#pangenderfluid

[queersekai]

they/she/fae genderfae lesbian mizuki...to go with a they/xe/it pangenderfluid xenogender epicene queer emu ohtori icon...because mizuki reminds me of my they/she/fae genderfae girlfriend and emu ohtori reminds me of me ♡ tag it as epiceneandroid (my username) and mizuemu my beloved pink chaos causing rare pair mizuemu

PSD (link) by @otoripink!

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Using the pangenderless symbol as a base, could you do a pxngenderfluid symbol?

I hope this looks okay for you! - 💙💚

[shk0lstun-flagz]

Pangender Flags

Pangender

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Demipangender

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Pangenderflux

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Pangenderfluid

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Offpangender

+ an identity in which one feels closely represented by the pangender identity/description, but is not actually pangender // (2) an identity where one feels closely represented by every gender in one’s own culture/experiences but is not said genders - coined by me ?

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[epiceneandroid]

i'm aggressively wanting a more masculine, ambiguous looking body and face but like. as soon as i want to be more masculine sometimes the urge goes away and i want to be more neutral or i want to even be more traditionally feminine or even look alien or not have a face

pangenderfluid things...

[mogai-headcanons]

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Minori Hanasato from from Project SEKAI is a pupcatgender pupcute catcute strawberrygender lovecoric girlfriendgender sweetcatic cherishfated lovelettic lesbian who uses she/her pronouns and has a crush on Haruka!

Haruka Kiritani is an aromantic transmasculine girl who uses he/him and she/her pronouns!

Airi Momoi is a GNC PNC transmasculine turigirl pinkbratfem catgirltmasc pinkinjection magiera PIINboy who uses she/her pronouns and is in a QPR with Shizuku!

Shizuku Hinomori is a bellusromantic aroace bi lesbian/bennetian transfeminine princessmaiden idolmaiden eledoangelic swangender frostbiteic woman who uses she/her pronouns and is in a QPR with Airi!

An Shiraishi is a fembeau asexual lesbian who uses she/her or any pronouns and is dating Kohane!

Kohane Azusawa is a butchfemme futch hamstergender fembeau crushgender lesbian who uses she/her pronouns and is dating An!

Akito Shinonome is a gay arospec hardcoriboy who uses he/him pronouns and is dating Toya and Tsukasa!

Toya Aoyagi is a soft butch genderqueer greyromantic gay boy who uses he/him or any pronouns and is dating Akito!

Emu Otori is a panromantic aceflux parosexual abrosexual bipan sapphic julietian jamian wonderhoylexic gendercute confetticatgender cottoncandygender carnicolorix xeminine genderbubbly genderchou femkiddic candyfluid hypergirl who uses she/her, xe/xem, pop/pops, nya/nyas, and any neopronouns and is dating Tsukasa, Nene, and Rui!

Nene Kusanagi is an intersex transfeminine demitransmasculine catboygamer gendernemuidere sleepygender codeboy codegirl digiboygirl bigender bigenderflux biromantic polysexual sophian jamian who uses he/him, she/her, they/them, and it/its pronouns and is dating Emu, Tsukasa, and Rui!

Rui Kamishiro is a transneufem genderfluid cistrans pangenderfluid omniromantic allaegosexual aubrian parkian who uses they/them, she/her, he/him, and vae/vaer pronouns and is dating Emu, Nene, and Tsukasa!

Tsukasa Tenma is a regalibere princegender demigenderqueer biromantic veldarcian darcian veldian who uses he/him pronouns and is dating Emu, Nene, Rui, and Akito!

Shiho Hinomori is an agender transmasculine tomboy cusper bisexual sophian lesboy who uses they/them, he/him, and occasionally she/her pronouns!

Ichika Hoshino is a GNC aromantic straight lesbianconnec transhet trans boy who uses he/him pronouns, but doesn't mind they/them!

Saki Tenma is a nonbinary aroflux acespec lunian lesbian who uses she/her and fae/faer pronouns!

Honami Mochizuki is a transfeminine shadowbennetian lesbian who uses she/her and they/them pronouns!

Kanade Yoisaki is a transfeminine losergirl genderhikikomori hikicoric hikikohoardic depregender tenshikaiwaesic dirtbagteengirl hikikoinfluencer hikikodigital tenshikaihikikomori loserhikikomori bisexual sapphic jamian who uses she/her, it/its, he/him, and they/them pronouns, is dating Mafuyu, and is in an alterous relationship with Mizuki and Ena!

Mizuki Akiyama is a bisexual lesbian transfeminine nonbinary jiraikeic femby faesari girldoxboy who uses they/them and she/her pronouns, is dating Rui, Ena, and Mafuyu, and is in an alterous relationship with Kanade!

Ena Shinonome is a jiraikeic cisgenderqueer lesbian/bi lesbian who uses she/her pronouns, is dating Mizuki, and is in an alterous relationship with Kanade and Mafuyu!

Mafuyu Asahina is a GNC bigenderflux pendogender transmasculine lesbihet straight darcian who uses he/him pronouns, is dating Kanade and Mizuki, and is in an alterous relationship with Ena!

VS Hatsune Miku is a fem-presenting tutelary aroace agender person who uses they/them, it/its, and she/her pronouns!

VS Kagamine Rin is a nonbinary isogirl lesbian who uses she/her and it/its pronouns!

VS Kagamine Len is a bi trans proxvir person who uses he/him and it/its pronouns!

VS Kaito is an intersex altersex mascfem aroace gay guy who uses he/him and it/its pronouns!

VS Meiko is an aroace wxman who uses it/its and she/her pronouns!

VS Megurine Luka is a nonbinary agender selenian who uses they/them and it/its pronouns!

VBS Hatsune Miku is a loveless aro cistrans isocis ambonec who uses all pronouns!

VBS Kagamine Rin is a homoaesthetic asexual alloaro fembeau girl who uses she/her pronouns!

VBS Kagamine Rin is a turihet asexual boy who uses he/him pronouns!

VBS Kaito is a bisexual cistrans person who uses he/him pronouns!

VBS Meiko is a tutelary aroace straight woman who uses she/her pronouns!

VBS Megurine Luka is a polyalterous aromantic ambonec azurgirl rosboy boygirl who uses she/her, he/him, and they/them pronouns!

MMJ Hatsune Miku is a bellusrose abigender idolgender girlflux person who uses she/her pronouns!

MMJ is an amical sapphic idolgender luxistudent wh ouses she/her pronouns!

MMJ Kagamine Len is a cedural darcian-oriented aroace magivir princestar virtueidolprince who uses he/him pronouns!

MMJ Kaito is a jamian darcian butleric pixelgirl boy who uses he/him pronouns!

MMJ Meiko is a bennetian turihet intersex rosboy idolboygirl who uses she/her and he/him pronouns!

MMJ Megurine Luka is an aroace bellusromantic idolprincess who uses they/them and she/her pronouns!

WXS Hatsune Miku is a queerplatonic aroace catgirlgender nyanbinary panxenogender pangenderfluid agenderfluid xenogirl who uses they/them, she/her, nya/nyas, and ze/hir pronouns!

WXS Kagamine Rin is an aroace bi lesbihet jestergender fingender viabinary sillygirl who uses she/her, xe/xem, nya/nyas, and fae/faer pronouns!

WXS Kagamine Len is a GNC ay transmasculine princegender sillyprinceic boy who uses he/him pronouns!

WXS Kaito is a cupiorose orchidrose genderjendere genderprince butleric librafluid man who uses he/him or any pronouns!

WXS Meiko is a tutelary bellusromantic aroaceflux bigender transfeminine butchhomme abigender manwoman who uses he/him and she/her pronouns!

WXS Megurine Luka is a femme cassrose agender transn't sleepygender gendernemuidere sleepygirl who uses they/them and she/her pronouns!

L/n Hatsune Miku is a cedural aroace bi lesbian transmasculine lesboy who uses he/him and they/them pronouns!

L/n Kagamine Rin is a futch lesbian tomboy who uses she/her pronouns!

L/n Kagamine Len is a biromantic acespec boyloser trans genderstudent boy who uses he/him pronouns!

L/n Kaito is a bi gay trans loserpresenting nerdpresentic quietstudent boy!

L/n Meiko is a tutelary bigender transmasculine rosboy omni lesbian who uses she/her and he/him pronouns!

L/n Megurine Luka is a tutelary teacherstudent cistrans transfeminine bipan lesbian!

25ji Hatsune Miku is a fem-presenting anattractional agender demifeminine transfeminine transnull gxrlbxy who uses it/its and they/them pronouns or he/him and she/her pronouns!

25ji Kagamine Rin is a bungender agender amical nonattrabian who uses it/its, she/her and they/them pronouns!

25ji Kagamine Len is a thistle femme ageregender altsoftcatboy transmasculine oujidollboy amical nonattradian who uses it/its, he/him, they/them, and vae/vaer pronouns!

25ji Kaito is an anattractional agender man who uses he/him pronouns!

25ji Meiko is an anattractional chessreine transfeminine agender woman who uses she/her pronouns!

25ji Megurine Luka is an unlabeled agenderfae person who uses they/them, she/her, and he/him pronouns!

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[dyke-stuck]

theyre playing games having fun together 🌈🌟✨️

please use he/him, it/its, or meow/meow for blaize and they/them, zhe/zer, it/its, meow/meow, claw/claws, caw/caw, or fae/faer for pierce on this post, they are a catthing and pangenderfluid respectively!

[transfemme-shelterdog]

Kind of a weird one, but as a multigender intersex person, I've experienced this weird combo of transmisogyny/transandrophobia/exorsexism/transmultiphobia/intersexism where people essentially demand I "pick one" between transfem, transmasc, transneutral, etc.

When I focus on being transfem, I'm not "allowed" to be transmasc, and vice versa.

In some spaces, I get accused of being a whiny AFAB who is "appropriating transfemininity, wants to feel more oppressed, and just has PCOS" (never mind that the majority of the intersex community agrees that PCOS with hyperandrogenism is considered fully intersex, with the medical effort to deny that being considered medical oppression that only serves to divide the community and keep people ignorant to their own intersex identity; as well as the fact that a variation functionally identical to PCOS in people assigned female at birth has been found to occur in people assigned male at birth, and is considered the same thing by scientists).

In others I get accused of being a dangerous or self-hating AMAB who is "appropriating transfemininity, wants to feel more oppressed, and is basically a cis man who wants to feel special".

For some reason I've never been accused of appropriating transmasculinity.

The vastness of my pangenderfluidity is reduced to telling me to pick between manhood and womanhood, all nonbinary identities either erased or used to label me with whatever assumptions about my assigned sex and anatomy they find most useful to use to attack me, often simultaneously misgendering and malgendering me. When I focus on being nonbinary, typically that's when people label me AFAB too - often the same people who either tokenize AMAB nonbinary people or assume they're self-hating trans women who just haven't "figured it out yet". These people typically treat nonbinary as "woman lite", but it changes between "trans woman lite" or "cis woman lite" based on their assumptions of your assigned gender/sex and anatomy.

People demand I disclose the gender/sex that were assigned to be at birth, despite the erasure of being neither female nor male being a form of epistemic injustice I've dealt with my whole life, which had led to coercive medical violence against me. In one case, being manipulated into going on estrogen based birth control as part of my abuse ended up badly worsening my existing suicidality, and nearly killed me. They feel entitled to know if I'm "male intersex" or "female intersex" so they can decide if I'm "girl nonbinary" or "boy nonbinary".

I'm also ALWAYS labeled as "tme" by strangers, despite having experienced transmisogyny for the outward signs of my intersex condition even before experiencing overt intersexism. They insist that this is "just intersexism" despite my detailed explanation of why and how it is transmisogyny, tell me to "read Whipping Girl" (but largely don't know who Emi Koyama even is -_-), and decide what I have experienced for me despite my long and detailed descriptions of my experiences with various types of oppression and violence.

One particularly transandrophobic AND transmisogynistic white knighting transmasc person kept screenshotting my posts but cutting them right above the part where I explicitly said I'm intersex and transneufemmasc to argue that transandrophobia "isn't real", relying on his followers not seeking out my posts to ignore the fact that he was directly talking over a transfem person explaining why the concept transandrophobia is NOT transmisogynistic. Honestly, while I've encountered as many shitty people in the transmasc community as in any other marginalized group, he is the only person I've ever encountered who was legitimately mansplaining transmisogyny to transfems (while misgendering us).

It's not like this is super unique - I've faced corpoableism from the neurodisabled community and neuroableism/sanism from the physically disabled community. I've faced endomisia from sysmeds and endomisic bigots, as well as ableism and pluralmisia from some of the more inclusive plural community (though far less so and not in the way endomisic people accuse endogenic systems of). It's honestly to me part of a wider cultural problem of not believing people about their experiences and insisting that having experienced a form of oppression gives you the authority to say that people with identities different from yours DON'T experience that form of oppression.

People have every right to claim to experience a form of oppression personally, generally have the right and make accurate claims about their identity being widely affected by a form of oppression, can sometimes have the right and make accurate claims about people outside their identity being widely affected by a form of oppression... but will usually be in the wrong and just plain wrong about any group NOT experiencing a form of oppression. This is true even if they're making the claim about their own group (such as transmascs who deny the existence of transandrophobia) but even more so about experiences they have very little knowledge of and no authority over because they've literally never experienced them.

They're using the inverse fallacy, otherwise known as denying the antecedent, where someone takes the statement "if p, then q" and uses it to claim that "if not p, then not q" is true. So as an example, "If you're transfem, you experience transmisogyny" then is claimed to make "if you're not transfem, you don't experience transmisogyny" true. I've experienced a lot of the same, particularly in slur reclamation discourse, in the disabled community, where people will decide that only x group of disabled people face a type of bigotry or specific slur and rely on confirmation bias by circle filing every piece of evidence that contradicts them.

This also typically causes a related issue, where people will claim "well maybe you experienced it, but it wasn't aimed at you and therefore hurt the people it was meant to hurt more". I mean, it's blatantly untrue that someone a bigot or systemic form of oppression is affecting is "not the target", just because they are using the "wrong form" of bigotry or oppression to hurt you - they were trying to hurt you, so you're the target, period. But these people will also outright deny and fakeclaim any of your experiences that don't fit your narrative, making up a guy to get mad about and accusing you of things you've never said and/or done.

When talking about how neurodisability can cause actual physical accessibility issues (such as severe scent-based sensory issues making someone have a severe meltdown as effectively barring them from an area as an allergic reaction to the same scents, despite not having issues with, say, a lack of a ramp; as well as being equally dangerous as meltdowns can involve serious and potentially even life threatening self injury) I was called an abled person who wanted to feel oppressed, despite being an ambulatory wheelchair user who is largely housebound and sometimes bedbound due to multiple physical disabilities. I've been told my ADHD cannot be my most disabling condition or that if it is, I must be high functioning and low support needs, despite my executive dysfunction often bordering on catatonia and making me need a caregiver and multiple other support providers such as case managers and CBRS workers. I've even been told that when I got called the r slur, they must have been trying to say I was unintelligent, despite the people who called me that growing up explicitly using it to mean that I was an intelligent "gifted" kid with severe social deficits - and accused of using it negatively against myself despite only ever having used it positively to own that it's okay not to be smart, particularly when my fluctuating cognitive disabilities are at their most severe.

The transphobia is the same way. I've been accused of being a cis woman who just wants to feel special, 2010 transmed style, and being a man forcing his way into women's spaces, 2020-terf style. I've been told I have no right to reclaim the slurs that apply to me, from cuntboy to tranny to shemale. As mentioned above, people feel entitled to demand information about my medical history (including the label forced on me by intersexism), my genital configuration, my secondary sex characteristics, what gender I was raised as (something I'd actually like to talk about!) and so on, to determine what kinds of oppression I'm "allowed" to talk about experiencing.

They go further to claim I am perisex and/or cis when I talk about having headmates in our system who have a complicated relationship between our body's sex, their sex in the innerworld, their assigned gender/sex at birth or formation, their gender and relationship to transness or cisness, exotrauma/exomemories relating to their gender and/or species, and so on. Even if this wasn't pluralmisic, I absolutely have a right to weigh in as someone who is bodily intersex and trans.

Nevermind the fits thrown when I tell people that both my manhood and womanhood are trans, but my genderfluidity is what makes me cistrans as a faekin/fae endel.

All of this while I am in the one barely purple haven in a deep red state, forced off my HRT due to a state law denying Medicaid coverage for it as a disabled person on SSI (who was paying all bills while my partner fought her denials until May of last year, and then had debts to settle from that time period), facing dangerous transphobia when I am well enough to leave the house that also significantly impacts my medical care (which includes a decade of medical neglect and abuse and psychiatric abuse that has elements of RAMCOA - specifically mind control and organized abuse, and what I refer to as "conditioning" which is a form of semi-intentional programming using textbook programming techniques without explicitly being aware of intending to "program" but while purposely using them to control thoughts and behavior), have gotten sicker and sicker and had my quality of life get flushed down the toilet from lack of access to everything from medical care to mobility aids to a public transit system that isn't such utter ass it takes 3 busses and a 4 hour roundtrip just to reach the nearest walmart about 7 miles away from us, while my family does that middle class white liberal thing of pretending to accept our identities when forced to for optics while trying to manipulate us out of making certain gender affirming medical decisions (my mom said she'd hate for me to have a part of my anatomy removed, for example, despite the primary reason being literal cancer prevention while gender affirmation is just a secondary bonus).

I have gotten rape and assault threats both IRL and online (sometimes directly after talking about my experiences with infant CSA and teen sexual harassment). I have been literally doxxed by kiwifarms.

I've been pedojacketed and called a predator and a groomer despite having such bad POCD I can barely stand to be around people under 18 and avoid it wherever possible, and suicide baited and told that people wished my previous attempts had succeeded.

I've been told I deserved every form of abuse I've ever experienced and that I'm the actual abuser by complete strangers.

I've been told that I must not be trans because I'm just traumatized, that I'm delusional, that I'm a narcissist and sociopath (we do have trauma and schizophrenia and some headmates have NPD and ASPD - alongside BPD and HPD, from our trauma, and all of which is neither inherently harmful or more likely to make any of us abusers, on top of being well managed with healthy coping skills.

We've had derogatory anti-addict language used against us (we have struggled with impulsive/compulsive behaviors related to our ADHD, though not substance abuse, but that's not how they are using it anyway), told our symptoms of hyperverbality which can often be disabling are a form of violence against others, and fakeclaimed and told we can't use our own language over and over and over again.

We've been accused of co-opting terms ranging from transfem to nonverbal (we have headmates who are permanently nonverbal and nonspeaking who sometimes get frontstuck for extended periods of time, and view nonverbality as a spectrum of varying experiences and struggles - not as in a spectrum from more to less verbal, but more like the autism spectrum which is vast and complex), and of being a privileged oppressor Frequently the accusations have come from people whose experiences with transness or disability have led to, by their own explanation, less violence, more access, and better treatment than we've faced, though not always. As an example, "I haven't experienced this form of neuroableism from a diagnosis I share with you, it hasn't disabled me in this way that it has disabled you, and therefore it can't be significantly disabling or cause significant systemic ableism/oppression" is a tired refrain at this point. Being told we were tokenizing ourselves or even using stigmatized conditions/identities that we "have no idea about" that are our direct personal experience was at one point a daily occurrence.

We keep going back and forth between ableism and transphobia in part because they're not separable for us - because y'know, intersectionality - but also bc we've literally split multiple headmates due to harassment campaigns and cyberbullying, and simply do not have access to the majority of our worst memories of facing transphobia both online and IRL right now.

But we have faced all the textbook transandrophobia and transmisogyny - the misgendering and malgendering, being treated as predatory invaders both as a trans woman and trans man and as hysterical whiny bitches as a trans woman and trans man, the standard baseline of sexual harassment and threats of violence, rape (and forced impregnation/detransition), and death, the fakeclaiming, the casual cruelty, the trauma, the lack of stability and security, the demonization of our manhood and denial of our womanhood and experiences with misogyny, the infantilization (which people forget is fundamentally used to justify denying someone's autonomy to them - in that, it functions highly similarly to sanism), the isolation and being pushed out of community and lack of safety both inside and outside of the community.

Tbh, we might have more to share at some point but like, point is, that's just the visible part of the iceberg currently. That's our experiences with transandrophobia and everything connected to it that we can access right now.

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[clndstn-headmates]

cuptoast / crumb introject please !!!!!! shapeshifter + comforter + artist !!!! she/he/they/it/kit/meow/hiss/claw/purr/paw/star/🐾/⭐️ !!! many lighthearted transids + limited paras (🧵, 🔗, 👏🪄) tysm !!!!!

ya 4 sure. sry the cisid section is so short. u can change nythin

-Mod Cy

NAMES: Cuptoast, Crumb

AGE: 19

PRONOUNS: she/her, he/him, they/them, it/its, kit/kits, meow/meows, hiss/hisses, claw/claws, purr/purrs, paw/paws, star/stars, 🐾/🐾s, ⭐️/⭐️s

GENDERS: catgender, genderqueer, pangenderfluid

SEXUALITY: sophian, aubrian

SOURCE: N/A

SPECIES: shapeshifter (human/cat)

ROLE: shapeshifter, comforter, artist

TRANSIDS: permafacehidden, transsillysona, transvtuber, transmahou, transmorikei, apricotscentian, caramelscentian, coffamian, transmeowing, transdigital, artisticflux, panartstyle, translesbian, transpawpupil, transfurry, transpixelated, transotaku, transcresilo, fluffyage, simpliartage, catshiftage, transcataccent, transLOLcat, bothcat

CISIDS: Vietnamese-American, calico cat, ADHD, autistic, NPD, fluctuating verbality, artist, cute, shy, energetic

PARAS: plushophile (🧵), merinthophile (🔗), autogratiophile (👏🪄)

APPEARANCE:

[ryanyflags]

trigenderfluix | quadgenderfluix omnigenderfluix | pangenderfluix

Alt terms: trigenderfluidflux / trifluix, quadgenderfluidflux / quadfluix, omnigenderfluidflux / omnifluix, pangenderfluidflux / panfluix.

Anyone who connects with these terms in anyway is free to use them. (They are basically just genderfluix versions of trigender, quadgender, omnigender, and pangender. I think there's a lot of experiences these could encompass, so I wanted to keep it open.)

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I found trigenderfluix (here and here) and pangenderfluix flags, but not the others, so I wanted to make some (alt) flags.

These are similar to my old polygenderfluix and bigenderfluix alt flags, the greys on the top and bottom are from the genderfluix flag, and represent fluctuation (of gender). The colours on the inside are from their respective trigender, quadgender, omnigender, & pangender flags, with extra in-between stripes added to represent fluidity. Though for pangenderfluix, instead of adding extra in-between stripes, I used 3 stripes on the bottom from genderfluid (inspired by the pangenderfluid flag here). I also edited the colours a bit, for more contrast.

[losergendered]

HOLY SHIT SOMEONE WITH MORE GENDERS HOARDED THAN ME MULTIGENDER/PANGENDERFLUID (IN MY CASE AS A HOST)/GENDER TRANSIENT (IN MY CASE AS A HOST)/EPICENE (IN MY CASE AS A HOST BC EPICENE ESPECIALLY AS DESCRIBED BY ME AND ARCO-PLURIS IS A MULTIMONOPXNCENTRIGENDER TO ME) (IN MOST OF OUR SYSTEM'S CASE) SWAG!!! ANYWAYYYYY I'm sending you street fighter final fight requests if you don't mind

YAYY i heart gender hoarding!!! finally updated the inbox so i got yr final fight request!!!

[transmultiphobia-discussion]

Not sure how to get into this so I'll just do my best: Being pangenderfluid (and often experiencing multiple genders at the same time) and pluralfluid is the experience of yet another unique facet of transmultiphobia - it's experiencing being a man and woman both at the same time, but also being neither, and also being genders that are part either or both and part neither.

We consider ourselves despite our fluidity to in some way always be all our genders - because someone's always holding them or vibing with them in the system even if the fronter isn't.

And it's like... if we emphasize being both a man and a woman, people erase our abinary genders, including both ones that aren't androgenous or neutral and ones that are. If we lean into any of the nonbinary genders, people erase our binary genders.

And the thing is... before we are any gender, we're fae. We are an endelic fae system. All of our gender comes from the fluidity and static multifacetedness, both inherent and cultural, of our fae identity. We're cistrans, but all our individual genders are trans. As much as human framework can be applied to nonhumans, it's the pangender identity that's cis (but also trans because... again, human framework, nonhuman. No gender is only cis, it's either trans or cistrans. This is further complicated by being intersex.)

Then also there's the way our identities are considered "contradictory". Despite being malicious, this still does cause some euphoria, because we exist in contradictions and liminality. On top of the other stuff, we are schizophrenic and have a lot of beliefs/delusions/eulusions that cause no distress and dysfunction that we believe are just experiencing a different layer of reality than most. This means our experience of life, internal and external, often contradicts itself and we enjoy that.

(Our pankin(type) joke is "what is mutual exclusion to a god?!" lol)

I'm a little worried about sending this because I know with all these "controversial" identities especially outside of gender, I know some people will consider us a "caricature" that's "making normal multigender people look bad" since we've gotten that from wider queer spaces. But I also trust other multigender people to understand that like... even if the individual identities may not all make sense to them, we all know what it's like to have completely harmless identities being treated as some kind of... idk, psy-op? sock puppet bs? whatever? and generally we've found much more acceptance of our whole selves with other multigender people.

(Also worth noting that we don't think identity can be harmful - obviously discluding identities based in harmful actions which is the bad part, like Nazis)

Anyway sorry for this messy word splatter in your inbox, just felt like this was a safe enough place to share. uhhhh have a good timezone!

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I appreciate you taking the time to share this, don't worry about being ranty or whatever :]

I do relate to the part you mentioned that that if you emphasize your nonbinary genders, people erase your binary ones- I am very anxious when telling people I'm nonbinary because most people think of nonbinary as just strictly neither a man or a woman and being genderless, so if I tell them that my more masculine/feminine part of my identity gets erased. I don't think of my genders as in any way binary, but I am boygirl and would like to be seen as a nonbinary boy, and as a multigender person. but if I put emphasis on my trans guy or transmasculine identity, my multigender and nonbinary self gets erased. like, there is quite a few things I could say about the way I've been perceived has changed irl just from people being exposed to one part of myself before the other (but I don't wanna make it about myself too much)

[queersekai]

Wonderlands x Showtime headcanons for my Project SEKAI x Danny Phantom crossover fic series

Tsukasa: Pan, bigender, he/star pronouns, auDHD and NPD

Emu: Omni, ace, panfluid (pangenderfluid), she/her and many neopronouns and nounself pronouns, Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, rabiespunk, and auDHD

Nene: Aroacespec, genderqueer, she/they/it pronouns (no strong preference), social anxiety, PTSD, autistic, and fibromyalgia

Rui: Gai, panfluix (panfluidflux/pangenderfluidflux), panpronominal, pronounfluid, autistic and OCD

[your-bigender-big-brother]

https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Genderfluid_symbol.svg

https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Pangender_symbol.svg

Can you combine both making a pangenderfluid epicene symbol?

This is what I had in mind. Does this look okay? I know the lines are a bit thick. - 💙💚

[here-is-why]

We're transID because some of us are shapeshifters who can't access our physical shifting abilities in this form. We have static headmates (they tend to be created when we particularly like a form and want it to remain as a static person we can mutually inhabit with their self and be inhabited by them) but for those of us who are shifters, we simply are all things. All identities. In some ways we are even trans-transID for certain identities. And some of our static headmates who spend more time in the body are either transID or trisID(that's like cistrans, right?) because their body and the static body we are trapped in don't match.

It gets real complicated and into nth dimensional identity weirdness that is seemingly contradictory but just... works for us.

We are all things, all identities. Not necessarily at all times, but as potentiality, which makes us always them even when we are not. It's like how we're pangenderfluid, we don't always experience all genders but we ARE always all of them, even when we're actively not.

How could we not be transID when in a static body as an allfluid being?

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[sophieinwonderland]

Honestly I'm wondering how much of the transID discourse around "want to be" vs "is" is just... well, in transgender terms, how someone IS their gender but WANTS* to transition to better match that. Like for my transx identities, I want to have my bodymind match the identities that I am more closely, and "want to be" is the best I can do in this imprecise language. As in, wanting to be it on a physical or neuropsychological level, not just on the level of internal identity. It's the same for my transgender identity - I am pangenderfluid (as well as altersex), amd want to transition to more closely resemble my physical ideal (at least, in a non-shapeshifting form lol).

(After all, the dysphoria for me comes from NOT being, on some level OTHER than innate identity, the identity that I am. I'm not dysphoric because I am, say, transmexican and am mexican on every level including physical and cultural, or because I am trans-MADD and have and experience all symptoms of MADD. Those identities mean there are things I feel I SHOULD experience, but DON'T.)

*Many trans people NEED to transition, but I have absolutely met trans people who WANT to, whether that's alongside needing or simply nondysphoric trans people wanting to who are like "I'm happy now but could be happier". Although, I've also even met a trans person who feels they DID choose their gender, and I think saying that the existence of people like that alienates the transgender community is just catering to assimilationists. It doesn't matter if it's a choice or not because bodily autonomy should not be denied regardless.

Either way though, I think the divide could be solved by just... coining labels with both meanings. Like modern discourse is so against labels having multiple meanings, but that's just??? how words work??? Any identity can be both "is" and "wants to be" and "is" and "wants to be" can even mean different things to different people!

This is an interesting point I hadn't considered.

I just think the "wants to be" terms creates a false perception. There's a disconnected where, when people hear that someone "wants" to be something else, they might interpret that the same way they might if I said "I want to be a billionaire" or "I want to fly."

I don't actually identify as being rich or being able to fly. They're just things I think would be cool, and I personally don't think that most transID people are "wanting" to be something else in the same way I want to be rich or have superpowers.

But it's not me that needs convincing. Here's an example of a anti-trace post that was recently made in the transID tags...

This is who you need to convince. People who see those who are born POC identifying as white, and automatically jumps to assuming they must be doing so because they want the privileges associated with whiteness.

And the problem is that it's not an unreasonable perception if what you're hearing from the transID community is usually "we want to be X."

I think the transID community needs to do a better job communicating that these are internal experiences first, and that when they say they "want" to be something else, what they're usually saying is, as you say, that they want their minds and bodies to match with their internal experiences and self-perceptions.

Understanding has to be built on a foundation of solid communication.

[mogai-headcanons]

June Egbert from Homestuck is a demiromantic bi lesbian bi velaurian cistrans transfeminine boy who uses he/him and she/her pronouns!

Dave Strider is a transmasculine bi turian who uses he/him and it/its pronouns!

Rose Lalonde is a butch transmasculine lightaspic lesboy who uses he/him and she/her pronouns!

Jade Harley is a transfeminine turigirlconnec asexual aceflux lesbian who uses she/her and pup/pups pronouns!

Jane Crocker is a soft butch butchhomme gentlemangender lestroy who uses he/him pronouns!

Roxy Lalonde is a transfeminine aroflux acevague omni gaybian pan jeularian who uses she/her, he/him, they/them, it/its, xe/xem, and nya/nyas pronouns!

Dirk Strider is a gay caedromantic alloarospec girlfag who uses he/him pronouns!

Jake English is a cis nonbinary aromantic cupiospec gay guy who uses she/her and he/him pronouns!

Aradia Megido is a futch cis nonbinary biromantic asexual dyke girlfag who uses any pronouns!

Tavros Nitram is a butch shadowlesbian gay gaybian turigirl transmascfem aphroflux transfeminine boy who uses she/her pronouns!

Sollux Captor is a casualic butch transmasculine bigender bisexual lesbianconnec turianconnec otter boydyke who uses she/her and he/him pronouns!

Karkat Vantas is an omni turian cub who uses he/him pronouns!

Nepeta Leijon is a transfeminine heteromoiraillegic lesbian boydyke who uses she/her, it/its, and nya/nyas pronouns!

Kanaya Maryam is a butchfemme transfeminine lesbian dyke who uses she/her pronouns!

Terezi Pyrope is a fat butch agender transmasculine genderfluid bi lesboy who uses he/him, she/her, and xe/xem pronouns!

Vriska Serket is a futch bi lesbian trans girl dyke who uses she/her pronouns!

Equius Zahhak is a fem+neu-presenting butch pan gaybian veldarcian transfeminine bigender boygirl demiboy who uses she/her and he/him pronouns!

Gamzee Makara is a cupiokismesic aroace panagender freakthing who uses it/its and they/them pronouns!

Eridan Ampora is a flamboric bisexual veldarcian lesbiflux genderfluid transfeminine girlfag rosgirl violetrosboy bigender girlboy who uses she/her and he/him pronouns!

Feferi Peixes is a thistle femme fat femme lesbennetian bipan femqueer girl who uses she/her pronouns!

Damara Megido is a lesbihet trans girl with hypersexuality who uses she/her pronouns!

Rufioh Nitram is a boybutch veldihet bi turian twunk who uses he/him pronouns!

Mituna Captor is a girlbutch boyfemme xenine nonbinary pangenderfluid bipan omni boydyke gaybian who uses he/him, xe/xem, and she/her pronouns!

Kankri Vantas is a bihet veldarcian bisexual demiromantic alloarospec bi straight veldian who uses he/him pronouns!

Meulin Leijon is a transfeminine lovsexual aroacejump bi lesbian who uses she/her and it/its pronouns!

Porrim Maryam is an omniply bipan mspec lesbihet FTF troll who uses she/her pronouns!

Latula Pyrope is a thistle femme bisexual panomni schrodibinary sortabinary dyke xenogirl azurgirl azurboy who uses he/him, xe/xem, and she/her pronouns!

Aranea Serket is a femme transfeminine cronant-aligned solarian kenolux liersic reilian minbian lesboy who uses she/her and he/him pronouns!

Horuss Zahhak is a hyperrose boyfemme gay borderrose cistrans girlfag who uses he/him and hx/hxm pronouns!

Kurloz Makara is an aroace bi straight vultusexual praetersexual abinary aboy who uses they/them pronouns!

Cronus Ampora is a boybutch MTM bisexual veldarcian cat koala bear who uses he/him pronuons!

Meenah Peixes is a butchfemme iolitian larimarian triniy lesboy transmasculine girl who uses she/her pronouns!

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