#pls be safe

[hamham-moments]

[orcixs]

[nkogneatho]

y'all as much as we might enjoy smut, i want you to remember fictional sex ≠ real sex. if you actually want to try something you read somewhere, please do a proper research and educated yourself. play safe <3

[bambina-daydreamer]

Piastri fixing his mirrors?? girl for what we're not tryna be safe we tryna win

[z0mb1e-sl1me]

psa to all my fellow queer folk and trans people and people who bind in general; if you have sensitive skin, DO NOT USE TAPE. i don’t know if i was just doing it wrong (i followed several tutorials proven correct and safe) but it was unbearably itchy within the literal first day of wearing it. i had no lotion or excess deodorant under the tape, and all my life i’ve experienced something like contact dermatitis from many little things and have no prescription medication for it.

again, little PSA,

IF YOU HAVE SENSITIVE SKIN PLEASE BE EXTREMELY CAUTIOUS AND REFRAIN FROM TAPE BINDING !!!!

any tips from older trans folk who have experienced is extremely appreciated; especially aftercare for the blistering and painfully raw skin im experiencing atm.

[doa-rose]

quick reminder that, if you post pet photos, to be careful of things like dog tags that might have your address, phone number, full name, or other personal information on them.

[lhaewiel]

‌🚨🚨Urgent appeal🚨🚨

To be a human being who feels the suffering of others

What did my innocent little child do to die slowly?

Please, I ask for help for my little child whom I gave birth to after 11 years of suffering until he was born in the war💔😭 No treatment, no medicine, and no minimum necessities of life

He is now suffering from eye infections and shortness of breath due to the heat of the tents, the repeated shelling, and the dust of explosive materials resulting from the shelling and repeated displacement

🚨🚨We need you, save us, help us In saving the life of death 😭😭🚨🚨

https://gofund.me/11525cb3

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[blizzardfluffykpop]

Update to the last ask…….

My dad is now acting like nothing happened and my mom Claims it was the alcohol talking but to me, it doesn't matter. what happened the night still hurt me he still said those hurtful words and now I'm not acting like I used to and I only see a stronger. I thought parents were supposed to love you and protect you but it's them the ones that make the biggest damage. Now I don't talk to my dad like I used to I burly look him in the eye and I try to not spend too much time around him so he won't call me a burden again. Now that I look back I kind of raised myself I did everything on my own I never asked for help with homework when I was at school and before I started to work I burly asked him for anything so for him to say all that really hurts. And I feel broken and unloved. I don't know what's like to be loved or to be told that you are important all I get is the end of the stick calling me extra or whatever but sometimes I wish I could disappear and maybe everyone would be happier I only bring stress and annoyance to people.

The advice you gave me really helped thank you so much ❤️

Oh bub... Thank you for the update and pls feel free to update me whenever!

You don't deserve that- you're owed more than a proper apology. And him brushing it off like it didn't happen... And the alcohol excuse is lame. And you're right- it doesn't matter. What they said to you and what transpired was wrong- and cruel. I see why you see him as a stranger. I've seen my dad as one too a lot of my life. That's exactly what parents are supposed to do. They are supposed to love unconditionally, take care of you, and protect you even well after you are 18... It sucks that yours don't want to do so. Their job once they have kids never ends- they're supposed to be there for you- not throw you to the wolves. They're supposed to be someone safe to return to. I'm so sorry you didn't get the parents you deserved. No one deserves to be treated the way you have been.

I want you to know that hwvr you feel like being around your dad is the right choice. You do not have to talk to him or engage or do anything that would make you feel unsafe. I want you to know that you are not burden. He fucking knew what he signed up for when he had you. And now he's not upholding his bargain. You're not a burden. You are anything but that, okay? I promise you that.

Sadly, the only way we can connect dots is when we look back. And I'm sorry these are the dots you have to connect. I was the same way- I raised myself too. And I'm sorry you had to have that experience too. A kid shouldn't have to... And I didn't ask for help on homework and until I got a job- I learned not to ask for anything either. I know it sucks when you hear someone say 'I understand how you feel' but I genuinely do. That part of my life is greatly the same... Anyways- I hope you use your money to buy yourself things that make you happy even if they're small. I hope you know you were never a burden. He was wrong to say that (along with everything else he's said). What he said was uncalled for and hurtful.

All you feel is valid, okay? You have every right to feel that. But I hope you know that there are going to be people who will love every piece of you. And that your parents aren't the end all be all to that safety/happiness/love. They are just a starting point (at least for us)- and you're going to find better and better people I promise you that. You don't know it right now. But you will. I know so- why? Because I thought the same. And now while I am still stuck here. I've found people who love and care for me. A concept I thought was implausible... I promise you'll find genuine people. (it may take a bit too- but just know not everyone can be what you need- you may need 10-20 friends just to fill even the smallest of gaps). But for now, I want you to know that I'm your friend.

And bubba- I know you want to think you are a form of stress and annoyance to people. But you're not. If your dad or mom said that or made you think that. I want you to know that they were completely wrong. Money is a source of stress. Taxes and work are forms of stress. Loving someone and receiving love- isn't supposed to be stressful. You are not supposed to feel like you are an annoyance to people. You aren't. Someday you'll get to move out "disappear" and I promise you that. You just have to work towards that. And it seems like it'll take "forever" but you'll get there.

A little advice for today:

It might be hard but if it's possible- I want you to try to make friends in real life. It'll sound silly until I explain. If you hang out with enough friends and are at work the other times outside of sleeping. Doesn't matter if you come to huffy puffy asking you where you've been all day. It'll keep you out of the house. And it'll keep you safe and it'll help you stay sane. I won't lie it is hard to make and maintain friendships. And only do what will be non-exhaustive for you. It might be hard- but you may have to set into boundaries (which may be difficult to do at first too). But I want you to know these friends and acitivies you do with them- will keep you out of that house. And I want you to know that you never have to tell your friends what it's like at home. Okay? If that doesn't make you feel safe- you can just gloss over what your parents are like/do. Say your dad is like mine and is into cars- that's what you tell them about him. You don't have to go further. You can protect yourself and gloss over things until you feel comfortable, okay?

This "glossing over" bit may sound awful- like you are protecting your abusers. I want you to know that- it's not protecting them. It's keeping you from falling apart when you talk about it. Because these wounds are so fresh. And esp because you're just starting to uncover these wounds... So, until you are ready to talk about it with others- you don't have to. But again- I will reiterate the point that you are my friend, and you can come to me. Okay? I'll be here every step of the way.

Feel free to reach out whenever- even if it's for the smallest thing, okay?

[tired-inyxe]

That’s arguably worse

[leatherfag]

you get on kink tumblr and what they don’t tell you is it’s an infinite number of trans puppy dogs all crowded in here like it’s a clown car

[princessg3rard]

ok so I’ve been seeing a worrying trend and I need to know

it’s important for me to know bc a couple mutuals have already shown me screenshots of this happening :( stay safe pls ily forever <3

[tracritical]

[cursedlanternsstuff]

Very very true, if y’all doubt Gallus go check out the “Places you can’t go and people went anyways” series by Mr. Ballen. There are. So many. Cave and Diving Incidents that went horrifically.

caving as an extreme sport is sooo unfathomable to me why are u as a creature of the daylight doing that. were u born without the dread in ur bones or something

[thelunarfae]

a little concerned about @four-twenny-teddy-bear

sending good vibes

[w0rnoutsock]

stretch them out. tell them that one more finger won't hurt. that you're doing it for their own good, that they need to learn how to take dick.

"shhh it's okay sweetheart i know you can take another one" , while they're crying, shaking and clenching around my 3 fingers already sliding all the way in.

"we should try the big toy today. right?" if they shake their head, just grab the toy and force it in. push one hand down on their tummy so they can feel extra full. watch their walls cling to the slippery silicone and their eyes get super teary as they won't stop sobbing.

"feels good, yeah?" they shake their head. "awhh you'll get used to it." kiss their forehead. ram into them. loosen them up. hit their cervix. bruise it.

[cnc]

[hinamie]

"I'll show you every day that choosing to live was worth it"

some of my favourite scenes from @hijinks-n-lowjinks' fic things i would miss from the other side . this fic tore my heart out fr but like in a good way and i wanted to pay it homage the only way i know how <3