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can we do duplicates of cookies? If so, shadow milk cookie is our pangenderfluid king :3
(we have a shadow milk fictive therefore this is definitely totally canon /j)
hi!!! of course you can do duplicates, no worries about that!
these are the only pangenderfluid flags we could find, hope they're okay!
shadow milk cookie is pangenderfluid!
#cookie run#cookie run kingdom#shadow milk cookie#pangenderfluid#we've also got a queue in the works so we'll hopefully be consistently posting every day sometime soon
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they/she/fae genderfae lesbian mizuki...to go with a they/xe/it pangenderfluid xenogender epicene queer emu ohtori icon...because mizuki reminds me of my they/she/fae genderfae girlfriend and emu ohtori reminds me of me β‘ tag it as epiceneandroid (my username) and mizuemu my beloved pink chaos causing rare pair mizuemu

PSD (link) by @otoripink!
#queer#q power#icon#proseka icons#akiyama mizuki#mizuki akiyama#otori emu#ootori emu#emu otori#emu ootori#mizuemu#lesbian#genderfae#they/them#she/her#fae/faer#they/she/fae#pangender#genderfluid#pangenderfluid#xenogender#epicene#xe/xem#it/its#they/xe/it#epiceneandroid
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Pangender Flags
Pangender
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Demipangender
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Pangenderflux
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Pangenderfluid
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Offpangender
+ an identity in which one feels closely represented by the pangender identity/description, but is not actually pangender // (2) an identity where one feels closely represented by every gender in oneβs own culture/experiences but is not said genders - coined by me ?
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#pangender#pride flag#queer flag#lgbt flags#transgender#nonbinary#nonbinary spectrum#enby spec#multigender#offgender#genderfluid#pangenderflux#pangenderfluid#offpangender
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Using the pangenderless symbol as a base, could you do a pxngenderfluid symbol?
I hope this looks okay for you! - ππ
#bbb.ask#anon#pxngenderfluid#pxgender#pangender#pangenderfluid#gender symbols#your bigender big brother
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Sateriasis Venomania from The Lunacy of Duke Venomania is a transfem bigender hypersexual luxurian lustgender lustadored eroscoitus tenethescoitus eropomegrismic forcpowersexian conruptsexmagian ishtarian polyamorous grayromantic bisexual darcian lesbian who uses he/him and she/her pronouns primarily, but is also favorable towards it/its and they/them!
Gumina Glassred is a genderfluid transmascfem genderalto pangenderfluid demiromantic graysexual jamian who uses all pronouns!
Karchess Crim is a transfem genderfluid bigender bisexual veldarcetian erofemboy princessboy who uses she/her and he/him pronouns!
Lukana Octo is an omniromantic bisexual aceflux borderromantic octomaiden octogirl who uses she/her pronouns!
Maylis Beelzenia is an aroace thistle femme/femmefluid genderprincess genderqueen narcgirl who uses she/her and they/them pronouns, but doesn't mind he/him, either!
Mikulia Greeonio is an omni pseudoromantic asexual borderromantic fpobsesic polyamorous trans girl who uses she/her pronouns!
Lilien Turner is a transhet bennetian heteroflexible bihet transsexual intersex trans woman who uses she/her pronouns!
Yufina Marlon is an agender transmascfem atlantifluid GNC lunaboy darcian demiromantic asexual bihet veldarcian man who uses he/him pronouns!
Hakua Netsuma is a transfem asexual aromantic queerplatonic sistergender woman who uses she/her pronouns!
Carol Shields is a futch assassimaid assassinmaic knight femme reciprosexual atomoromantic queerplatonic lesbian who uses she/her pronouns, and occasionally he/him as well!
Lolan Eve is a high femme graysexual demiromantic frayromantic genderfae lesbian who uses she/her and fae/faer pronouns!
Mirigan Adi is a femme tenethesia phosviolial bellusromantic aromantic asexual mollsexual cauldron who uses she/her pronouns!
Sonika Sonic is a pansensual acevague frayromantic grayromantic alloarospec sapphic polyamorous trans woman who uses she/her pronouns!
Lazuli Blue is a bennetian heteroflexible bihet biromantic omniqueerplatonic alloace girl who uses she/her pronouns!
Priema Soap is a cedural maidgender rotintedmaic biaesthetic devotioromantic sapphic fidelis diauamoric lesbian who uses she/her pronouns!
Mewtant Lusha is an aroace bellussensual catmistress genderlady girlhaunting kurololitadollic woman who uses she/her pronouns!
Tette Cetera is a prince butch warfaren revolvergender miruterigyaruen asexual aroace agender gxrl who uses they/them, she/her, and it/its pronouns!
Rio Neja is a demiromantic obsessromantic laimosexual laimoromantic bordersexual aceflux abasexual lovesickmaiden ply bennetian girl who uses she/her pronouns!
Mickina Olliba is a transfem asexual queerplatonic demiromantic hyperromantic sorrobride lesbian who uses she/her pronouns!
Yuki Kaina is a bigender trans boy who uses he/him and she/her pronouns!
Rindo Blum is a thistle femme sapphic graysexual aceflux demiromantic bi lesbian who uses she/her pronouns!
Josephine Francois is an intersex AFAB transfem bi strayt aroace bellusromantic hyperfem equinemagian girl who uses she/her pronouns!
Annlee Sweets is a bennetian biromantic demisexual heteroflexible sapphic julietian gβΏrl who uses she/her pronouns!
Neruneru Nerune is a nonbinary transneutral cassgender assassinic aroace sapphic anaespike asenvague person who uses any pronouns, defaulting to they/them!
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#long post#many flags#mikeys headcanons#mdni#luxurian#lustgender#lustadored#eroscoitus#tenethscoitus#eropomegrismic#forcpowersexian#conruptsexmagian#ishtarian#genderalto#pangenderfluid#veldarcetian#erofemboy#princessboy#octomaiden#octogirl#genderprincess#genderqueen#narcgirl#pseudoromantic#fpobsesic#atlantifluid#lunaboy#veldarcian#mogai#mogai headcanon
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i'm aggressively wanting a more masculine, ambiguous looking body and face but like. as soon as i want to be more masculine sometimes the urge goes away and i want to be more neutral or i want to even be more traditionally feminine or even look alien or not have a face
pangenderfluid things...
#my gender#pangenderfluid#pangender#genderfluid#yes hi this is francis george back again. horrible pangenderfluid dysphoria#i wish i could physically shapeshift but remain the same body type like cutie honey or mr 2 bon clay or iva especially#i wish i had the horo horo no mi fruit or the mane mane no mi so bad...i wish i were queen of newkama island
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icon id: 56 icons in 28 pairs. in each pair, both icons have the listed flags in order in the background and the left icon has an image of the listed character with a white outline and a black shadow. end id.
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Minori Hanasato from from Project SEKAI is a pupcatgender pupcute catcute strawberrygender lovecoric girlfriendgender sweetcatic cherishfated lovelettic lesbian who uses she/her pronouns and has a crush on Haruka!
Haruka Kiritani is an aromantic transmasculine girl who uses he/him and she/her pronouns!
Airi Momoi is a GNC PNC transmasculine turigirl pinkbratfem catgirltmasc pinkinjection magiera PIINboy who uses she/her pronouns and is in a QPR with Shizuku!
Shizuku Hinomori is a bellusromantic aroace bi lesbian/bennetian transfeminine princessmaiden idolmaiden eledoangelic swangender frostbiteic woman who uses she/her pronouns and is in a QPR with Airi!
An Shiraishi is a fembeau asexual lesbian who uses she/her or any pronouns and is dating Kohane!
Kohane Azusawa is a butchfemme futch hamstergender fembeau crushgender lesbian who uses she/her pronouns and is dating An!
Akito Shinonome is a gay arospec hardcoriboy who uses he/him pronouns and is dating Toya and Tsukasa!
Toya Aoyagi is a soft butch genderqueer greyromantic gay boy who uses he/him or any pronouns and is dating Akito!
Emu Otori is a panromantic aceflux parosexual abrosexual bipan sapphic julietian jamian wonderhoylexic gendercute confetticatgender cottoncandygender carnicolorix xeminine genderbubbly genderchou femkiddic candyfluid hypergirl who uses she/her, xe/xem, pop/pops, nya/nyas, and any neopronouns and is dating Tsukasa, Nene, and Rui!
Nene Kusanagi is an intersex transfeminine demitransmasculine catboygamer gendernemuidere sleepygender codeboy codegirl digiboygirl bigender bigenderflux biromantic polysexual sophian jamian who uses he/him, she/her, they/them, and it/its pronouns and is dating Emu, Tsukasa, and Rui!
Rui Kamishiro is a transneufem genderfluid cistrans pangenderfluid omniromantic allaegosexual aubrian parkian who uses they/them, she/her, he/him, and vae/vaer pronouns and is dating Emu, Nene, and Tsukasa!
Tsukasa Tenma is a regalibere princegender demigenderqueer biromantic veldarcian darcian veldian who uses he/him pronouns and is dating Emu, Nene, Rui, and Akito!
Shiho Hinomori is an agender transmasculine tomboy cusper bisexual sophian lesboy who uses they/them, he/him, and occasionally she/her pronouns!
Ichika Hoshino is a GNC aromantic straight lesbianconnec transhet trans boy who uses he/him pronouns, but doesn't mind they/them!
Saki Tenma is a nonbinary aroflux acespec lunian lesbian who uses she/her and fae/faer pronouns!
Honami Mochizuki is a transfeminine shadowbennetian lesbian who uses she/her and they/them pronouns!
Kanade Yoisaki is a transfeminine losergirl genderhikikomori hikicoric hikikohoardic depregender tenshikaiwaesic dirtbagteengirl hikikoinfluencer hikikodigital tenshikaihikikomori loserhikikomori bisexual sapphic jamian who uses she/her, it/its, he/him, and they/them pronouns, is dating Mafuyu, and is in an alterous relationship with Mizuki and Ena!
Mizuki Akiyama is a bisexual lesbian transfeminine nonbinary jiraikeic femby faesari girldoxboy who uses they/them and she/her pronouns, is dating Rui, Ena, and Mafuyu, and is in an alterous relationship with Kanade!
Ena Shinonome is a jiraikeic cisgenderqueer lesbian/bi lesbian who uses she/her pronouns, is dating Mizuki, and is in an alterous relationship with Kanade and Mafuyu!
Mafuyu Asahina is a GNC bigenderflux pendogender transmasculine lesbihet straight darcian who uses he/him pronouns, is dating Kanade and Mizuki, and is in an alterous relationship with Ena!
VS Hatsune Miku is a fem-presenting tutelary aroace agender person who uses they/them, it/its, and she/her pronouns!
VS Kagamine Rin is a nonbinary isogirl lesbian who uses she/her and it/its pronouns!
VS Kagamine Len is a bi trans proxvir person who uses he/him and it/its pronouns!
VS Kaito is an intersex altersex mascfem aroace gay guy who uses he/him and it/its pronouns!
VS Meiko is an aroace wxman who uses it/its and she/her pronouns!
VS Megurine Luka is a nonbinary agender selenian who uses they/them and it/its pronouns!
VBS Hatsune Miku is a loveless aro cistrans isocis ambonec who uses all pronouns!
VBS Kagamine Rin is a homoaesthetic asexual alloaro fembeau girl who uses she/her pronouns!
VBS Kagamine Rin is a turihet asexual boy who uses he/him pronouns!
VBS Kaito is a bisexual cistrans person who uses he/him pronouns!
VBS Meiko is a tutelary aroace straight woman who uses she/her pronouns!
VBS Megurine Luka is a polyalterous aromantic ambonec azurgirl rosboy boygirl who uses she/her, he/him, and they/them pronouns!
MMJ Hatsune Miku is a bellusrose abigender idolgender girlflux person who uses she/her pronouns!
MMJ is an amical sapphic idolgender luxistudent wh ouses she/her pronouns!
MMJ Kagamine Len is a cedural darcian-oriented aroace magivir princestar virtueidolprince who uses he/him pronouns!
MMJ Kaito is a jamian darcian butleric pixelgirl boy who uses he/him pronouns!
MMJ Meiko is a bennetian turihet intersex rosboy idolboygirl who uses she/her and he/him pronouns!
MMJ Megurine Luka is an aroace bellusromantic idolprincess who uses they/them and she/her pronouns!
WXS Hatsune Miku is a queerplatonic aroace catgirlgender nyanbinary panxenogender pangenderfluid agenderfluid xenogirl who uses they/them, she/her, nya/nyas, and ze/hir pronouns!
WXS Kagamine Rin is an aroace bi lesbihet jestergender fingender viabinary sillygirl who uses she/her, xe/xem, nya/nyas, and fae/faer pronouns!
WXS Kagamine Len is a GNC ay transmasculine princegender sillyprinceic boy who uses he/him pronouns!
WXS Kaito is a cupiorose orchidrose genderjendere genderprince butleric librafluid man who uses he/him or any pronouns!
WXS Meiko is a tutelary bellusromantic aroaceflux bigender transfeminine butchhomme abigender manwoman who uses he/him and she/her pronouns!
WXS Megurine Luka is a femme cassrose agender transn't sleepygender gendernemuidere sleepygirl who uses they/them and she/her pronouns!
L/n Hatsune Miku is a cedural aroace bi lesbian transmasculine lesboy who uses he/him and they/them pronouns!
L/n Kagamine Rin is a futch lesbian tomboy who uses she/her pronouns!
L/n Kagamine Len is a biromantic acespec boyloser trans genderstudent boy who uses he/him pronouns!
L/n Kaito is a bi gay trans loserpresenting nerdpresentic quietstudent boy!
L/n Meiko is a tutelary bigender transmasculine rosboy omni lesbian who uses she/her and he/him pronouns!
L/n Megurine Luka is a tutelary teacherstudent cistrans transfeminine bipan lesbian!
25ji Hatsune Miku is a fem-presenting anattractional agender demifeminine transfeminine transnull gxrlbxy who uses it/its and they/them pronouns or he/him and she/her pronouns!
25ji Kagamine Rin is a bungender agender amical nonattrabian who uses it/its, she/her and they/them pronouns!
25ji Kagamine Len is a thistle femme ageregender altsoftcatboy transmasculine oujidollboy amical nonattradian who uses it/its, he/him, they/them, and vae/vaer pronouns!
25ji Kaito is an anattractional agender man who uses he/him pronouns!
25ji Meiko is an anattractional chessreine transfeminine agender woman who uses she/her pronouns!
25ji Megurine Luka is an unlabeled agenderfae person who uses they/them, she/her, and he/him pronouns!
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#long post#mogai headcanon#project sekai#minori hanasato#haruka kiritani#airi momoi#shizuku hinomori#an shiraishi#kohane azusawa#akito shinonome#toya aoyagi#emu otori#nene kusanagi#rui kamishiro#tsukasa tenma#shiho hinomori#ichika hoshino#saki tenma#honami mochizuki#kanade yoisaki#mizuki akiyama#ena shinonome#mafuyu asahina#hatsune miku#kagamine rin#kagamine len#kaito#meiko#megurine luka
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theyre playing games having fun together ππβ¨οΈ
please use he/him, it/its, or meow/meow for blaize and they/them, zhe/zer, it/its, meow/meow, claw/claws, caw/caw, or fae/faer for pierce on this post, they are a catthing and pangenderfluid respectively!
#blaize nitram#pierce strider-leijon#I Guess?#gcatavrosprite#davepetasprite#davepetasprite^2#homestuck#day 397#dsart
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Kind of a weird one, but as a multigender intersex person, I've experienced this weird combo of transmisogyny/transandrophobia/exorsexism/transmultiphobia/intersexism where people essentially demand I "pick one" between transfem, transmasc, transneutral, etc.
When I focus on being transfem, I'm not "allowed" to be transmasc, and vice versa.
In some spaces, I get accused of being a whiny AFAB who is "appropriating transfemininity, wants to feel more oppressed, and just has PCOS" (never mind that the majority of the intersex community agrees that PCOS with hyperandrogenism is considered fully intersex, with the medical effort to deny that being considered medical oppression that only serves to divide the community and keep people ignorant to their own intersex identity; as well as the fact that a variation functionally identical to PCOS in people assigned female at birth has been found to occur in people assigned male at birth, and is considered the same thing by scientists).
In others I get accused of being a dangerous or self-hating AMAB who is "appropriating transfemininity, wants to feel more oppressed, and is basically a cis man who wants to feel special".
For some reason I've never been accused of appropriating transmasculinity.
The vastness of my pangenderfluidity is reduced to telling me to pick between manhood and womanhood, all nonbinary identities either erased or used to label me with whatever assumptions about my assigned sex and anatomy they find most useful to use to attack me, often simultaneously misgendering and malgendering me. When I focus on being nonbinary, typically that's when people label me AFAB too - often the same people who either tokenize AMAB nonbinary people or assume they're self-hating trans women who just haven't "figured it out yet". These people typically treat nonbinary as "woman lite", but it changes between "trans woman lite" or "cis woman lite" based on their assumptions of your assigned gender/sex and anatomy.
People demand I disclose the gender/sex that were assigned to be at birth, despite the erasure of being neither female nor male being a form of epistemic injustice I've dealt with my whole life, which had led to coercive medical violence against me. In one case, being manipulated into going on estrogen based birth control as part of my abuse ended up badly worsening my existing suicidality, and nearly killed me. They feel entitled to know if I'm "male intersex" or "female intersex" so they can decide if I'm "girl nonbinary" or "boy nonbinary".
I'm also ALWAYS labeled as "tme" by strangers, despite having experienced transmisogyny for the outward signs of my intersex condition even before experiencing overt intersexism. They insist that this is "just intersexism" despite my detailed explanation of why and how it is transmisogyny, tell me to "read Whipping Girl" (but largely don't know who Emi Koyama even is -_-), and decide what I have experienced for me despite my long and detailed descriptions of my experiences with various types of oppression and violence.
One particularly transandrophobic AND transmisogynistic white knighting transmasc person kept screenshotting my posts but cutting them right above the part where I explicitly said I'm intersex and transneufemmasc to argue that transandrophobia "isn't real", relying on his followers not seeking out my posts to ignore the fact that he was directly talking over a transfem person explaining why the concept transandrophobia is NOT transmisogynistic. Honestly, while I've encountered as many shitty people in the transmasc community as in any other marginalized group, he is the only person I've ever encountered who was legitimately mansplaining transmisogyny to transfems (while misgendering us).
It's not like this is super unique - I've faced corpoableism from the neurodisabled community and neuroableism/sanism from the physically disabled community. I've faced endomisia from sysmeds and endomisic bigots, as well as ableism and pluralmisia from some of the more inclusive plural community (though far less so and not in the way endomisic people accuse endogenic systems of). It's honestly to me part of a wider cultural problem of not believing people about their experiences and insisting that having experienced a form of oppression gives you the authority to say that people with identities different from yours DON'T experience that form of oppression.
People have every right to claim to experience a form of oppression personally, generally have the right and make accurate claims about their identity being widely affected by a form of oppression, can sometimes have the right and make accurate claims about people outside their identity being widely affected by a form of oppression... but will usually be in the wrong and just plain wrong about any group NOT experiencing a form of oppression. This is true even if they're making the claim about their own group (such as transmascs who deny the existence of transandrophobia) but even more so about experiences they have very little knowledge of and no authority over because they've literally never experienced them.
They're using the inverse fallacy, otherwise known as denying the antecedent, where someone takes the statement "if p, then q" and uses it to claim that "if not p, then not q" is true. So as an example, "If you're transfem, you experience transmisogyny" then is claimed to make "if you're not transfem, you don't experience transmisogyny" true. I've experienced a lot of the same, particularly in slur reclamation discourse, in the disabled community, where people will decide that only x group of disabled people face a type of bigotry or specific slur and rely on confirmation bias by circle filing every piece of evidence that contradicts them.
This also typically causes a related issue, where people will claim "well maybe you experienced it, but it wasn't aimed at you and therefore hurt the people it was meant to hurt more". I mean, it's blatantly untrue that someone a bigot or systemic form of oppression is affecting is "not the target", just because they are using the "wrong form" of bigotry or oppression to hurt you - they were trying to hurt you, so you're the target, period. But these people will also outright deny and fakeclaim any of your experiences that don't fit your narrative, making up a guy to get mad about and accusing you of things you've never said and/or done.
When talking about how neurodisability can cause actual physical accessibility issues (such as severe scent-based sensory issues making someone have a severe meltdown as effectively barring them from an area as an allergic reaction to the same scents, despite not having issues with, say, a lack of a ramp; as well as being equally dangerous as meltdowns can involve serious and potentially even life threatening self injury) I was called an abled person who wanted to feel oppressed, despite being an ambulatory wheelchair user who is largely housebound and sometimes bedbound due to multiple physical disabilities. I've been told my ADHD cannot be my most disabling condition or that if it is, I must be high functioning and low support needs, despite my executive dysfunction often bordering on catatonia and making me need a caregiver and multiple other support providers such as case managers and CBRS workers. I've even been told that when I got called the r slur, they must have been trying to say I was unintelligent, despite the people who called me that growing up explicitly using it to mean that I was an intelligent "gifted" kid with severe social deficits - and accused of using it negatively against myself despite only ever having used it positively to own that it's okay not to be smart, particularly when my fluctuating cognitive disabilities are at their most severe.
The transphobia is the same way. I've been accused of being a cis woman who just wants to feel special, 2010 transmed style, and being a man forcing his way into women's spaces, 2020-terf style. I've been told I have no right to reclaim the slurs that apply to me, from cuntboy to tranny to shemale. As mentioned above, people feel entitled to demand information about my medical history (including the label forced on me by intersexism), my genital configuration, my secondary sex characteristics, what gender I was raised as (something I'd actually like to talk about!) and so on, to determine what kinds of oppression I'm "allowed" to talk about experiencing.
They go further to claim I am perisex and/or cis when I talk about having headmates in our system who have a complicated relationship between our body's sex, their sex in the innerworld, their assigned gender/sex at birth or formation, their gender and relationship to transness or cisness, exotrauma/exomemories relating to their gender and/or species, and so on. Even if this wasn't pluralmisic, I absolutely have a right to weigh in as someone who is bodily intersex and trans.
Nevermind the fits thrown when I tell people that both my manhood and womanhood are trans, but my genderfluidity is what makes me cistrans as a faekin/fae endel.
All of this while I am in the one barely purple haven in a deep red state, forced off my HRT due to a state law denying Medicaid coverage for it as a disabled person on SSI (who was paying all bills while my partner fought her denials until May of last year, and then had debts to settle from that time period), facing dangerous transphobia when I am well enough to leave the house that also significantly impacts my medical care (which includes a decade of medical neglect and abuse and psychiatric abuse that has elements of RAMCOA - specifically mind control and organized abuse, and what I refer to as "conditioning" which is a form of semi-intentional programming using textbook programming techniques without explicitly being aware of intending to "program" but while purposely using them to control thoughts and behavior), have gotten sicker and sicker and had my quality of life get flushed down the toilet from lack of access to everything from medical care to mobility aids to a public transit system that isn't such utter ass it takes 3 busses and a 4 hour roundtrip just to reach the nearest walmart about 7 miles away from us, while my family does that middle class white liberal thing of pretending to accept our identities when forced to for optics while trying to manipulate us out of making certain gender affirming medical decisions (my mom said she'd hate for me to have a part of my anatomy removed, for example, despite the primary reason being literal cancer prevention while gender affirmation is just a secondary bonus).
I have gotten rape and assault threats both IRL and online (sometimes directly after talking about my experiences with infant CSA and teen sexual harassment). I have been literally doxxed by kiwifarms.
I've been pedojacketed and called a predator and a groomer despite having such bad POCD I can barely stand to be around people under 18 and avoid it wherever possible, and suicide baited and told that people wished my previous attempts had succeeded.
I've been told I deserved every form of abuse I've ever experienced and that I'm the actual abuser by complete strangers.
I've been told that I must not be trans because I'm just traumatized, that I'm delusional, that I'm a narcissist and sociopath (we do have trauma and schizophrenia and some headmates have NPD and ASPD - alongside BPD and HPD, from our trauma, and all of which is neither inherently harmful or more likely to make any of us abusers, on top of being well managed with healthy coping skills.
We've had derogatory anti-addict language used against us (we have struggled with impulsive/compulsive behaviors related to our ADHD, though not substance abuse, but that's not how they are using it anyway), told our symptoms of hyperverbality which can often be disabling are a form of violence against others, and fakeclaimed and told we can't use our own language over and over and over again.
We've been accused of co-opting terms ranging from transfem to nonverbal (we have headmates who are permanently nonverbal and nonspeaking who sometimes get frontstuck for extended periods of time, and view nonverbality as a spectrum of varying experiences and struggles - not as in a spectrum from more to less verbal, but more like the autism spectrum which is vast and complex), and of being a privileged oppressor Frequently the accusations have come from people whose experiences with transness or disability have led to, by their own explanation, less violence, more access, and better treatment than we've faced, though not always. As an example, "I haven't experienced this form of neuroableism from a diagnosis I share with you, it hasn't disabled me in this way that it has disabled you, and therefore it can't be significantly disabling or cause significant systemic ableism/oppression" is a tired refrain at this point. Being told we were tokenizing ourselves or even using stigmatized conditions/identities that we "have no idea about" that are our direct personal experience was at one point a daily occurrence.
We keep going back and forth between ableism and transphobia in part because they're not separable for us - because y'know, intersectionality - but also bc we've literally split multiple headmates due to harassment campaigns and cyberbullying, and simply do not have access to the majority of our worst memories of facing transphobia both online and IRL right now.
But we have faced all the textbook transandrophobia and transmisogyny - the misgendering and malgendering, being treated as predatory invaders both as a trans woman and trans man and as hysterical whiny bitches as a trans woman and trans man, the standard baseline of sexual harassment and threats of violence, rape (and forced impregnation/detransition), and death, the fakeclaiming, the casual cruelty, the trauma, the lack of stability and security, the demonization of our manhood and denial of our womanhood and experiences with misogyny, the infantilization (which people forget is fundamentally used to justify denying someone's autonomy to them - in that, it functions highly similarly to sanism), the isolation and being pushed out of community and lack of safety both inside and outside of the community.
Tbh, we might have more to share at some point but like, point is, that's just the visible part of the iceberg currently. That's our experiences with transandrophobia and everything connected to it that we can access right now.
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cuptoast / crumb introject please !!!!!! shapeshifter + comforter + artist !!!! she/he/they/it/kit/meow/hiss/claw/purr/paw/star/πΎ/βοΈ !!! many lighthearted transids + limited paras (π§΅, π, ππͺ) tysm !!!!!
ya 4 sure. sry the cisid section is so short. u can change nythin
-Mod Cy
NAMES: Cuptoast, Crumb
AGE: 19
PRONOUNS: she/her, he/him, they/them, it/its, kit/kits, meow/meows, hiss/hisses, claw/claws, purr/purrs, paw/paws, star/stars, πΎ/πΎs, βοΈ/βοΈs
GENDERS: catgender, genderqueer, pangenderfluid
SEXUALITY: sophian, aubrian
SOURCE: N/A
SPECIES: shapeshifter (human/cat)
ROLE: shapeshifter, comforter, artist
TRANSIDS: permafacehidden, transsillysona, transvtuber, transmahou, transmorikei, apricotscentian, caramelscentian, coffamian, transmeowing, transdigital, artisticflux, panartstyle, translesbian, transpawpupil, transfurry, transpixelated, transotaku, transcresilo, fluffyage, simpliartage, catshiftage, transcataccent, transLOLcat, bothcat
CISIDS: Vietnamese-American, calico cat, ADHD, autistic, NPD, fluctuating verbality, artist, cute, shy, energetic
PARAS: plushophile (π§΅), merinthophile (π), autogratiophile (ππͺ)
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#clndstn.zip#build a headmate#build an alter#bah#baa#rq ππ#rqcππ#pro rq ππ#transid#rq safe#rq#rqc#pro rq#alter packs#headmate packs#transplural
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trigenderfluix | quadgenderfluix omnigenderfluix | pangenderfluix
Alt terms: trigenderfluidflux / trifluix, quadgenderfluidflux / quadfluix, omnigenderfluidflux / omnifluix, pangenderfluidflux / panfluix.
Anyone who connects with these terms in anyway is free to use them. (They are basically just genderfluix versions of trigender, quadgender, omnigender, and pangender. I think there's a lot of experiences these could encompass, so I wanted to keep it open.)
βββββββββββ¦ββββββββββ
I found trigenderfluix (here and here) and pangenderfluix flags, but not the others, so I wanted to make some (alt) flags.
These are similar to my old polygenderfluix and bigenderfluix alt flags, the greys on the top and bottom are from the genderfluix flag, and represent fluctuation (of gender). The colours on the inside are from their respective trigender, quadgender, omnigender, & pangender flags, with extra in-between stripes added to represent fluidity. Though for pangenderfluix, instead of adding extra in-between stripes, I used 3 stripes on the bottom from genderfluid (inspired by the pangenderfluid flag here). I also edited the colours a bit, for more contrast.
#trigenderfluidflux#trigenderfluix#trifluix#quadgenderfluidflux#quadgenderfluix#quadfluix#omnigenderfluidflux#omnigenderfluix#omnifluix#pangenderfluidflux#pangenderfluix#panfluix#multigender#polygender#trigender#quadgender#omnigender#pangender#genderfluix#genderfluidflux#fluidflux#fluix#pride flag#new flag#alt flag
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we back :3
mystic flour is apagender and unlabeled, burning spice is a trans man and bisexual, shadow milk is pangenderfluid and omniromantic (if you donβt mind doing that again </3) , and all 3 are polyamorous (donβt care which poly flag is used)
polybeasts π
(Iβll be back with the other two once theyβre released, we r basing these off of our headmates lol) (smilk is the only one who can talk to those two for some reason so. this is second hand information)
we have a desaturated version of the polyam flag (the original is too harsh on our eyes), but we'll use the new one so the symbol can be more easily seen in the edits
since there's three requests in this post, we're just going to use their gacha illustrations for these edits. please let us know if you'd like more edits with other art!
mystic flour cookie is apagender, unlabeled, and polyamorous!
burning spice cookie is a trans man, bisexual, and polyamorous!
shadow milk cookie is pangenderfluid, omniromantic, and polyamorous!
#cookie run#cookie run kingdom#mystic flour cookie#burning spice cookie#shadow milk cookie#apagender#unlabeled#polyamorous#trans#bisexual#pangenderfluid#omniromantic
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"Getting annoyed at being misgendered and having someone insist they know you better than you know yourself, especially if you're not in a stable or safe enough position to safely have your egg crack is so silly. Imagine hanging out with an egocentric asshole who tries to force their perception of you onto you and then they act like you're disgusted by the identity they think you are and not their violation of your autonomy."
Three words: Egg. Prime. Directive.
There are nuanced conversations to be had about how gently/forcefully it might help to suggest the possibility of any genderqueer identity to someone who is in denial or questioning that you know well. I will actually say that I think the Egg Prime Directive is more a rule of thumb than an absolute.
Also, as someone who has been treated as an "egg" while being an out and proud pangenderfluid person, somehow all eggs are treated as transfem, and transmascs who pass or are stealth are sometimes aggressively misgendered, while nonbinary people have active parts of their identity ignored or denied.
Anyway. Egg Prime Directive. Meaning, you don't interfere with self discovery. Because you know what happens when you crack an egg before it's ready (which is almost always the case for external cracks)?
The thing growing inside suffers, and can even die.
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https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Genderfluid_symbol.svg
https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Pangender_symbol.svg
Can you combine both making a pangenderfluid epicene symbol?
This is what I had in mind. Does this look okay? I know the lines are a bit thick. - ππ
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HOLY SHIT SOMEONE WITH MORE GENDERS HOARDED THAN ME MULTIGENDER/PANGENDERFLUID (IN MY CASE AS A HOST)/GENDER TRANSIENT (IN MY CASE AS A HOST)/EPICENE (IN MY CASE AS A HOST BC EPICENE ESPECIALLY AS DESCRIBED BY ME AND ARCO-PLURIS IS A MULTIMONOPXNCENTRIGENDER TO ME) (IN MOST OF OUR SYSTEM'S CASE) SWAG!!! ANYWAYYYYY I'm sending you street fighter final fight requests if you don't mind
YAYY i heart gender hoarding!!! finally updated the inbox so i got yr final fight request!!!
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We're transID because some of us are shapeshifters who can't access our physical shifting abilities in this form. We have static headmates (they tend to be created when we particularly like a form and want it to remain as a static person we can mutually inhabit with their self and be inhabited by them) but for those of us who are shifters, we simply are all things. All identities. In some ways we are even trans-transID for certain identities. And some of our static headmates who spend more time in the body are either transID or trisID(that's like cistrans, right?) because their body and the static body we are trapped in don't match.
It gets real complicated and into nth dimensional identity weirdness that is seemingly contradictory but just... works for us.
We are all things, all identities. Not necessarily at all times, but as potentiality, which makes us always them even when we are not. It's like how we're pangenderfluid, we don't always experience all genders but we ARE always all of them, even when we're actively not.
How could we not be transID when in a static body as an allfluid being?
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