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I finally watched breaking bad (all within the past week or so while I worked, finished it and watched el camino last night) and I'm confident this isn't a new thought I'm expressing or anything but genuinely how DID an entire generation of dudes convince themselves Walter White was cool and admirable and intended to be sympathetic. I know ppl just lack media literacy sometimes but I'm still so confused
I don't think I've EVER watched a piece of media that so blatantly depicts a guy making the worst possible decisions at every turn and having his life ruined for it and not being redeemed or made sympathetic in any significant or lasting way. the kinds of justifications villains USUALLY give that make people consider them "morally grey" or "tragic" or whatever (everything I did was for my loved ones, I did what I had to to survive, once I was in this I couldn't get out, I just needed you to trust me so I could keep you safe, etc etc) is ALWAYS framed as complete self-serving bullshit when Walt says it, and one of the only shreds of personal growth he ever exhibits in the whole series is when he finally fucking admits that. every time he does something even remotely cool or drops a quotable one-liner, something terrible immediately happens that makes everything worse and makes him look like an unreasonable idiot asshole again. by the end of the series the ONLY characters they can still contrast as being morally "worse" than him are literally a bunch of bloodthirsty neonazis who kept a guy in a cage for several months. this show is practically SCREAMING at you the entire time not to admire Walt. why did every dude I knew in highschool have his face on tshirts and Facebook pfps.
I just don't get it. at least with The Dark Knight's Joker it was like, a feature-length movie and that's it. you spend a lot less time with the Joker and it has a lot less time to delve into his motivations, so there's way more room for flanderization and misinterpretation as people extrapolate the few cool/interesting/sad things they saw into a whole nuanced misunderstood guy in their heads and online. Walter White has 5 seasons' worth of 45min episodes to convince you beyond a shadow of a doubt that he is a miserable fucking loser who ruins everything he touches because of greed and selfishness. if you weren't watching it for that, what WERE you getting out of this. what DID you think this show was about. am I just missing some key piece of context from 2012 or whatever that would help me understand this
#buny text#breaking bad#also I'm vaguely aware there was a big movement of fans who blamed everything on his wife and said she was the worst#which like. obvious misogyny from the primary audience of teen boys and young men aside#she's not really worse than any of the other adult characters?? she sucks real bad in the first couple seasons but so does everyone else#half the point of having all these characters be so shitty and rigid and unwilling to grow or accommodate others is so that#they can serve as landmarks to show how rapidly walt is abandoning his morals and spiraling into self-justification as the series goes on#the people you hate in season 1 are largely people you sympathize with in season 4 and 5 because compared to walt they're saints#idk. it's just weird having grown up around the fan culture for this show for the past decade or so and then finally watching it#and just being completely baffled now that i know what they were responding to
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He is at his limit.
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#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wei wuxian#lan wangji#LWJ's breakdown has been a long time coming and I love how he breaks down. It is a torrent of emotions he can't hold back anymore#He bites! He cries! He throws a tantrum!#We know from bonus content that he was a biter when he was younger but that's exactly the point. It is a childish behaviour.#LWJ has been help up to the highest expectations to be mature and beyond any childishness.#He is selfless - cold and composed to the outside observer.#It is a false ideal to live by to be disconnected from everyone. You can't be a person if you are perfect.#But by god he was never perfect to begin with. He has a terrible temper and is awkward in social situations.#He's overly righteous and rigid - And so on and so on. Both him and WWX know each other for their flaws first.#And it is not about how other aspects 'make up for it'. It's about seeing someone's worst traits and going 'I can tolerate that.'#You can't ask someone to love the worst parts of yourself. But you can show them and have them be tolerated.#MXTX did not write SVSSS and MDZS's main couples to be about seeing the worst parts of someone and still choosing them-#only for readers to miss the point of what that really means!
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victorian style haunted house that has dysphoria about not being an open concept minimalist hellhole, before we even have those, so it doesnt know why it just feels sooo miserable and has to lash out at everyone inside it, so its wretched and haunted the whole time, until its finally bought by a house flipper in the 2020s who knows JUST how to fix it
#toy txt post#it lives right next door to the victorian house thats violently resisting the open concept minimalism for itself#actually WAIT. i have a still unnamed witch oc that lives in an open concept modern minimalist house bc i like the contrast with her whole#vibe. what if. thats her house. that would actually be soo funny#she has this wretched awful house that hates everything and puts up with it and then she gets fed up and redecorates and the house suddenly#actually chills out#id say the house next door is birdies. as a joke. except birdie is not renovating. birdie shoved a couple modern appliances into the#kitchen. she hasnt updated the electricity since it was installed when they first invented installing electricity#for anyone else it would be a fire hazard but for her it simply Knows Better#her house is a nightmare#electricians are not allowed inside#its inexplicably Fine#anyway. everyone reads this and starts Booing#cos you dislike The Aesthetic and even i often dislike the aesthetic but you could do some fun transgender shit is all im saying#you mean to tell me this house is miserable and mean bc it hates its form and it cant even conceptualize the changes that would bring it#joy. and then the changes happen and it feels so much better even tho it pisses off the people who think its being mutilated and destroyin#destroying its inherent natural beauty? what next. are you gonna tell it it should at least have kids first? omg nooooo#dont get rid of your gas stove why are you mutilating yourselfffff#anyway this doesnt even have to be the only direction to do transition allegories with. shit is ripe. house designed to be#stodgy and rigid experiences joy in the new dwelling of a relaxex eclectic artist#etc#i say house flipper in the post but i do agree thats inherently soulless. i thinj the point of it is that it does need to be. like#the passion of someone making a home their own. the LOVE of someone finally having a space to be theirself in.
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also also I know everyone likes to talk about how good of an archon Venti is because he left mondstadt to do its own thing and hey look Zhongli's doing the same now with his retirement but I also like how the story shows it isn't without flaws, with so much freedom in the city it's all too easy to take control with power, Mondstadt's people may be free but they also don't have a god to actually uphold the ideal they stand for and how personal freedoms conflict, discrimination(eg. against Eula and her clan) is allowed because the people are free to do whatever they want, the fatui really wormed their way into mondstadt during the webtoon + nearly did with Davalin bc the people of mondstadt do whatever they want so Jean is overworked and the knights are ineffective(according to Diluc), and how mondstadt might have been the least free place for the common people during the Lawrences rule despite being the region governed by the archon of freedom
Zhongli at least first tested his people were ready before retiring, Venti kinda acended, organized a bunch of celebrations for his people, then left them to have fun with their newfound freedom only interveining when things get really bad
#to be fair zhongli's only left his people for a couple of years so who knows maybe if he left them for long enough#despite honing his nation on honesty and contracts things would delve into chaos too#or a capitalistic mess and we all know what it's like to live in one of those#now if liyue didn't have plot-armour-due-to-chinese-region-in-a-chinese-game............#my thoughts on liyue are 'god i wish its story was actually about the common folk common folk#but what i know of the chinese government is the communist party represents the common folk#so in reality it's more like common-folk-party-does-so-good-for-the-common-folk see????'#i really like liyue and its environment too!#wish they explored its flaws too and didn't present it as perfect due to china-chinese-media-relationship!#all of liyue's plots are like 'it's the time of the common folk i want to tell stories about the common people'#'(but also hold on to tradition and respect the traditions which are represented by the adepti)'#can we pls have some actual flaws like the rigidity of contracts and lack of change and rule of tradition#instead of 'contracts are good and honest and also change as the times change for the good of the people'#like yes zhongli at least tested his people before implementing that big change of stepping down#but also if the game didn't have to put china in a positive light tbh idk if he would have done that#as it might be more interesting to explore his archonhood ideal in both its good and its bad#and may have focused more on liyue's difficulting in changing and adapting to the modern tiemes#if venti is the god of freedom and is too free at times then zhongli the god of contracts is too stagnant at times#i have. complicated feelings about liyue due to my complicated feelings about being raised chinese#so mondstadt my fav for representing and giving people freedom#genshin talk
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I need DC to just make Barry and Iris poly and bi like the Silver Age implied repeatedly.
#listen letting people hit on your spouse is not straight monogamous behavior#Letting your spouse marry someone else is not straight monogamous behavior#Iris and Barry were dating couples you cannot convince me otherwise#It was the 60’s if the comics code were less rigid we probably would have seen them waking up in a pile with Carol and Hal#I’m correct. You just don’t know it.
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What Tommy secretly likes about Lizzie in bed you reckon?
The Alfie shaped dildo killed me XD
Which brings me to the question - are you still planning to write their Paris honeymoon fic?
XD my writing strength/pleasure is taking the most crack seeming premise and making it heartbreaking because let me tell you, wow, did i want that to be an absolute tearjerker
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Honeymoon fic - it's still on the timeline list as one of three bits of interest for me between S4 and S5, and I've more than half outlined it, but I've been hit with an Absolute Plague of Anxiety lately really crimping recreational activity. The kind that makes opening a partial doc which made perfect sense when I wrote it and read it previously, suddenly seem like a pile of gibberish stacked on top of itself.
So I'm slowing down to try to sort out what's going on, get back into myself again a little. Mostly, I think the anxiety it's the ominous impending cascade of Demands with work, daycare, parental aging needs, legal stuff, financial stuff all lining up, plus ongoing baby-led minor sleep deprivation. Putting sentences together in coherent ways starts to feel like another Demand that my instinctive self is noping out of; but I've been through this before and just have to work through it somehow...
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Ooh, is that a headcanon!Tommy or a canon!Tommy question? Headcanon sex stuff is easy, I've a long slippery line of these leveraging from (extrapolating? diverging? offshooting from?) very random canon fragments, such as writing his softness/fondness of looking at Lizzie's bare feet actually triggered by my personal OMG NO when Diana stepped on Tommy's boat with her stockinged feet, rather than anything he's ever done with Lizzie's feet. I could go on if this is what you mean?
But canon interpolation feels quite difficult because of how they play the sex scenes - with exception of Tatiana and That Act, which is reused repeatedly throughout the series, the fact he's having sex and/or who with (and the conversations before/after the sex) seems dominant, so there's not a lot of internal sexual interpolation available. He just kind of...has sex. (This is one reason why I was fascinated with the show, TBH: dude has lots of sex and fits a certain stereotype because of that but actually seems kind of...put out by it? performs but doesn't really get into it? is often clearly into the person he's having sex with, but the sex, while enjoyable, is just what's now necessary and he's not particularly for or against it in any personal way?)
If anything, I'd say it's probably Lizzie's facial expressions particularly S5 onwards as intimacy increases: unlike the other sex scenes which are filmed full body, lots of nudity, touching etc, the Lizzie scenes by contrast have Tommy paying a lot of attention to her face more than anything else (albeit that in itself is a consequence of needing to be filmed, and possibly Natasha O'Keeffe has a no-nudity preference they needed to respect? Their scenes are notably different anyway). Even in S2/over the desk, there is a certain kind of Complicated Look he wears when he takes in her face and her sadness, in the aftermath. And if you look at the whole head-cradling, face-smooshing, nose bumping, nuzzling kind of stuff he does to show his connection with others, I imagine a not-too-far stretch is that he likes looking at her very closely throughout. So my bet is on him getting a full secret kick of feeling when he inadvertently makes her smile before/during/after, big and broad and unexpected, like, that’s for me no one else but me I did that, especially because she so hardly ever smiles like that.
#in my head they're two rigid bundles of vibrating anxiety in bed together that sometimes vibrate on the same frequency#anxious married couple bemused at how they came to be married#just kind of happened and they're rolling with it#thinking a good dose of performative heteronormativity might ease some of the anxiety but it doesn't
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It's really cute that they've been making Fang a secret romantic. He's an emotional guy!
He's lighthearted naturally, has shown to get angry in his voicelines, and there's a passion in him that he wants something bigger than a dead end job.
(Cough cough.)
I say secret romantic by the way, because he's always covering up proof of it! He puts so much of himself into any kind of bond, but romantic ones take the cake.
Secret picture of Shelly ❣
Whoever he broke up with, he carries a picture of them around. He laments.
HIS BIGGEST SECRET IS WATCHING ROMANTIC MOVIES. PLEASSEEE
He keeps his favorite romantic films locked away.
It was totally his idea (out of the two) to ask Shelly out to the Tunnel of Love. Too bad Willow's a hater, lol.
#brawl stars#brawlstars#Fang#Fang/Shelly#Kickshots#<- my ship name for them#that cough cough is my way of saying he and Buster are still in Lola's Trio#I like Maisie and I love Gray but i don't like canon one bit.#anyway I will defend and create content for Shelly/Fang#they're a battle couple#they're both passionate#Shelly is grumpier and Fang is kinder.#though he is more open minded to new things and potenial moral principles#unlike Colt who's more rigid in being a good guy.#wahhh I love being a multishippeerrr#so many differing couples 🥰
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#I've been sick the last couple days and today i did a terrible job at hydrating so now its 1:30 AM and I have a migraine#haven't had one in a while and only just discovered i didn't put my soft ice pack back in the freezer so its not cold#so im stuck using a rigid one wrapped in a towel and it sucks ass#really want to take my migraine meds but in the past 10 hours I've already taken dayquil excedrin and my night time meds#which there were a couple hours between the dayquil and night time meds but i feel like theyre canceling each other out#don't have any nyquil unfortunately#kee speaks
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my secret is that i love the mangas (series, movie and atr) not bc they’re consistently the epitome of what makes utena so great, but because i think they’re fucking fascinating and have moments that really shine and merit analysis amongst the other parts that, really, are just a product of having less time in production. like say what you will about x, y or z, and id agree with you that they’re not as strong as the series, but man. i am happy to be able to appreciate them for what they are and what they add to the series
#frankly i think i could fix the mangas (not the movie one. she’s perfect to me tbh)#just a couple of tweaks in characterisation and plot progression#things that happened anyway as the show’s development stretched beyond the manga’s#etc etc etc#but also retaining some of the differences in the manga that i think are neat#idk there’s something so fun to me about a vague timeloop read of manga to series to movie#it pleases me#not that i think overly hard about a rigid science to these things#aou is much more anthy interiority#her body and her mind#the series is ohtori as collective (to me)#and the manga is like. well. not sure what id class it as yet tbh#but it’s the earliest. most fledgling#and i kinda love it for that tbh#dais.txt
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I slept rly deeply last night even tho it took me a while to get to sleep but I think that was bc I had acid reflux and I'd been playing videogames too late not anything else.... still only got 6 hrs but doing pretty okay all things considered 😚
#and not feeling sick this morning so im sticking w the higher dose for one more day. my heart rate does feel a little uncomfortably fast#but its tolerable. just gonna make notes of how it goes through the day and ill submit my review form to my dr this evening#and hopefully she'll give me the green light to drop back down instead of continuing to titrate up#this is making me think of those heartrate fetishists... do u think i could make money selling tachycardic heart recordings online#i do wanna try to exercise this morning while i have energy. might take the bike out it looks like a gorgeously sunny day#maybe ill try to map my cycle route to work so i can consider cycling there instead of taking the bus in a couple weeks..#i cant atm thp cuz they have scaffolding up and its blocked off the bike racks sadly 😔#i think making myself eat + drink as much as i can has helped control the nausea too. just need a lot of fuel to process meds properly ig#and a lot of sleep.. its a bit stressful to think abt how rigid im going to have to be abt my daily routines if i want to stay medicated#but to be honest i have a pretty rock solid sleep/meal routine already bc its the only way i can function with the hours i work#so like. i dont rly need to worry too much. i think i reacted badly the first couple days bc my base anxiety was high#and then bc that feeling was heightened by meds -> made me not eat/sleep properly -> knock on sickness the next day#but yeah still the side effects arent very nice and i dont wanna take the risk of it exacerbating every difficult emotion i deal with#but fingers crossed bc 30 worked rly nice for me and i had barely any side effects so hopefully i can settle w that long term 🤞#we will see....#ANYWAY. sorry for making the same post over and over the last couple days. talking abt it on here has helped me feel a lot calmer#i dont wanna bother ppl irl w every thought and physical symptom i experience hourly. but this is my blog i can do what i want#hope everyone else has a nice sunday <3#.diaries
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*slips further into my delusions* whenever peridot is having a meltdown jasper squeezes him to her chest until he's calm
#jaspidot#they are an autistic couple i swear. jasper is in her own way but it's misdiagnosed#she has a rigid mindset and strong convictions of how things must be and when a thing doesn't fit her fixed mindset she lashes out at it#i swear to god dude
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‘you don’t seem too happy tho :(’ cunt I’ll bite you
#THE ACTUAL CHEEK OF HER LET ME CALM DOWN BEFORE I RANT FUCK MEEEEE THIS GIRL THIS GIRLYPOP EVEN#right so I’ve got a mate that I fell out with a couple weeks ago and she’s not confrontational but she IS the type to hold grudges#and express them in like. really petty ways. so like we settled our argument ages ago and I moved on bc i have a life#BUT IT’S OUR OTHER MATE’S BDAY PARTY TODAY AND IM NOT THAT CLOSE WITH THIS MATE BUT THIS GIRL IS HER FLATMATE YEAH#SO EVEN IF THAT MATE DIDNT INVITE ME DIRECTLY THEN THIS OTHER MATE THAT I AM CLOSER WITH WOULD HAVE#bc basically me her and another girl make a trip like we’re very close and it’s a very rigid trio set up#like you CANNOT invite two and not the other yk? guess what she fucking did#i only FOUND OUT ABOUT THIS PARTY BC THE THIRD GIRL IN OUR TRIO VERY CASUALLY WAS LIKE OH WHAT R U GONNA WEAR#AND I WAS LIKE??? TO WHAT??? AND SHE WAS SO BAMBOOZLED BC THATS HOW MUCH OF A GIVEN IT WAS THAT ID BE INVITED#BC MY MATE INVITED HER BUT NOT ME#and I’ve known that since yesterday morning but I was like okayyy okay im saying nothing am I fuck getting aggy bc I didn’t get INVITED#like that’s embarassing I’m staying silent. which I stick to until suddenly 5pm today#my mate that invited the other girl but not me messages me going#‘are you coming?’ GIRL??? AND THEN PROCEEDS TO TRY GASLIGHT ME LIKE ‘I MESSAGED YOU ABOUT IT’#YOU DID IN FACT NOT#AND I CANT PROVE SHES BEING INNOCENT AND PETTY BC WE FELL OUT AGES AGO BUT IT CERTAINLY FUCKING FEES LIKE IT#and even tho id acc like to have gone to that party I cut my nose off and was like nah im gonna sit this one out it’s just awkward now innit#and she was backtracking by that point bc i think she thought she’d just make me feel marginally uncomfortable and then I’d crawl over#like no bitch!!! and yeah I was a bit mardy on text and she HITS ME WITH THIS#‘are you okay’ ‘yeah you two have fun’ ‘you don’t seem too happy tho?’ YOU FUCKING RECKON???#furious tbh im scheming over how to retaliate even though i KNOW i shouldnt#petty petty girls grow up pls#hella goes to uni
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Nobody told me warping involved so much walking
#lady of food and fiber#i don't have a warping board so i'm just using a couple of clamps attached to a table#it's not even that long of a warp#warping is annoying and I'm ready to be done#i've barely started...#i now have the right sized dent for my yarn so i can make a regular fabric#instead of the ridiculously loose table runner i made before#imma make some dish clothes#weaving#rigid heddle weaving#rigid heddle loom#baby's first real weaving project#also i figured out double knitting today so very proud of that#fiber arts#textile arts
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I'm actually obsessed with designing fictional wedding ceremonies even though most of my wips don't contain weddings
#I just think they're neat!#and also helpful to solidify the worldbuilding#like what is significant or symbolic in this culture#what are their ideas about love and romance#what are their ideas about marriage as an institution/social unit#how important of an event is this comparatively#who is invited#is it a quick one and done or an all-day process with several intricate rituals#how does this change based on class/wealth#how much is religion incorporated if at all#how much is customizable to people's tastes vs how much is rigid#how often do committed couples get married? is it the norm or like an ''above and beyond''#anyway in conclusion designing a wedding can help you figure out your fictional culture and everyone should try it
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How do you feel about Stan and Wendy’s relationship after the new episode?
oh god these are so late hgjfd
The episode made me aware how dissatisfied I am abt their relationship, and how trey falls into the trappings of writing m/f a Specific Way (his gay relationships have a higher success rate and tends to be less cynical than his straight ones... kinda makes ya think).
I've never really seen Stan and Wendy's dynamic in play. Like where's the banter. I don't see them go on a date. What do they talk about? Some episodes I don't know if they're dating or not, and I'm not sure if they're written where I'm supposed to root for them. I know they're some kinda on-off will they wont they but its so. bland and they do each other so dirty. Stan more than Wendy.
As of chat gpt.... I don't feel the affection Stan once had for Wendy. She's been Sharon-fied for him. I think instead, Stan doesn't like being alone, Wendy is a constant in his life, so he resigns to stay. (a through line in many of Trey's m/f relationships too...)
#asks#I'm not totally invested to Stendy and haven't looked into their relationship as much#of all the couples they seem the most surface level to me#I think the only good stendy focused episode for me was raisins hgjfd#the thing is tho there IS potential for them to be a jucier proper on-off that's whats pissin me off#wendy's character is there. stan's character is there. so trey!! let these two fleshed out characters! have more airtime! to be a couple#or struggle as a couple!#I read some fics where they balance each other so well#Wendy's good with words and is sure of herself#so when Stan rambles or 'ums' 'ahs' 'like so yeah' she's patient#and helps collect his thoughts#and stan's sensitive nature and his playfulness is refreshing to wendy who usually seems a little rigid#Im like hollyyy shit thats so cute and that works good for their characters and shows different sides to them so trey wtf is ur excuse
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i do understand english speaker complaining about learning french because their language is so easy to learn. but have they realized every french new born baby has to learn it and are graded on it throughout their whole school career and judge for it every single day because we (french people) can be so fucking annoying about rules everyone hates
#french side of tumblr#frenchblr#no because yeah learning gender for inanimate objects as a 16 years old is weird but what about kids being constantly corrected on it#dude the level of of white supremacy/traditional french values are so high we’ve killed almost every regional accents#and only have a couple of regional languages left#now take that info and imagine how rigid french people can be with grammar rules and stuff#like i’m exaggerating a bit because spoken french is more lenient but written??#dude you need to make as little mistakes as possible if you want to be taken seriously
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