girl who's secretly happy to be surrounded by nerds deep down. I'm not sure what 🔴 would do... She'd possibly be a nursery, playgroup, or preschool worker. I think she'd want to be able to help out in that setting as much as possible.

🐅: "Do you have any pets? If so, what are they? If not, what kind of pets would you like to adopt?"

None right now! Unless you count Duel Monsters and a weird fairy from a faraway land of fairytales as pets thanks to Miyuki and 🔘. Truth be told, I'm not sure I'd be capable of looking after a pet completely solo. I imagine I can handle the feeding fine, it's the cleaning that would be a struggle for me - and due to that, I'd not trust myself to seek a pet out without the help of these four to balance caretaking.

I love rabbits and pigeons, but for pet reasons I think I'd go with a pigeon as rabbits are incredibly high-maintenance. I'd make sure with Miyuki, 🔥, 🔘, and 🔴 that they'd be on board with it first, of course. I think 🔘 and 🔥 would be at least, and Miyuki might end up thinking this pigeon is such an odd pet that our lives are beginning to look more like a fairytale picture book and encourage it. I'm not sure how 🔴 would feel - but if even one of us weren't comfortable with the animal choice, we'd seek another. Everyone's comfort - AND the animals' need for love - would be taken into consideration heavily.

Thanks for the asks I heavily appreciate them!!

Polyamorous Selfship Ask Game.

[pearl-blue-musings]

HAPPENING TONIGHT!!!

I’ll be enjoying some wine and writing some stories I’ve been meaning to finish. Here’s what I want from you!!

Your favorite, or top, selfship

What you love about this person

And an ideal valentines celebration

And if you have a piccrew with them, please share!!

I’ll comment with ha selfship I like and see if I have a piccrew with them. We’re just here for the vibes and it’s gonna be great 💜♥️

[ama-ships]

Ship playlists!

Send a ship name (or character) and I'll shuffle my playlist for that ship and tell you why the song made it into the list!

Please practice reblog karma~

[hatorishimaselfship]

Anemone, Snapdragon, and Rose for the wedding themes F/O asks?

Of course, Anon! Sorry I took so long getting around to this, I came down with an illness just as I was going to answer ;-;

I've got it now though!

Anemone: Is your wedding extravagant or small and quaint? Do you have lots of guests or just a few close friends?

I'd say the wedding is small and quaint. While Nene may want a big traditional wedding for the romantic feeling of it, doing so would draw too much attention to the things people would disapprove about our relationship. It's best left small and quaint with just a few close friends who Nene and I both know we can trust.

Snapdragon: What season did/do you choose to have your wedding in?

While I'd prefer a spring wedding, I feel like with Nene's love of all things spooky and gothic (on top of cute), she'd prefer a fall wedding. I think we'd end up going with a fall wedding with a few pieces of spring aesthetic around, just to keep both of us happy and entertained. It's important we work together on these things :>

Rose: Which one of you did the most planning for the wedding?

Definitely a team effort with a lot of back-and-forth discussion! Given our relationship is unconventional, it's important we know how to keep each other comfortable and safe during such a big event like a wedding! Nene and I would plan together, and if either of us were too busy, we'd note down our ideas on our own to organize when more free.

Thanks for the ask!

Self Ship Wedding Asks

[deathdetermineslife]

domestic life f/o ask game!

🛌 - do you and your f/o sleep in the same bed? if you do, do you have a favorite and least favorite thing about sleeping together?

💐 - do you have a garden? what does it look like? do you instead keep flowers in your home? what kind?

🪺 - what does your dream back/front yard look like?

⛈️ - what do you do when there's bad storms? is there anything you do to comfort each other? or maybe you like to watch the storms?

🧭 - what's your ideal travel spot? if you could own a vacation home with your f/o, where would your home be?

🎂 - do you have any special birthday celebrations you partake in every year?

🎇 - do you and your f/o have a favorite holiday to celebrate together? what is it? do you have different holidays you like celebrating?

🔑 - which one of you locks themselves out of the house more often?

🛀 - do you and your f/o take baths together? do you have a favorite bath salt or soap to use when you do?

🌡️ - when you or your f/o gets sick, do you take care of each other? what do you do?

☃️ - in the winter time, is there anything fun you two do together? make snowmen, snow angels, bake holiday treats?

🥧 - have you and your f/o tried to bake something together? how did it go? what did you make?

🃏 - if you and your f/o were to be snowed in for several days with no power, what would you two do to keep away boredom?

🎬 - is there a go to movie that you and your f/o watch on a movie night? do they have a favorite? who picks the movies?

🕯️ - do you keep candles in your home? what kinds of candles do you like? what kinds do your f/o like?

(reblog to use :) feel free to send me and anyone you see reblogging this some asks! have a nice day :D)

[espresso-ships]

Self ship games!

I really wanted to do a f/o community game, so here it is! :D

Feel free to use this one, and tag me if you do! I'd love to see all of your ships <3

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English isn't my main langugage so lmk if I spelled something wrong so I can fix it! :)

[dreamwinged]

misc. selfship asks ❤︎

thank you for 400! <3 answer these asks however you'd like, but please practice reblog karma if applicable! 💌

🧸 - how would your f/o try to comfort you if you were upset? 🦢 - what's a petty argument you'd have with your f/o? 🍡 - what nicknames do you have for each other?

🪽 - what was your first kiss with your f/o like, if you've had it?

🪺 - describe your f/os perception of you before you got together, compared to what it is now! 🪷 - if the roles were reversed and your f/o was the one selfshipping with you, what would their blog look like?

🧊 - how would your f/o text you? would they use proper punctuation/capitalization, or type more informally?

🍋‍🟩 - similarly, what would your contact names be for each other?

💍 - how do you and your f/o feel about marriage?

🪻 - what's your f/o's coffee or drink order?

☁️ - how does your f/o like to spend their free time with you? 🛍️ - what would your f/o get you as a gift? additionally, what would you get for them?

🫧 - what song(s) remind you of your f/o?

🪼 - what’s your favorite way to feel closer to your f/o?

proship/comship/neutral dni

[cursedmoon-doll13]

‘Imagine Your S/I Was Canon…’ Self-Ship Asks

✍️: Overall, how does the fandom trait you? Are you a beloved character, or hated? Are you popular, or a minor side character? Anything in between?

📝: How would your story in canon go? How would you influence the events of the original story?

🤪: What is your trait that fanon would exaggerate?

🥰: How would someone who loved you portray you?

😡: How would someone who hated you portray you?

👯: What canon character are you most similar to?

🌦️: Would you be accompanied by mostly fluff or angst fanfics? Both? Explain why.

🏷️: What is you and your f/o’s ship name?

❤️: How popular is you x your f/o? Are you a rarepair?

💞: Aside from with your f/o, who else would you commonly be shipped with? Why?

☕️: What are the most common plots of shipping fics between you and your f/o?

🛌: What tropes show up in fics involving your ship?

🪐: What would be your most popular AU and why?

💘: Why would people love your ship? Why would people dislike your ship? How might it start debates?

🙈: Why would your ship be thought of as cute/fluffy? Why would your ship be considered problematic?

🎞️: What ‘canon’ scenes would the fandom point to as evidence for the validity of your ship?

💌: How would your dynamic be portrayed? What might people focus on most? Any misconceptions?

👀: How does your ship with your f/o influence both of your characterisations and the world? Would there be any interesting metas written about your dynamic?

[selfshipaskgames]

Self-Insert Ask Game:

🏳️‍🌈: What is your self-insert’s gender identity? What’s their sexuality? Are they the same as yours irl?

🐣: What are some unique experiences that your self-insert has had that you have not?

🧜: Are there any important parts of your self-insert’s life that can’t be recreated irl? What’s the most interesting one?

🤷: What is your self-insert’s most mundane hobby?

‼️: What is your self-insert’s most extreme hobby?

🏃‍➡️: Is your self-insert cautious, or are they a risk-taker? Does this match how you are irl?

👑: What’s something about your self-insert that completely matches up with you irl?

💞: What canon character has the most in common with your self-insert?

🌻: Who would your self-insert say that their biggest role model is?

⭐️: What does your self-insert do when they feel awkward?

❤️: What does your self-insert do when they feel happy?

❓: What’s a random fact about your self-insert that you want to share?

[bobmckenzie]

💟 pining stage ask game ! 💟

🏁 if not at the same time, who started pining first? how long until it became mutual (if ever)?

❣️describe a time one of you almost took a chance at making a move on the other, only to chicken out.

❓describe a time one of you did flirt or make a move, only for the other to remain totally oblivious.

😅 did anyone ever mistake you two for a couple? how did you both react?

🛏️ did you two ever have a "there's only one bed" moment?

💗 was either of you flirty during the pining stage?

🚫 what was holding you/them back from making a move or confessing your feelings?

🫂 what's one significant moment of physical contact you had during the pining stage?

😳 what moment flustered them the most?

😖 what moment flustered you the most?

💔 were there ever any moments of angst or jealousy thanks to the hidden feelings?

💭 who daydreamed about the other more often? what did they think about most?

🎵 are there any songs that describe your pining stage?

❌ did either of you ever try to get rid of your feelings for the other?

💘 (if applicable) what moment made them realize they were in love with you?

💓 (if applicable) what moment made you realize you were in love with them?

✨ share something random from the pining stage!

[the-bar-sinister]

Ask for OTPs and Self Ships

copied from a now gone post and blog: original url https://glitter-and-gasoline-deactivate.tumblr.com/post/687208822931095552

TW: angst, suggestive content, etc.

Who would end a heated argument by defending their actions with ‘because I love you!’ ?

What would they do if the other woke in a manic state after a nightmare?

Do they wear the other’s clothes? (sweatshirt, bandana, necklace, etc.)

Which one is more protective? Who needs to be ‘protected’?

Describe their cozy night in.

Who would beg the other not to leave? Who has to leave to protect the other?

Would they build a pillow fort together just because?

What happens if one of them gets sick?

What are their thoughts on having children?

Describe their first date.

Do either try to hide their emotions if upset? Can the other still tell?

Do they have many heated arguments? How do they smooth things over?

Who’s the bigger tease?

How do their personalities compliment each other? How do they clash?

Do they always say ‘i love you’ before leaving?

Can they stay up all night just talking?

Who’s more likely to pull the other in by the waist and kiss them passionately?

How likely are they to have fur babies? How many and what kind?

How do they feel about PDA?

Choose one song that perfectly describes their relationship.

Who would get into a fight to defend the other’s honor? Who tends to the other’s wounds?

What reminds each of their partner?

Who’s more likely to convince the other to stay in bed come morning?

Who’s more likely to give the other a massage?

Do they have any hobbies they share?

What are their vices?

Who is the light weight that needs to be taken care of after a party?

What are there thoughts on pet names? Do they have any?

Who is more likely to jump in an elevator? Who freaks out?

Your OTP gets to pick out each other’s outfits; what is each wearing?

Can they sit side by side without touching the other or are they handsy? (lacing fingers, touching knees, etc.)

Who’s the better story teller?

Who’s the better cook?

Who’s more likely to tell a dirty joke or story to make the other blush?

Who’s more artistic?

Who’s more likely to fire up the stove at 2am because the other woke up in the middle of the night hungry?

Which is more likely to swear?

Who is more sexually experimental? Who’s more vanilla?

Who would rescue an injured animal and nurse it back to health? What would the other think?

Who has an insatiable appetite? And what does the other do to help?

Which one would take their jacket it off and drape over the other one because they were visibly shivering?

What’s their favorite type of weather to enjoy together? (getting snowed in together, watching thunderstorms, etc.)

Who would give their life for the other without a second thought?

Who would dance in the kitchen making dinner? Would the other join in or watch from the doorway?

Can they fall asleep without the other?

Would they get frisky at the movies by themselves?

Does either of them have a secret that could potentially ruin their relationship?

Who’s the better driver?

Does either of them have a hard time being away from the other?

who’s more likely to do something out of spite?

What’s a non verbal way they say I love you?

Describe their weekend getaway?

Would they ever go skinny dipping?

Who’s more likely to carry the other to bed?

Do they like watching clouds or star gazing?

What do they do turn the other on/put them in the mood?

Whose the serious one when grocery shopping and who likes to toss random things in the cart?

Who’s more likely to hold a grudge after an argument?

Who tops? Who bottoms?

Who pulls the other closer when they’re sleeping?

[eboni-napalm]

❤️✨Self Ship Interaction "Ask" Game! ✨❤️

Send this user a message in their ask box from one of their F/O's and try your best to fiuster them or make them blush as hard as possible! (inspiration taken from the following image!)

(absolutely okay to reblog, just be sure to practice reblog karma! here is my personal F/O list for anyone who needs it to send asks and participate!)

PROSHIPPERS DNI, THIS POST IS NOT FOR YOU.