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nymph1e · 1 year ago

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On Discomfort and Morality

My father finds gay men uncomfortable.

He's told me before that it's like a knee-jerk for him. Something he doesn't consciously control. He sees two men behaving romantically, and his body reacts with mild discomfort.

In the 1960s, when he was in high school, most of the boys in his form thought he was gay on the simple fact that he wasn't homophobic. He wouldn't participate in insulting queer people, he didn't care if someone was gay, he wouldn't have a problem hanging out with gay people. So people thought he was gay. That's how prevalent homophobia was in his formative years.

When I was 10, my dad told me very seriously that Holmes and Watson were gay. That it was obvious from the literature and the time period that they were meant to be a gay couple. When I was 14 and I came out to my parents as bi, when my mum was upset my dad ripped into her for it. Told her that she was being stupid, that it was my life to live how I wanted to and that she needed to get over herself.

My dad formed my views on censorship: that being that it was completely ridiculous and thoroughly evil. He didn't believe in censorship of any kind. If I asked him a question about sex, he answered it honestly. When I was 12 and I asked him about homosexuality, still young and uncertain, he told me that there was nothing wrong with it. That it was just how some people were. That there was likely an evolutionary reason for it. And that for some people it was uncomfortable on an instinctual level.

He taught me that just because you're uncomfortable with something, doesn't make it wrong. He also taught me that most people don't understand this.

I see a lot of this on the internet as of the last few years. The anti shipping movement, the terf movement, the anti ace movement. It all stems from discomfort that people have crossed wires into believing means wrong. Really every -ism and -phobia out there stems from this same fundamental aspect of humanity.

The next time you see something and you automatically think it's disgusting, or wrong, or immoral, I invite you to ask yourself: is this actually wrong or does this just make me uncomfortable?

#shipping discourse #anti censorship #anti terf #my mum isn't homophobic #she was upset because she thought it meant i couldnt have children or a family #and this is something important to her #she was also not upset around me but to my dad in private

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the-golden-vanity · 3 months ago

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I miss this... North Atlantic Ocean, near Block Island, 8/12/24.

#this is what I mean by everything is making noise all the time #tales from the sea #sailing #tall ship sailing #pride of baltimore ii #pride of baltimore #topsail schooner #schooner #tall ship #sailing ship #age of sail #privateer #golden age of piracy #pirate #nautical #maritime #ocean #19th century

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emkini · 2 years ago

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AZULA GET BACK HERE-

Any fire siblings concept that gives them this vibe is an automatic favorite

#do NOT tag this as ship I will sic azula on your ass #atla #avatar the last airbender #zuko #azula #fire siblings #comic #em draws #atla fanart #I like the idea that Azula is Zuko's passive-aggressive court behavior translator #Zuko: So like. did it seem like that noble was being kind of a dick?#Azula: Currently I have a private investigation underway to uncover an assassination plot I believe he is spearheading #Zuko: Ah

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seraph5 · 3 months ago

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Member’ a few days ago when I was like poor Arthur always craning his neck for John, oh what if John kneeled. oh.

Well here we are.

@izel-scribbles this one goes out to you and the many clams I hope are incoming ✨

#apparently the darker the ship the softer the art heh #it feels so wedding to me #but that’s cool john has kind of made allusions to wanting them to be together till Arthur dies #which better be never - says John #jarthur #private eyes #malevolent #soft art #size difference #malevolent podcast #myart #Arthur Lester #John doe

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eva-birdman · 4 months ago

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Some more human John and Arthur sketches plus BIG hug with Oscar!

#John has big arms for big hugs #I think he would have been overhyped for coffee. maybe by noel. and he tries it and it's so bitter #malevolent #arthur lester #john doe malevolent #oscar malevolent #jarthur #private eyes #ik there's a ship tag for arthur and all his boyfriends but noel is missing idk how to tag the three of them lmao #my art

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thiamblogger · 4 months ago

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"two boys can be friends, you know??"

i know.. but they're not.

#dead poets society #anderperry #teen wolf #thiam #house md #hilson #stand by me #lachambers #the outsiders #johnnyboy #stevepop #boy meets world #jeric #one direction #larry stylinson #my own private idaho #mikey x scott #idk the ship name..

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eudaemon-m · 7 months ago

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uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

#arknights #mm this is just to get silly a bit okay spring finally came to my town and i need to get dumb on main #yeaaa idk the further tags #saria arknights #silence arknights #olivia silence #do i need to put hermer version too #um oka #olivia hermer #and whats the eng ship tag #sariasil #krilling myself and privating the blog in 0.002 seconds.#the tail is supposed tobe acting unconcsiously.

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a-ferryman-a-day · 1 month ago

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do u do ships? if so could u do ur fav ferryman ship? :]

Day 19 - haha guys I’m so funny

#ferryman #ferryman ultrakill #ultrakill #daily ferry #day 19 #i swear the ferryman is there- you just need to look ;]#Also to answer your question anon - I do do ships and I don’t have a fav one tbh #Like obv the most known ones (ferrygabe and fv2) are ones I draw the most (privately in my sketchbook) but out of all I’ve seen I don’t hav #A favourite ship lol #On a side note I don’t ever draw bgs and I died making it

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toomanylesbiancouples · 26 days ago

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Sometimes I like to wonder how many times Kathryn and Aubrey had to kiss each other to film this scene.

We know it was at least 2 because of the POVs but I bet on more, maybe twice for each side. And yet they’ve delivered the same passion, desire, despair and yearning for the whole scene.

Absolute cinema.

#I actually wanted to be Joe Locke to watch it live #it doesn’t mean I ship the actresses though #I respect their private lives and stuff #but I like to watch beautiful women make out #oh what a delicious kiss we got #thank you marvel for letting this see the light of day #the ending was kind of meh but at least we got a good kiss #agatha all along #agatha harkness #kathryn hahn #rio vidal #aubrey plaza #agathario #agatha x rio #lesbian #rio x agatha #vidarkness #marvel #lgbt

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rateatinginsulation · 5 months ago

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Hey what

#🤨🤨#I understand the shipping now #Them bitches really are gay #But also best friends I'm gonna throw up #arthur lester #malevolent #Wait a minute what the fuck is their ship name #private eyes #Haha that's cute #jarthur

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alien-enjoyer · 12 days ago

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noticed something. people have made this before but i dont think ive seen robin in it so here

the fire text generator website couldnt handle the caption so i improvised

#i know robin subnautica is a girl she can be a brother as a treat #my post #subnautica: below zero #subnautica below zero #robin ayou #al an subnautica #al-an subnautica #do robin and al-an not have a proper ship name? thats boring get on that #(the game has been out for several years it’s not gonna happen now)#malevolent #arthur lester #john doe malevolent #jarthur #private eyes #eddie brock #venom #symbrock #<- as a treat #oooh venom likers you wanna listen to malevolent sooo baddddddd #bill cipher #ford pines #stanford pines #billford #<- oooh billford likers you ALSO wanna listen to malevolent sooo badddd #listen to my (harlan’s) horror podcast boy #if i’d played or seen someone play stanley parable i mightve added those guys too but i dont think thats possession. the narrator seems more #like a guide than someone living in stanleys head to me #maybe im wrong who knows be niceys about it if i am though

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the-golden-vanity · 3 months ago

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Day 3 of our sailing voyage, somewhere off the coast of Long Island— I had a little friend with me at the helm. He stayed on our mainsail boom long enough to dry his feathers, and then flew off to wherever he was going.