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I think someone has mentioned this before as seeing as the veilguard is in the Fade, their rooms are most likely their own construction or at the very least, they did some manipulation to make the existing rooms their own.
bc no way does Solas have a POOL in the lighthouse that Harding could chill in or near replica of the statues in the grand necropolis that could feel like home for Emmrich and seeing as Solas still has noodle arms, the gym set up is definitely Taash's imagination.
With that in mind, Lucanis's uhh...situation feels very much like a person who has the freedom to choose whatever he wants for the first time but because he absolutely doesn't know how to, he just goes with whatever is comfortable. And what's comfortable to him is a secluded room that's filled to the brim with food and a cot that is comfortable enough for him to sleep in but not too comfortable that he'll sleep through the night if someone attacks him in his sleep. Like i bet he just camped in the pantry and did little modifications to it besides imagining a sleeping space bc he doesn't know How.
#dragon age#lucanis dellamorte#im gonna start tagging him lmao#i do love that his room lacking in personality shows off a lot of things about him#like lucanis has no real hobbies besides cooking and i bet to him that isnt even a hobby#it's for survival#and his loyalty to the crows only extends to his love for his family#and considering he uhh faked his death / could be dead then that part is a touchy subject for him probably
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What you said about Grian keeping his modesty even after leaving the Watchers.... Hmmmm.... Grian in Hijab.... Yes that's the shit...
i think hijabs are just for women ! i'm unsure what the male equivalent is
But ! The Watchers i write are inspired by Catholicism, his mum is a nun who veils. This is also just for women, but if he wereeee to veil then it'd be something like that--i mean not the full extent of a nun, but there are head scarves that allow hair and neck to be shown
headscarves are very pretty regardless tho <3
#ask#hijabis fr look like princesses anytime i see them on tiktok im awe struck#<- which i hope is ok to say ! i think flowing fabric is pretty#i used to draw Tommey veiling with a bandana ! pagans also veil and i think its gender neutral#also im a pretty modest person too so i always prefer drawing clothes/extra layers *_*#modesty is also a touchy subject i dont think anyone should be forced to cover.-#-you should only dress how ur comfortable. and never tell others how to either !-#-regardless of religion imo !! religion is very personal !#Catholics usually only veil within churches but it depends eh#AUGH im thinking abt kid xelqua again. always seeing his mum wear a veil so he does too. just bc hes a kid. they copy. so cuTE#in 3L he should wear a veil and no one knows he has cat ears#i think more people should write the watchers using their own religions it'd be rly interesting i think#PERSONALLY i always saw veiling as ... protection from evil eye ? i guess how i'd word it ? and less abt ~purity or whatever
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auau 🦋 sugar | mellow pop thank you party 20231127
#me when i remember i technically know how to make gifs and i can just make whatever i want 😁😁 it's auau time!#this fancam is so good. thank u to the person who recorded it over a year ago for contributing 2 my brainworms Now <3#auau thanaphum#dvi#dvi tpop#tpop#thai pop#springgifs#flashing tw#the flashing on this is actually crazy in the bg lmao rip#hinmotion#visualtaehyun#esmetracks#b.txt#and if anyone was interested. the way he moves + his expressions in middle gif is Really getting to me. thanks#was i having a bit of a crisis last night thinking abt how i wont get to see dvi live ever? maybe. its a touchy subject...
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I beg people in the MW to think very carefully when they talk about mental illness and physical disability cause it’s not as straight forward and easy to diagnose/depict as you think…
#it’s less I hate the analysis more so the way people talk about these real mental disorders in really demonizing ways#like there aren’t people who leads normal lives#and are well adjusted with these disorders like only people like them can do shit Jimmy does and it’s in a really fear mongering way like#please be careful with how you handle those subject matter not every bad character needs a reason why some people are just like Jimmy no#no clear diagnosis or if ur gonna pick something you don’t need to be on the apd spectrum to be narcissistic it’s just like I wish people#would understand that like people like him just exist he would not be diagnosed as either in like a clinical setting cause it’s more than#just hitting the boxes plus like it’s stated that Jimmy still choice to do what he was doing#like a big thing with sort of violent apd personalities is they don’t show any regret or remorse at all for these actions and he does it’s#born from self preservation but to this extent to classify he’d have to still not feel anything like it’s just a touchy thing and we are#bordering on the same fear mongering people had about schizophrenia or bpd#like I just feel like he def has something but it’s not named or define for a reason like he practically fits everything and it’s likely i#intentional so you can give him that excuse but it’s likely he’s just like that like some people are cruel with no sort of neurosis like hes#def delusional but sociopaths and psychopaths tend to have a better grip on reality than he does#did and more factors point to himself than anything going on in his head#this is just the psych in me but pls be super careful with how you discuss mental illnesses cause it’s still his choice to do the things he#mouthwashing
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Does Mike still has DID in this AU?
yep, but only Chester, Svetlana and Manitoba are in his system
(not trying to ignore/dismiss Vito and Mal here, its just I believe that some Very Fucked Up things had to happen to Mike for them to exist, I also believe that said things would have had to happened a little later in his life, say like late childhood/early teens, and keep in mind in this au Mike was only four when he got adopted, and most likely developed only those three alters from constantly going through foster homes)
#I don't want to play psychologist but I don't think every alter a person with did has develops all at once#idk its a pretty touchy subject but that's the best way I can explain it#hope this doesn't rub off the wrong way#noco family au
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I love the 666 series! It doesn’t matter if it’s explicit or not, your characterizations and plot are what makes it amazing to read. I’m sorry you’ve been apprehensive about posting more due to all the attention on it (most of them are in the top 2 pages of the ship on AO3, congrats). I know I for one will be THRILLED to read any addition, just becuase it’s from you and about the characters you’ve fleshed out for us. - 🐈⬛
Aw, thank you! Honestly I really appreciate everybody's positive responses! The apprehension was mostly at the sheer volume of response to the last installment, with that specific and unfortunate combination of a lot of lamenting that it was winding down (however well-meaning those comments were) + the folks that got really weird about the CNC. One person who left such a comment even ended up deleting it, I think probably after realizing that it wasn't a reasonable thing to critique when they admitted they hadn't actually read any of the other installments.
I generally try to write primarily for myself and what I want to see in fics, so I think that's where I got a little overwhelmed was the feeling that I was disappointing people by not continuing the series, which is also where now the awkwardness comes from, of, "Well, it's been a while and now I have some more ideas..."
At any rate, I'm going to keep writing for myself. Whenever I do feel this way, the trick to get past it tends to be telling myself that I'll write it, I can just keep it in my drive if I feel like it. I never do, in the end, but it leverages away that sensation of feeling like I'm writing to other people's expectations rather than my own, ehehe.
Anyway, thank you again! <3 Very excited for digging open these character's headcases some more! >:)
#ask#personal#Anonymous#black cat anon#t#ngl the person who left the comment without reading any previous installments actually offended me LMAO#I responded politely but I just don't get how you can basically read ONLY the last 50 pages of a nearly 500-page novel#and decide that none of the preceding context matters#(though I'm going to be honest I think that even without that context the consent established was very clear)#(but I know CNC and variations thereof are a very touchy and subjective subject for a lot of people)
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i read a slam i wrote to my dad and he almost started crying
i think i fucking nailed it guys!!
#my yaps#it was a slam about addiction#And i think it’s a really beautiful one#I’m really proud of my work and to see my dad tearing up over it kinda just makes me feel sm prouder of it#Addiction is a really touchy subject to me#for many personal reasons#And so to finally write about it just feels so freeing#And it feels so validating to see how much others around me seem to like it#Hihihi#i just really needed to brag about my slam#I try to stay humble usually but like#I’m really really proud of that work so#And it’s special to me
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Hey if you gloat about "stealing" f/o's from a person who doesn't like to share, I'm gonna need you to grow up and respect people's boundaries and also get the fuck away from me.
#To the idiot I just blocked.#you're not cool or funny. You're an asshole.#My self ships and my f/o are incredibly personal to me. I do not self ship strictly for fun. I ship for a multitude of reasons one being#I'm ficto and second is that I cope a lot with my f/o. They've helped me in so many ways that your tiny little brain cannot even begin to#comprehend. (you as in the jerk I blocked)#So yeah if you throw around the terms 'stealing f/o's' please block me you're too immature for my liking.#Yeah. I'm pissed off. I don't care. I'm going to feel what I'm feeling. Don't do this shit- I have past trauma's of this shit happening to#me where someone actually did just ship with every f/o I shipped with after meeting me or started dming me#Or pretending they're platonic only to turn around and have them romantic and show me#So yes this is a very very touchy subject for me and why I heavily curate who I follow // don't follow. I have trust issues big time.#vent.tw#Sorry but I'm not okay with this type of behaviour.
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okay i'm giving in to my urge to make izanami, my cursed womb oc, but i'm going to quarantine her off on a sideblog because that whole plotline is so full of shit that hits broad spectrum squicks and triggers. it's easier to tap dance around or talk about it obtusely with choso but it's impossible to escape the sexual violence, torture, body/reproductive horror etc, inherent to discussing the woman with said cursed womb. so it will be neatly cordon off for all of our peace of mind.
#pay no attention to the man behind the curtain / ooc.#i cannot stop thinking about that poor woman the fact she doesn't even have a NAME or FACE in canon HAUNTS ME#izanami started as a personal challenge to confront and work with the kinds of horror i usually avoid like the plague#and now she's my tragic pookie#but yeah i know things like reproduction horror can be touchy (it squicks me too) so i won't subject people to it on main that'd be mean
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Re: the tech era thing like. We gotta stop doing this man. The technology you had access to as a kid, be it your first gaming console or your first mobile phone or your first smartphone or whatever the fuck, will never be a reliable indicator of what generation you are and to pretend otherwise is a horrendously classist insinuation. And I get that these posts are just intended as a bit of harmless fun/nostalgia bait/whatever but you gotta learn to think a little critically about it man come on
#this is not to say you're a bad person or whatever for interacting w them#I do too! I like hearing about people's early interactions w tech I find it really interesting!#but I've seen enough truly rancid takes to know that some people take it actually seriously and like. man. come on.#money is and will always be a touchy subject and no one is lesser for not having had access to whatever they '''should''' have been playing#with at that time#ash.txt#also some people just straight up aren't interested and that is also not a thing they should be made to feel bad for
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i just have this suddenly wave of emotions tonight. sometimes it just really hits me how different things are from even just last year, and how far i've come. i look back on those dark times and it just truly moves me. i never thought i would be where i am today. i'm so, so thankful; thankful to my family, thankful to God, my faith, thankful to you too. whoever needs to hear it: there is light at the end of the tunnel. bad days, weeks, even years will not last forever. you'll find joy and happiness again. you aren't alone, and you are loved. even when you feel otherwise. keeping holding on. it's worth it, and you deserve the goodness in the future that awaits you ❤️
#i don't talk about my faith here#i know it can be a touchy subject#but my faith is what got me through#and it's something i want to feel more comfortable to share#i want to be more open about it#and about the things i've gone through#i want to share my story more#and maybe it can give even just one person comfort#we aren't alone and we have to look out for each other#and give each other encouragement#because it can feel so lonely at times#we need to hold each others hands through things#and i need to be better at making this blog a place for that#and a place where i can feel comfortable sharing that#it's small but it's still a platform#i just feel as though i need to use it in a way that can spread that love and kindness
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jelp i thought of the "periods ah yes i am familiar indeed" for Chip and someone but like. he's actually pregnant now
I DONT MEAN FOR THIS TO BE A JOKEY TOPIC HES A TRANS DUDE WITH A KID PLEASE THE MPREG JOKES ARE SILLY BUT HAVING THIS FUCKING CHILD WILL GENUINELY HELP HIM BETTER HIMSELF SCREAMING AND THRASHING AROUND
#mod speaks#JUST PREFACING.....#we can all get REALLY touchy on the subject of someone being pregnant but like#i do just want this to not become the ENTIRE focus of the askblog#like HES ABSOLUTELY NOT GONNA BE WORKING ANYMORE#but i do want you guys to check in and see how his personality adjusts as a result of this:)
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Beyond happy that my mom is officially declared cancer-free ❤
#she has been for the last 5-6 years but now it's finally official#not gonna go into detail because its a very touchy subject for me but we nearly lost her like 3 times along the way#personal
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anticipatory grief is actually one of the worst things in the world I hope nobody ever has to deal with it
#stupid shit#this is actually more of an anxiety thing but whatever I'm having an episode rn#I have a job interview tomorrow for a job that if I get it will essentially be taking up my nights and weekends#and that's kinda the way it has to be for the next year and a half and I'm trying to learn to just accept it#until I graduate#then I can get a normal person job#and I was fine up until about an hour or so ago#thinking about how I'm not going to be seeing my mom as much#and my mom is a very touchy subject for some reason to me#her medicine is working fine *knock on wood*#but I still feel this sense of overwhelming guilt#like I'm doing something absolutely horrible by leaving her#I constantly feel like the second I'm not within the same building as her she's going to just die#and I know I just need to do this#But I'm just having a really hard time thinking about leaving her#In my head it tells me i'm essentially leaving my mom for a year and a half maybe even more depending on how quickly I can get a new job#after graduation#so we're not party rocking
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Had a little cry sesh (for the first time actually) after delivering some flowers to my grandpop’s gravesite today for his birthday but then made myself laugh at how he would probably make fun of me for doing so.
#personal#celebrate bdays like it’s your 21st on repeat always#although bdays are a touchy subject for me and we didn’t get to have a great bond I never wanted to see him suffer#my dad gets his humor from him so I only imagined what he would say
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I finally read the full translation of Shua’s ment and I really wish wherever he goes, love and happiness follows him. It must’ve been a burden for him to cry the way he did and I wish the world would love him back ten times as much as he does. I admire him so much for his work ethic, his skills, and most importantly for how he treats everyone with so much kindness. for him to continue to treat the world with kindness after all that, he’s really brave
We always wish our idols happiness but I find it so cruel how some people would take it back the moment this supposed happiness does not include them. They’re people like us at the end of the day, who also get hurt by mean comments and baseless allegations
#chia.diary#mean chia talking but yeah I’m personally shoving an umbrella and opening it in his anti’s a-holes#idk I don’t really talk about it bc it’s a touchy subject for some#but I really wished Shua didn’t experience that#it was already bad for me as someone who ults him#(also august was bald month in general)#literally heart broke </3 when I saw him cry
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