#parasocial attractions

[pixxiesticksys]

Not radqueer

Parasocial Attachment Disorder

Parasocial Attachment Disorder

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This is NOT a radqueer term

Parasocial Attachment Disorder is a term to describe people who experience parasocial relationships on the most disruptive level.

Symptoms people with Parasocial Relationships may experience are

Inability to think about anything other than Parasocial Figure for long periods of time, resulting in lack of focus

A need for constant updates or viewings of Parasocial Figure causing excessive internet usage in their name

A sense of emotional pain or distress when Parasocial Figure is no longer accessible or available which can lead to feelings of abandonment or loss

A sense of jealousy or discomfort towards other fans or when when Parasocial Figure interacts with others

Intense emotional reactions to the life events of Parasocial Figure

A tendency to view Parasocial Figure as perfect, leading to unrealistic ideals

A tendency to struggle interacting with those on the same "relationship level" as Parasocial other. Siuch as having a hard time making friends due to the belief that they will never be as good or feeling they're cheating on their partner due to their feelings

Unrealistic ideals for the future, such as believing they will meet Parasocial Figure and Parasocial Figure will immediately be everything they dreamed of them being/solve all of their problems

Desire to take/intrusive thoughts of taking extreme measures to ensure a relationship with Parasocial Figure

Feelings of depression, distress, anguish, or even suicidal over the reality of the relationship between themself and Parasocial Figure

Inability to stop or control thoughts relating to or about Parasocial Figure/Influx of intrusive thoughts

Attachment to Parasocial other feels like a disorder or an addiction and is near impossible to get over without the help of others

Attachment lasting years without pause

Attachment randomly triggering again after the haver was thought to be over with it

This is still NOT a radqueer term ! I cant stop anyone from using it but if you do please don't like if your main is radqueer or reblog onto a radqueer blog

[acorviart]

not to sound like a boomer, but I need some people to learn how to write emails in a semi-professional (at the very least) format so you're not cold emailing a business/potential employer/any other stranger about formal matters in the exact same way you'd DM a close friend on instagram

the formality/language can loosen up in the email chain once you've established a rapport and you match the other person if they're being less formal, but please don't have the very first email you send a stranger be written in all lowercase ultra-casual sms slang with no greeting or signature and a billion emojis

[brisquad-unit-4402]

luxiem and noisy sex

hey guys sorry i was mia for a while you see it was because i was [DEAFENING EXPLOSION AND AFTERSHOCK FOLLOWED BY COLLAPSING DEBRIS, THUNDER CRASH, BICYCLE HORN SOUND EFFECTS]

tags: established relationship, gender neutral reader, smut, bottom/top or sub/dom not specified

⚠️ blow job mention in shu's entry

⚠️ mature content under read more. content under read more is not intended for minors

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🖋 Ike Eveland

relatively quiet. ike doesn't make a racket often— it's more likely that he'll either tease you with dirty talk and come-ons

but once his brain gets too fucked out to stay coy, he's all shaky breaths and little whines

you can hear him quivering under his breath, as if getting caught would be a problem

which it very much isn't

invite him to get a little louder if you want an adorably flustered, adorably hard novelist. he'll feel so dirty if you do, but at the same time, he feels like making noise proves how much he trusts you

if you're noisy:

even though he doesn't make much noise, sex with you isn't complete without coaxing such sweet squeaks out of you

he takes it as a challenge, trying to figure out which part of your body is most sensitive by how loud you react

it makes him feel so sexy, and desirable, and powerful no matter what position he's in

prefers when you can't form words anymore, only helpless cries. oh, and if you actually do cry? god, he'll remember that forever

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🦁 Luca Kaneshiro

brings a whole new definition to "loud in bed". like seriously, even if you've had noisy partners before, luca puts them all to shame without even trying

he reacts to almost everything, and it doesn't take him a lot to get there. sometimes you wonder if he's faking it, but no, he's just that aware of everything he feels

he starts out with exclamations, and somehow forms words all the way until the end of the night. the sentences stop making sense halfway through, and by the time he climaxes it's a miracle if he can even get through his words without tripping up

if you're noisy:

is he the luckiest guy in the universe or what? it feels great to have someone that gets what it's like to be loud

doesn't even care what you say or do as long as he can hear it. just being able to hear those noises has his engine revving

then again, when you're lips are pressed up to him and he can still hear the muffled sounds and your vibrating throat, he just wants to fuck until you both white out in the afterglow

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👟 Shu Yamino

shu doesn't take sex too seriously and just wants to have fun above all else, and you have to wonder if it's because he always laughs at least once when you sleep together

he's actually quite ticklish, and his moans sometimes end in giggles. they sound so sweet even though what you do under the covers is anything but

this is one of the few things he's actually insecure about. he's so worried that it might kill the mood or make his partner feel self conscious

don't take it personally. he whimpers plenty when he's not giggling, and the last thing he wants is a misunderstanding just because of how his body expresses pleasure

if you're noisy:

sometimes he wishes he could commit every one of your noises to memory. they're easily his favorite part of going down on you

he fantasizes about your voice getting excited often. if you're ever apart, he'd love to listen to you masturbate and call his name over the phone

hell, even hearing his name from your trembling lips has his cock throbbing, ready to fill that pretty mouth and give you something to really choke on

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👹 Vox Akuma

tends to make more guttural sounds. growls, hums, and purrs galore. vox doesn't even try to make them sound sultry, they're just so low and irresistible, as expected of the voice demon himself

but if you catch him off guard you might just make him squeak in surprise and satisfaction. he even stutters and trips over his words

which is something he gets embarrassed over, especially since all his other noises are still on the low end of the spectrum, but calling attention to it gets him even more aroused

great sex usually ends with high-pitched whimpers and gasps, and the best ones have him screaming as he orgasms

if you're noisy:

your noises make him so unbelievably horny, you have no idea. the second he realizes you're loud, he wants nothing more than to hear you all night

it's a huge ego boost and fuels him to keep pushing his limits. anything to keep you crying out for him

he'll goad you into responding to his dirty talk just so he can hear you whimper in-between your words

whether you want to be praised or degraded, he tries to mention your voice and noises as much as he can since it's all he can think about

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✧. ┊ masterpost ✧. ┊ kofi

[faunandfloraas]

That han fancall is truly truly truly like the most horrendously embarrassing and deeply unsettling shit ever

[azuritethehermit]

If you guys have any lesser seen Rendog pictures, I would reaalllllyyyy appreciate it. I have a big juicy crush on him.

[littlebirdy0301]

I’m seeing some d20 fans watch Hank Green in Mentopolis play a big gruff fact-knowing midwestern-accented guy and suddenly realizing they find him v attractive. & it’s alot like when I saw Brennan’s Dungeons & Drag Queens pretty elf makeup & costume look and got hit with “oh shit, wait what,,, he’s gorgeous”…. Except I grew up with the green brothers, so seeing that with Hank it’s like everyone’s suddenly attracted to my dad

[mybreadsmybutters]

not to be parasocial af but jojo siwa is truly THE celebrity to me she’s insane she’s a childstar she’s gay she’s annoying she’s PROBABLY autistic she can’t sing she’s a hyperwealthy popstar she lives in a mansion covered floor to ceiling in her own merchandise she has mountains of unprocessed trauma and clearly every adult in her life failed her in unfathomable ways and all this while serving unimaginable face body and looks CONTINUOUSLY. nobody else is doing it like her

[foineswoine]

assorted shitposts & screenshots bc im completely normal about this man

[thekidsfromyestergay]

Being a lesbian on mcrblr is so funny because 99% of this blog is talking about destroying his (who this is referring to may vary) ass or whatever but if that was just some guy I met at uni or walked past on the street I wouldn't look twice. In fact I wouldn't even look once

[robynator]

i love being a bisexual living in the same era as zach and jess we truly are blessed

[butchnavi]

love how everyone in bollywood from aditya chopra to deepika freaking padukone all thought ranveer singh was an unremarkable loser when he first came out and the yash raj films documentary literally had an entire five minute segment with everyone lowkey dissing him only to change their minds when he became. THAT. anyway stan ranveer singh for clear skin

[dlstmxkakwldrlarchive]

Wisdom is realizing the anti jinki agenda is literally everywhere. And it's not only due to the reason most often pointed at (which is done disingenously and in bad faith btw. it's only brought up when these people need some point to prove. they dont even believe what theyre saying) but also because a lot of people don't find him attractive and yaoiable. he doesn't cater to the west so western jjinggus need to put in effort to stan him. but the biggest reason is still that he's "old" and doesn't act overtly sexy. which btw, overt sexy fanservice is the only reason MANY people start getting attached and parasocial with an idol. parasociality in kpop is mostly born from sexual attraction

i think a lot of things that are rightfully criticized about kfanbases (like colorism, fatphobia, being generally invasive about idols' bodies) should also be criticized about intl fanbases. honestly... i really hate to talk about him in this way lol so ill just add that i think the gp hates that unintentionally he doesnt really fit a celebrity persona, like he just wants to sing and share his music so its not like hes always dolled up which if you're an idol is... yk

[arctasy]

logging into twitter always makes me feel like i’m going insane bc why is everyone calling this person a weirdo for saying they want to be kissed by wilbur. that is so incredibly normal it’s boring. just wait til you see what my mutuals want to do with him

[swagst0rm]

when you break up with somebody and tell them you aren’t gonna negotiate and they immediately start telling you that you mean everything to them

as soon as I say I’m too emotionally exhausted to have a relationship ALLLL the red flags come out

[lucysgraybird]

https://www.tumblr.com/lucysgraybird/762635241625157632/its-so-lame-and-unbelievably-pass%C3%A9-that-its?source=share

What was this about? Or should I not ask 💀

always always welcome to ask! there are ppl on here who like to speculate at length about the personal lives of people they will never know in any real capacity

[dilfsuzanneyk]

the captain should watch mash