#our life misc
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My favourite part is the MC's narration after Tamarack said no:
MC really got their priorities straight.
Tamarack: I just moved in with my omi and opa :)
My mean mc: are your parents dead 😒
Qiu:
#I usually can't bring myself to say/ask anything remotely mean to tamarack#but looking at the narration made me realize that this question might've come up with no negative intention at all#just from a blunt and curious mc who hadn't yet recognized that the question might've been hurtful/offensive to someone#and the scene ended up pretty funny too#I just hope it won't be a boomerang and get brought up later if there's an angst scene of tamarack talking about her parents leaving her#haha... (nervous laughter)#I hope I'm not jinxing it#our life reblog#our life misc#olnf#tamarack baumann#qiu lin
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i am the way i am because my family not only allowed me to be so incredibly weird about the things i cared about, but encouraged them. when i was five and discovered that the love of my life was zac efron, my mother bought me a backpack with his face on it so i could attend kindergarten with it. she also bought me a subscription to those teen magazines because he was in them a lot. when i liked wrestling, my great grandmother would watch it every monday night, and my mother bought me everything: shirts, tickets to live matches, action figures. everything. when i liked the beatles, every single one of my family members would gift me beatles stuff, and when i was 17 my mother took me on vacation to san francisco just so i could visit the park george harrison went to in 1967. there’s literally no way in hell i was ever going to grow up to be even mildly embarrassed about being passionate
#misc.#my mother was not always a good mother to me when i was growing up#but she really did raise children who were okay with what they liked and were encouraged to like them#bc when she was younger my grandma didn’t really do that stuff for her. she had to buy all of her own toys and stuff#like she was crazy but never in all 23 years of my life did she get any of us wrong for our birthdays#or christmas#and it’s really great tbh. my nephew is growing up to be like i was as a child#and she called me and asked me what he would like the most and i’m happy knowing#he’ll get to grow up knowing it’s great to care so much abt things
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I seem to be fine most of the day and then I have a BIG mood dip around 8pm. I think I should just immediately go to bed instead of entertaining any thoughts at all about the future
#I’m finding pumping quite demoralizing#but we did have our first breastfeeding success today so I am hopeful it won’t be forever#I’m also leaning so hard on my mom and it’s made the transition SO much easier to handle#but it’s also making me scared for when she leaves and I have to do everything myself#I already find it quite exhausting to work + do dog care + cook for myself + do all other chores + handle misc life tasks#adding baby care feels like it’s going to be a lot#but I’m trying to remind myself that I have five more weeks to learn the basic skills and build good routines#and then she’ll be back in august for two and a half months so July can be a test run#and then a little more help/support with her being in town but not living with me#anyway what did I say about not thinking about the future after the mood dip starts! get to bed jes#baby tag
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So just an update on old cat. We had her appointment with the specialist today (cw pet health issues, terminal illness)
So while it’s not brain cancer, the eye specialist is certain it is still cancer. There are treatment options but they are Not Great and even surgery would, at best, buy her some more time. Because of the location, it’s impossible to get it all, so it would come back. Possibly more aggressive too. Even surgery plus radiation would be unlikely to cure her. And all of that would be really unpleasant for her to go through
So we’re not going to do any of that at her age. He also said the steroids are probably doing nothing so we’ll take her off them too (they may have reduced some inflammation early on, thus suggesting they were helping but they probably never did any good in reality). She’s not in any pain right now so main thing is keep her happy and keep the area lubricated
At some point she will start showing signs of pain and that’s when the time will come. We don’t know when and it won’t be immediately, but whether she’ll see 2024 or not is unknown
It’s not good news, but it’s also not really worse news than when we thought it was in the brain. The only difference is what symptoms we’ll be watching for to know when the time comes. So as much as it sucks, I’d already accepted roughly this outcome months ago. I feel mostly relieved just because now I know what it is and I have an idea of what’s coming. I didn’t really seriously think there was a chance it wasn’t cancer, so the prognosis itself is still the same as I expected
Anyway. That’s the update. It’s not great but I’m okay, unfortunately our sweet little kitties are in fact mortal. She’s 16-17 years old and she’s had a great life. And she will continue to have a great life for as long as I can give it to her. I’m buying a steak for her when I go grocery shopping this week and she’s gonna get whatever little treats her fluffy heart desires for the rest of her life
#it sucks but it is what it is#I’d already made my peace with it#but I’m glad I did the appointment#knowing what it is and what it will do is a weight off my shoulders#like genuinely it was worse not knowing than it is to know it’s terminal#and also I wasn’t sure what the financial burden would look like and now I do so that’s another bit of relief#I’m sad that her time is probably coming soon but#she is in the twilight years of her life and sadly we are cursed to outlive our beloved little pets#anyway I’ll keep y’all posted#in the meantime just know she will be spoiled as fuck lmao#text#misc#shut up nerd
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Your song suggestions are great and fitting for the characters! :D If you intend to turn those songs into playlists, I'll be interested in listening to them.
If you need more ideas, there are actually plenty of playlists for Tamarack and Qiu on spotify. I haven't see any for Renee, Vianca, Serenity, Opal, etc., though I think it's fair since we don't know a lot about them as for right now.
(please make more for Tamarack, my girl deserves more love)
Baxter got quite a lot, but they're mostly about ol1 baxter, ol2 baxter only got unrequited love playlist, haha.
When the full game comes out, I better see a lot of playlists for the individual characters from the playthrough (including mom 🥹), you know the ones, that portray/present the characters in some way, in this format (any time now fellas, keeping an eye out for them 🤷🏾♀️)!
(These aren't real, I just made them)
Sharing an umbrella with Tamarack
Riding behind Qiu's bike
Chilling with Renee
In the "Boys club" with Baxter
My suggestions (Not sure if it's good) :
Ember Island - Umbrella (Tamarack, all steps)
MIKA ft. Ariana Grande - Popular Song ( Qiu, all steps )
JVKE - golden hour (Qiu, steps 3-4)
Mindy Gledhill- I Do Adore (Tamarack, steps 2)
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ok so in the olba step 3 dlc boating scene, I would like to point out that during the rock paper scissors, baxter picks rock. I refuse to believe this is a coincidence
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i am so cool (<- talked to someone once and inspired them to create something)
#making playlists is such a big thing for me. one of my favorites#started making age playlists every year since i was 17. throughout the years inspired a buncha people to make their own spin on it#everytime someone tells me theyre making a playlist becuz of me i feel so so so cool#hehehehe#anyway back to my lame dnd game ^_^#chris noises#misc#nah but genuinely met a bunch of new people today. we all shared our art and favorite music#got some phone numbers shared my hobbies#was super fun. the day itself wasnt so much#but talking to people who share your passion for stuff feels. incredible#thats one of the reasons i dont regret the last 2 years of my life
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So I wrote this post after my friends and I finished season 1 of OFMD. I went home and wrote it and I cried bc I realized I loved them so much and I was so happy to be gay and to have queer and supportive friends. The season 2 premiere aired on Thursday and last night I finally did what I’d been gathering the courage to do for a while, I went out, I walked the relatively short distance to one of the few lesbian bars in the united states that I am incredibly lucky to live so close to, and I danced with strangers and had the time of my life. It was easier than I thought; the hardest part about it was just the initial burst of courage to get up and head out the door. I’ve been socially anxious my whole life and I hate bars and I don’t know how to talk to people but I DID, a lovely guy there with his boyfriend and two best friends celebrating that one of them had recently passed the bar exam. And we danced and it was FUN.
All this to say this show has meant so much to me in the short time it’s been airing. It occurred to me recently that OFMD may be what I’ve been looking for in queer media for a long time. I wanted fiction that represented the difficulty it takes to realize who you are and what you want and to decide to reach out for that with both hands. I wanted media that didn’t tell me everything was and is horrible for us and that suffering was inevitable, but that didn’t erase our struggles either. And I think OFMD has struck that balance so well, especially with the historical setting and age of the characters; it was not all pain and misery back then. People back then were real and they were happy. They were able to have what they wanted. They could have it even if it seemed too late in life for them to change course.
I’ve always believed that fiction has a responsibility to show us not only how the world is but how it should be, and I want to thank David Jenkins and co. for this beautiful collaboration of a show that affirms me in my queerness like nothing else I’ve ever seen. This is how it could be. This is how it is. We can be happy.
#our flag means death#i could’ve just said thank you david jenkins for my LIFE but this is the long version#this show is so important to me and i’m very glad it exists#misc
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—GET TO KNOW ME ♡
tagged by @girlbosselrond to post my eight fav tv shows!!!! thank youuuu 💖😚
THE CLONE WARS ANIMATED SERIES 。*
ARCANE 。*
STAR TREK: THE NEXT GENERATION 。*
GRAVITY FALLS 。*
STAR WARS: REBELS 。*
THE EXPANSE 。*
THE MANDALORIAN 。*
THE BAD BATCH 。*
tagging: @faarkas / @necroticpetals / @onewingedangels / @camelliagwerm / @elsiebray / @thelvadams / @ayrennaranaaldmeri / @arklay / @synnthamonsugar / @exostrangers / @aartyom / and anyone else who wants to do this 💖
#misc: tag meme#star wars tv series taking over me life#honourable mentions to: our planet / blue planet 1 + 2 / dark crystal age of resistance / north + south / season 2 of star discovery#strange new worlds / agatha christie's marple / agatha christie's poirot
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Haven't had a lot of time for social media lately. Had a flurry of life changes in the last two months; could have sworn yesterday was the second week of February when in fact we are almost into May. As far as reading goes, I have been relying on Audio books more than I thought I ever would! It's extremely relaxing to be read to while doing mundane tasks. Thoroughly recommend it.
#misc#life changes have been mostly positive be proud#we had our first 90 degree day last week#and I bought a new reading in the sun chair to enjoy
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somehow telling my ex i only wanna speak directly about necessary things hurts worse than when we were still talking normally??
#misc: personal#i think#idk maybe its just bc everythings delayed#like. we break up but we still talk#we then stop talking a month later#he still stays in our flat so i cant break off that part of our relationship and its gonna hurt again when he finally gets somewhere else#its not a clean break and it never will be bc of our friend group#idk how to deal with this anymore#hey google how do you stop loving the love of your life
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This post just got me realizing...
SHE HAS BRACES!!!
OUR LITTLE LADY GOT BRACES IN STEP 2!!
On another note... I don't like the implication that she might have gotten them because she was self-conscious about her teeth, just like she was about her brows :(
she is such a pretty little lady..... the embodiment of sunshine.....
#it's worrying about tamarack hours again#sorry for shifting the mood of your post op#our life reblog#our life misc#olnf#tamarack baumann
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A Cosmology of monsters was only scary the first part because I thought I was gonna deal with characters getting more and more paranoid but it took a completely different direction.
However I'm not sure it's for the better because it's about dealing with grief, loneliness and depression and it's honestly to well written... I felt properly scared at the beginning but now I feel the heavy sadness and unsaid things and it's terrible...
I've barely put down the book...
#a cosmology of monsters#misc#when he described depression as a physical gas intoxicating the whole house#using monsters when the real monsters are the every day life and our struggles
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if there were no mothers who would post an assortment of obscure and semi unflattering pictures of you on your birthday??? (i love my mom so so much)
#not complaining i love her so much i didnt even know she had half the pics one of them is literally me w my legs stuck in our cat tunnel 😭#misc posts#anyways who let me turn 18.#first thing i did was buy a coffee and a cupcake knowing damn well coffee makes my heart think im running 4 my life
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tag dump: hinata
#DEMON OR DEVIL://HII IC#LIFE OF MY DREAMS://HII HC#OUR PERFECT HELL://HII MAIN VERSE#A YOUNG NIGHTMARE://HII BNHA VERSE#FRANKENX://MISC HII AU#ABSOLUTE CHAD://HII CRACK
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Yeah! And there's also this too:
And this isn't one of those special things that he will only say to a crush or a friend, so he's actually this attentive and caring to everyone. No wonder all those kids are catching feelings.
OK, has anyone got this yet????, like dam, he was worried
#our life reblog#our life misc#olnf#qiu lin#rambling on other people's post#olnf rambles#qiu rambles
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