#sad i guess

[trainsgenderjamie]

Gonna rant shout socializing here but poke I wish I was like normal about socializing. I wish I didn't borderline require a group setting to to talk to people and I wish that I could just start a conversation without having to double back over myself 60 times and ultimately decide against it like genuinely what is wrong with me

I consider myself sociable, because I've got plenty friends and I enjoy talking to all of them, but there's maybe one or so where I was able to uphold a conversation for longer than 30 minutes in the last two months, and that was sporadic, inconsistent texts back and forth. I also was not the one to start that conversation, nor am I ever the one to initiate because I'm like scared or something? And I can't just practice with one of my friends I trust, because 1: how the fuck do you even ask that shit, and 2: I tried it with someone I was ripping at the seams to talk to constantly AND wanted a romantic relationship with, and STILL rarely ever started a conversation. I don't know why I'm so afraid or why I think everyone's too busy for me to just say hi, but like I genuinely am just unable to talk to people.

Besides, what do you even say after you initiate with a 'hi' like. If I texted someone and just went 'hey how are you' I feel like they'd think I wanted something from them or something like that idk, and even if they didn't, what else do I say? 'Good to hear you're okay' AND THEN WHAT.? Like it's. there isn't a pattern or a formula to it, there isn't a good way for me to naturally progress into normal conversation because I don't know what that looks like. Maybe this is a normal thing, and I'm just being overly dramatic over something everyone deals with and is just fine with. Idk man I'm like. I dunno, shit sucks honestly

I feel the need to express that this isn't like a late night sadness thing, this is something I genuinely struggle with. Call it anxiety, a fear of judgement, what have you, it is what it is, and what it is is bullshit.

[beanonthebed]

Ah shit this sucks

[literaphobe]

ever look around ur room and wonder if you should be sad about the fact that you never injected any personality into it. like no posters, no pictures of friends, nothing hung up. u don’t have cute little things that u make and put up on a wall somewhere they’re all mostly bare and its like u wonder why ur like this. is it personality, is it the volatility of being a child of an unnecessarily long divorce proceeding that made u never want to assume something could be permanent, is it the subconscious thought that you wouldn’t stick around for long, never truly having your own bedroom but being alone anyway. and its like well maybe ur just lazy. it feels like its that simple but also its so much more than that but you cant pinpoint any of it

[havethetouch]

Started my career as gravedigger today. Hope it will be a while until I have to dig a hole again tho. With that being said. Charlie is resting easy now. Things took a bit of a not so good turn so we had to take him to the vet yesterday to make things easier for him (and us ngl). So.. yah. Been a bit of a day yesterday but the thing that really broke my heart was Sherry. So Sherry is the dog my uncle left behind and she was like, besties with Charlie. She was very protective of him too. So we brought him home and laid him out so the other dogs could say goodbye and all that. And man that was a thing. So the youngest - Bambini - former dog of my dad, she was freaked out. You could tell she knew something was off but did not quite understand what was going on so she became skittish and hid. Duke, my aunts dog, he has been through this song and dance twice now with packmembers already, he has already been subdued and quiet for two days he knew what was up long before so he just observed the whole thing with a really tired air to him. Lily, my aunts other dog also knew what was going on, she guarded the body of the last packmember who went before because she loved him very much so she was like.. looking out for my aunt and hiding Bambi mostly. Full caretaker mode here. Sherry tho, she did not even get what was going on at first, she hasn't outlived another dog before even tho she is like 12 this was new. It was only when we put Charlie in his box (but kept him in the room still) that she cottoned on that something was not quite alright here because Charlie does not like being put into shit because he is blind and if he wants to move and can't he will yowl so him being quiet about the box tipped her off that something ain't okay here. So she sneaked up on the box, looked inside and sniffed. Sniffed some more. Put her paw in to paw at him softly and then she made little noises, lil yips to rouse him and I swear to god you could see the very moment she realized. You could see it on her face and in her eyes. That effed me up the most I think. Her realizing. She laid down next to him in the box after feet neatly tucked in and started guard duty. It was the saddest shit. Today everything was a bit subdued naturally, even the dogs. Tho they were not opposed to snacks thankfully. My aunt and uncle had a thing to go to so I took up on digging up a hole while they were gone to make the whole process a bit faster mostly for my aunt when they got back. 's weird. Shit's quiet without that lil tyrant. But like it is also okay in a sense. He was old, he survived his owner, he was 19 and lived a good long life with much love and care even when he became a bit of a brat in his twilight years. At least now he is up with the rest of the fam, wherever they are, back to running and playing.

[el-ow-world]

Everything is fine but I'm engulfed with sadness. Everything is fine but I want to cry so badly, and I can't, because I have no reason to cry; the tears just won’t come. Everything is fine but my heart hurts so much. Everything is fine but why am I thinking of hurting myself?

[the-sun-and-moon-show-fan]

Hey guys! I'm online! The guy I liked broke it off with me😫😥 he already has a date planned with someone else. What do I do??

Anything helps! Except if you know me in real life do not keep sending me kill Bill.I might kill him but no.

[cyber-seaweed]

my bday photoshoot was kinda lana del rey tumblr so im posting it here.

[zerberosa]

[pride-in-di0nysia]

love long forgotten and left to change for years it seems I was unbroken until he fell vulnerable into my life. He didn't see the brokenness of my life, he didn't notice the depths of the void he fell into. He blames my loss and fear and yells in upset, yet I thought I could trust again.

[artsymeeshee]

Felt a need to draw hugs (thinking about sea grunks has made me extra emotional :’))

[ostriches-because-i-said-so]

When I say that I don't want to exist right now, that doesn't mean i want to die. Not to me it doesn't. All it means is I want to disconnect from myself. To not feel my own emotions, to not hear my brain rile on and on, to not feel my skin on my body, to not feel, to not hear, to not taste, to not smell, to not see but still observe. I don't want to be interacted with like a person when I wish to not exist. I wish to a narrator, a viewer, a camera-man. I wish that I could fast forward to when this was a memory. I know it may seem concerning, or maybe a bit outlandish, but it makes sense to me. I want to not be there but still be there. I want to not be acknowledged by anyone and to simply watch. Watch others experience what's happening. And I want to not experience it. I don't want it. I just want to sit in the corner and watch. But when someone's in the corner watching, someone has to whisper. Has to ask questions. Has to make me exist. I don't want that. I don't want to exist, but I don't want to die either. It does make sense to me, but not everyone is me. I don't mind that either. But I want to be able to say that I am not existing and for people to understand. For them to not be concerned about the kid in the corner. About the guy sitting in silence. About your suspiciously quiet friend. I am simply not for now, and I hope you can accept that.

[confusedghostie]

I try to be optimistic and try to enjoy the little things, bit more times than not I wish I did in my sleep

[dying-world-alys]

I want to see you and I don't. I want to be around you but I don't. I don't trust how you'd feel and I can't trust that I'd get my best friends back. Even if I could, I don't know if I should. I've taken so much from everyone already, I can't break this pot even more. I can't let myself do this again. I can't trust myself off a leash of self loathing.

[radio-guts]

whoops forgot this existed mb

anyways my grandfather died?? he was an ass so it's alright

on another note, why does nobody fucking believe when I say I'm alright?

[sw0ns0n]

i miss feeling fulfilled

its just status quo these days

[ghostbloodinc]

A cool blue wave shattered over the rocky surface of the ridge. Everyone was forlorn. The eyes of fate gleamed incomprehinsively. The world burned and the icy cave melted. All was still.