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Our Thoughts on "Final Fusion"

I just saw a post that was talking about how they believed that the only way to live a functional life with a dissociative disorder that causes plurality is to work towards final fusion. Which I don't personally believe is true, and I find this line of thinking to be more than a little prejudiced.

I think if your system decides final fusion is the way you need to heal, that's wonderful. I think if your system decides that working towards better communication and focusing on healing your parts through integration (if fusion happens along the way that's cool) then that is equally healthy and happy.

Final fusion is not realistic for every system, and is not the answer for every system.

I think some aspects of fusion can even be traumatic. Becoming someone new(that you have never been before), having to re-cope with trauma that two alters healed from separately, other headmates missing friends that fused... It's just not the answer all of the time. It's complex and nuanced and it's unfair to pretend it isn't.

The point of plurality is to achieve functionality. Our brains split to survive and live like those around us after experiencing extreme damage. We are built to thrive with the damage we have sustained, it is almost an insult to the (sure, imperfect, but also) very capable evolution of our brains.

I don't want any arguing/debating about this, and I don't want any unnecessarily aggressive responses, but if you'd like, I'd love to hear some other plural opinions about this in the comments.

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Plurality is a spectrum.

Not all plurality is dysfunctional, it doesn't need to be "cured" it needs to be functional.

Plurality is under researched and there is so, SO much we don't know. You've no way of telling if someone is plural or not. Endos are probably plural they're just in denial about their trauma and that's not functional systemhood, get a handle on that.

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Suspected diagnosis: OSDD-1b

(we can't risk getting more than a confirmation from a therapist/being diagnosed on paper because our physical health is so severe. Living in America means that our healthcare is limited and prejudiced, we will not be taken care of the way we need to in the event of emergencies where we live, if we are diagnosed. As unfortunate as that is, we still plan to work with a therapist to achieve the most functionality possible for our system.)

Diagnosis: C-PTSD, H-EDS, POTS

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