#f/o ask games

[hiseternalmayfly]

Ill just toss this out and see what bites cause im bored

Reblog this with a picture of your F/O and I'll reply with how I think one of my 3 main F/O's would react to meeting them

My main F/O's are listed here

Note: It's all in good fun. If something mean/flirty is said, it is not meant as an attack just an in character banter

[hatorishimaselfship]

selfship questions to flesh out your ships! send a section (general, romantic, etc.) and a number!

PRE-RELATIONSHIP

How did they first meet?

What was their first impression of each other?

Did any of their friends or family want them to get together?

Who felt romantic feelings first?

Did either of them try to resist their feelings?

If you had told one of them that the other would be their soulmate, what would they think?

What would their lives be like if they had never met?

GENERAL

Who initiated the relationship, and how did it go?

Did they have an official first date? If so, what was it like?

What was their first kiss like?

Were they each other’s first anything (kiss, relationship, etc.)?

What’s their height difference? Age difference?

What’s their relationship with each other’s families?

Who takes the lead in social situations?

Who gets jealous easier?

Who whispers inappropriate things in the other’s ear?

LOVE

Who said “I love you” first?

What are their primary love languages?

Who uses cheesy pick-up lines?

How often do they cuddle/engage in PDA?

Who initiates kisses?

Who’s the big and little spoon?

What are their favorite things to do together?

Who’s better at comforting the other?

Who’s more protective?

Do they prefer verbal or physical affection?

What are some songs that apply to their relationship, in-universe or otherwise?

What kind of nicknames do they call each other?

Who remembers the little things?

DOMESTIC LIFE

If they get married, who proposes?

What’s the wedding like? Who attends?

How many kids do they have, if any? What are they like?

Do they have any pets?

Who’s the stricter parent?

Who worries the most?

Who kills the bugs in the house?

How do they celebrate holidays?

Who’s more likely to convince the other to come back to sleep in the morning?

Who’s the better cook?

Who likes to dance?

stolen from a proshipper who stole it from an anti, wanting to answer these but also respect a block. Will take this down if requested by the proshipper ♡

[unknown-ladies]

For the ask game- Domestic, 4, 6 and 7! (selfship-soup)

Ask Game Link!

Domestic

4 - "Do they have any pets?" Both 🔘 and 🔥 lack pets, due to not being allowed them where they live. Hopefully one day that'll change and they can have pets of their own if they'd like! I also don't have a pet - as much as I'd love a rabbit, I don't have the energy or good enough mental health to take care of such a needy pet. It's important to know your own limits before deciding to put another creature in your care!

6 - "Who worries the most?" Absolutely me. It's rare for 🔘 to even care about the people she turns into cards or their families, and 🔥 is pretty confident she can save everyone (or most, if not all) in tough pinches. Meanwhile I'm here with a girl who's upsetting families by turning people into cards and a girl who's running into danger head-on... how can I not worry about the results of that?

7 - "Who kills the bugs in the house?" Nobody! We take the bugs outside humanely and calmly, even for 🔘! As much as she'll turn humans into cards, bugs matter to her. However, me and 🔘 are far too horrified of getting anywhere near the bugs, we leave the taking them outside to 🔥.

[echoes-lighthouse]

11 and 13 for any/all of your f/os!

1 and 2 for jester, and 6 and 15 for dirk! (from s-el-fships, i hope those will be fun! <3)

Heck yes, thank you @s-el-fships!!! I love this set of selfship questions!!! 

11. do you create anything to commemorate your relationship with your f/o? tell us about it!

Everything for this blog! I make moodboards, fanfiction, art, journal pages, videos for my f/os. I occasionally do little cross-stitches or doodles that remind me of them, but that's the only thing I keep for myself. I'm really into selfshipping for the community, so everything I make, I share!

13. if you have multiple f/os, do you see them all as separate relationships or as a sort of polycule? if you have them separated, how are those versions of the world different from the others?

Separate relationships for sure! They're all in different universes! I do have some poly relationships, some 'canon' and others not, and some of my selfships are open relationships, but for all my main f/os, they're separate relationships with different universes and different s/is, even if they share a source.

For Jester!

1.does your f/o have any special nicknames for you? what are they? do you have a favorite?

Ah, I'm not very good at making up nicknames >w< I'm sure Jester would have a lot of them for me but it would take me a long time to think of them! And I do just love it when she says my name with all that affection in her voice <3 <3

2. do you and your f/o share any hobbies? what are they? do you see one another as rivals, collaborators, something else?

Both Jester and I are very into creating things, but she tends towards visual arts and I tend towards music/wordsmithing- we definitely do cross over into each other’s areas, but tend to be very encouraging and enthusiastic about the other person’s creations! 

We’re also both magic users, and we are a bit competitive about that, but only playfully. We both respect the source of each other’s magic, and as long as we know that, it’s a fun place to play with competition! 

Answers For Dirk are under the ‘read more’ because this is getting long!! 

For Dirk

6. do you have any alternate timelines or universes in your self-ship? what are they like?

I’ve definitely thought about developing a trollstuck AU for us, but I don’t think it fits us very well! I like that we’re two humans with more troll-like romance dynamics. 

My “memories” of Dirk could be interpreted as an AU of our selfship, but that feels weird since my memories/kins are involuntary, while my selfships are consciously chosen. (I have hyperempathy as part of my autism which can really blur the lines between my identity and some characters, including memories, long story?) 

It would be kind of cool to reinvent that as a selfship but *waves hand* it’s complicated 

15. how does your f/o respond to physical affection from you? do they like pda, or are they more reserved? how do you respond to physical affection from them?

Hahaha, well we’re both touch starved in the most technical sense, so it’s complicated because touch is A Lot for both of us. That’s part of why we like sparring so much: fighting and grappling is a very familiar and structured way to have physical contact with each other. 

I’m mostly okay with physical affection when I’m the one in control of it, so Dirk learns not to initiate contact. When I’m the one to come over and initiate, he’s very stiff for a while, but often finds a way to relax into the affection. It’s really rewarding for both of us when he can get to that point. 

We tend towards PDA as a self-defense: our heartbond requires us to stay close to each other, so when we’re in a crowd, we automatically hold hands to keep from being pulled apart. Also, it can be hard to process if we’re in two different conversations, so we usually stay close together so we can interact as a unit, instead of trying to drown out each other’s thoughts while talking to someone. But we don’t, like, kiss or hug in public: just holding hands and keeping close together. 

Also, sometimes one of us will poke the other person until they get annoyed and pin or hold our hands/wrists, which is some very blatant pitch PDA for anyone familiar with troll romance traditions. 

[deathdetermineslife]

domestic life f/o ask game!

🛌 - do you and your f/o sleep in the same bed? if you do, do you have a favorite and least favorite thing about sleeping together?

💐 - do you have a garden? what does it look like? do you instead keep flowers in your home? what kind?

🪺 - what does your dream back/front yard look like?

⛈️ - what do you do when there's bad storms? is there anything you do to comfort each other? or maybe you like to watch the storms?

🧭 - what's your ideal travel spot? if you could own a vacation home with your f/o, where would your home be?

🎂 - do you have any special birthday celebrations you partake in every year?

🎇 - do you and your f/o have a favorite holiday to celebrate together? what is it? do you have different holidays you like celebrating?

🔑 - which one of you locks themselves out of the house more often?

🛀 - do you and your f/o take baths together? do you have a favorite bath salt or soap to use when you do?

🌡️ - when you or your f/o gets sick, do you take care of each other? what do you do?

☃️ - in the winter time, is there anything fun you two do together? make snowmen, snow angels, bake holiday treats?

🥧 - have you and your f/o tried to bake something together? how did it go? what did you make?

🃏 - if you and your f/o were to be snowed in for several days with no power, what would you two do to keep away boredom?

🎬 - is there a go to movie that you and your f/o watch on a movie night? do they have a favorite? who picks the movies?

🕯️ - do you keep candles in your home? what kinds of candles do you like? what kinds do your f/o like?

(reblog to use :) feel free to send me and anyone you see reblogging this some asks! have a nice day :D)

[selfshipaskgames]

F/O Takeover Ask Game:

These questions are for your (F/O)s to answer about you!

⏰: If you had to very publicly profess your love for (S/I), how would you do it?

🆘: How do you let (S/I) know that they’re on your mind when you’re someplace crowded?

🧸: What does your bed look like? Is it just you and (S/I)? Are there stuffed animals? How many blankets and pillows do you have? Do you prefer the bed to be hot or cold?

👾: What are your favorite things to do with (S/I)? Who’s better at them?

🎃: Are you or (S/I) artsy at all? Do you ever hand-make things for each other?

😍: What color do you think looks the best on (S/I)?

☀️: Does (S/I) have an outfit that you think they look most attractive in? If so, what outfit is it?

🌾: Name five of your favorite things about (S/I). (Feel free to be as descriptive as you want!)

🚮: How do you deal with someone bothering (S/I)?

💐: If you saw this thing in the store, you would instantly buy it for (S/I)! What is the thing?

🦋: What’s the most special moment that you and (S/I) have ever shared?

[lipsticklens]

-ˏˋ self ship ask game ! જ⁀➴𖹭

🤍 : how did you first meet your f/o? what made you realize you were falling in love with them? what made them realize they were falling in love with you?

🫧 : who makes the other one laugh more, you or your f/o? do you tell each other jokes, or is it more a natural sense of humor?

🐇 : do you and your f/o have a pet together? if so, tell us about it! ( what's its name? what kind of animal is it? what's its temperament? ) if not, would you ever get one together?

🐚 : do you give each other gifts often? what's your favorite thing they've given you? what's their favorite thing you've given them?

🦷 : have you ever helped each other through injuries? who gets injured more, you or your f/o?

🕯 : do you and your f/o live together? why or why not? what do your living space(s) look like?

🪽 : do you and your f/o enjoy traveling together? do you do it often? what's your favorite place that you've traveled with them?

🦢 : do you both enjoy classically romantic dates? what's your favorite date you've been on with your f/o?

🛁 : what are some nonsexual forms of intimacy that you & your f/o enjoy? what's your favorite? what's their's?

💿 : reveal your music taste! share some songs that you and your f/o enjoy. how about some albums? some artists?

🕊 : how do you and your f/o dress? do you coordinate outfits together? do you dress similarly, or are you opposites?

☁️ : do you and your f/o enjoy movie nights? what kind of movies do you both enjoy watching? do either of you have a favorite movie, and if so, what does the other one think of it?

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[espresso-ships]

Self ship games!

I really wanted to do a f/o community game, so here it is! :D

Feel free to use this one, and tag me if you do! I'd love to see all of your ships <3

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English isn't my main langugage so lmk if I spelled something wrong so I can fix it! :)

[dreamwinged]

misc. selfship asks ❤︎

thank you for 400! <3 answer these asks however you'd like, but please practice reblog karma if applicable! 💌

🧸 - how would your f/o try to comfort you if you were upset? 🦢 - what's a petty argument you'd have with your f/o? 🍡 - what nicknames do you have for each other?

🪽 - what was your first kiss with your f/o like, if you've had it?

🪺 - describe your f/os perception of you before you got together, compared to what it is now! 🪷 - if the roles were reversed and your f/o was the one selfshipping with you, what would their blog look like?

🧊 - how would your f/o text you? would they use proper punctuation/capitalization, or type more informally?

🍋‍🟩 - similarly, what would your contact names be for each other?

💍 - how do you and your f/o feel about marriage?

🪻 - what's your f/o's coffee or drink order?

☁️ - how does your f/o like to spend their free time with you? 🛍️ - what would your f/o get you as a gift? additionally, what would you get for them?

🫧 - what song(s) remind you of your f/o?

🪼 - what’s your favorite way to feel closer to your f/o?

proship/comship/neutral dni

[bobmckenzie]

💟 pining stage ask game ! 💟

🏁 if not at the same time, who started pining first? how long until it became mutual (if ever)?

❣️describe a time one of you almost took a chance at making a move on the other, only to chicken out.

❓describe a time one of you did flirt or make a move, only for the other to remain totally oblivious.

😅 did anyone ever mistake you two for a couple? how did you both react?

🛏️ did you two ever have a "there's only one bed" moment?

💗 was either of you flirty during the pining stage?

🚫 what was holding you/them back from making a move or confessing your feelings?

🫂 what's one significant moment of physical contact you had during the pining stage?

😳 what moment flustered them the most?

😖 what moment flustered you the most?

💔 were there ever any moments of angst or jealousy thanks to the hidden feelings?

💭 who daydreamed about the other more often? what did they think about most?

🎵 are there any songs that describe your pining stage?

❌ did either of you ever try to get rid of your feelings for the other?

💘 (if applicable) what moment made them realize they were in love with you?

💓 (if applicable) what moment made you realize you were in love with them?

✨ share something random from the pining stage!

[the-bar-sinister]

Ask for OTPs and Self Ships

copied from a now gone post and blog: original url https://glitter-and-gasoline-deactivate.tumblr.com/post/687208822931095552

TW: angst, suggestive content, etc.

Who would end a heated argument by defending their actions with ‘because I love you!’ ?

What would they do if the other woke in a manic state after a nightmare?

Do they wear the other’s clothes? (sweatshirt, bandana, necklace, etc.)

Which one is more protective? Who needs to be ‘protected’?

Describe their cozy night in.

Who would beg the other not to leave? Who has to leave to protect the other?

Would they build a pillow fort together just because?

What happens if one of them gets sick?

What are their thoughts on having children?

Describe their first date.

Do either try to hide their emotions if upset? Can the other still tell?

Do they have many heated arguments? How do they smooth things over?

Who’s the bigger tease?

How do their personalities compliment each other? How do they clash?

Do they always say ‘i love you’ before leaving?

Can they stay up all night just talking?

Who’s more likely to pull the other in by the waist and kiss them passionately?

How likely are they to have fur babies? How many and what kind?

How do they feel about PDA?

Choose one song that perfectly describes their relationship.

Who would get into a fight to defend the other’s honor? Who tends to the other’s wounds?

What reminds each of their partner?

Who’s more likely to convince the other to stay in bed come morning?

Who’s more likely to give the other a massage?

Do they have any hobbies they share?

What are their vices?

Who is the light weight that needs to be taken care of after a party?

What are there thoughts on pet names? Do they have any?

Who is more likely to jump in an elevator? Who freaks out?

Your OTP gets to pick out each other’s outfits; what is each wearing?

Can they sit side by side without touching the other or are they handsy? (lacing fingers, touching knees, etc.)

Who’s the better story teller?

Who’s the better cook?

Who’s more likely to tell a dirty joke or story to make the other blush?

Who’s more artistic?

Who’s more likely to fire up the stove at 2am because the other woke up in the middle of the night hungry?

Which is more likely to swear?

Who is more sexually experimental? Who’s more vanilla?

Who would rescue an injured animal and nurse it back to health? What would the other think?

Who has an insatiable appetite? And what does the other do to help?

Which one would take their jacket it off and drape over the other one because they were visibly shivering?

What’s their favorite type of weather to enjoy together? (getting snowed in together, watching thunderstorms, etc.)

Who would give their life for the other without a second thought?

Who would dance in the kitchen making dinner? Would the other join in or watch from the doorway?

Can they fall asleep without the other?

Would they get frisky at the movies by themselves?

Does either of them have a secret that could potentially ruin their relationship?

Who’s the better driver?

Does either of them have a hard time being away from the other?

who’s more likely to do something out of spite?

What’s a non verbal way they say I love you?

Describe their weekend getaway?

Would they ever go skinny dipping?

Who’s more likely to carry the other to bed?

Do they like watching clouds or star gazing?

What do they do turn the other on/put them in the mood?

Whose the serious one when grocery shopping and who likes to toss random things in the cart?

Who’s more likely to hold a grudge after an argument?

Who tops? Who bottoms?

Who pulls the other closer when they’re sleeping?

[hiseternalmayfly]

🩹 😊 for the ask game!

Band-aid 🩹 - If there was one thing about your f/o that you'd want people to understand, what would it be?

Oooohhh...For Vash probably that yes while many times he does fake his happiness he's not miserable 24/7. He has genuine moments where he's truly smiling and truly happy despite everything,,,,yes hes so traumatized but he's got the insurance girls and woowoo....

Smile ☺️ - What about your f/o makes you smile every single time? Furthermore, what's something you do that makes your f/o smile every time?

His acts of kindness! Or when he's shy and he tries to hide his embarrassment...he's so fucking cute...

I just know he loves how much I dote on him cause hes my everything!

[hatorishimaselfship]

Kiss, Kitty, Debate and Wave for the ask game!

Kiss - I feel like she likes being kissed on the lips most, but gets nervous about going that far with my S/I due to the kind of relationship dynamic present between me and her, instead finding a lot of love in gentle forehead kisses given for reassurance and comfort.

Kitty - Hamsters! She loves hamsters, having a few through her life. One named White Inferno, and her current hamster Black Canyon who she takes very good care of, making sure to clean his cage often and feed him well.

Debate - This is going to come off as a little mean to her when I don't like being mean to her, but I feel like she needs to socialise far more outside of just supernaturals to learn how to be healthier about things. Hanako only mildly respects her boundaries, and even then she's bad at setting them. Kou has the whole exorcism preoccupation going on, and Mitsuba is a ghost. She had Aoi, but that... is only one girl, and didn't work out. If she knew more non-supernaturals I think she'd know how to set boundaries properly.

Wave - With familiar people she'll happily run over and wave with joy and even hug them on occasion! With strangers, she's polite and very respectful when greeting them, but also more nervous than is necessary. Even if introduced through a friend I think she'd stick to etiquette unless someone got her going about her interests in yokai or idol raising mobile games.

[eboni-napalm]

❤️✨Self Ship Interaction "Ask" Game! ✨❤️

Send this user a message in their ask box from one of their F/O's and try your best to fiuster them or make them blush as hard as possible! (inspiration taken from the following image!)

(absolutely okay to reblog, just be sure to practice reblog karma! here is my personal F/O list for anyone who needs it to send asks and participate!)

PROSHIPPERS DNI, THIS POST IS NOT FOR YOU.

[comfort-character-central]

Here's another selfship f/o ask game! Feel free to use for your own self ships (and feel free ask me any if desired, just let me know which f/o and question)! Have a great day everyone 🫶🏻

💥 1: What is something fun you and your f/o have done together? It can be an activity, a silly moment, a good memory, etc!

🫂 2: What is something your f/o does that makes you feel loved and supported?

❤️‍🔥 3: What's your f/o's favorite trait about you?

😌 4. What do you and your f/o do together to relax or unwind?

✨ 5. What hobby or activity do you and your f/o do the most together or tend to enjoy doing the most together?

🍰 6. What sort of fun or sweet nicknames do you and your f/o have for each other?

🔥 7: In what ways does your f/o make you feel excited, giggly, happy, or positive?

❤️‍🩹 8. What is a deep or special memory between you and your f/o that means a lot to you/them?

🧠 9. What is something you love listening to your f/o talk extensively about, and what do they love hearing you elaborate on?

🥹 10. What is your f/o's favorite thing about you?

💫 11. What is your favorite compliment that you've ever received from your f/o?

💌 12. What is your f/o's love language(s)? (Gift giving, words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch, acts of service.)

🌿 13. What's something that reminds you of your f/o? It can be a meme, a song, an aesthetic, anything that gives off their energy/vibe/reminds you of them!

☀️ 14. In what ways do you and your f/o make each other's lives more positive?

💬 15. Why are you so thankful for your f/o, and why are they so thankful for you?

[deathdetermineslife]

f/ovember ask game ~

♥️ - what's your absolute most favorite thing about s/i, if you had to narrow it down to one thing.

🐍 - if you two could own any pet, which pet would you own? is there any mythological pets or pets that are illegal to own where you live that you would like?

🕷️ - are either of you afraid of insects? who kills the spiders when one of you is scared? otherwise, who lets them out of the house?

⭐ - do either of you believe in zodiac signs? do you think your and s/is are compatible?

🌹 - what flower do you associate with s/i? if they were a field of flowers, what flowers would they be?

🌲 - do you have a favorite place to go with s/i? why Is it your favorite?

🐦‍⬛ - if you and s/i were birds, what kind of birds do you think you would be?

🌙 - do you like the nighttime? would you consider yourself a night owl? how about s/i?

🍒 - do you bake? do you and s/i bake together? do you have a go-to treat to make?

🐸 - ignoring s/is favorite animal, whats an animal that you associate with them?

🐈‍⬛ - do you prefer cats or dogs? is there any reason why?

⚜️ - have you and s/i ever traveled together before? is there anywhere you would like to take s/i?

🎀 - do you have a favorite outfit that s/i wears? what does it look like? do you ever help them pick out outfits?

🥬 - what's a meal, snack, or drink you introduced to s/i that they like? whats one that they introduced to you?

🖤 - has s/i ever told you a specific style of clothing that would look nice on you? what kind?

🐤 - would you and s/i ever live on a farm? what animals would you have? if you already do, what animals do you have currently?

🎈 - how do you like to celebrate s/i's birthday?

🌱 - do you like gardening? if so, what do you plant? and if you don't garden, whats something you would like to plant?

♣️ - do you ever play card games with s/i? do you have a favorite?

🐠 - do you like the ocean? do you have a favorite sea creature?

🖍️ - do you have a fun/silly pastime you like to engage in with s/i? what is it?

🍵 - do you ever make s/i tea or coffee? what kind? if you don't make them tea or coffee, is there something else you make for them? like hot chocolate?

✒️ - do you write s/i letters? or does s/i write you letters? both?

💛 - if you didnt know s/i, what would you guess their favorite color is?

💄 - what does a morning with you and s/i look like? do you have a routine, anything you two do together to get ready?

☘️ - do you have any superstitions? and quirks you do to follow those superstitions? (i.e, ringing bells before you leave the house to ask the spirits to watch over your home, knocking on wood to bring good luck, not opening umbrellas indoors, things like that.)

🎧 - is there any music that s/i listens to that youve started to like?

🌼 - do you give s/i flowers? how often do you give them flowers? what kind?

🍎 - is s/i picky? are you picky? if you go out to eat with s/i, is there any food you or they put on the others plate that you wont eat? (giving someone the pickles off of their burger, croutons off of their salad)

📗 - do you journal? what do you journal about? does s/i journal? have they ever let you read what they write?

🕸️ - do you like horror movies? does s/i like them? do you watch them together?

☀️ - how do you feel about the summertime?

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